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ngl hdg kinda amazes me in its ability to cater to my kinks pretty much perfectly while simultaneously triggering several of the worst parts of my trauma.
like how is it that it hits on everything i like on the surface, provides semi-decent worldbuilding to back it all up and enable the creation of stories, and even has consistent backstory and stuff, and yet the entire damn thing instills this looming sense of dread and fear that i can't shake enough to properly enjoy it...
below the break im gonna talk in like. moderate detail. about the parts that scare me. so uh yeah be aware that it'll get heavy that's just how it is.
ok, so the worst thing for me. wellness checks. the idea is cute and kinda hot on the surface. "make sure you're okay and if you're not you're getting domesticated" (which is supposed to be like. a happy thing. "now you get to just chill and be happy and get taken care of forever and in return you give me only your submission"). yeah, fuck it, im into that. hell that's not even an uncommon trope in the realm of cnc/mc writing.
except whenever i read an hdg wellness check story (in the sense of those long-ish tumblr posts that people writeâi haven't even really considered reading the longer form content on ao3) there's something viscerally... off... about the tone. it stops feeling like kink and starts feeling like a nightmare when things happen to line up just so, and then it clicks, and reminds me that i knew people, real people, who had "wellness checks" happen in real life, except that instead of it being a kink thing that made them happy and was genuinely for their wellbeing, it was that their parents had hired people to kidnap them and drag them to a psych ward when they just needed a therapist. not all of those people that i knew have come home, as far as im aware. some have been gone for years.
and what about the whole idea of the non-consensual part being okay because "it's for your own good". in hdg-land it is. it's genuinely good for you and everyone seems to be happy with it, other than the occasional "bad guy who hates good things" trope (feralists, in hdg, afaik). but that's exactly what they told me when they cut contact between my boyfriend and i while he was in the hospital. "it's for your own good." guess what, it wasn't. his parents didn't like our relationship. they wanted me to forget him. they either didn't understand or didn't care that i couldn't. it was a year and a half before he came home and i had forgotten nothing.
our loss of communication was the tipping point in a series of events that, had i made one decision differently in the end, would have killed me. thankfully i fucked it up and am here today, no longer in that bad of a place may i add. im choosing not to share any of what happened to me directly right now because i don't want to turn this into a full on trauma dump, but suffice it to say there are recurring themes.
it's so interesting to me because in a lot of ways i have found comfort from those experiences in kink and writing. take flames of averon: mech pilots are neurochemically bonded to their handlers. how different is this from what the affini do to their florets? well, you have to sign up to be a pilot, and there's no authority in the world threatening you if you choose not to. even the coalition military wouldn't dare force you to become a pilot against your will, though they might never stop sending you promotional flyers if they find out you're able to tolerate the cyberware /lh
hell, im into cnc. im really into it. i chose to leave it as an opening between pilots and handlers in foa. the implication exists that if a handler tells their pilot to do something the poor thing will have a hell of a time saying no. that's intentional. it's hot to me, on either end. but the safety comes from other things.
yes, your handler has a lot of influence over you at a level that's hard to imagine, but you chose them and they chose you (most of the time), or at the very least neither of you had any complaints to raise with your supervisor when the paperwork came in for syncing your link chips (holly and astrid from seat of consciousness).
yes it's true, you can't be reassigned now that you're bonded, but that doesn't mean you have zero recourse if your handler is treating you badly. if you need to, you can always file paperwork with your commanding officer to request that something be done.
plus, handlers go through a lot of training, which includes screening to filter out people who would actually harm their pilots. yeah, some handlers are a little sadistic, but when it comes down to it they are on your side. if that wasn't the case they would never have passed pre-basic.
put another way, as a pilot in flames of averon, the closest thing ive ever written to a floret, there are a multitude of points at which you could have said no and didn't, and although that's obviously still noncon in the grand scheme of things, it's "signing away your freedom" cnc compared to the hdg flavor of "you 'consented' via it being the best thing for you whether you like it or not."
even if your handler just told you to "stay" for the first time and you're currently panicking and trying to figure out why your legs won't move, you still have some tiny amount of agencyâan escape hatch, so to speakâand you'll just never end up having to use it.
and to me, the loss of that minute level of agency which will never be invoked is the difference between "this is hot as hell and feels perfectly safe" and "this is the abuse that was once leveraged against those i cared about, and to some degree myself, and it's simply been repackaged with a kink sticker slapped on."
none of this is to say i hate hdg, it's fans, those who write about it, or even the parts of it which scare me. i do think the idea is hot. hdg is pretty cool. hell, it was one of my inspirations in writing a lot of the pilot/handler dynamics in flames of averon. but it does scare me. and no matter what i tell myself i can't shake that fear.
it's frustrating, because oftentimes fear can be part of what makes something hot, but the particular flavor of fear which hdg instills in me is one which makes bitter all that it reaches. maybe someday i'll grow out of it. the traumatic memories from which that fear stems were only created in the past couple of years, to be fair. but something tells me a piece of that fear will never be fully dislodged from my mind.
so, all this to say, while i am into hdg, it's a complicated relationship.
