#moon in the eighth house

[princessjojo-x]

8th House Synastry

if 2H is self sufficiency, 8H is codependence. platonic or sexual, there’s an unmatched depth that pervades the connection & binds the partners together, for better or worse.

this is an all-or-nothing rxship which flows deep enough to hurt or heal both partners. partners will have the highest of highs together & the lowest of lows together. it will either cause everlasting love or everlasting trauma. the positive & negative outcomes tend to happen simultaneously. it’s not all doom & gloom, yet it's not all sunshine & rainbows either. sometimes it's great, sometimes it's not so great. those ups & downs come & go - both happen to be worked with, worked for, or worked through. regardless of how undoubtedly frightening & agonising it can be, there’s no other house that can generate profound emotional depth to the same extent! ultimately, this synastry just hits different!

if the attraction isn’t mutual, it will feel absolutely painful & devastating. the rejection will cause you to behave in ways you never thought you would - stalking, possessiveness, delusion, addictive attachment, coercive control & so on.

everything is felt too much & seems more intense than it should - even a simple glance can send shivers down one’s spine & even small disputes will be hard to forgive. the potency of this aspect can be felt the moment partners meet & will intensify the more partners get to know one another.

the connection becomes much deeper than partner’s anticipated; they planned to have a noncommittal & fun arrangement, but they suddenly want to have an official rxship & hate when that cant be fulfilled. partners feel like they need to see each other & need to always have each other by their side. partners will feel urged to change their life path (career, location, etc) just to be aligned & interlocked with the other. it’s hard for partners to just be “casual” or “superficial” with each other bc interactions with one another have a very intense undertone.

this aspect almost always involves blessings disguised in suffering - therefore, it’s not best placement for synastry, unless backed up by stronger & more grounded placements. one subconsciously sees the other as a blessing delivery or redirection to their life, even if they’re being mistreated & the rxship is toxic. this can can even be an enemies-to-lovers dynamic or a love-hate rxship that hurts so good.

it's in the darkness that we find the light & it's in the intensity of these rxships that we find our true selves. consequently, you may feel more like your “true self” when your with them as a-posed to when you’re without them.

since this is the house of taboo, the attraction may be wrong or forbidden in some way, leading to a secretive rxship. maybe you can’t be together bc one of you is already taken or bc there’s too much distance between you both. whatever the case may be, usually this is a rxship that others don’t expect or accept.

these rxships are always fated & transformative. partners meet each other to teach each other a lesson which they’ll never forget. partners involvement with each other will drastically change the both of them. the transformation process can be utterly harsh & traumatic, but it produces a new & improved version them; similar to a major surgery, it fixes the problem within but definitely leaves a scar, so you always remember the pain of the recovery process. interestingly, partners usually find each other when one or both of them is at rock bottom.

if 2H is our self esteem, 8H is our weak spot. forget small talk & superfical relations bc this is where secrets reside. partners unknowingly uncover each other’s rawest layers. even if one is too scared of revealing themself, the other can read them like a book anyway. even if one is typically not the type to disclose their business, they will naturally share their whole life story with the other. partners will be able to open up completely & be understood in a way they never have before. partners bond by delving beneath the tip of the iceberg; they unveil each-others deepest wounds, fears & desires. on the downside… (1) this can become their only point of attraction to one another, whilst their other basic needs for a rxship are not met. (2) many people can't handle this synastry bc its so invasive & overwhelming - this house governs the deep parts of ourselves that we want to keep hidden. when those parts are seen we feel vulnerable & uncomfortable. (3) partners know exactly what to say to either bring up or take down each other. (4) you may share this aspect with someone whom you’re ashamed of speaking abt or coming across bc this person has brought out reactions from you that you aren’t proud of.

this house governs our inner power. planet is able to easily see everything house is capable of. this breeds a rose coloured glasses effect. planet perceives house as more attractive, scary, important, etc than house actually is. but this may cause planet to feel intimidated, threatened & jealous. planet’s envy of house provokes planet to gossip or betray house. on the other hand, planet may feel fascination & admiration for house, which causes planet to talk abt house excessively & house can even become embeded in planets subconscious - this is where the infamous obsession & attachment comes from. planet may become desperately intrigued with houses hidden side which prompts planet to cross a lot of houses boundaries - for instance, planet snooping through houses phone or diary. initially, planets obsessive nature makes house feel triggered & disturbed. eventually, house becomes intrigued & attracted to planet.

when healthy, planet could have a desire to empower house or planet could feel more empowered around house. houses presence could help planet feel like they can get through anything. when unhealthy, planet feels powerless around house & wants to prove themselves to house. either way, house definitely has immense power over planet & planet is consciously aware of this. what the power struggle is abt depends on the planet. for example, venus causes a power struggle over who’s the most popular, beautiful, wealthy etc.

