#not cis or straight tbh
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stupidsunday · 6 months ago
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OKAY. so. I have Lil question..
Do you know the song "God complex" by Violent Vira? if you don't it's actual really good recommend, but yeah well a guy I may have a small crush on, gave me that song to listen to and was like "I think you'll really like it." Then stared at me for a bit
now the question is, what do I take from that? Is it good or bad? Like personally, absolutely stunning, but like how do we as a group feel?
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deadtiredghost · 7 months ago
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beanghostprincess · 10 months ago
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Finding hilariously ironic how most of Sanji's perv jokes end up being extremely trans-coded to some extent only because the joke is longer than it should be.
The "guy with a woman's body" joke has been a thing for ages now, but it usually ends after the "haha I have booobs" joke. Sanji extends it to "I want to stay in this body forever. It feels right. I don't want to give it back". Which could still be read as some perverted stuff, but I don't think any man would agree with that. No matter how much of a pervert he is. Because usually being perceived as a woman is something they refuse to go through although they like being in possession sexually of a woman's body (a type of excitement Sanji actually shows, not by being that much aroused by it but being comfortable with it? Which is... A different approach to the joke).
Sanji has made the typical "going into the girl's changing room/bathroom" joke a couple of times, but in Egghead he goes all the way to be extremely frustrated about not being able to do so? And it is obviously different than wanting to keep Nami's body forever. It can still be seen as frustration for not being able to see girls naked. But. But. The fact that the length of the joke increases? The fact that it's way longer than it should be for an average "haha boobs" joke? You know what I mean.
Not to mention his whole arc during the time-skip and how a simple (both transphobic and misogynistic, by the way) joke, goes all the way to show us that Sanji is indeed comfortable in more feminine clothes and environment, until he's pretty much forced to snap out of his fantasy to go back to the crew. But he wasn't having a bad time at all. And it is intended to be a joke, but it's... Longer than it should be to be considered only a joke and to not pay attention to it.
This isn't meant to be an analysis of any kind because if it were I would've worded it differently and would've mentioned how his childhood is also extremely trans-coded, but we all already know that. I just find it extremely funny how all of these jokes that intend to be directed at straight perv men are actually too long to not be taken into consideration as something deeper than a joke. But, aha, yeah, these are just jokes and definitely not proof of Sanji's perception of gender and his issues with it.
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emo-protagonist · 5 months ago
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tag watches supernatural update: guys i’m genuinely starting to tweak rn, dean and cas’s relationship is not fucking platonic.
like first few seasons i was like “alr yk i can see this as them being just super good friends and basically family” but like now at season 11???? you fucking serious bro??? lucifer gets ahold of cas and dean is losing his fucking shit. sam is all like “hey i think cas is gone like we gotta respect that he accepted lucifer in” and dean is like tweaking bro. he’s all like “no we can save him, no we’re gonna exorcise him then send lucifer to hell, no cas didn’t want this he just doesn’t know it.” LIKE MOTHERFUCKER YOU ARE GAY!!!
if both dean and sam were tweaking at cas being lowkey gone i’d be like “alr whatever” but no, it’s always just dean. sam is always like “hey dean calm down” and dean is like “no i will sacrifice our whole ass plan to save cas” and it’s like that actually wrote them as two straight men (well up until season 15)????? like they sat down in the writers room, the everyone got together and went “mhm oh yea this is platonic” THERE IS NO WAY LIKE WHAT THE FUCK????
and like if i think they’re gay then it’s like gotta be super gay becus i sat through all of good omens and only realized that show was a love story in the final two episode of season 2. like i have the biggest issue with context clues, i will have the hardest time understanding the emotions of characters because i’m fucking bad at understanding cues like that, because of a literal mental illness, however even i, can not look at their relationship and say it’s platonic. there is no fucking way they wrote this as platonic.
and like the fact ik it literally gets worse like i fear i am losing my mind 😭😭😭
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cardinalcheerio · 2 years ago
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Steph watching Bruce open insta: oh my god! Is that bright mode you psychopath!?!
Tim: it's a straight thing.
Dick*nodding*: he isn't wrong
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hyperfixation-fix · 7 months ago
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I swear to god, if Uncle Rick doesn't put his money where his mouth is and make our boy Leo a simping bi little twink like god intended soon I'll-
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dailymothanon · 1 year ago
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West Virginia design 😈 dumb loser boy is just a sketch for now so I can just practice before I do a full piece ☝️ I think about fits, sometimes. He has huge thunder dome like me because mothman told me he too had one. Truth be told, I have no idea what mothman allegedly looks like so i just winged it (no pun intended) and i also never seen a clip of West either
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taylortruther · 4 months ago
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people who are getting famous now have seen what the public has put celebrities through in the past. of course they want to avoid that same fate, like... lmfao
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buttfrovski · 1 year ago
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they should've done more research b4 making henrietta cishet
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earthmoonlotus · 7 months ago
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#that vaginismus post got me feeling all fucked up tbh#and this is nothing against op. i have no issues with op here and i don't think they did anything wrong.#they were just sharing their own experience#but it's hard when you kinda feel like a freak of nature a little bit#like I've had people straight-up not believe me when I've told them nothing can go in my vagina (and it's almost like I don't have one)#so it was nice to read a post from someone with a similar experience in that regard#but like...again. nothing against op at all.#but it got me really triggered. just thinking at all about 'treatments' for it#like thinking about the idea that I'm supposedly not having sex 'correctly' because I can't have anything inside my vagina#(even though I have a lot of sex that I and my partners really enjoy)#and thinking about doctors and just...any framing of it as something that's not normal and would need to be 'treated'#while also at the same time knowing my inability to get a pap smear might be a genuine medical issue#but it just gets me so triggered to think about it#I'm sure all my weird gender stuff isn't helping either#though my vaginismus has been present long before I had any *idea* that I might not be cis#I'm sorry I'm venting. It's just hard I guess#like it doesn't feel like anything is wrong with me but it's hard to live in a world that assumes there must be#or that assumes people like me just don't exist and everyone with a pussy wants to and can be penetrated#personal#vaginismus
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kazamajun · 7 months ago
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happy first day of pride, here's a hc of mine 💜💜
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bigbangbuffer · 8 months ago
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so we were chatting out of character before the session started, and our DM brought up that he’d stumbled on a study that suggested that in addition to the stereotypical “gay accent”, there’s apparently a less well-known “lesbian accent,” but only other lesbians can identify it.
