#nonbinary people are not women lite

[its-lick-the-lollipop]

Unsurprisingly this freak and her equally mentally deluded groomer friends see enbies as “man/woman” lite and don’t realize how gross and enbyphobic it is to put binary genders on non binary people or seeing them as “diet” genders

[official-lucifers-child]

actually any kiss is gay if i’m involved. i don’t care who i’m kissing, it’s a gay experience and a gay kiss. because i said so. if the person i am kissing is straight, that’s cool, i don’t care. it may be a straight kiss for them, but it’s a gay kiss for me, and that’s what matters. if the person i’m kissing doesn’t like that, then they shouldn’t kiss me. simple as that.

[flareboi]

hey you guys do realize you can criticize nonbinary stereotypes without deadass misgendering and putting down afab nonbinary people right

[sirenium]

It's 'support trans lesbians' until they're not binary trans women. Until they're trans masc, trans men, or masc AMAB non-binary people.

It comes off as vaguely performative to be honest.

[roguemonsterfucker]

I struggle a lot with accepting my sexuality because sometimes I feel like people would label me as straight because I'm AFAB and prefer sexual content that involves men.

But the thing is, I'm gender queer so no matter what gender I'm attracted to, it's not straight.

But also like... I like fictional content involving men primarily, but fiction is different from real life.

I have very little desire to pursue real life relationships, but I know from my limited experience that my real life attraction and relationship dynamics are very different from what I enjoy in fiction.

In real life, I do like women and other genders quite a lot. In real life, I also prefer to be the dominant one in sexual situations. Whereas in fiction, I prefer men and I like to be in the submissive point of view.

What I consume as fictional content does not dictate my real life sexuality.

I'm a nonbinary bisexual. I'm not cis. I'm not straight. And me preferring men in my erotica doesn't invalidate any of that.

[upside-down-uni]

i onow its good if a book makes me mad, that means when i write about it ill have something to say. but i really do dislike the slow cooker of anger it puts me in where i just stew and stew until i can put words in order... this time its even more infuriating cause on a fundamental level i wont be able to write about it since my paper is about the translation and not the content! yelling screaming biting into wood etc

[enlichened]

BOTH transphobes and allies (and even some trans people) react to trans people existing by doubling down on gender roles/standards and it's REALLY making me mad

[rez-urrection]

hey a post about transmisogyny !! I sure hope the poster doesn't deliberately say trans and cis men can not be the victim of genital sexualization, sexual or verbal harrasment, fetishization or violence !

*reads*

oh :(

[calamarispider]

just had a realization. and maybe im just not looking at the right things. but i dont think i can think of ANY mainstream media that has trans men as characters, or key characters. only trans women, and thats rare. i dont really know what to say on that right now but its. upsetting. very upsetting.

[thekittyburger]

Istg if I see another 'women and nonbinary people' in the name of a charity I'm going to walk into the ocean

[shynerdwantscuddles]

Hey howdy, not every nonbinary person who’s attracted to women is comfortable using terms like sapphic, butch, or femme. Just letting y’all know.

[moodr1ng]

i hate these lgbt dating apps (note: im always on there "to browse" but never actually meet anyone or even talk to them despite matching w like dozens of people lol) cause ill check someones profile and their "into" section will say "nonbinary, trans men, cis women, cis men" like ummm. and why are trans women not on there. be so fucking real with me right now.

[ambagelbraindump]

thinking about maybe looking into enby meetup groups in the area but there’s like 2 and one is called “women femmes and thems” and I’m like 😬

just the name gives me the ick like no thank u

[fiapple]

i just think it would be cool to see multigender people represented in discussions of gender politics more frequently, which is to say more than never.

the same goes for discussions of art, sexuality, the trans experience, the nonbinary experience more specifically, representation in media, so on & so forth. i just think it would be cool if the community didn’t treat us like a phase or non-entity.

[actualaster]

Or they'll have people who INSIST you can't assume they're nonbinary they're just GNC cis men.

“ever notice how all nonbinary people are afab?” no but i have noticed how every single amab nonbinary person ive come across is either forcibly labeled as a trans woman or a cis guy who just Loudly Gay 

[genderqueerdykes]

I've been seeing a disturbing number of "queer safe spaces" describe themselves as things like "femme & them" and even worse "she+," conflating femininity & nonbinaryhood. cease this immediately. say it with me: nonbinary people are NOT women-lite and it is extremely violent and straight up incorrect to imply that all they/thems are fem adjacent. this is erasure and this verbiage does nothing but make gnc and nonbinary spaces unsafe for masc and male nonbinary people. nonbinary, genderqueer and other third gender people can be and are masculine and men, we can be hes as well as shes and theys, stop allowing yourself and your peers to view nonbinary as woman/femme-lite, signed a butch nonbinary person.