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the fucked up thing about every corporation's executives being like "we are going to use AI and other new technologies to replace you it's inevitable sorry" is that
1) usually experts in AI and these new technologies will tell you that it CANT replace every worker and has its own challenges and requires new and different kinds of workers to make it functional and
2) it is not the fucking technology putting people out of work or ruining how the system functions. it is PEOPLE (executives) making CHOICES to make it that way, and blaming the TECHNOLOGY. moving to adopt new technology in sustainable and realistic ways requires, money, time, and long term investment, which executives just trying to show exponential growth to wall street at the next shareholder meeting for a few years before they take a nice severance package and hop to the next company or retire, don't give a shit enough to do. they see a new toy, a new bauble, that some silicon valley idiot tells them will reduce costs and increase output, they sell the lie to their shareholders, they rinse and repeat. it is CHOICES. BY PEOPLE. NOT THE TECHNOLOGY. it never has been in the history of human innovation.
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Rewatched Deadpool 1. Took notes.
WARNING: Discussion of mental illness topics, ending yourself, trauma, violence, etc.
Civil debate/ conversation welcomed. Sorry its super long. I think a lot.
Notes:
You know what? We see Wade coloring a lot. What's our status on just giving him cartoons snacks and coloring books? He needs it.
I think we all forget how actually impressive this man is. I just watched this cancer having fucker do like 50 flips.
Whatta man is so Logan Howlett coded.
"Bad deadpool" "good deadpool!"
Deadpool has been helping kids for a while. He terrified a little creep while he himself was a huge creep.
Missed up his words and Vanessa smiled at him. With that "aw hes cute" kinda thing.
When talking about their childhood (whether he's lying or not, hes not about the uncle) and he outdos her so much that she giggles.
The first date he takes her ducking skiiballing instead of yk prostitute stuff
Hes so romantic oh my god.
Theyre giggling and joking like all the time. Personally thanksgiving is my favorite scene before he proposes with a fucking ring pop.
I shouldn't laugh but the way he said "wtf" when passing out
Vanessa instantly jumping to "what can we do? There has to be something" makes me instantly respect her as a chronically ill person myself. Partners who medically defend each other make me so happy because a lot of people divorce their partners when they get "too sick" let alone dont show up to specialist appointments.
Him accepting death so quickly is a sign of mental illness, and you can see him be confused on why shes so upset. Shes crying and hes sitting here like "why do you care if I die or not?" He physically feels so unloved that he just doesn't get it.
"I dont know. Might further the plot. " Oh, so you know about wades little mental tv show he puts on in his head as a coping mechanism?
Also... Weasel.. YOU KNOW WHO ELSE IS A WEASEL!? Shit sorry wrong movie.
Its not until now that hes crying because he realizes if he does then no more vanessa. We already know hes very co dependent and many people only care about themselves BECAUSE of other people. Which is also considered a sign of wanting to ☠️ self.
The whole "superheros are all lame ass teachers pets" thing is so funny if you think about how much beef he has with the xmen when in reality I have a feeling Wade would love charles in a "Ugh im in trouble with Daddy wheel chair again." COUGH "old bald heavens gate looking mother fucker" COUGH
"Thats not nice" No. But wade is genuienly not nice either.
"This is embarrassing. Please stop, " Colosus said what we all were thinking.
Bro literally cut/broke off his own hand and didn't whine a single time. If you ever. EVER hear this man express pain it is 99.9% his own choice to let you know that it hurts.
During his changing process, Francis says "the only thing that doesn't survive is a sense of humor" wade says "we'll see about that" and smirks.
What also makes sense to me is that he did NOT break easily. They did test after test after test and this man still wasn't breaking. His spirit is incredibly strong and as much as we enjoy joking about how stupid he is, Wade is extremely resourceful.
Its like he has created an alter ego of humor and kindess in order to keep up with the fact he DOES understand how fucked up this world is and whats happening/happened around him but refuses to acknowledge it until he has too. Ussually for survival.