(and on a sillier in character note to lighten the moodâplease feel free to respond to this with roleplay or whatever you like!)
to any Affini out there who might be reading this, know that im not scared of you. im not scared of what you represent. im only scared by the fact that you mimic that which has left the scars you see on my soul today. im not against being taken in as a floret, and none of this is to say that i hold any level of disdain for you.
i only ask that you be gentle with me. what has been broken once can be broken again. please, do not let it come to that.
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Im on my knees as i typing this, I NEED REQUEST THIS TO SOMEONE https://www.tiktok.com/@alecio.sun/photo/7432648182913355014?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7417049009333863944 fic where one day reader mischievously dailing random numbers on phone planning to be prankcall and it connected to blu sniper, they started off small talk and it turned become daily activites calling eachother talking random stuff, how their days been and turned into friends and more idk? I NEED HIM -đââŹ
a/n: PLEASE I'VE SEEN THIS I WAS IN SHAMBLES MY POOR BABY- So yes I will write this because oh my god ;-;
I Just Called to Say, I love you. (BLU! Sniper x Reader)
based on this song (I used to play it all the time in my music class on piano-)
It all started with a random number.
You were bored, and decided to start randomly calling numbers, dialing them just for fun.
You got a lot of no answers, a few people wanting to hold a conversation, pranking a few, a few angry people, but never more than that.
That was until one day, you called him.
At first you were just going prank him and tell him some shitty ass joke, until you heard him actually speak.
âHey..can ya..maybe stay on the line wit me?â
You were confused at first, but you shrugged, whatâs the harm in talking to the fellow? You could tell he had an accent, it was kinda cute. He sounded shy almost, surprised that someone else actually answered him.
âYou know, I didnât expect someone to ever call me.â âHuh? What do you mean?â You asked him, and he went silent for a bit before finally answering.
âSometimes..I stand at the phone, waiting for hours, for someone to call..and you were the first to ever do so.â
You could feel your heart twist. You didnât know why, but you felt drawn to this guy, feeling awful. Everyone should have someone to call home to.
And you wanted to be that person for him.
âHey..Whatâs your name?â âMe?â âYea you. Youïżœïżœre the only person on the other side of the line.â You joked, and that pulled a short chuckle from him.
âMundy.â âMundy? WellâŠIâll be here whenever you need to call, Iâm Y/n.â
He goes silent on the other side for a bit.
âSame time tomorrow?â âOf course.â
â
This started a steady routine between the two of you, like clockwork you would call, and it didnât take him that long to pick up.
You learned he was a mercenary, a Sniper to be exact. You would sometimes hear his teammates in the background, asking him who he was talking to, trying to be nosey and interrupt to which heâd yell at them for.
You explained what you did for work to him, and you sighed. âItâs not as fun compared to your job, I bet you get to travel all the time.â
He chuckles at you, âMaybe, I do have my own camper, I drive alot. Tend to be sent on longer assignments. Thats why iâm late sometimes..â
âOh no itâs okay! I can understand, sniping must be an interesting job though!â âHmm. I guess so.â
He would ask you about your day all the time, excited to hear from you, even if you did something so mundane like laundry.
In reality, he just loved to hear your voice.
It felt so nice to actually have someone on the other end to listen to. He could listen to you read the most boring book in the world and heâd still be there, eagerly waiting for your call.
Thatâs when he realized, you were no longer just a friend that he would call everyday.
He was falling in love with you. And he didnât know how in the world to say it. Hell he was just a stranger that you so happened to call one day! The two of you had just figured out how each other looked after sending letters when he couldnât call one day.
You were beautiful, and he still felt like he didnât deserve you at all.
âMundy? You still there?â
Fuck. He didnât realize he had zoned out, âY-yea..I-âm still âere sheila..Just thinking.â âThinking about what?â You asked and he didnât process his words before they just came spilling out of his mouth.
âHow lucky I am..to get to hear your voice everyday.â
The phone went silent for a while and Sniper got worried as he tried to fumble to find the words to try and reign back the conversation when he heard you begin to giggle.
âWell..Iâm glad to know..you feel the same way I feel about you..â
Sniper could feel the blush trail up on his face and he just knew his ears were bright pink, he hid his face as he leaned closer to the phone as if that would put him closer to you.
