#need help please

[rainbowskittle]

Okay my mom doesn’t know I have Tumblr lol. (Yes I’m 26 but she worries about safety online still..which fair cuz there can be bad ..) Buttt we need help. I hate asking for help. But she is in school and graduates in January. Sister and I can’t find jobs. Rent is due and I don’t know what to do. So my sister made this design. Anything helps!! Thank you so much!! 🥺🥺🥺

[stargazinglesbian]

need advice from the writing half of tumblr because this is making me freak-

i was always taught that adding an 's is only ever specifically a contraction that means 'is'. for example, 'henrys bottle' means the bottle belongs to henry, and 'henry's tired' means 'henry is tired'. this makes sense to me, but since i'm writing for the first time in like forever i'm noticing that i keep getting corrected, and that everybody says the correct way to write 'henrys bottle' is 'henry's bottle'. but that doesn't make any sense to me. because why would you need 's if it's not a contraction of 'is'. it's not a contraction, i'm not trying to say 'henry is bottle', so why does it correct to 'henry's'?

i feel like i'm going crazy, and any explanations would be very welcome. sorry if this makes no sense.

[xx-babyyyblue-xx]

Pseudonym?

So when I write I don't like to use my own name because I think it is lame and I want to have something that feels as grand and unique as I have made my writing persona to be. However, I can't seem to find one that fits.

I like these names, please let me know what you think will fit.

I have used the name Nova before and I've used Blue bc thats my username.

Last names I favor Gilmore, Valentine, Armstrong, and Evans.

Also thought about using Blessing, Sonnet, Navy, Lyric...

Not sure what else fits. Please send help and suggestions or tell me if I am over thinking this

[libraryraccoon]

When you have imagination, that you have a lot of drawing ideas, but you can't draw and none of the tutos you're watching are helping you

(it's my life rn)

[imyourbratzdoll]

who is good with horror and matching other characters to a horror character?

[heritageposts]

It seems Tumblr is continuing with their mass deactivation of Palestinian blogs. This time they've gone after @nourfamily1989, a mother with five young children in Gaza. Please continue sharing and supporting her fundraiser while she tries to get her account back.

[Vetting info / Nour's most recent post]

[samerpal]

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[clarisimart]

be careful what you wish for, Fordsy

commission info here

[artcalledpourbrush]

Dear Sir

Please aid me for the raddles

RADS

I’ve been hearing and listening even sleeping

It’s, causes of a radical

US thee all subjugated subjects

Needing defenses from

Not that Spades bring whatever, trump player

But this Idea

Of running America as a golden business machine

Laying the Golden eggs for one wanting a Trump card, like cards of bad people back in facials on poker playing cards and dollar bills now for a price paid more than worth still groping to fill a bank account on way or another

Cha ching clank clank clank pull again

The aid is not here! All confused and some leaders don’t carry a pulse (yepper or ree all the lasting eel ill Senators for all ever that’s the States Control)outlandish fore Father’s embarrassments

Nothing new from a Republican since when they were Democrats

Always wanting Enslaved

[minemae08]

I’ve been trying, but no one will help me. Can you please help me? I’ve been trying for months and months. 

[tofixtheshadows]

I've been thinking a lot lately about how Kabru deprives himself.

Kabru as a character is intertwined with the idea that sometimes we have to sacrifice the needs of the few for the good of the many. He ultimately subverts this first by sabotaging the Canaries and then by letting Laios go, but in practice he's already been living a life of self-sacrifice.

Saving people, and learning the secrets of the dungeons to seal them, are what's important. Not his own comforts. Not his own desires. He forces them down until he doesn't know they're there, until one of them has to come spilling out during the confession in chapter 76.

Specifically, I think it's very significant, in a story about food and all that it entails, that Kabru is rarely shown eating. He's the deuteragonist of Dungeon Meshi, the cooking manga, but while meals are the anchoring points of Laios's journey, given loving focus, for Kabru, they're ... not.

I'm sure he eats during dungeon expeditions, in the routine way that adventurers must when they sit down to camp. But on the surface, you get the idea that Kabru spends most of his time doing his self-assigned dungeon-related tasks: meeting with people, studying them, putting together that evidence board, researching the dungeon, god knows what else. Feeding himself is secondary.

He's introduced during a meal, eating at a restaurant, just to set up the contrast between his party and Laios's. And it's the last normal meal we see him eating until the communal ending feast (if you consider Falin's dragon parts normal).

First, we get this:

Kabru's response here is such a non-answer, it strongly implies to me that he wasn't thinking about it until Rin brought it up. That he might not even be feeling the hunger signals that he logically knew he should.

They sit down to eat, but Kabru is never drawn reaching for food or eating it like the rest of his party. He only drinks.

It's possible this means nothing, that we can just assume he's putting food in his mouth off-panel, but again, this entire manga is about food. Cooking it, eating it, appreciating it, taking pleasure in it, grounding yourself in the necessary routine of it and affirming your right to live by consuming it. It's given such a huge focus.

We don't see him eat again until the harpy egg.

What a significant question for the protagonist to ask his foil in this story about eating! Aren't you hungry? Aren't you, Kabru?

He was revived only minutes ago after a violent encounter. And then he chokes down food that causes him further harm by triggering him, all because he's so determined to stay in Laios's good graces.

In his flashback, we see Milsiril trying to spoon-feed young Kabru cake that we know he doesn't like. He doesn't want to eat: he wants to be training.

Then with Mithrun, we see him eating the least-monstery monster food he can get his hands on, for the sake of survival- walking mushroom, barometz, an egg. The barometz is his first chance to make something like an a real meal, and he actually seems excited about it because he wants to replicate a lamb dish his mother used to make him!