Ive seen theories that he has DID or a type of Scizophreania and the voices in the comics are obviously in his head. I have mixed feelings about it because even his thoughts have thoughts of their own in some cases. Talking to no one is often a sign of abadonment, esspecially in children who are school age and get lonely when taken from their families to attend school. Its almost as if wade never lost his and hes subconsiously talking to himself to keep himself calm/ from panicking in high stress situations.
"But then how does he know hes in a movie" thats the thing. He doesn't. Hes pretending to cope. Main charaters cant die and until he dies he has this mental show/movie going on to keep himself from realizing all of this is true. That this is reality.
Cunningham mentions breakfast for his kids and suddenly, wade wakes up. Hes not joking anymore. This is a "oh shit... I wanna make breaktsst for my kids too... with my wife vanessa" moment.
"So whats wrong with him?"
Diiiiiddd we all forget about scout master kevin? Uncle? Dad? That fact that the oxygen was physically taken from his brain and was given Co2 poisoning over and over? For multiple days? This is the same man who blew himself up just to escape because they told him he wasnt going to see vanessa again.
And then he fought a guy naked, survived the entire building burning down, and now is so insecure about his looks that he thinks he made the baby cry in the street.
Theres people staring at him, flinching away, called names, people see him and cross the street. (So when he tells Logan that he knows his pain when it comes to public settings, hes not lying)
Blind Al is literally the reason deadpools suit is what it is. Why the idiot thought white was gonna be a good idea- See above. Unlike Al, who could smell the blood/ bleach.
I really love al. She's like the adult Toph.
"I hear everything in this duplex." OH, you poor thing.
"The guy that turned me into this freak-"
Al: *bitch im blind face*
As far as she's aware, he looks normal. Which is beautiful when you think about it, but it's funny when you think about the fact that he's so insecure about his face that he purposly found a blind room mate that couldn't judge him.
And they cuddle while he gets dating advice from grammie 🥹❤️
I really like how the entirety of Sister Margaret's School for Wayward Children (HellHouse in the comics) stood up for Weasel. They're murderers. But they're family.
What they did to vanessa was straight fucked. Her fiance up and leaves without notice, youre just trying to work and live your life, you get kidnapped.
Negasonic is so cool. I love them.
Dopinder (The cab guy) is so cool too. I love him too. Kill that guy in your trunk. "Mr. Pool" reminds me of Tom holland spiderman.
"It is not boy band >:(" Suurreee it isn't.
"Wheres your duffle bag?" You mean his dollar general store tree hello kitty book bag filled with guns?
"Cue the music" *no one even gives a fuck at this point when he talks to the imaginary cams*
Negasonic mid battle: Hold on- "Hey Yukio, yeah I just gotta fuck shit up real quick, ttyl?"
"Sure thing! <3 You go baby!"
I dont know anything about negasonic but she reminds me of Gambit with her energy powers.
Like I said. Hes smart when its a serious situation because he immediately threw his katana into the glass so vanessa could breathe, only to immediately turn sappy and childish again when he sees her stab francis with it. Heart hands, is hallucinating because theres a knife in his brain (literally), sex joke. Etc.
Colossus shut the fuck up. Let this man kill him. He's hurt Soooooo many people. A bullet costs less then a dollar. His amount of therapy alone is going to be like *checks calculations* 80 billion.
"Not the nethers" Wade can and often does show proof of hurting but hed rather cut off his hand then let vanessa punch him in the balls. "Ow- owie 5000"
Hello Hugh Jackman.
After not seeing each other for so longer they instantly go back to the fibbing. "I live in the house with 12"
"You live in a house??" Funny guys get the girls. I should know. My wife says im super funny (yes im in therapy)
Pinky promises really matter to him.
Hes such a silly billy he brought out the phone with their song on it. God what a romantic idiot.