partners may affect each other financially since they feel urged to give or gain from one another. it's advised to connect with someone you have this synastry with if they have a higher position than you professionally or materially so you can learn from them & gain from the rxship,

if you’re seeking a sugar daddy or sugar baby, this synastry is best for you. whilst 2H shows what earnings you’ll gain yourself, 8H shows what earnings you’ll gain from others. rgue that 8H shows the partners who’ll affect you materially.

this is a very intoxicating & stimulating connection, which generates addictive attachment & genuine devotion. no other house can therefore it’s difficult for partners to leave each other completely. whenever partners try to move on, theres a sense of being haunted (which is amplified if accompanied by twelve house synastry). for instance, you accidentally bump into their friends or family, you see their name everywhere, you hear the songs they like, you find people with similar faces to them. needless to say, its hard to let go when you’re being constantly reminded of them!

Rising

this aspect brings intense intimacy. house disliking rising or may have heard a bad rumor abt rising. but once house gets to know/talks to rising for the first time, house will become completely smitten with rising (or vice versa). rising helps house explore harsh topics with more ease & offers an encouraging perspective to house. house can refer to rising as their rock & house admires risings strength. however, house may resent rising for their courageous nature & perceive it as too impulsive.(aquarius or sagittarius asc)

Sun

initially, house may underestimate sun. house may perceive them as weak or not take them seriously. eventually, sun will show that they’re more powerful than house thought. sun may make house feel overshadowed or insecure & consequently house copies suns mannerisms. also, usually one partner finds the other too intense, invasive & off-putting.(aquarius sun/virgo asc)

Moon

💝 if there’s no physical attraction between partners or there’s bad aspects elsewhere in the chart, this connection can become extremely annoying. if partners become enemies there will be no boundaries in regards to what they will do to take each other down.

💝 partners provoke intensity within each other, which can manifest as compulsive desire for co-dependency, sex, power, etc.

💝 typically moon stirs houses deepest emotions, fears & desires. moon intuitively understands houses vulnerabilities, which makes house feel exposed.

💝 moon becomes fascinated with house emotionally & sexually. moon perceives house as a secret they can never solve. moon needs to know everything abt house & moon will even cross some boundaries to dig up houses secrets. moon either doesn’t realise or doesn’t care abt how weird this behaviour may seem. moon feels an urge to spend a lot of time with house or to constantly keep tabs on house. moon can be too obsessed with house & very controlling over how house expresses themselves. moon can turn this obsession into a dislike & become houses biggest hater (competing with house, gossiping abt house, etc). this behaviour can be be very one sided on moons part & house senses the power they have over moon.

💝 although house is attracted to moon, house feels constantly analysed by moon.

💝 both always feel what the other feels, yet there’s a fear of vulnerability from both. this can lead too deepened trust or amplified tension.

💝 sexually, comfort is key for both partners. usually moon will be quite submissive & favourable towards house. moon seek more foreplay & deep-talk.

💝 partners may break up only to reconnect years later bc of their compulsive desire for each other, which may seem to fade temporarily, but it always comes back & is never satisfied.

(aquarius moon or virgo asc)

Venus

this aspect produces more feminine themes & energy. therefore, expect frequent occurrence of manipulation, guilt trips, pettiness & emotional outbursts. additionally, partners can become competitive with each other once they break up; for example, dating new people straight away just to spite one another! partners feels like they have strong chemistry before they even know each other well! initially, venus feels both attracted & scared of house. venus embodies pluto traits & behaves more tense. there is a mystery surrounding house that venus can't seem to wrap their head around. eventually, venus will have grow immense loyalty towards house. venus will feel urged to financially support houses lifestyle. venus finds so much beauty in the things house is usually ashamed abt. venus can feel very possessive/obsessive over house & even forget the bad things house does simply bc the love is so overpowering, which will be amplified if venus is insecure in any way. s3x will not be the “one-night stand” type. it will be intense, aggressive, intimate & emotionally deep, affecting both partners. s3x-wise, venus will be able to create a new experience for house every time & venus will drastically transform house views on sex. there may be a lot of secrets shared/kept in this rxship or the rxship itself may remain a secret from the public eye. this synastry can turn pretty nasty if feelings are unrequited. they literally cannot deal with being rejected by you. they can resort to harassment, kidnap, revenge porn, black mail & so on. you rejecting them in any way triggers them profoundly & makes them want to put you in your place (the 'place' is upto them). (aquarius venus or libra asc)

