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can’t help but think of how, if we choose to go by sirius’ characterisation as a private, arrogant teen who only lets a select few into his circle, sirius’ post-azkaban life just have been such an utterly humiliating experience for him.
especially OoTP. when he has all these near strangers in his childhood house, that he hated and loved and ran away from and couldn’t ever escape. if he spent his entire pre-azkaban existence building a cold and aloof persona, not letting people know what his home life had been like, then to have all of these people get a front row seat to it because of kreacher and portrait walburga’s shenanigans must have been near unbearable. to have the entire order, including snape whom he disliked and mistrusted, hear the kinds of names he’s being called.
not only does he have to deal with the retraumatisation of his childhood, but also the fact that he’s flayed open for everyone to see. it’s not only his freedom, innocence, dignity that has been snatched from him but his privacy also. it’s such a cruel thing to experience, on top of everything else.
to have literal children, his godson who he has been kept away from all this while, whom he presumably wants to be able to look up to him, to have him see into the deepest parts of his soul. to have to be so weak in front of him. not only is he subjected to such vileness but he also cannot do anything about it.
sirius has not had a moment of peace in all the time we knew him. it is indignity upon indignity that is heaped onto him. every other character has gotten a moment of respite but him. it fully breaks my heart.
#sirius black#i am in the mood to sob tonight clearly#i just#was reading a fic#where it recounted walburga ad kreacher’s screams and taunts#and it suddenly hit me how humiliating they are?#like#even if it’s an inanimate object and a house elf#to be called an embarrassment and shame of my flesh and filth#by the only remaining members of your family#and to have it be traced back to your family#to know that your mother was alive but did not care that u were in azkaban#and that everyone else knows it too now#to walk around in every corner of your childhood house and be able to see exactly how u grew up#no boundaries no limits#to have other people keep touching parts of your family with the audacity to throw them out#and move it around#to call your home names#i just. cannot imagine.#the level of helplessness he was operating with#is it really any wonder he was the way he was#hell. he was actually so much better than he should’ve been#lesser men would’ve been catatonic or going off on a rage fuelled warpath#it’s so embarrassing to have your parent even correct u in front of friends sometimes#and to hear all this abuse. shouted at you.#and not one person ever stands up for him#or shows him any empathy#i’m actually amazed that even after all these years i’m able to find new tragedies in sirius life#HAS THAT MAN NOT BEEN THROUGH ENOUGH#pen’s notes
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with the power of friendship!!!
@413countdown
#homestuck#homestuck fanart#413countdown#homestuck 413#john egbert#dave strider#this can be ship art too if you want it to be#the boundaries of best friends knows no limits i say#davejohn#johndave#pepsicola#hammertime
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Me: I’ll never post diaper pics
Also me: ok just one from yesterday bc I think it’s cute
#be civil#a/geplay is a hard limit pls don’t start#not shaming anyone obvs I’m just me and those are my boundaries#I’d post it directly but I think it’d get flagged. idk let me try.
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currently re-training my YouTube algorithm to only show me beautiful, creative, inspiring, and truly educational videos (lectures, interviews etc) and getting rid of absolutely everything that uses rage bait, outrage culture, cancel culture, gossip etc to bait and gain views. it’s definitely been a big weak point for me in the past, but having space from it then coming back made me notice the low vibe shift even just seeing the thumbnails would cause me. like instantly just feeling worse, without even seeing the actual video yet. even things that are supposed to be critiques and essays but really are just attacking and judging others are a no (there’s a lot of this…). now i have lots of garden and interior tours, slow living vlogs, philosophy and history lectures, literature videos, personal style diaries etc coming through and it feels so so so much better. i am really focused on surrounding myself with energy of others who value taking action and staying true to their passion, rather than people who value gossip and judgement and outrage. definitely recommend if you get tripped up on that kinda thing too 🕊️
#plus i have limited time and i want to spend it nurturing the BEST version of myself#i am finding this a lot easier to do as time goes on with each small decision and boundary#it girl energy#becoming that girl#lucky girl syndrome#it girl#self improvement#self development#personal excellence#level up#self care
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Unpopular opinion, but fandom is playing up too much the degree of Melinoe's naivety. Stuff like her refusing to hear Prometheus out, or shutting down Nemesis for disagreeing with her, or heck, refusing to consider Eris's point of view, comes not from a sense of being naive to the world, but good old fashion stubbornness. She is a master of reductive arguments, or deflecting them when she doesn't want to hear them. Call it haughty or self-righteous (a flaw she herself acknowledges she has), but I wouldn't say it's naive.