#deadpool 1#deadpool movie#deadpool and wolverine#deadpool franchise#ryan renolds#hugh jackman#logan Howlett#merc with a mouth#weasel deadpool#colossus#negasonic teenage warhead#yukio deadpool#professor x#xmen#charles xavier#notes#movie analysis#charater analysis#mental illness#wade wilson#deadpool#whatta man#blind al#althea anderson#francis freeman#vanessa carlysle#vanessa deadpool#lets discuss#dopinder#dopinder deadpool
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is phil attached to that one specific wad hat or like if he lost it he would just wear the same looking one and carry on
#or does he already have a couole#bc if its a specific one we need a name#lets discuss#also like ik dan would provide him with 50 same hats if he asked so#phan#dan and phil#dnp#dip and pip#dan howell#amazingphil#phil lester#daniel howell#dan is not on fire#danisnotonfire#danandphil#d&p
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Alright, as superman is my new current obsession, i wanna hear people explain the purpose of his underwear outside of the pants. I remember hearing somebody say that they were to make him look silly, show that he's not a threat because in essence that is what and who he is. He fights but he'd much rather help villains if he could. I just kinda wanna start a discussion
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FIRST GRAIN COOKIE?!
I knew as soon as I saw this new trailer I had to create a post about this, Her past seems to be that she wanted to prevent people from starving but some decided that they would hoard the food she graciously grew and harvested for themselves. I like this backstory, it seems rather interesting! And shows her good nature. Since The Witch Of Light says "A heavy burden For Someone So Young." Is First Grain Cookie the youngest of the 13 witches? I love that the kept elements of her beta design but added stuff too! I love that hat that looks like pieces of corn husk, that was clever.
I'll definitely be drawing her at some point soon, her design is so cute that I practically HAVE to!
#cookierun#cookie run witch’s castle#first grain cookie#cookie run#gaming#mobile games#discussion#lets discuss
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I /gen can’t decipher wether Jessa is problematic or not
Because on one hand, a LOT of people ship it, too many for it to be really problematic (Because the MD fandom is pretty tame, i’ve only seen problematic ships like 4 times within my span of 7 months in being in the fandom)
(I’d also like to clarify that I an NOT pr0ship or anything. I’m asking because I’d like to steer away from Jessa if the general consensus is that it’s problematic)
But on the other, we have little to no idea on the drones ages in EP.5. We know Tessa is a child, but what about the drones?
It’s not like they’re just ageless and have no concept of age or something, they have developmental stages of life just like people do. This is important because we don’t really know if the drones are kids, teens, or full blown adults in it.
I’m really 50/50 on it, so I want more opinions on it. What are your opinions on Jessa?
#j x tessa#jessa#murder drones#murder drones j#murder drones tessa#murder drones ship#discussion#lets discuss#idk what else to tag
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im bored let’s dissect “alison”
firstly this is what i’m talking abt incase anyone doesn’t know:
this is so far the ONLY news we have abt this character rick hasn’t said anything about it the official pjo show insta/twitter hasn’t said anything abt it this is it
and this is a fan account which is smth i feel like many ppl don’t know; here’s that account
here are some other accounts:
both the actual along with another pretty reparable fan account both have stayed silent abt this which seems a little sus to me
you might be wondering “but mo that original pic has screenshots of interviews/articles!! they have sources!!” this is true however the source has no source lmao
from the article the original post pulls from they simply said “we’ve heard” girl heard what and from who
this article was written by nexus news point which idk abt y’all i’ve never heard of
so i took my ass to twitter
this is the only post i found “but mo it’s verified!!” that’s what i thought i thought “well shit there’s the end of that” but when i was looking at the account i realised three things
rick does not follow this account
who’s that linked in the bio? oh wait is that..is that nexus ???