Mars

this aspect produces more masculine themes & energy. mars is intensely infatuated & drawn to house, viewing house as a guilty pleasure & constantly observing house (in a scorpion way). mars is like the aggressor detective, house is the suspect in question. mars feels very thrilled & adrenalized by house so mars expresses random & intense bursts of needing to physically touch or be in close reach to house.

mars has a sense of urgency abt bond, merge, unveil, conquer house. consequently, mars’ approach is pushy & rushing. mars’ feels such a sense of urgency in regards to house & l mars’ approach is dominant, straightforward, rushing & pushy.

consequently, mars may do impulsive things just for houses attention (including gifts & surprises) . mars can take on a very intense energy when around house that others will pick up on but the sheer depth is something that’ll always only exists between the two partners. mars doesn’t forget abt house easily bc house literally changes mars’s life. the rxship may be difficult to end bc mars will be persistent in continuing the rxship.

initially, house feels scared & timid towards mars. however, house simultaneously feels extremely sexy, mesmerised & aroused by mars’s raw desire. house needs to see progress before completely losing their restraint & expressing their feelings.

partners have strong chemistry before they even know each other well. consequently, they tend to operate more on instincts & lack awareness of basic emotions. theres a strong need for physical intimacy & touch; like gentle touching or outright fighting. conversations between the two are very 1-on-1 even if they’re in a group setting.

sex if ever allowed can easily become addictive bc it’s so intense. partners have sex like the world is going to end, possibly in forbidden places or secret spots. the sex involves a lot of teasing, power plays, hair pulling, helping each other masturbate & holding each other as close as possible. sex is used as form of escapism, a release of pent up feelings & a strong way to show their love to each other. you can expect mars to initiate the sexual contact as soon as possible & mars will ensure to go all out for house in the bedroom. also, partners find eachothers names attractive. despite them feeling intrigued & excited for each other. partners may have heavy & negative feelings for one another, one day they love each other, the next day they want to avoid each other. they like to pull each other, but neither takes the bait. partners may low-key resent resent one another for no particular reason. actually, there is a reason but it’s usually something the person doesn’t want to admit, since this house represents what we deliberately keep under lock & key. also, traumas can show through this rxship, like deep talks at night or triggering each others deep wounds. (libra asc or aqua mars)

[divinatorydoll]

eighth house synastry and change: 📝

i made this tweet earlier after a series of posts on the eighth house, so here i wanted to write a thread on 8H synastry and how it can change us !!

THE PLANETS THROUGHOUT THE EIGHTH HOUSE:

their sun in your 8H: they can change your view on attention and praise, respect, authority, comedy and what you find funny, recreation, your personality, your self-image, your relationship with achievement and your own accomplishments

their moon in your 8H: they can change your view on your domestic space, your emotions and how you share them with other people, your idea of intimacy, pregnancy and childcare, the relationship you have with your immediate family

their mercury in your 8H: they can change your view on your daily routines, language, the ways you communicate with people, the concept you have of your own intelligence and skills, the information you exchange with others

their venus in your 8H: they can change your view on music, sex and sexuality, art and your artistic expression, the natural world, your own natural talents, your voice, your relationship with beauty and self-esteem, what makes you comfortable

their mars in your 8H: they can change your view on what it means to be enthusiastic and passionate, conflict, how you handle your anger and the anger of others, your opinion on different sports or athletic events and teams

their jupiter in your 8H: they can change your view on faith and religious beliefs, your political ideologies, your perspective on marriage and commitments, foreign affairs, integrity and the honest you expect from others

their saturn in your 8H: they can change your view on the world, the government, reality itself, responsibility and what you’re responsible for, your connection to your elders, the concept of selflessness, your sense of duty and purpose

their uranus in your 8H: they can change your view on coincidence, friendship and how you socialize with others, social media, the internet and technology as a whole, your outlook on the future as well as your future

their neptune in your 8H: they can change your view on sadness, isolation, shame, the importance of novelty, fame and those who are famous, grief and how you grieve, vulnerability, your bathing habits or the products you use while you bathe

their pluto in your 8H: they can change your view on power, jealousy and what makes you jealous, whatever disturbs or frightens you, privacy, the secrets you keep and what you feel is “too ugly” to be seen by others

let me know if y’all have any questions in the replies :)

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[myzticmint]

Being a Scorpio Venus and a Capricorn 8th houser is so frustrating. But shout out to whoever actually earns my trust like…

…. Everything that has been held in all to give to them. They will really HAVE to earn it and deserve it.

I low key have given up though b/c there is no one to get IT/ME right.

🧚🏾🧜🏾‍♀️💋🔐❤️

[deepest-artisan]

I have taurus in the 8th house which means pretty good things in death I guess. It means that old age or natural disaster which sounds traumatic but eh.

