#neurodivergent girlblog

[analee-rose-valentine]

Felt cute 🥰 💕

[analee-rose-valentine]

Wearing it… I’m a fashion girly 💋

When I’m famous and rich, I’ll have such nice clothes (I’m also going to do positive things for my community when I’m rich and famous)

[ed-recoverry]

I love you everyone with crooked teeth!

I love you everyone with yellow teeth!

I love you everyone who has braces!

I love you everyone who wears headgear!

I love you everyone with missing teeth!

I love you everyone with fake teeth!

I love you everyone with gaps between their teeth!

Keep smiling! It’s beautiful!

[theodditylacey]

hot take

neurotypicals need to stop using the term hyperfixation

[tumbler-polls]

Primary school math time! 😱

[newwavesylviaplath]

i hate the person i become in big groups

[forestangel]

I truly am the happiest when I'm alone. Nobody to compare myself to. No box to force myself to fit in. I can just exist as one of nature's creatures. An oddity around human but normal among the trees and myself

[ash-says]

Cheating Anxiety With Me

Seatbelts tight? Hands Steady? Are you still shaking? No, then lets rideeeee.

Anxiety the feeling of dread, uneasiness, fear, shaking, restless, heart beating rapidly, etc

Coping with anxiety is difficult especially for the mentally deranged girlies. No hate I love you all. You are just so my type of people.

Today I am going to tell you how to deal with it because you know what I say, "Kill or get killed."

The classic deep breathing technique: Start from 1 breathe in to the count of 4 then hold at 5 and breathe out from 6 to 10. This will help in evening out your breathing and slow down your heart beats.

Move, Sway and twirl: You feel an anxiety attack taking over you the best way to tackle all that excess energy released through FFF hormone is by MOVING YOUR BODY. Exercise. Dance. Run. Anything just move.

Sleep: Yeah, you read it right. Just shut down your system and sleep. This is my personal go to. Overwhelming anxious thoughts, feelings, anything we let it marinate over a nap. Works wonders for me.

Talk to a friend: Another personal go to. Sometimes the feelings are so loud, disturbing and dark that sleep is no longer an option. At such times talk it out. Seek a friend. Best if they are physically present with you. Ask for a hug. Loving touch. Don't be embarrassed. It does wonders. Trust me.

Nature therapy: One of the ways I accidentally discovered was that trees, plants and flowers can be extremely calming. No one to rely on. Go and hug a tree. I promise you it works. Social anxiety? Okay I got you also covered. Buy some fresh flowers or if you have house plants touch them. Inhale their scent. Graze the petals or leaves lovingly and tenderly. Feel them. It will calm you down.

Sugar saves the day: Okay some people might come at me for this one but honestly anything sweet is the holy grail for dealing with it. Now the trick here is not eating desserts and chocolates but rather fruits like grapes, banana, watermelons, etc. Basically eat healthy things. We don't want diabetes now, do we?

The 333 rule: This one goes like name 3 things in your surroundings, identify 3 sounds and touch 3 things. This helps in distracting your brain and calming down your wreck of a system.

Positive self talk: Keep on repeating like a broken record that it is going to be okay and you will get through it. As loud as your inner thoughts get that much loud this self talk gets. Basically overpower that annoying bitch inside you. Winning is the only option.

Identify the triggers and face them: Literally be a detective and find out your triggers and then put yourself through it by yourself until it becomes a normal thing for you. I am not advising this for dangerous things but you can try this on smaller triggers. Example: A song, a scent, a topic is a trigger to you. So now listen to that song, inhale that scent, read things around that topic willingly and train your brain and body to tackle it so that when it comes up suddenly your brain doesn't go in survival mode.

No to drugs, alcohol and risky behaviors: You should be going to them over your dead body. Please I am begging you don't indulge in them. Yes I am asking you lovingly, with teary eyes please don't do this to yourself. Don't punish yourself more. The world is already a harsh place if you won't be kind to yourself, who will be then?

Bonus one: Find a strict no bullshit friend who isn't afraid to call you out on your toxic behavior, put you in your place and is ready to be the pillar on which you can rely on. Because we are not able to differentiate in right and wrong during those times. Its really difficult to maintain the moral compass. That's why you need a community of trusted people to hold you down.

Fight your way back. Because this world is a cruel place babygirl. You do anything to survive. If you are still dreaming of a saviour. Dream on.

[bluentired]

outfit inspo

[huellitaa]

behind every iconic girlblogger is an insane hyperfixation they wont shut up about

[siennabestylin]

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ℌ𝔦𝔦𝔦 ℑ'𝔪 𝔖𝔦𝔢𝔫𝔫𝔞, 𝔫𝔦𝔠𝔢 𝔱𝔬 𝔪𝔢𝔢𝔱 𝔶𝔬𝔲 ^^

ℑ'𝔪 𝔞𝔫 07

𝔐𝔶 𝔪𝔞𝔦𝔫 𝔞𝔢𝔰𝔱𝔥𝔢𝔱𝔦𝔠𝔰 𝔬𝔫 𝔥𝔢𝔯𝔢 𝔴𝔦𝔩𝔩 𝔟𝔢 ℭ𝔬𝔮𝔲𝔢𝔱𝔱𝔢 + 𝔇𝔞𝔯𝔨 ℭ𝔬𝔮𝔲𝔢𝔱𝔱𝔢 + ℭ𝔬𝔮𝔲𝔢𝔱𝔱𝔢 𝔄𝔪𝔢𝔯𝔦𝔠𝔞𝔫𝔞

ℑ'𝔪 𝔞 𝔅𝔦𝔭𝔬𝔠!