Our party is all sapphic besides him, so naturally we were all trying to figure out wtf this lesbian accent is.
We decided it was sort of sitting lower in your register and having the energy of not giving a fuck. Kristen Stewart was the first example brought up.
but then Bonnie’s player was like “…y’know, I think it’s kinda like the voice you do for Terrence actually”
aND I COULDNT UNHEAR THAT FOR THE WHOLE SESSION
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theaestheticmerchant · 11 days ago
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the worst thing about knowing a cis woman who's so sweet when they think you're a guy is you can always tell which ones would have you lynched when they realize or discover that you're a trans woman. and which ones will give the same smiles at those lynchings as they do to the men who commit the crimes.
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hushedlover · 2 months ago
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thinking about the people I used to be friends with on here is so weird cause like... We're all such different types of people now and there's no way we'd still be friends
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horrorfolk · 1 year ago
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"you think you're trans bc you're actually homosexual!" i like men. now what
"then it's a fetish!! you fetishize gay people!!" there are asexual trans people, aro/ace trans people, and a LOT of trans people (myself included, for a while) dont even have sex/masturbate/think about sex bc of dysphoria
"then it's autism!! you're autistic!!!" ????? im not and also WHAT DOES THAT EVEN HAVE TO DO WITH ANYTHING
like pick a lane already. if it's not these 3 main things you guys argue then what is it? what causes transness? and why does it need to be "fixed"? why is transitioning a BAD thing that no one should do? people get crazy body modifications like literal horn implants in their heads and nobody's trying to outlaw that or call it a "social contagion"
i pass as male even at 5'4" with blue hair and painted nails. no one has even questioned my maleness at school and im completely stealth. I've even shown pictures of myself pre-T to peers like, hey look at this old pic of me. no one bats an eye. ur just too insecure to admit that transitioning works, and it saves lives.
i started T at 21, got surgery at 23, and just like the vast majority of trans people - i was an adult when i transitioned medically. i knew i was trans at 13. transitioning saved my life. literally.
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phagodyke · 5 months ago
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weekend melancholy is starting to kick in >~<
#im gonna go and do my food shop etc to keep myself busy and hopefully my 2nd meds will kick in and we'll be able to handle it together#i think i kind of do this so regularly bc my brain is just processing everything bc i dont rly have time during the week#all cool tho im doing good overall def on the up n i feel way more capable of coping emotionally which is nice. i <3 meds#also.. possibly settling on the idea that i might be agender. very tentatively. lots of experiences n thoughts coming together rn#ive been reacting in unexpected ways to a lot of gendered shit atm which has made me reconsider the way i think abt myself#but very difficult to articulate it to myself let alone anyone else. so ive been sitting with it for now until it precipitates#gender stuff has never rly affected me much or ive never been in a place to explore it which is why i havent thought abt it super hard#but im not the sort of person who needs a lot of internal exploration to figure out my identity like im v self aware tbh#and while im wildly indecisive abt most things in my life for some reason i never have been abt stuff like this. i learned abt lesbianism#like idk 9 years ago-ish and straight away was like yeah that makes sense for me. never looked back since#n similarly ive experienced forms of gender dysphoria before n just immediately dealt with it symptomatically n moved on#its never been smth to agonise abt for me like i know what makes me comfortable in my skin so theres no question abt doing it#and ik im privileged to be able to do that. and also it helps that gender for me is mostly divorced from external perceptions#+ that im v autistic so social pressures dont stick to me very well. i mean yeah i was bullied for it as a kid but i was stubborn asf#so yeah from the moment i realised i was genuinely uncomfortable/upset abt it earlier this week i was like okay. lets try this instead#its given me pretty instant relief from any distress i was feeling so far which is nice. rare respite from one of my torture labyrinths#just testing out internally whether it frames things more clearly n makes me feel more myself/at peace before i choose to stick w the idea#but not gonna do a whole coming out fanfare either way. dont think i wanna change how ppl interact w me + im still a dyke#so i dont consider it relevant to anyone else unless they share a similar understanding of gender to me. or if we're v close#ill prolly broach it w other trans friends eventually bc insert philosophers talking image. but to everyone else its business as usual#happy to play my cis-sona at work. + w new queer ppl i meet ive been introducing myself recently w mirrored pronouns instead of any/all#and i think i prefer that. virtually indistinguishable but theres smth nice abt inviting ppl to recognise me the way they do themselves#like translating + localising a non-gendered language into a gendered one... simplifying decisions abt how to perceive me#and ofc ppl are still gonna perceive me however but idc much unless we're actually friends. the rest is all a performance anyway#doubtful anyone on here ever has reason to refer to me but if u do for some reason... im freeloading off ur pronouns now btw <3#but yeahhh. much 2 think abt. i need to read more alien/ai sci fi.. non-human sentience has been such a comforting concept lately#but yea tldr i woke up one morning this week like damn im prolly agender but i have a full time job to go to rn so idc abt that#.diaries#okkkk my dex is kicking in im no longer on the verge of tears lets go get these groceries wooohoooo
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