Also weirdly it did bring up something to do with the neck and if you've read my previous post then you'll know why that's creepy. Maybe it's just a near death experience.

Does anyone else have taurus in the 8th house ?

[ophelyia]

Mars in Capricorn

in the 8th house

Your poker face is unmatched. You know how to sit with pain, how to sift it down into resilience that you can carry. You know how to hold hurt so that the shock is barely visible to others. Because of this, you're a force to be reckoned with: someone who knows how to help others through grief and loss, but someone who also understands how to use moments of collective death and rebirth as catalysts for structural awakening.

Even when in pain, you can see past the momentary experience to the underlying, systemic structure causing it. You see the other folks in your community who are suffering. You see the past, present, and future of it all, and you are determined to build a plan to fix it. In your work life you are an incredibly efficient collaborator, someone everyone wants on their team. Just make sure that others don't take advantage of your natural talents. You are someone who is known for your ability to manage and direct others towards success and, as a result, you are often rewarded well.

[astroworldsite]

SUN IN 8TH HOUSE – EFFECTS AND REMEDIES

When Sun in 8th House of a natal chart, it influences the individual’s life in significant ways. This house is associated with transformation, death, House of mystery, possessiveness, passion, ambition, Unexpected rise or fall in Wealth, Accidents, Injuries,  Unexpected illness, Life span, Probable reasons for the death, Inheritance, Insurance to life. and rebirth, and the Sun’s presence here can bring about a deep desire for change and personal growth. The eighth house is also linked with shared resources, such as inheritance and joint finances, and the Sun’s energy can impact these areas as well.

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[manifestdestinytarot]

full moon eclipse in libra ritual ✨

[astrogirlvian]

2H :

* Values, finances, resources, and self-worth are rebooting

* Focus is on disposable income and increasing earnings

* New opportunities or desire for important purchases/investments

* Be open to change, ask the "how" questions

* Create a budget and stick to it

* Self-esteem will improve

8H:

* Changes are happening in dealing with joint finances, pensions, tax, loans, and mortgages

* It's a good time to create plans for more security for yourself and loved ones

* The current period involves introspection and emotional release

* This may sometimes be painful and intense, but it's worth it

* Fear and deep emotions related to power and control may surface

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[musicastrologer]

hozier - eat your young

♤ venus in pisces

☆ venus in 8th house

♧ pluto in 8th house

♡ venus or pluto in scorpio

♤ moon in scorpio or pisces

◇ moon in eighth house

destruction and creation • emotional turbulence • secrecy and the occult

[divinatorydoll]

planets in the eighth house: 📝

last month, i ran a poll on twitter and my followers asked me to write a thread about pluto in the eighth house (8H). so i decided to make a post about every planet in the 8H:

the sun: these people can feel like they're constantly uncovering more about themselves and always going through some sort of transformation. they can really care about public judgment, but feel like they must go about life as if they are unaffected by the opinions of others. usually have a fluctuating relationship with attention

the moon: prone to bottling their emotions, but go out of their way to absorb the emotions of others. brilliant at dream magic and interpretation. they become more merciful as they experience hardship throughout their lives; compassion is very central to them. sensitive to misunderstanding and can take it personally

mercury: this placement makes for excellent actors. naturally very inquisitive and perceptive people — they have a somewhat compulsive need to understand the details of things, even if they're unimportant. can have a 'speak when spoken to' personality and are quite sensitive to body language, proxemics, etc.

venus: known to be tattoo or piercing lovers. exceptionally drawn to witchcraft and other spiritual practices. very contract-based people in the sense that they often examine things as a transaction; they don't borrow without the intention to pay back. they usually enjoy art that is disturbing or creepy to others

mars: these people can struggle with resentment and hide their anger from others to not seem explosive or uncontrolled. their appearance is often a subject of discussion or gossip due to jealousy. always develop abundant talent in what they're passionate about; they continuously seek improvement in their skills

jupiter: gifted at understanding agreements and reaching them — they are very diplomatic people. these placements particularly benefit from having an altar or praying to their spiritual guides. they have a tendency to look at all of their dreams as prophecies or messages from a divine entity

saturn: extremely selfless and humanitarian people; they can end up draining themselves because of their altruistic personality. often feel that marriage is a bit controlling or overly bureaucratic. they're regularly disappointed by elder figures and those around them with power due to their standards of maturity

uranus: have an inherent talent for capturing people's attention. though, they can have a complicated feelings about friendship and social expectations as a whole. they also have an on-and-off relationship with technology. these placements strive to make unique contributions to society and those around them

neptune: known to be smokers. particularly skilled at digging through their own emotions and understanding why they experience things the way they do. they enjoy finding meaning through suffering (much like 8H jupiters). as a consequence, they can ruminate over their sadness for a very long period of time

pluto: tend to enjoy psychology and love examining people's thought processes. pluto here can cause them to be especially private and protective over their personal lives; they really do not like feeling supervised or watched by others. have a love for thriller films and video game horror

do you have planets in your 8H ? let me know how you resonated with my interpretations !!

