#is this valid

[hopefullywelsh]

when I first listened to tma before martin actually showed up in the podcast I genuinely thought he was some rebel like lazing around having fun leather jacket type dude from jon's complaining about him. ep 22 was a real shock for me

[dnphan]

gotta love my friends

[cinnamons1999]

cries in "coined my own grey-aego term only for grey-aego to alr exist but with a diff definition" so i question if im really aspec

under cut cuz im embarrassed 4 coining my own lol

(the grey-aego from the ace wiki: occasionally feels aego but is usually sex repulsed/indifferent)

(my "light grey-go" definition: is 99% aego, but still feels real life sexual attraction to someone like a romantic S/O. and without one, can still be sex-favorable/indifferent. but not repulsed)

and idk if the one i coined is valid 😭😭

[slugass]

wanting acne cream bc occasionally i get pimples that feel uncomfortable (like in a nook/cranny of my nose or the new ‘right under my tearduct’ zit im having rn) and my habit of picking at them is not helping

you can keep ur acne an be proud, genuinely go ahead, i’m just gonna apply it in my personal “problem” areas (lips, around eyes, nose, etc maybe)

[falsegod]

i was thinking about the bathroom break discourse. i can definitely go 5-6 hours without peeing so i probably won’t even need one but if i absolutely HAD to, i’d miss the beginning of the 1989 set because i already heard all those songs live (twice, except for wildest dreams). it sucks that i could miss shake it off, but if i go after it. i might miss the surprise song and that’s unacceptable

[agoodbaf]

I'm sorry but if I'm making minimum wage at a retail job and I buy food I'm not tipping the employee that's making more than me without tips.

[batbusiness-schooldropout]

My favorite thing about J. Jonah Jameson is that he just hates Spider-Man. He supports mutants and doesn't hate enhanced people. He's not racist, sexist, homophobic, or transphobic. He just hates Spider-Man. And I'm half convinced that he's faking for the publicity.

He'd probably get pissed if he hears someone hating on Spider-Man for being enhanced.

"Spiderman isn't a menace because he can climb walls! He's a menace because he's climbing walls without a license or safety equipment! He's setting a bad example!"

"I just want you to know that you that your identity as an enhanced person is valid. Your identity as Spiderman is trash."

[keithbutgay]

hi!

um

yeah

notes goal post

because i really need motivation

(i stole some of these but shhhhh)

if this post gets 50 notes i'll drink water right now

100 i'll go to bed at midnight for the rest of the week

200 i'll actually do my laundry

500 i'll take a shower every day for the rest of the week

1,000 i'll brush my teeth every night for a full week

2,000 i'll stop binding for an unhealthy amount of time for a full week

3,000 i'll start actually wearing my ankle braces consistently

4,000 i'll eat breakfast every day for the rest of the week

5,000 i'll stop binding while sleeping

6,000 i'll stop wearing earrings i'm allergic to for a full week

7,000 i'll start doing makeup again

8,000 i'll stop eating chocolate for the rest of the week

9,000 i'll make my autodale masks

10,000 i'll touch grass every day for the rest of the month

11,000 i'll water my plants twice a week for the rest of the month

12,000 i'll put on my lotion when i need to for a full week

13,000 i'll eat at least two meals every day for the rest of the week

14,000 i'll finish my water bottle every day for a full week

15,000 i'll write more for forest files

18,000 i'll clean out my backpack

19,000 i'll take my vitamins every day for the rest of the week

20,000 i'll finish my stained glass project

21,000 i'll go to bed before midnight for the rest of the week

22,000 i'll do my summer reading

23,000 i'll move the knife out of my room

24,000 i'll eat three meals every day for three days

25,000 i'll stop purposefully triggering myself for a full week

50,000 i'll try my best to stay clean for two full weeks

i'll probably add more goals if this somehow get past 5k, but there it is for now :)

spam allowed

tagging allowed

ummm the deadline is halloween

*thumbs up*

go for it

[slfcare]

ten years ago you were so scared of such different things, but you survived them anyway. the same goes for five years ago and two years ago. everything that has ever felt like a hurdle, you’ve passed through. so be afraid, identify your fears, and then allow yourself to remember that in just a little while, this will be another thing that you have overcome.

[bajoop-sheeb]

PLEASE for the love of the universe read anti-colonial science fiction and fantasy written from marginalized perspectives. Y’all (you know who you are) are killing me. To see people praise books about empire written exclusively by white women and then turn around and say you don’t know who Octavia Butler is or that you haven’t read any NK Jemisin just kills me! I’m not saying you HAVE to enjoy specific books but there is such an obvious pattern here

Some of y’all love marginalized stories but you don’t give a fuck about marginalized creators and characters, and it shows. Like damn

[yagikidd57]

When people say acephobia doesn’t happen in the queer community😒

[spitblaze]

you guys gotta stop shipping 30-year-old men and calling it old man yaoi. 30 is really not old. thats just man yaoi

[athenes-o-w-l]

it's amazing to me how, upon telling someone something they have done hurt you, their immediate reaction is to excuse it, rather than apologise. yes, give me your perspective so we can better understand each other...but you still hurt me??

[traumatizeddfox]

“but it wasn’t that bad”

did it hurt? did you feel scared? unsafe? were you embarrassed? humiliated? terrified? did you feel confused on why? does it keep you up at night? do you avoid being in a similar situation? did you cry? did you want to cry? who told you it wasn’t that bad?

[nyancrimew]

i feel like one of the weirdest realizations you (or at least i) eventually have a few years into transitioning and being mostly around other trans people, is that moment where u notice that like ur brains mapping of like specific voices to specific genders is just kinda gone. like it rly is just all social constructs programmed into u by society, and living outside societies idea of gender just kinda melts that shit away, and it's not just voices, like other traditionally gendered attributes also suddenly don't matter anymore*

*except for myself of course, i am obviously totally failing at being a girl but everyone is doing it perfectly, dysphoria is so awesome lmao