#Melinoe#hades 2#hades II#hades II spoilers#d musings#don't get me wrong I get where ppl are coming from#cause her experience is very limited to her child soldier upbringing#but her refusal to hear is not a product of that naivety#and she's had many places and knows enough ppl to expand her boundaries#she hears ppl talk regularly about how the gods abuse mortals#and she simply Does Not Care
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the thing with chappell is that it’s important to be principled, it’s admirable to be outspoken, it’s a good thing that she’s saying what she’s saying in the space that she’s in. but you can’t be those things and also unprepared and unable to take care of yourself when your chosen profession is Public Person. i’ve never disagreed with anything she’s said but if she keeps taking it this hard then her team needs to figure out a way to change the way she currently operates otherwise her career is going to be short and have longterm damage
#like…… canceling shows the night before is actually something people have the right to be upset about if it continues to be a trend#she has every right to her mental health and boundaries and her privacy but she’s also got to live in the world as it is#and as things stand they need to figure out a way to either get her off social media or limit her press/public engagement in a way that#keeps her healthy#so that she can have the career she wants#bc this is not sustainable for anyone involved
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Mairuma continuing to impress in how siblings are written. Of course Clara, who at the start of the series didn't think twice about axes being an appropriate play item to use with her schoolmates, has a brother close to her own age who is ecstatic about almost being actually murdered by his teacher. From here I can only conclude that the highlight of Urara's early childhood was being chased around by a Clara weilding a meat tenderizer. All the pieces fit together perfectly; no notes.
Update: Since y'all have liked the tags they are getting added as full text:
I was actually wondering for a good while how "books that try to chomp on you" fit in with Clara being a good big sis #and how there wasn't really signs of her playing dangerous games with her other younger siblings #but like yeah a sibling close in age to you being weird in way that compliments your style of being weird #absolutely does cause you both to become even more weird both together & separately #source: I have siblings #but yeah Clara "fun aficionado" Valac's standards were absolutely warped by Urara "I HAVE A GREAT PLAN" Valac #Urara loves being in danger so swinging heavy objects at him is okay because that's how he has the most fun! #wydm being jabbed at with a sharp objects isn't fun? u-chan is a stick in the mud & even he loves being relentlessly attacked w stabby stick #early Clara not knowing what a "boundary" or "reasonable limit" is both a cause & effect of Urara being such a thrill seeker #oopsie daisy they got caught in a feedback loop and now they're both extra weird
#i was actually wondering for a good while how 'books that try to chomp on you' fit in with clara being a good big sis#and how there wasn't really signs of her playing dangerous games with her other _younger_ siblings#but like yeah a sibling close in age to you being weird in way that compliments your style of being weird#absolutely does cause you both to become even more weird both together & separately#source: i have siblings#but yeah clara 'fun aficionado' valac's standards were absolutely warped by urara 'I HAVE A GREAT PLAN' valac#urara loves being in danger so swinging heavy objects at him is okay because that's how he has the most fun!#wydm being jabbed at with a sharp objects isn't fun? u-chan is a stick in the mud & even he loves being relentlessly attacked w stabby stic#early clara not knowing what a 'boundary' or 'reasonable limit' is both a cause & effect of urara being such a thrill seeker#oopsie daisy they got caught in a feedback loop and now they're both extra weird#mairuma spoilers#mairuma#mairuma manga spoilers#rambles
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I have broken the blue boundary of color limits, come out into the white; beside me comrade-pilots swim in this infinity.
-- Kazimir Malevich
(Sölden, Austria)
#blue#white#no limits#kazimir malevich#travel photography#sölden#austria#blue sky#snow#skiing#slope#quote#photography#boundaries
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You are not broken for being repulsed. Nothing is wrong with you. You don't need to be fixed. Do not hurt yourself by purposely going past your limit to trigger your repulsion - that's not how exposure therapy works nor is it supposed to cause harm to yourself.
Do not make yourself physically ill trying to be "normal" you deserve better. You deserve kindness. Grant yourself that kindness.
#text#romance repulsed#sex repulsed#plato repulsed#rose repulsed#aro#ace#aromantic#asexual#aroace#positivity#its ok to set up a healthy boundary for your limits#sure repulsion can cause immense distress in which therapy may be beneficial#but never assume you need it to make OTHERS comfortable#and please always seek therapy advice from an actual therapist#they can help you create a plan#the point is that you only require therapy if YOU are being harmed by your repulsion#how others feel about it does not matter
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using the astral duo event and the rainy season event, we can approximate topper's age.
tl;dr, topper is an old man. ദ്ദി૮ • ﻌ • ა ---
to start: in astral duo, we learn that double eclipses occur "once every fifty-four years and one month." [1] later, eiden goes back in time to a period that quincy estimates is "[a]t least... two double eclipses ago". [2] so, that's at least a century ago from the present of the astral duo event. during that time, we see quincy's best friend zaro (love u zaro) and quincy during a past eclipse. then, in the rainy season event, eiden has to go fetch rei and quincy from a memory stream using father and topper's connection to them respectively. [3] it turns out this means eiden entering father and topper's memories of rei and quincy to find them. [4] [5] when eiden enters topper's memory of quincy, there's a funeral going on. after quincy gives a vague answer about who the funeral is for, eiden concludes, "(He must be talking about his friend from the tribe all those years ago...)". [5] the friend is, of course, zaro, because that's the only tribe friend eiden knows about.
