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That moment when you’re researching synastry aspects and you see your own tumblr post as a google result 😂

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Moon conjunct chart ruler

I just want to share something!

Every single man in the past two years (the two years that I started dating) that has had deep/romantic or l interest in me, has been a leo moon, every single man but one who had the same moon sign as me.

And then most of the time, that leo moon would also conjunct my jupiter in leo.

Well here is the thing: I’m a sagittarius rising (conjunct pluto if anyone is untraditional) sextile mars, trine that jupiter, and jupiter is my chart ruler. Jupiter is in my 8th house, which means I’m constantly, and almost exclusively it seems like, attracting men with their moon overlaying in my 8th house conjunct jupiter in leo, my chart ruler.

Does anyone know why this happens? Is it because of the chart ruler element that makes the moon 8th house overlay more attractive to people than it normally would be?

My sun is also in the 11th house if that helps.

But yeah there have been 6 serious men so far in these two years:

Guy 1: leo moon widely conjunct my jupiter in the 8th house

Guy 2: leo moon conjunct my jupiter in the 8th house

Guy 3: leo moon conjunct my jupiter in the 8th house

Guy 4: pisces moon

Guy 5: you’ll never guess it, leo moon conjunct my jupiter in the 8th house

Guy 6: leo moon conjunct jupiter in the 8th house

Plus one guy who I had an “understanding with” with pisces moon.

How does anyone not believe in astrology ?? But there’s another question as well: am I doomed to forever have a moon 8th house overlay with any man I’m involved with ? Where the man is the moon person? 😭 either that or pisces moon overlaying in my 3rd house. These are two such different extremes. But I’m curious to hear what anyone thinks !

I feel I want to make a new synastry aspects post lol

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Left or right synastry chart?

Specifically I actually have this question: I feel like the left chart is really good, but more one sided in the sense that orange (the leo moon man) doesn’t feel it as much and it’s more blue who is super in love. I’m trying to compare it to the right synastry chart, and I feel it’s not as relationshippy but it’s more both sided and deep ? Tell me what you think!! ✨

It doesn’t have to be a perfect thinkpiece. I just want some help/reactions 😂

(Also I’m the chart on the right so be careful w my feelings. And no he isn’t in a relationship..)

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Hi! Can you please take a look at my chart? I face power struggles with my family and sister. I also faced childhood trauma and have no luck in love. :/

Thanku!!!

Well they say pluto in the third house is an overlay for trouble with siblings… only I can’t ignore this huge exact conjunction with your lilith and your IC. This is basically the familial trauma aspect. God AND you have lilith square ascendant ? Talk about getting blamed for everything always. A real black sheep placement to top it off ! To them, you’re pretty much like a rebel. I don’t see your true lilith in this chart, but I assume it’s somewhere more in the third house as the third house represents sibling relationships as well. Furthermore the planet that rules the third house (mercury) is conjunct the planet that rules YOUR third house (mars). So primarily, whatever there exists as a relationship between you and siblings and mental fighting, it’s intensified. Big time. You say you have no luck in love. Jupiter conjunct venus should say otherwise, but it’s in the 8th house which is an extremely intense house that challenges people to navigate themselves truly. You can’t open up and show everyone what you know you’re afraid of and feel is extremely private.. you’re carrying your trauma in your love, and jupiter the expander basically just expands these problems, aside from being able to bring optimism. GOD it’s also conjunct saturn? Okay wait. So I’ve had this before in a composite chart and I could not explain it, because it’s basically restraint and expansion on your planet of romance all at once. AND it’s in the house of trauma, sex, taboo and secrets. Opposite your moon. You just do not feel comfortable. Remember what I said about challenges? Times 4. Saturn is really like the 8th house. My personal theory even is that the 8th house is not ruled by pluto, but by mars and saturn. Saturn has its benefits, but its negatives are restraint and inhibition. This is because saturn is like an extremely heavy rock that needs a bedrock ground surface to exist on. You need to make that stage, or mountain, or wherever you’re going to place that saturn in your life (like everyone has to do) on a safe, stable and secure base ! So that we don’t break sink or die. Saturn challenges you to improve that ground surface it hovers above, casting a grim shadow on it. Casting a shadow on your jupiter and venus When you come across this place where your venus and jupiter ‘safely’ reside, you feel inhibited and unsafe. Saturn natives are so careful and stiff for this reason. They’re afraid that big rock is going to fall on their head when they stand under it to access their other bodies. The key is to put that rock down or build something so it doesn’t fall. Either way, this big metaphor is trying to tell you you need to work on your bedroc- self confidence. Know yourself, improve what needs to be done so you can trust the immense strength that saturn has in yourself. Work on your 8th house matters, because you’re holding back on what you need to create intimacy. You’re holding back your own venus !! Also, don’t forget that there is immense hope. Jupiter brings luck… so this is not like an ‘unlucky placement’ situation.. you’re just traumatized and underdeveloped here. Troubled and stuck a little ! When it starts going in the right direction, jupiter will be right there giving you a wind in the back ! With a developed saturn, jupiter and venus you’ll be amazing. They’ll say ‘what a woman!’ But you always were. With that uranus square in fifth… I really see many passionate affairs that are short and intense and maybe even unorthodox.