anyone can pay to buy a verification
here’s the actual pjo account
followed by rick
not verified bc why would they have to when rick literally follows them
has said nothing abt this
after all this i don’t think alison is real im gonna be honest however if she does show up in season 2 i will be apologizing with tears
unlike nexus however i will be tagging my sources and will also be adding that rick hasn’t updated his website since may which is the exact opposite of what he did when he was looking for the cast of season 1
lmk y’all’s thoughts bc this is kinda wack if they just made this shit up LMAOO
#pjo#hoo#percy jackson#percy jackon and the olympians#heros of olympus#hoo fandom#pjo fandom#hoo text post#pjo text post#hoo/pjo#pjo news#percy jackson disney+#pjo tv adaptation#pjo tv series#pjo season 2#pjo series#rick riordan#mo talks a lot#yap sesh#lets discuss
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So uhm I just finished Dragon Age so... NO SPOILERS here! Just want to do a tiny little ramble about the game. Be cautious, really bad english ahead!!!
Like what the fuck was that. Listen I WANT to love this game, really. As a transman I absolutely loved the representation, I think it's really important. But please. After 500+ hours in Baldurs Gate, it's impossible for me to not make comparisons and see the huge, absolutely gigantic, gap in quality between the two scripts. And I know Baldurs has a lot of problems with the script and the writing, It's not perfect, but after all the details it is REALLY GOOD, it is and can be truly beautiful, you can see and hear the beating heart of the game in almost every scene. I'm saying this not only as a Gale enjoyer (please believe me), but you can't tell me that Veilguard has a scene even REMOTELY close to the Gale scene where you contemplate the stars with him. He talks to you about immortality, about love, about dying and death, about suicide, his pain lingering in his voice in every breath, and if you happen to be interested in him, Gale confess his love in a way you can even hear him scared of ruining things (again?). He's scared, paralyzed in fear, regrets, pain, despair, sorrow, and yet he really is brave enough to open his heart completely to you in what is, in my opinion, the best scene in the game. I'm always excited to replay it, I hear him all the way through it every single time, I feel his emotions like they were mine and that is so beautiful and precious to me.
And then Dragon Age: The Veilguard, pales in comparison. This beautiful Gale scene happens in the middle of your journey, where you both still don't know if you can truly wake up for tomorrow. Hells, Gale doesn't even think he can live at all!, and yet he chooses to spend this specific night with you, to kiss you, to adore you. He tells you that he loves you. A lot of people criticize that the companions in Baldurs are too horny for their own good, and that they want to get in your pants too quickly. I get where they're coming from but I can't agree. For me, every company has its own reasons for doing that. Astarion tries to get into your pants because it's his way of surviving, for example. Gale doesn't try to do so until he's literally standing on the edge of a cliff in a desperate and maybe last act of love - if he can't love himself, he'll try to love and live for someone else. I won't go on about the other companions, but they do that because they trust you, because you have earned their trust.
We all know the elephant in the room in Baldurs Gate 3. Wyll. His story, cut short. His content, non-existent in comparison. His romance, with many fewer hours that makes me feel it's not worth it. His mission, not even about him. His character, boring to death (to me).
BUT, man, he's just one of the companions. It's not okay, but the others are amazing, Wyll is -sadly and in comparison- just a detail. In Veilguard, this problem is with EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM.
They all feel so rushed it's not even funny. As a Lucanis enjoyer (of course I am), I couldn't even get happy for finally getting a kiss from this man and an "I love you". It's just too late for that when it happens. So cold. When it happens, the character -me, as the player- can't even be in the "mood" for it. I hate it. I hate the moment. And I hate I love those puppy brown eyes -as usual, and can't even be excited, hopeful and happy and all the things I truly feel in the Gale scene. I can't. I've been wanting to kiss this man for the past thirty hours and is just too late when it finally happens. I wanted to kiss you before facing the horrors, not after. In Baldurs, you can feel the support of your lover all the way from the half game to it's end and conclusion, you can hear them say they love you if you want, telling you sweet words, greeting you with love and familiarity. The connections you form with the Veilguard characters is rushed, feels extra superficial, and the romance hides behind a poor "slow burn" excuse. This is just writing so fucking shit I've read fanfics at the age of 12 with like thousand of more layers and greaters sex scenes that Veilguard can't have in ANY moment of the script, not just the romance. I'm talking specifically about that because that's where I really felt like the game was freezing me out.