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[myzticmint]

How it feels to be a Fire Sign Sun with heavy scorpio/water energy and/or placements.

I am ice so cold it burns.

I am a wooshing cloud of steam.

I am water black with depth, crystal clear see through when shallow.

Signed- A Leo mars 3rd house, Sagittarius Sun 7th house, 6th house Scorpio Stellium w/ venus, jupiter, pluto; 8th house capricorn stellium w/ moon, uranus, neptune girlie.

🌊 😶‍🌫️🥶����🤫🧜🏾‍♀️🧖🏾‍♀️

[hoodreader]

𝒮𝒪𝐿𝒜𝑅 𝑅𝐸𝒯𝒰𝑅𝒩

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི i theorize u can correlate each house to each month of the calendar. first house = first month, second house = second month, etc

edit as in, if ur solar return begins in august, then u would read the 1h for august, 2h for sept, 3h for oct, etc

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི the ascendant will be used to read for how u enter the year, ur identity, ur sense of self, ur body, ur mindset, what drives / guides u for the duration of the year. read w chart ruler

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི read the first, sixth, and eighth houses for health during the year. first house is general health, sixth house is health ailments / diseases / disorders, eighth house is mental illnesses / addictions / etc. . .

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི twelfth house & saturn is ways we sabotage ourselves during a given year; where patience is a virtue, where + how u will be tested,, also represents endings and losses

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི mars, uranus, pluto, south node, or neptune in fourth can show moving homes, particularly due to undesired reasons ( homelessness, eviction, etc ) same for afflicted moon especially in relation to the fourth

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི healthy moon in fourth can also show moving maybe? moon is change / associated with moving

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི infidelity & relationships. . . south node in fifth, twelfth house venus, seventh house lord in the eighth, pluto in seventh, all point to the end of a relationship. . . in fact, these were the placements i had in a solar return chart the year i got away from my abuser ov<

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི nodes are operatively karmic - they act out of fate or destiny, and what u fail to ‘ sort out ’ will be sorted by them. so pay attention to the transits in respect to the sr nodes. north node represents insatiability, desire, seeking, materialism, consumption. south node represents detachment, lack of materialism, loss, surrender. transits to the nodes will be illuminative moments for u, same for the eclipses during that year

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི the sr asc u have relative to ur natal asc says a lot about the trajectory of ur life / selfhood / spirit. like. . . if ur natal asc is opposite ur sr asc, u will naturally have a lot of one-on-one interactions that are significant but also. . . u could literally feel ‘ displaced ’, since the seventh is the house furthest from the first. u could feel pulled in two diff directions, confused, torn, etc. etc, the year’s theme will be about balance and duality. stuff like that

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི i recommend celibacy if there is a node-venus, venus in twelfth, venus in eighth, venus-saturn, fifth house lord in twelfth or eighth, node-fifth placement

[rainydetectiveglitter]

Astro Notes

🌞 Sun in the 1H — The Sun finds its strength here (considered a "place of visibility"). You’re meant to be seen and recognized, and your life feels aligned when you’re expressing yourself boldly. Themes of leadership and self-realization dominate your journey—this is the chart of someone destined to carve their own path.

🌙 Moon in the 5H — The Moon rejoices in the 5th house, so this placement brings a natural affinity for creativity, pleasure, and children. Your emotional state thrives in spaces of joy and self-expression, but watch out for getting lost in indulgence or romantic idealism.

🗣 Mercury in the 12H — Mercury here suggests hidden or esoteric knowledge. This is the chart of someone with insights that go beyond the material world. Your speech and thoughts may feel isolated or introspective, but you’re gifted with a knack for unveiling truths hidden in plain sight. Potential for prophecy or dream work!

💖 Venus in the 2H — A placement tied to Aphrodite’s love for material beauty. Venus here blesses you with a natural allure and ability to attract wealth or possessions. Harmony in relationships may stem from shared values or building something tangible together.

🔥 Mars in the 8H — The eighth house signifies taboos, shared resources, and mortality, making this a fiery yet transformative placement. You face challenges head-on, especially in areas others shy away from. Battles over inheritance, intimate bonds, or spiritual power may define key parts of your story.