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Hiii🤙🏽Scorpio(Vishakha) moon here💁🏻‍♀️You are such an incredibly gifted astrologer🥹, your energy is simply awesome and you always make me smile with your witty and funny interpretations.. I wonder if Venus on a descendant is felt by the Venus person as much. Just trying to figure out if the affair was significant for the blue one as it was for the orange😳😂

Hi ! Thank you so much for the compliments ☺️😊 venus conjunct DSC means that the venus, the loving romantic side of this person, meets you at the part of you that’s for romantic partnership. This is great for the romantic receptivity of the house person, but it also means that venus feels very much at home ! Like it can unlock her full potential here, having ‘somebody to love’ like in that song. So that’s obviously a benefic factor for the planet !

As for the affair, I feel like where you feel this kind of ownership of the inner vulnurable parts of the blue, blue felt safe and comfortable with you. Where your affection could be overwhelming, they enjoyed the being-overwhelmed part :)

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Reposting this to add that my venus in sidereal is in 7 degrees?? In libra ???

Dear Diary,

This b*tch has her MC ruler in the 10th house…

and it’s venus 💗💗

Count your blessings in life. Xoxo

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Hello, this is my second ask after yesterday, but do you still do synastry readings, if so, what kind of charts do you prefer? What aspects? Do you read asteroids? I sent my charts to you yesterday, but haven't seen any replies from you, and I'm new on Tumblr, so I don't know if my question got lost somewhere. I enjoy reading your contents and observations.

It’s probably because i have like thirty in my inbox.. but I can assume yours is there !

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hey, not sure if you're still doing readings, but i'd really appreciate it if you would tell me how this synastry would play out? (also, ik the generational planets are from a completely different generation i just wanted to know abt the aspects and placements)

Ooh how this would play out? I see a recurring theme of home making in this charts which may be what’s attracting you to it (because that energy is so strong). I also see however an unaspected mars for blue… now I don’t know if you’re blue or your partner is blue, but if your partner is blue, it may be that if he’s not the type to search or notice that kind of IC fourth house romantic energy and is like most men are, looking for a relationship with a powerful mars factor in it, he might not be thinking about the potential of this a lot. I see marital aspects here, I see safety and support and the feeling of coming home to each other, I see a moon in the eighth house (nice), I see very intense and volatile chemistry in the mars square venus, oh I also see theat stellium in blue’s twelfth house… ahah. So what I was talking about earlier about you two potentially not being on the same wavelength, that feeling might be strengthened here. Orange feels like they’re touching in the dark with basically their interest in blue. There’s a real element of not knowing… lmao the marital aspects are so strong here i didn’t even see saturn conjunct moon (i’m all over the place lol) but wow there’s this pretty heavy responsibility and dedication to each other, should you commit. There’s a theme of admiring each other a lot.. moon conjunct sun, moon conjunct saturn, sun conjunct asc… saturn square moon will make this play out in a very inhibited traditional way. It will be ‘awkward’ but only because it’s so heavy and you will both know that and forgive its heaviness. Most people are intuitive enough to do that. Saturn opposite venus… blue might ‘choose’ venus… overall I do see a strong energy/vibe from both sides… I think you’ll be dating.

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hello! I want to send in a chart but I wanted to know if you had any rules first? I see you just answer your asks but I wanted to make sure before I randomly did. your page is super fun and it’s helping me read other charts too!

Thank you !! I don’t have any rules except I like the charts from astroseek because they’re easy for me to read, plus I prefer it when people type in their true lilith instead of their mean lilith. 🌺

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In synastry, do you think aspects are more important or house overlays? How does it work with strong romantic aspects but in each other's 9th, 10th and 11th house?

Strong romantic aspects are strong romantic aspects, so with moon conjunct mars for example it wouldn’t matter if the moon is ‘meeting’ the other person in their philosophical self or professional self etc. The aspect would still be vulnurable side conjunct active side. House overlays concern the setting and the colouring of the bond. It may be hard to make certain bonds/relationships romantic because you meet each other in a colour that’s more cerebral, but interpretation of colour can be a choice of both people! Also: the 9th, 10th and 11th house are (mental) settings and as you know with settings, they can all be romanticised. Even the workplace, even daily routines, even an airy college friend group setting, even a lecture etc. You can have extremely romantic house overlays with no strong romantic aspects. There you have two people who immediately classify each other as a ‘potential’ and meet each other exactly in those areas of each other, but can’t really interact well. Those instances tend to fall flat. Love and chemistry becomes like a noun for these people, too, but in a different and more dissapointing way. Anyone can just notice someone! Strong romantic aspects without the ‘right romantic overlays’ are exactly the other way around, I feel like. It’s first the interaction and the seeing each other in a certain light comes later. It comes after you’ve already covered every possible corner of that supposedly ‘unromantic’ house your planets fall into.

So they’re both important. If you’re very worried about the lack of significant romantic overlays, though, I would look if the ruler of your for example fifth house makes aspects to the ruler of the for example 8th house.