When I finished Baldurs the first time, I felt everything. I cried my eyes out, I laughed, I was so happy- and that was while watching Gale become a god and let Astarion ascend. But it all felt like everything I did (120 hours) was for a reason. It was all FOR this, good or bad choices. I cried when the credits rolled and kept crying when everything went silent. And I started a new playthrough feeling so excited to discover more and more.
Here, I tried to feel that again. To feel like I've saved the day, excited for the future, sad for saying goodbye, and happy for doing so. But I couldn't fake it if you had a gun pointed at my head and told me to smile LOL I was so cold. Just thinking "that's it? It can't be... can it?" And waiting for the game to say HA! Gotcha. But it never came. I watched the credits still trying to connect to something I just watched and finished.
If you're still here, let me tell you: I don't regret buying it.
Sure, the script is like a Marvel movie. A good one (I love superheros), but a Marvel movie still. Like Shang Chi, for example. Man I love that movie. I love the color palette, the characters look like fun, the scenography is amazing, the choreographies are just astounding! But the script. It's a Marvel movie. Characters are saying all the things instead of showing me. They're joking in really bad moments. Sometimes they don't even feel like people, just parrots saying random lines they suddenly remember. The ending it's a big battle that makes all the journey feel less enjoyable and more boring and flat as fuck. But it's really nice and decent entertainment and I'll watch it again if I'm doing the dishes or something.
It's just not great, but that's what Veilguard is for me. I love the colors, I love the character designs, I love all the places you can go, I love the gameplay and the combat experience and I'm excited to try new difficulty levels. But the script is just dog shit. It's entertaining enough to have it like background noise if you are doing something else, and that's it.
All I see is potential wasted. But I want to play it again, maybe as rushed as all the characters are. Just let me keep smashing shit, swinging my axe, and I'm pleased.
Thanks for reading.
#dragon age veilguard#rambles#dragon age#datv#its my opinion#you dont have to agree with me its okay#lets discuss#lucanis dellamorte#i will always love you#no matter what#gale enjoyer#baldurs gate 3
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One of my friends desperately needs a guf of Brennan pantomiming snorting a bunch of cocaine. I also need this
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I enjoyed reading and watching jjk but after Shibuya arc it kinda fell of for me. I don't keep up with it anymore, sometimes my friend will tell me a summarize version of the recent arc, character development, and also some panels. The only thing that I can say is wtf was gege thinking??? I get that sukuna is strong and is considered a god of some sort but this is getting to out of hand. Like what do you mean "ah yes, a technique that I haven't use since the Heian era". It's also getting repetitive. A character gets a power bost → said character fight sukuna → then dies. There's also Gojos family and Rikas back stories that are not shown like ever! Not only that but gege is bad at writing female characters and utilizing them, don't get me wrong I love the jjk girls and women (except for mei mei) but they are not utilized enough. Like Shoko for example, she's a great character but we never get to see her do anything, and we really never get to see her story, how she feels about all of this. Yes, there is a couple of panels that has Shoko inner dialog but it's so mistranslated and so missunderstod. And it's not only Shoko that's underutilized, the Kyoto high girls are as well especially momo. I know that she's not a main character but at least give her something that makes her interesting. The most realistic part of the story is that the Kamo family doesn't participate in the battle, I was kinda disappointed that we can't see Noritoshi fight along side Choso and Yuuji. I think it would be a really great pairing but it's not going to happen, again the Kamo family's decision is relatable, majority of us would probably leave to. I'm just kinda disappointed that he doesn't have a significant role in this arc. Theres a lot of thing that i want to get of my mind about jjk and some other anime that I have watch. Even though there's somethings that I didn't like about jjk I still enjoyed it nonetheless
#jujutsu kaisen#jjk#gojo satoru#geto suguru#yuji itadori#anime#jjk anime#jjk manga#manga#discussion#lets discuss
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Here’s a question for you, my Stark Squad -
What was the moment, or a scene in particular that you recall that made you fall in love with Tony? Could be over a period of time, could be a moment!