💫 Jupiter in the 10H — A classic "kingmaker" placement. Jupiter elevates your public life, granting you charisma and the ability to inspire. Benefic fortune arrives when you pursue roles of authority or influence aligned with your principles. Jupiter in the 10th can also signify divine protection over your reputation.

⏳ Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, and Pallas in the 2H — A heavy emphasis on the 2nd house ties your material possessions to themes of duty (Saturn), disruption (Uranus), illusion (Neptune), and strategy (Pallas). You’re navigating the weight of what you own or value—learning to master a balance between control and letting go is crucial.

🕳 Pluto in the 12H — The 12th house governs things unseen—Pluto here is akin to Persephone's descent into the underworld. Deep, subconscious transformations may shape your life path. Spiritual growth occurs through surrender, forgiveness, and diving into your shadow self.

🌐 Chiron in the 9H — The 9th house deals with philosophy, travel, and belief systems. With Chiron here, you might struggle with your faith or find your worldview shaken by personal wounds. However, these experiences push you to share wisdom and inspire others on their own paths.

💍 Juno in the 8H — Relationships for you are not surface-level. Juno in the 8th craves deep, binding intimacy. Themes of merging and transformation play out in partnerships—this isn’t a placement for lighthearted romance. Think soul contracts over fleeting connections.

🔥 Vesta in the 1H — Vesta in the Ascendant makes you a keeper of the flame. There’s something sacred about your individuality and presence. You may dedicate much of your energy to self-discipline or perfecting your identity, often attracting those drawn to your purposeful aura.

🌀 Node in the 1H — Your destiny pulls you toward asserting independence and finding your voice. The past may tether you to partnerships or codependent tendencies, but growth lies in carving your own road.

🐍 Lilith in the 3H — The "dark goddess" in the house of communication shows a razor-sharp tongue and an unapologetically raw way of speaking. Themes of rebellion might arise in sibling relationships or education. Words become a tool of both power and seduction.

💰 Fortune in the 8H — True prosperity comes from transforming life’s challenges into opportunities. You might gain unexpected financial blessings or have a knack for finding luck in the darkest corners of life. This is an alchemist’s placement—your fortune thrives in rebirth.

[karolinethekindwitch]

Astrology Observations - Placements that make a person cold hearted/blooded

Disclaimer:

This astrology observational post is only made for the purpose of using my wisdom of astrology and making observations using the knowledge of astrology. Don’t take this personally or to heart and trust your intuition.

Moon in 8th house, moon in 12th house, moon square and opposition Saturn

People with placements in the eighth house using moon in the eighth are private or secretive. They prefer having a privacy or private life not sharing too much of their life on social media or media in general. Natives with moon in the twelfth house are emotional people, however they’re good at hiding their feelings or repress them. Because the twelfth house symbolizes illusions, hallucinations, the dream and spirit realm. When you repress your feelings especially hide them you become numb. The reason why we humans feel numb because of the hurt or pain we experience in the past. The only solution to these problems is letting go or do shadow work. Instead of healing like we humans usually do letting go of what no longer serves us gives inner freedom to live our life without being in pain.

Moon square Saturn or Moon opposition Saturn. In astrology, Saturn represents death, age, rules and laws, and karmic lessons. Natives with moon square Saturn or moon opposition Saturn may have had harsh or traumatic childhoods which led to becoming who they are today because of the pain they went through. When their feelings and behaviors go unchecked and without help, they become helpless and cold-hearted. However, it’s possible to get help the solution is therapy, the letting go technique, unlike healing. Because sometimes healing isn’t always the answer healing heals with time, however, people want results that’s why people want the results more than taking a long time to get what they want. By letting go you’re giving yourself the inner freedom to not hold onto the pain and emotional baggage anymore.

Moon in Capricorn, Moon in Scorpio, Moon in Aquarius, and Moon in Virgo or Moon in Gemini

People with placements in Capricorn, Scorpio, Aquarius, Virgo or Gemini are not emotional people. However, for people with Scorpio placements they are emotional except when sharing anything private they become closed off. Because of the fear of coming out vulnerable or being seen as weak. From my research, I learned that hiding your feelings doesn’t make you strong it actually makes you weak. Because the longer you repress and hide your feelings the chances they’ll resurface. When you openly express them in healthy ways through art, singing, or writing it becomes more clearer and easy to understand. I feel that it’s possible to live your life by freeing yourself from the emotional baggage you’re carrying. Healthy ways of expressing yourself is a great way to regulate your emotions, however it won’t replace professional help and therapy. You need help from professional to get the therapy you need.