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And one more thing! You said double whammy. Does that means his moon in my 8th and my venus in his 8th? Because those are the placements we have.

Yup

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LMAOOO I just saw you response and I had too💀 On a serious note I really appreciate you taking time out of your day to do this 🫶💕💐 (I’m the Cancer and the Blue) I think they are a Cancer rising as well but I don’t know

Oooh you’re gonna marry your celebrity crush 😍😍 i’m kidding, but sun conjunct moon is a very famous good marital aspect. It would be you doing the wifely emotional supporting to nurture the sun’s ego.. lmao. Also being best friends is part of it. Lots of flirty wattpad dialogue with that mercury venus conjunction. Lots of flirty wattpad dialogue with that venus-mercury conjunction. There is actually a good chance he’d be obsessed with you lol ! Normally when you’re very emotionally attracted to celebrities, there tends to be astrological substance to back it up. His moon falling in your eighth is already a typical head over heals bella swan kind of infatuation/deep love someone can have for a person, but your venus is trining his moon, too, and mars opposing your moon means you would have such a big impact on him.. like your actions would really touch him, is basically what being the moon in that opposition is like. Mercury is also opposing that moon… more cringy wattpad dialogue (in which you hold the upper hand lmao). Moon and venus in eleventh is very cute, he thinks you’re their ideal type and accepts you for who you are. His mars is unaspected though… so I doubt that you will be very sexually compatible..

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Your chart interpretation is very detailed and informative and I really liked how you analyse every aspect carefully❤️ can you please do that with this synastry chart also?

Thank you!

That moon venus conjunction… just on blue’s house cusp so they can still double whammy in the 8th house… it brings a tear to me’eye. Now personally I’m in a sort of renaissance where I don’t believe in the significant effect of pluto anymore, but if I was I would be gawking at the stereotypical intensity aspects of this… pluto conjunct moon, pluto square the venus from THAT conjunction… but there’s already a lot of intensity created from the fact that those moons are squaring each other, while the same person’s venus is also conjuncting that moon. I want to make a seperate post one day about the moon venus conjunction when the venus person has a venus square moon natally.. because especially if they’re male that’s so interesting… you challenge his emotional core on an emotional level, but he cannot help respect and adore that core of which that ‘emotional level’ of yours comes from. Blue is learning a lot from red. Venus square jupiter.. love to see it. Again, venus conjunct moon is such a lovely lovely aspect and it being in the 8th house brings a needed grith to it that’s also riveting. It’s literally the perfect love conjunction in the perfect overlay, except it can make both of you a little obsessive and codependent. But even the typical 8th house trouble of this overlay is solved by the fact that this conjunction is almost the definition of perfectly romantically pouring into each other.

You are easy friends that are sexually compatible to each other. Often in relationship charts, you see a very casual harmonious mars sextile/trine mars aspect. At the base of those aspects, the sex ‘works’ and ‘is nice’ and it works in a way that typically has the man not feeling like he has to go anywhere. (The intimacy created by that venus-moon in the 8th houses adds to this too… I’ll stop). Blue is super duper attracted to how red presents themselves (i’d say ‘spiritually, but we both know I mean the ascendant vibe. What you project). I’m curious if he’s already your boyfriend or if you’re kind of turning around each other ? This isn’t really the kind of elephant in the room you can ignore. This one is pink/purple hahahaha

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Also I’m very sorry to anyone who’s readings I haven’t done or have skipped. I had my midterms last week and was combining it with severe executive dyfunction, now all i do is sleep lmao. But I love interpreting all your synastries 💗💗 if your question is ‘can i send my chart’, the answer is yes ! Just send it and I might do it !! ✨⭐️

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hiiii, i loveeee your synastry chart interpretations. And I wanted to send you this one, what do you think about it??? im the blue thanks in advance 🫶🏻

Aa thank you !!

This relationship is progressing very traditionally! Very inhibited in some ways combined with an overwhelming fixation of responsibility/(possible) ‘devotion’ to each other which the conjunction between saturn and moon provides. You have a very deep and raw interest in red, but red is completely blown away by you. To nurture this relationship, you hold the power of progressing and validating it by (consciously) making sure you pour into red romantically and emotionally ! There is a lovely compatible romantic spark between you two. There’s good communication and good fun as well, which is extremely beneficial with all these saturn influences. Moon in fifth is really great for this. You really hold the role of thinking red is very interesting and cute, and how much you want them. Imagine being the moon person on the other side! You are like this force that walked in, throwing that ‘spear’ and they are the ones being hit. I see intensity, as well as the same story being told twice. You really have to give red that confirmation. Their mars is falling into your twelfth house, so they feel like they’re really touching in the dark with their interest in you. They have NO idea if you feel the same way. Especially since their mars is only aspecting pluto (which is a way less strong heavenly body in astrology that people assume). Also the venus conj mercury opposite venus conj mercury is really the definition of ‘opposites attract’ hahaha, you can learn from each other. Compliment each other, like married couples (moon and saturn holding hands) do. 🌺

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Hello! May I send you a synastry chart? Would u be able to interpret it?

Sure of course !! I do have a lot of requests