topper isn't with young quincy in astral duo, which makes me think he didn't know quincy back then*, but he does seem familiar with quincy by the time of zaro's funeral in rainy season. so that gives us a rough timeline (from oldest event to most recent): >= 108~ years ago: young quincy and zaro do chores during the double eclipse. (they seem like they could be anywhere between their 20s and 30s with the conversation where quincy grouses about being old and preferring a younger tribe member calling him 'big brother' rather than 'uncle'. [2]) ??? years ago: quincy caught topper in a trap and decided to keep him. quincy has his sr sprite here instead of his r sprite (which is used to depict his younger self), so it seems some time has passed. [6] ??? years ago: zaro dies and quincy stands outside the funeral in the rain. topper brings him an umbrella. [5] 0~ years ago: the astral duo event given quincy's general angst and zaro's vibe, we can assume zaro is what you call 'a normal human guy' with a normal human lifespan. (well, actually, based on quincy's 4th astral duo room, he may have been relatively long lived for a human since he outlived everyone else in the tribe quincy was close to.) so, let's say zaro lived to be about 100 years old. that means the timeline looks like this: >= 108~ years ago: young quincy and zaro pal around during the double eclipse. (zaro: 20s or 30s) ??? years ago: quincy and topper meet >= 28-38~ years ago: zaro dies at 100~ years old and quincy attends his funeral. topper gives him an umbrella. 0~ years ago: the astral duo event
we also know topper met quincy after all of topper's siblings died? [7] that doesn't really mean anything because we don't know if all his siblings died when he was a baby, but it does give him the vibe of having 'outlived' his siblings? that seems to suggest that he'd been alive for a while. he definitely seems to be an adult by the time he gets captured by quincy. still, without knowing how his species ages, it's kind of impossible to know how old he was when he met quincy. 28-38 years old is already way longer than a irl stoat lives so.... the real world equivalent isn't very helpful when trying to gauge what age topper became an adult topper.... for the sake of adding some time for 'before he joined quincy' and accounting for toppers existing social life pre-quincy, i'll just say he was like. 5 years old when he met quincy. using all this information, we can (very roughly) gauge that topper is about ~35-45 years old, at least. did we need to know this? no, not really. ╭( ´꒳` )╯♫⋆。♪ we do know that father is older than topper tho! [7.2] so, this gives us some kind of measuring stick there. this also lets us approximate that quincy is somewhere around ~130-140 years old, which is younger than i thought. (let me know if i'm forgetting some key lore;;;) from there we can determine minimum and maximum ages for the yokai and familiars using the program booklet, which states, "The age of the yokais, familiars are arranged in order: Kuya > Quincy > Rei > Aster > Morvay > Yakumo > Garu." [7.3] of course, this all depends on quincy's approximation during the astral duo event that he and eiden timetravelled back to "[a]t least... two double eclipses ago". [2] so all the ages given here are more like minimums.
sources: 1. astral duo - forest alterations 2. astral duo - time fossil 3. rainy season - without a trace 4. rainy season - to their memories 5. rainy season - parting words 6. rainy season quincy - room 3 7. neon carnival (2nd anniversary) program booklet: 1, 2, 3
also quincy's 4th astral duo room, which i didnt give a number lol *I know Topper isn't always with Quincy, like during the flashback (in Razor's Edge - Just What Is This Place?) when Huey was still alive and Zaro was dead. Topper and Quincy definitely knew each other by that point, but Quincy probably didn't bring Topper because like... it wasn't the vibe. So, there is the distinct possibility that Topper and Quincy did know each other during the period of the Astral Duo event flashback. However, I don't think that's super likely because, in Rainy Season Quincy's room 3, the Quincy who catches Topper uses the SR sprite instead of the R and he talks like our Quincy, i.e. depressed, instead of happy, shounen vibes flashback Quincy.
#nu carnival#nukani#topper nu carnival#metabox#long post#fivesposting#this is why i call topper and oyaji old men#sooley is but a young whippersnapper#an additional factor that adds some helpful boundaries is chapter 16 where huey gives a timestamp or two#he provides some upper limits on age#ie topper is not 500 years old (unless?)
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This looks is just. incredible. really hope this isn't the last we see of it because it's so gorgeous. The spear emulating her headpiece? Goes so hard.