Aquarius, Capricorn and Scorpio stellium

Stellium’s in astrology is when there’s 3 or more celestial bodies in one zodiac sign. For instance, moon, mercury, Venus, and mars on the eighth house in Aquarius. This means the person who have their stellium in Aquarius in the eighth house of secrecy and transformation ruled by Scorpio, Mars, and Pluto. Natives with stellium in Aquarius on the eighth house may appear cold hearted because they are private with not only themselves, yet their lives they don’t share too much of their life on social media especially media in general. They rather live a private life than a life where they share their life publicly.

Before I forget, currently in 2024 until 2044 Pluto will be in Aquarius until 2044 actually. To remind you all, take caution of sharing too much of your life on social media and media in general, when you over share your life on social media it’s a target for crime, harassment, bullying and other problems. Save yourself the trouble and stay safe. Because remember we are in the age of Aquarius and it’s associated with technology. The technology today is completely different from the past because technology in the ancient world were far more advanced than today.

Chiron in Scorpio, Capricorn, Aquarius, and Gemini.

People with these placements are rather private when sharing their feelings than their personal information. As humans we’re emotional creatures by nature, however we humans neglect them and turn to the dark side and shut everyone out some call them dark empaths the opposite of what an empath is actually. These types of people are private with their feelings because to be brutally honest no one understands better than ourselves. Because our souls speaks the truth when our soul is hurt or in pain we shut people out, and numb our feelings unless with proper and professional treatment from therapist.

The reason why suffering and evil exists. In my adulthood, as someone with Chiron in Scorpio on my first house I’ve learned that it’s because we humans commit bad deeds unconsciously and without awareness. I also learned something fascinating from Aaron Doughty when you learn Ho’oponopono the Hawaiian ancient technique of forgiveness the point of this technique is that you’re healing yourself from inside out because you’re clearing your aura, and forgive the people who were also hurt too. The phrases are, “I’m sorry, thank you, please forgive me, I love you” they are super powerful and it immensely helps with healing yourself and your aura.

Why am I mentioning a Hawaiian technique of forgiving? It’s because when we do something bad, evil or is suffering everything comes from the unconscious the parts of ourselves that are unaware. Remember the eyes are the windows to the soul? Our unconscious is responsible for our behaviors, deeds, and actions without awareness and with awareness we become who we are. Creation was born from source and source is the origin of consciousness. Without awareness we are just an empty void of nothingness.

That’s why self awareness, letting go and shadow work is the key to freeing yourself from the emotional baggage. And don’t forget to get help. It’s okay to heal because it’s human to feel you have the right to express yourself because it’s a part of who you are.

If you come this far thank you for reading. Stay updated for more posts from me.

[melaninfury]

Synastry Observation 🕯️

Please don't take this as astrological facts. These are more my experience and perspective. The whole chart and aspects must also be considered.

👥 As much as I love a good moon in the 11th, I do recall every person showing some sort of over interest in my longterm goals and who I am friends with. It kinds gives they feel some type of way about the friends you make or can get very personally offended by the way you go after your goals and even the community you’re in. Of course more with affliction and squares to your eighth.

👥 I always recommend if looking into synastry for families/generational curses/childhood trauma/familial bonds to look at their Lilith energy between each other. My family member who birthed me has their Lilith retrin my 12th house. I always think they are trying to have power over me subconsciously or questioning my mental health (12 house). Over all a hidden opp at times but very dedicated and nosey on what plans or how to crack your code.

👥 Saturn in the 8th house is oppressive in synastry in many ways if not balanced. I find these individuals are pocketwatchers to your debt towards them even when they give it comes with some resentment.

👥 Yes that mans venus is touching exactly on your mars, I think your attracted and may want to you know. Yes your venus is touching their mars … yes they want you or maybe they have thought about it. In context to most sexual and relationship area this aspect creates the right tension. It is not as direct as mars wanting you in the first house it is a take you out to dinner first kind of fuck you.

👥 Mars in the 1st house either wants to fuck you, compete with you or argue, fight with you or just all of the above. At some point 🤷🏾‍♀️ to some degree maybe so.

👥 Uranus in the 9th may feel estranged to your dreams/goals/ideologies. They may come from a different religion that may demonize or judge your beliefs. They feel your way of life is a revolution to their own. It either tears you down or feels welcomed by its difference.

👥 If your parent has their neptune in your 10th house of Career/Legacy/Who your parents want you to be/Your social status...I do feel for the way they project and want to control you. Very controlling of the narrative of who you want to be. They project their own failures and need to do what they never got to do. Then they hold you to a lot of standards to make sure you turn out the way they want. They want you to live the life they projected onto you at birth or really young. Weird effect of Neptune/Afflicted Neptune/Capricorn Neptune in Saturn’s House

👥 10th house synastry is superficial. If I were to say anything else. No matter the placement, they all manifest this differently but in the same energy. If someone is falling on top of your tenth house make sure your relationship isn't based on appearance or the "idea" of you and what you bring into their status (life).