𝔄𝔩𝔰𝔬 💗💜💙

𝔑𝔢𝔲𝔯𝔬𝔡𝔦𝔳𝔢𝔯𝔤𝔢𝔫𝔱

ℌ𝔬𝔟𝔟𝔦𝔢𝔰: 𝔖𝔥𝔬𝔭𝔭𝔦𝔫𝔤, 𝔡𝔞𝔫𝔠𝔦𝔫𝔤, 𝔟𝔢𝔡𝔯𝔬𝔱𝔱𝔦𝔫𝔤, 𝔩𝔦𝔰𝔱𝔢𝔫𝔦𝔫𝔤 𝔱𝔬 𝔪𝔲𝔰𝔦𝔠, 𝔪𝔞𝔨𝔢𝔲𝔭

𝔗𝔥𝔦𝔫𝔤𝔰 ℑ 𝔴𝔬𝔫'𝔱 𝔱𝔬𝔩𝔢𝔯𝔞𝔱𝔢:

-𝔇𝔦𝔰𝔠𝔯𝔦𝔪𝔦𝔫𝔞𝔱𝔦𝔬𝔫

-𝔏𝔢𝔴𝔡 𝔠𝔬𝔪𝔪𝔢𝔫𝔱𝔰

-ℜ𝔞𝔫𝔡𝔬𝔪 𝔬𝔩𝔡 𝔡𝔲𝔡𝔢𝔰

-𝔗𝔥𝔦𝔫𝔤𝔰 𝔫𝔬𝔱 𝔯𝔢𝔩𝔞𝔱𝔢𝔡 𝔱𝔬 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔪𝔞𝔦𝔫 𝔟𝔩𝔬𝔤

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[menrstinkyy]

currently thinking abt getting a 504 plan for my adhd. I REALLY need it but I can't help but feel like I'm the stupidest person in the room. like I'd say I'm pretty smart, but because my head works differently than the majority and I need to be accommodated for it, I feel like I'm so stupid compared to my peers UGH POOPY DOOKIE CACA FARTS

[ed-recoverry]

Experiences that can be traumatic that I see little to no recognition of it being traumatizing online.

Reminder your trauma is valid and absolutely real, even if you don’t see many posts about it.

***NOTE: not all of these are always traumatic, just have the capability to be traumatic! Just want to confirm if any of this did happen to you and you feel it severely impacted you, it is valid and real.

Bullying (emotional, verbal, and physical)

Mentally ill parents and or siblings

Disabled parents and or siblings

Medical trauma

The silent treatment

Poverty

Witnessing death (violent or otherwise)

Automobile accidents

Non-life threatening injuries

Natural disasters

Witnessing abuse (even if you aren’t abused)

Community violence

Sudden death of a loved one

Being a refugee

Discrimination

Online grooming

Frequent moving

Teacher abuse

Exposure to substance abuse

A parent or sibling dealing with addiction

Imprisonment

Fire or explosions

Emotional neglect

Financial abuse

Threats of deportation/taking kids away/sending you somewhere

Blackmail

Stalking

Pretending to hit you

Near death experience

Pregnancy, birth, and or abortion (pro choice)

Experiencing hallucinations, delusions, or psychosis

Abuse from someone younger

Divorce (peaceful or otherwise)

Body shaming / constant critiquing of appearance

Incarcerated parent(s)

Controlling food intake

Medical neglect

Hoarding/extremely dirty household

Parent(s) forcing you to lie

Forced confinement

Being exposed to porn or sexual imagery or objects at a young age

Parents talking to you like a friend and or adult

Being forced to take on adult responsibilities (physical and emotional) as a child

Chronic or terminal illness

A parent or sibling with a chronic or terminal illness

Being a scapegoat

Public humiliation

Caring for a parent or sibling as a child

Sleep deprivation

Having a disability

Please feel free to add on any I forgot

[theodditylacey]

fellow neurodivergent people.

recently diagnosed w ADHD. needs tips ASAP. the hard part for me is actually getting over the mind block and starting a task.

help needed!

[princessgwens2]

it's so liberating to just stop caring about what other people think about you when going out and just... be yourself i got a new lolita op dress for my birthday recently and spent the whole day out in a full coord and it was so awesome! sure, some people stared, but the one time i was approached was by a sapphic couple (who probably caught me on their radar cause i'm too weird to be straight) who came by to compliment me! i think i'll be doing that a lot more in the future!