...but he doesn't get to enjoy it like he wanted to.

Then, when all the Canaries are eating field rations ... Kabru still isn't shown eating. He's only shown giving food to Mithrun.

And of course the next time he eats is the bavarois, which for his sake is at least plant based ... but he still has to use a coping mechanism to get through it.

I don't think Kabru does this all on purpose. I think Kui does this all on purpose. Kabru's Post Traumatic Stress Disorder should be understood as informing his character just as much as Laios's autism informs his. It's another way that Kabru and Laios act as foils: where Laios takes pleasure in meals and approaches food with the excitement of discovery, Kabru's experiences with eating are tainted by his trauma. Laios indulges; Kabru denies himself. Laios is shown enjoying food, Kabru is shown struggling with it.

And I can very easily imagine a reason why Kabru might have a subconscious aversion towards eating.

Meals are the privilege of the living.

[havarstpapyrus]

Hey guys I finally got a job :D now I'm free on weekends to write Misunderstandings but I sadly still haven't found someone to help currect the Grammer and spelling

Chapter 2 is done and chapter 3 is at a stand still as I forgotten what I was doing XD so imma ask yall who you'd want to see in the rest of that chapter

Horror

Dust + Pyrus - my version of them both -

Killer

Cross

Or the mystery skeleton in Leo's dream - the reader -

Or two new skeletons although they will most ikelt over take the next 2 chapters due to who they will be

Also if someone wants to help with this they are certainly free to do so ^^" just gotta let me know

[faggotisaacfloofs]

the person who helped today when I fell out of my wheelchair actually did a really great job, so I want to share in case other people wonder what to do. [Note: this is not universal, this is merely a suggestion from one person, every wheelchair user's needs are different! I am a person who uses a manual chair usually pushed by someone else who is also disabled.]

Scenario: you see someone in a wheelchair fall out of their chair, and you have the ability to help.

1. Approach and ask "are you okay?"*

2. Next question if they say no, are vague, or open to continuing conversation** is, "is there anything I can do to help?" Or "what can I do?"

If they say no to help, then that's the end, just leave and go do whatever you were doing!

If they ask for help or say they are mildly injured, ask "what would you like me to do?" And wait for an answer before doing anything! If they seem dazed or confused, they might have hit their head or had another medical event*, or they might just be like that due to regular disability. Be patient.

Do not touch the person unless they say to, or they are like, unconcious in the middle of the road, ya know?? Wheelchair users usually have conditions that mean being handled improperly can severely injure us, you could cause much more damage than the fall.

Some things they might need you to do:

Bring their wheelchair closer (mine went about 5 feet away after it dumped me)

engage the brakes of the wheelchair

hold wheelchair steady if it's an unsteady surface (mud, hill, ramp, wet, etc)

offer an arm for them to hold onto to get up (them grabbing you, not you grabbing them) or move another solid item closer for them to use (i.e. a chair) [only do this if you physically have the ability to!]

If the terrain is rough (i.e. a parking lot), they *might* ask you to push their chair to a more stable area once they are back in their chair

nothing

Something else

Do what they ask, NOT what you think would be helpful. If for some reason you have to do something (i.e. you can't stop oncoming traffic and need to get them out) ASAP, tell them what you plan to do

Keep in mind they might also be D/deaf, have a communication disability, be stunned after the fall, have a head injury, not trust other people, etc. Be patient and treat them as a person with autonomy and agency! They might need to just sit on the ground for a few minutes to recover before trying to get back in their chair. They might want everyone to leave them alone. They might ask you to call someone specific. Their chair might have broken and that can be extremely distressing. All of this is like if your legs spontaneously stop working when you're out and about!

A lot of wheelchair users (NOT ALL) have ways to get into their chair on their own once the chair is close enough and brakes engaged (but it's hard from the ground!). Here's what brakes look like on a lot of manual wheelchairs, in case they ask you to lock the brakes. They're levers on each side and pushing the lever pushes a bar against the wheel to hold it still.

ID: A manual wheelchair with the brake levels circled in red and labeled "user brake levers"

*There is also the possibility of course that a person fell out of their chair due to a seizure or other medical event, so that is why it is important to ask if they are okay. If you saw them hit their head, tell them so. If they had a medical event, follow protocol for that, I'm not gonna get into it here (thought I could).

**sometimes a person will be clear after the first question i.e. "I'm all good thanks" clearly means they do not need you to ask another question, you can just leave them alone. Keep walking and don't stare. A lot of the time people will be a bit banged up but be totally fine and able to manage on their own.

TLDR: Ask the wheelchair user if they're okay, then what they need, and then do exactly that, including leaving them alone. Thanks!

[egophiliac]

tsum events really are just the best, huh

[bixels]

this is coming from the position of a student, so don't take my word as gospel, but i want to strongly encourage people to prepare for the coming years and look outward to find communities in real life. this can be big like getting involved in fundraisers or organizations or small like going to poc/queer/art social spaces and talking to people. making friends and connections will help you and others build support networks, something you will need as we enter the new term. i know talking to strangers in real life can be scary, unfamiliar, or difficult (depending on where you live especially) and it may take a lot of compromising and work –– and i don't want to condescend –– but we have to try starting now. this is about your safety and welfare, as well as the most vulnerable people's.

if leftists/progressives/minorities want to survive and beat back what's coming, we need to do our work offline too and take up space. an example of getting involved would be (if you're an artist) reaching out to fundraising organizers and making prints of your artwork to donate for raising funds.

[stoopidstapler]

SO IVE BEEN GOIN INSANE SINCE THIS TRAILER DROPPED. JUST. SIMON. SIMON. SIMON.