👥 As much as that Moon/Mars is gonna draw you is as much as it’s gonna fuck you over....you will be annoyed by what drew you in 😬. With this synastry are you ready to be madly in love on the plight than the mars actions that disrupt or activate the hidden emotional world of the moon, make you think your not 😃. if you don’t really want to feel that feeling, tension and resistance even though this is someone you want I recommend taking that shit slow please.

👥 See my problem with 8th house energy is its attention. Your sexual partners mars or moon falling in your 8th can really make them want you in that way but it’s the house of debt and others peoples money it’s inherently shadow like and has a touch of mystery. Like stop making secret passes at that lady in the dark or giving the eyes. Stop taking someone out to eat and taking them back to your place. Stop not ignoring the urge to touch….and touch…and touch all the time. Being so goddamn intimate. Yes that shit can turn really ugly really quick. And your not gonna “die” per say from synastry like this in the house of death but when they leave or if they hurt you it’s gonna hurt just as much as it felt good in the moment. You might feel like a part if you is actually dying. But y’all stay safe out there 🙂.

👥 Jupiter in your 7th house you say…well I SAY you want that man to be your husband, that woman to be your wife, their soul to be your equal, you want that partner title with them because they fit into your world and they elevate in the way you dream. Maybe they are your dream but I think you like em a bit to much, Jupiter is an abundance is it not, for better or for worse.

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Where You Feel Protective & Nostalgic

Cancer/Moon in the First House

your nurturing persona is often a shield to protect your sensitive self from getting hurt

tend to cling to a specific image of yourself, idealizing your past to avoid confronting who you are now

quick to build walls around your heart because you fear vulnerability

take criticism personally, reacting to any perceived threat defensively

Cancer/Moon in the Second House

place unrealistic value on family or sentimental items, which can lead to hoarding

hold onto old values and traditions that provide comfort

panic at the thought of losing what you have, whether it's possessions or relationships

you resist reassessing your values or beliefs about worth

you can fear taking risks with your money

Cancer/Moon in the Third House

often bring up memories that make you or others emotional

guard your ideas fiercely, reacting defensively when others challenge your opinions or beliefs

romanticize past conversations, often wishing to relive them

get too wrapped up in other people's drama, using it as shield against dealing with your own issues

Cancer/Moon in the Fourth House

prioritize family above all, which can make you blind to toxic dynamics that need to change

smother loved ones because of your desire to shield them, which can lead to resentment instead of gratitude

carry the weight of family issues, letting them define your present relationships and home life

protective instincts can turn your home (house, town, country) into a prison where you're afraid to leave

Cancer/Moon in the Fifth House

fiercely guard your hobbies and passions, fearing others may not appreciate them as much as you do

clingy in relationships when you get attached quickly, which can come from idealizing love or relationships

fear rejection which can hold you back from genuine connections

hold onto hobbies or interests that evoke fond memories, even if they no longer bring you joy

overprotective over children, suffocating their independence in your quest to keep them safe

Cancer/Moon in the Sixth House

take on the emotional baggage of your coworkers

cling to outdated health habits because they feel familiar and safe

romanticize or long for past work experiences

fear any change in your work life, no matter how stale it gets

Cancer/Moon in the Seventh House

smother partners with loyalty in a way that comes off as needy and desperate

lose yourself in the issues of your partner

obsess over the fear of abandonment

get stuck thinking about exes

outdated idea of what commitment means

Cancer/Moon in the Eighth House

get paranoid about betrayal that you won't share anything real with anyone, isolating yourself

cling to old wounds, letting them dictate your emotional landscape instead of healing

scared of new intimate connections

obsess over past loves

Cancer/Moon in the Ninth House

defensive over beliefs, shutting out criticism or new ideas that challenge you

daydream or romanticize about past adventures, in a way that can make current experiences feel disappointing in comparison

resist exploring different cultures

idealize schooling or past lessons, letting them cloud your judgment about current learning opportunities

Cancer/Moon in the Tenth House

overly concerned with others see you (reputation), letting it dictate your actions and decisions

dwell on former career successes

let family legacies dictate career choices

idolize past mentors or authority figures

Cancer/Moon in the Eleventh House

treat your friendships like possessions, suffocating them with your need for closeness

hard to let go of past friendships, yearning for times that are long gone

romanticize past group experiences

defensive when anyone challenges your views on causes you're passionate about

Cancer/Moon in the Twelfth House

hide your feelings or true self from the world

wallow in your emotional scars, protecting them like trophies

idealize solitude, thinking it's safer than connecting with others

retreat into daydreams and fantasies to avoid dealing with real issues