For me, I knew for sure I loved this character when I watched the Avengers movie for the first time. Tony was snarky, witty but such a team player at the end of the day. Remember when be manually or rather using his suit, made the propellor thingy work of their quinjet? Yep. I knew then and I know now, my love for the man only increases every single day 😁🤍
Let me hear your thoughts!!
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do you think tumblr users on the dsmp get their shoelaces from cwilbur, or cquackity? or another presidential figure i forgot about
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Curious to know what you all think Leander’s fatal flaw is bc I wanna have a discussion..
I’ll start.
(he either kills people or eats them I’m just saying!!!)
#I’m explaining more in the tags bc I don’t feel like being grammatically correct#idc how wild I wanna hear it#bc my idea is wild#hear me out !!!#apparently he sleeps around a lot#what if he kills the people he sleeps with and that’s what gives him his power ???#creation through destruction?? idk I feel like his dagger earring and his actual dagger isn’t just there for decoration babes#also you know how sweet little personality that’s just a ploy to gain people’s trust wear them down and either have them join his cult#or sacrifice themselves through being killed and eaten ???#does he eat hearts ?????? like ?#it’s gonna take way more than being a cult leader to turn me off from him#LETS DISCUSS#touchstarved#Leander#touchstarved game#not litg#touchstarved Leander#mine
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GUYSSSS MISAKO CAT DOODLE.
THERES MORE PLS READ.
⚠️⚠️HEY NINJAGO FANDOM (and any others) I THINK WE ALL NEED TO HAVE A TALK. OK.⚠️⚠️ So for one dragons rising s2 part 1 comes out tomrrow for those in the United States and some other areas, but there’s also been some slight debates about Misako on tumblr (maybe not but I keep getting posts related to her).
and it’s a little annoying tbh. Well not annoying but difficult. Some posts are saying “Oh well misako wasn’t s good mom but the ninja weren’t better!” Which I am NOT trying to call anybody out or attack them. However yeah none of them were really ‘great’ at raising Lloyd however there’s also other factors that go into it as well.
I myself am more neutral about Misako. I don’t like her. But I’m willing to hear out genuine debates on her. However yes, I agree Misako is a complex character and while I and I’m sure many others who might dislike her or feel neutral about her understand that and understand that she had reasons for her actions- that does NOT mean we still cannot dislike a complex character. (Also you don’t always HAVE to have a reason on why you dislike or like something and sometimes you might not even know yourself why)
for example on tiktok there’ll be videos saying “We need more complex characters!” And usually the video will go to “you couldn’t even handle (insert character(s)).” And it’s one thing if they mischaracterize the character and don’t understand it. But if they still know the characters complex and understand the reasons that doesn’t mean they have to LIKE the character. They aren’t entitled to. And nobody is entitled to be upset at someone else for disliking or liking a character. You can debate civilly about a character if you want but don’t go throwing accusations like “OH YOU DONT LIKE (insert character) YOUR PROBABLY RACIST, MISOGYNISTIC, ETC.” And while I’m sure in a few cases that might play into it. But also- that’s not always the case. Like if I dislike a female character for reasons am I misogynistic? No. Not unless I hate her BECAUSE she’s a woman. Not because she might’ve done something I personally don’t agree with. And I think we all need to understand that,
EVERYONE can form opinions based on their own personal experiences and morals. You don’t have to LIKE someone else’s opinion but you don’t have to berate them for it either. And I’m sure someone might say “OH YOU JUST DONT LIKE MISAKO.” NO. I don’t like her- but I don’t hate her. I have mixed feeling about her. But it’s no different if someone else also disliked a complex character such as Garmadon or Wu. (Most of the time from what I’ve seen) It’s not because of a racial or sex issue with the character. It’s just because that character in that own individuals opinion isn’t their favorite.
