#it's quite nice to be fair

[twilightichor]

𝐈𝐗. A noteworthy detail about Jinhsi's eyes is that, while sometimes they may look light blue or light purple depending on the light she's exposed to, they're gray in reality. The reason behind this is the lack of pigment her eyes have that causes that illusion.

[abalidoth]

god made me nonbinary for the same reason that a big ol bucket of undifferentiated Legos is always way more fun to a kid than a kit where you build some specific diorama of a media property

[misslovasstuff]

If Sanji ever gets to know about Pudding’s true feelings, I’d love if it was somewhat the same setting when he heard her say all those awful things.

Hear me out. Pudding is talking to someone else this time, be it a strawhat for example, and she’s really wearing her heart on her sleeve as she explains how she feels about Sanji.

And Sanji does not expect that AT ALL. He’s leaning hidden against something as he lightens his cigarette, this time not extinguished by rain drops but the fire gets so intensified because of his emotions that it falls off his mouth as he panics a little.

[sysig]

No go on please (Patreon)

[emilytakesphoto]

dead lake

[novadreii]

Mmm actually I think we do owe love and care to our loved ones! We do owe each other things sometimes! There is a duty of care in our relationships that we should do our very best to uphold. It's the basis for human connection? An informal agreement we have with someone dear to us that we will support and cherish them and not just when it's easy and in the ways that feel effortless to us but also in the ways that they feel most loved.

We owe each other consideration. We owe each other a chance to chime in on important things and we should not make unilateral decisions. We owe each other reassurance sometimes too! Gasp!

I know that we're unlearning our generational trauma collectively but what's the point if we draw such hard boundaries around ourselves that nobody is let in, and nobody is helped, loved or considered when they really need it?

What is the point of being connected to another human being if it's understood between the two of you that if shit hits the fan, they are loyal only to themselves and you can get fucked?

I get it. We need to be self-sufficient. We can't rely on someone to the point of falling apart when they leave the house. But entering into a relationship or close friendship (or nurturing our existing familial relationships that are healthy) is a declaration that we CAN but don't WANT to be 100% self-sufficient anymore. We'd like to outsource a portion of our bandwidth to the other person. And in exchange, we take on some of theirs. It can't be rainbows all the time: again, most of us are traumatized by our parents in some way. We have behaviours that make us unpleasant sometimes! But why does that necessarily mean that we cut each other off when we show symptoms? When we actually need to cash in on some support the most? Where pray tell lies the nuance between "cut off abusive people who have no intention of changing" and "sometimes our loved ones can act ugly on the road to healing, but as long as they commit to bettering themselves I will see them through it"???? Does the latter not exist at all?

The act of caring and being cared for is one of the only fucking things we have left that can sustain our hearts in this bleak world. If you don't want to be burdened with the expectation of reciprocation in your relationships then what is the point of seeking connection? You are missing a fundamental fucking variable.

[spatio-rift]

im actually so annoyed that they decided to switch kusuo and saikos positions here in the anime. not only is it a lot cuter for aren and kaidou to stick close after they finally got thru to him, but especially considering they literally had to beg saiko to eat the night before it makes sense that theyd stay close to him during their lunch breaks in particular

[wp100]

wonder where khadgar's been :p

[transcicle]

bleehhhh

[deadandphilgames]

oversharing in the tags time :)

[food-lover9000]

19, 30, 39 for the handwriting ask game wahooo !!!

19) AAAAaaa so hard to choose fave songs…! but recently I’ve been listening to Bunny Girl a fair bit, started humming my clematis today so went to listen to that as well…Oh wait fave songs uhh RGU op is lovelyyy! also the song I want to be your lover appears in my mind a lot…wait also song I found on bilibili that does an ouchie to me is (mainly the first part) are you lost AAAAAA if I keep going I am going to fill 10 pages (of these short pages) but uhhhh a doll of lapis and erica’s sorrow and also karen’s cleanup are good! essentially there are too many nice silly songs and I am just really bad at making up my mind >:( (I think I will have links to the YT of these)

30) Thank youuu for sending in a silly ask >_O (It looks a lil goofy but its okay!) I think because of the pens I am using my handwriting looks slightly “nicer(?)” but oh well! I might have to add a transcript because my handwriting is still kinda messy :3 (aaa all my silly written faces are messed up in this page :c)

39) I have an egregious amount of stationary supplies and also really want to go back into sewing a bit! aaa or spending time making those silly friendship bracelets (would be silly to make some based on mutuals colors) Oh and also learning how to sew and embroider enough to make silly cotton dolls :ccc (so many things I wanna do yet so many horrors yet still)

[sysig]

I am not immune to any cutes - including Rick and Morty cutes, unfortunately (Patreon)

[sharas-bae]

in other news, this week i was forced to concede that my feelings for toronto girl didn't abruptly magically dissipate after the initial deeply sad period and our very mature and genuinely helpful and friendly check-in call, despite my best efforts. it's definitely much more a mostly background hum but. i would like to move on now please and thanks.

[gouinisme]

literally working my way up to real books by reading graphic novels. i am 6 years old again

[supercantaloupe]

i am not immune to marketing gimmicks (<- just bought limited edition cocoa flavor online)

[rapidhighway]

I'm seeing more people pleasing takes on reels today again I have controversial opinions maybe I need to be beat on the head or somethin idk