#brieuc reads comics#wednesday spoilers#storm spoilers#ororo munroe#ch: i have not learned limits or boundaries
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The best and fastest way to become good teammates (in Bristly and Barbara's opinion) is to trashtalk and skewer each other with sharp bits of wood and broken weapons until an authority figure comes around to make sure you haven't destroyed each other beyond regeneration. It's very effective! Not socially appropriate, but effective all the same!
#my art#Rose Knights#Mort said they weren't allowed to kill each other. He never said anything about disarming and dismembering and stabbing each other!#the B-Team will be testing the limits of that boundary in the future XD
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A repeated crossing-and-recrossing of the line, a play of limits at/on the line.
—Toward a Multicultural Gothic Aesthetics
#andrew hock soon ng#michel foucault#severance 2.10#transgression#limits#boundaries#liminality#crossing over#repetition#play#mark scout#gemma scout#mark s#ms casey#gemmark#markgemma#gothic#severance#severance spoilers
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In 2011, I started writing a thing, on a whim. In 2013, I finished it. A lot of people seemed to love it? Then over the next decade, I put a lot of work into expanding and editing it, with plans for a complete physical book release that didn't happen. Well, here it is again. As an internet novel. A finished novel, this time.
I will start posting the story on May 21st, 2024. May 22nd will be a day of rest. And then, from May 23rd until October 21st, every day will see a new chapter-- a new log. ("F-Five months?? How long is this novel?" Oh yeah, good point. That won't actually get us to the end. There may be another eight, ten days of chapters afterwards. It is important, however, to emphasize the May 21 - October 21 model.)
I will make sure to put the bulk of the contents under "Read More" breaks, so each log won't clutter your browsing experience.
The logs will have art in them. Not as much as in the original draft, but there will still be some. As of May 1st, I expect art by Rappu, RealaChao, Wiratomkinder, and Vis.
I plan on supplementing the logs with the occasional post talking about the making and intention of the story. I dunno, it's gonna be a five-month distribution period, I'm gonna get antsy during that and am gonna want to ramble. That'll be separate content, though.
And when the story is fully and completely posted on tumblr, I will release the full novel on my Website, where I like to keep the rest of my creations. Both the tumblr novel and the Website novel will be free reading, forever. I reserve the right to try again at a paid physical edition afterwards.
So! That's it. Rapture is coming. OH GOD THE RAPTURE IS BURNING is coming.
Trigger Warnings: Sex, Gods, and Rock & Roll. (violence. some swear words. teenage angst, cringe. death. insects. surrealism. symbolism. unpredictability of what will be explained and what won't. sexual acts with dubious consent-- you will be able to skip that part. religious iconography. and so much prog rock.)
Get ready for it.
#writing#tumblr novel#the fear mythos#you do not have to know anything about the fear mythos to read#books#i have worked on this for 13 years. you would be surprised at just how much work went into it.#horror#anti-horror#comedy#anti-comedy#'what the hell does that mean. anti-horror. anti-comedy.' rapture is sprawling and does not like to stay in one place.#rapture is like. honestly just my attempt at art. at making statements about genre and boundary and limit.#maybe i should say 'trigger warning: art' as a joke. but that sounds even more pretentious than anything else.#longpost#there... will be longposts. this longpost is nothing in comparison to what is to come.
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every time i see people critique the online fandom 2020 era culture its like.... youre not wrong it definitely Was Not Good looking back, but also imo you can NOT discuss it appropriately while discussing it outside of its larger context.
like hm. wonder if anything was happening that made everyone More Anxious And Neurotic? wonder why ppl put SO much emphasis on respecting peoples personal boundaries? wonder WHY ppl were so desperate to behave however to remain in the online in-group, as if it was their primary/only social outlet?
hmmm🦠if🦠only🦠we🦠had🦠the🦠cultural🦠context🦠here
#like its easy to look back on and mock and i dont think you SHOULDNT but. you have to also consider the fucking Scenario#its even worse (aka more noticable) in MASSIVE and popular fandoms at the time like dsmp but like....#Have You Considered It Was Like That For A Reason Perhaps#'why do they care so much abt boundaries' irl ppl had LITERAL DISTANCE BOUNDARIES to respect at fear of their health#it makes sense to kind of transfer that hesitation and feelings to other stuff. at least to ME#why did everyone lean SO hard into the tone indicators and call outs and shit? bc you CANT GO OUTSIDE AND HANG W FRIENDS#your only immediate social circle is VERY limited. of course theyd be fucking terrified of losing the only other thing they have#idk im just. shooters for 2020/2021 online culture ig theyre in the wrong but theyre justified for it jfdksljfk
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Happy threshing, cadets! 🖤🐉
Repeat after me: "I will not die today."
Keep the temperaments of each breed in mind when you decide which dragons to approach and which to run from this year 😉
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