EVERYONE IS ENTITLED TO THEIR OWN DISLIKES AND LIKES.
so if you can relate or have anything to add onto or maybe speak with me about feel free to reply or reblog. THANK YOU, HAVE A NICE DAY.
Tagging some of my mutuals/pookies/ or just someone who could give a good opinion so they can help spread some awareness! @clovercreationscc @froggityboingerrr @hollowflight-propaganda @iamsonormalaboutninjago @nyaskitten(I want ur opinion on this lol)
#lego ninjago#ninjago#ninjago fanart#ninjago art#cat#ninjago misako#misako montgomery garmadon#lego ninjago fanart#discussion#lets discuss#discusses#ninjago rant#ranting#Feather’sRamblingCorner#don’t attack me#im just saying#opinion#ninjago dragons rising#ninjago season 2
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Other People’s Actions Are Usually About Them, Not You
Ever notice how we build entire novels in our heads about why someone didn’t text back? As if their silence has anything to do with us when they’re probably just living their own story.
We spend hours analyzing someone’s behavior toward us, crafting detailed theories about what we did wrong, when in reality, they’re probably not thinking about us at all. They’re thinking about their own life, their own struggles, their own plot twists.
That friend who suddenly went distant? Probably drowning in their own battles. That date who ghosted? Fighting their own demons. That coworker who seems off? Living their own drama. That ex who moved on quickly? Running from their own pain.
The truth is, most people are too busy being the main character in their own movie to write you into more than a scene or two of theirs. While you’re analyzing their every move, they’re probably dealing with family drama, fighting secret battles, healing hidden wounds, facing personal demons, or living their own life.
We take everything so personally:
The unanswered text
The cancelled plans
The sudden distance
The cold behavior
The quick goodbye
When really, everyone’s just trying to survive their day, manage their own chaos, fight invisible battles, carry hidden weights, and live their own story.
Think about it — how many times have you been distant, quiet, or unavailable because of something happening in your own life? How many times have your actions had absolutely nothing to do with the people reading them wrong?
When someone pulls away, it usually means they’re protecting their own peace, dealing with their own issues, fighting their own battles, living their own life, or writing their own story.
Not thinking about you at all.
That’s actually kind of freeing when you think about it. All those times you thought you did something wrong? All those moments you overanalyzed? All those situations you blamed yourself for?
Probably had nothing to do with you.
Because most people are too wrapped up in their own insecurities to notice yours, focused on their own lives to judge yours, busy with their own drama to create yours, or consumed by their own story to write yours.
So stop taking everything personally, assuming it’s about you, creating fake scenarios, overanalyzing actions, and blaming yourself.
Start realizing that their silence is about their noise, their distance is about their journey, their behavior is about their story, and their actions are about their life.
Not about you.
You’re probably just an extra passing through their scene while they deal with their own plot twists. And that’s okay.
Because once you realize nothing is personal, ghosting doesn’t hurt as much, distance doesn’t sting as bad, rejection doesn’t cut as deep, and life doesn’t feel as heavy.
You’re free to stop being a character in everyone else’s story and start being the main character in your own.
#and that's on period#this isn't talked about enough#self awareness#mental health#main character energy#preach sis#healing journey#personal growth#let it go#character development#this part resonated#quarter life crisis#emotional maturity#not everything is about you#lets discuss#why are we real like this#self work#plot twist#healing yourself#moving forward
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