âWa-wait? Really?..â he managed to get out. His heart felt like it was doing several backflips at once. He gripped his chest as he waited with bated breath for you next words.
âMhm..I love talking to youâŠJust like..I love you.â
Sniper feels a grin slowly creeps on his face, he starts chuckling as he blushes. You said it. You said it..You loved him. Just as he did you.
âI hope you know, That i have to see you now.â âWell, You have the letter i sent right?â âYea.â âIll be waiting then.â
The call dropped and Sniper felt his lanky body move faster that it ever had before, he quickly went out to his camper and grabbed the letter, he then pulled out his map, seeing that you truly did not live that far, a 2 hour drive was nothing, heâd driven farther for missions. He could use the next cease fire day to go and see-
âYO SNIPES! PHONE!â
Sniper was confused, as he quickly ran back to the phone, snatching it from Scout who only rolled his eyes at him.
â..âello?â âJust calling back to say, I love you~â
I LOVED WRITING THIS SO MUCH MY HEART-
#đâ⏠anonnie <3#nova's anonnies â#tf2 fanfiction#tf2 fandom#tf2 x reader#tf2 fanfic#team fortress 2#team fortress 2 x reader#tf2#team fortress 2 imagines#sniper x reader#tf2 sniper#tf2 sniper x reader#sniper tf2#sniper tf2 x reader#nova's writingsđ»
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home : 1.09 pt1 â jessâs sister.
Youâre not stupid. At least you hope not. You pray youâre not. You knock on their motel door a little less sure of the fact, maybe itâll increase in confidence when you see them.
It doesnât. The second your eyes lock with Samâs half-asleep ones youâre positive your breath hitches just enough that your heart stops beating momentarily. His messy hair, his exhausted expression, the dark bags under his eyes even him still wearing jeans and a shirt.
âHey, you came.â You nod and lean into the hug he pulls you in for. His cologne is palpable, the same one he used to wear in Stanford and itâs comforting for you to know he hasnt thrown the bottle away.
âI came.â You whisper, letting go and stepping inside when he moves to let you in. Deanâs on a bed, looks like heâs sleeping peacefully. You wish you could too but everytime you close your eyes your sister is on the ceiling. Sometimes sheâs calling out for you to help. Other times sheâs telling you that youâre the reason sheâs gone. Your carelessness. You didnât lock the doors. The windows, you were fast, you didnât hear anything, youâ
âYou okay?â Sam pulls you away from the dark thoughts and you nod. âOkay well, Deanâs asleep and I donât think weâll talk much right now, you can catch a few hours.â you nod at the offer, thanking him quietly. You're still in jeans yourself but you don't mind since you're not sure youâll be sleeping.Â
âIâll take the couch.â he stares at you like you just said bruised his ego then shakes his head. ïżœïżœSam, im serious, i dont sleepââ
âVampire?â he jokes half heartedly and you smile.
âI just mean i usually take power naps. Please, sam, just take the bed.â he ends up pulling you on it next to him and youâre not sure why for the first time in months you fall asleep with no nightmares.
Sam doesnt. Sam wakes up suddenly, forcing you out of your sleep, to a nightmare. Youâre shuddering thinking of the fact that you felt that safe in your dead sisterâs boyfriendâs arms.
You pretend youâre asleep until samâs breath gets softer and peel yourself off the bed and to the couch. Theres not much to do at four in the morning so you read, you snoop around for a bit, wonder how much sam would hate you if you opened his bag, and eventually take another nap on the couch.Â
Still no nightmare, you wake up to the sound of Deanâs boots tapping against on the floor. You quickly sit up a little, taking in your surroundings.
ââMorning, sweetheart.â your lips apart, sure you're going to respond like a normal human with âgood morningâ but it doesnât come, you just nod. âWant coffee?â only then do you notice the two paper cups in his hand.
âSure, thanks, Dean.â
âDidnât know what you liked so i got it cream and sugar.â
âItâs good, thatâs how i usually take it.â totally not true, you actually take it with milk but youâre not sure youâre staying long enough for him to have to know that. He smiles at you, taking a seat next to you on the couch. âIâm sorry for showing up so suddenly, Dean.â you mumble before trying the coffee. Itâs not bad, not your usual taste but definitely still enjoyable.
ââS no problem, youâre always welcome with us, i gave you my number so you could call me at anytime.â you canât be held responsible for any of the fluttery feelings in your stomach after that.Â
âI guess⊠i felt like i was slipping, you know? My parentsâ me and jess never talked to them and they didnât even call me when she died, i literally had no one, as pathetic as it sounds. Our dadâs side hates us, my mumâs side is on the opposite side of the world and theyâve been calling me but itâs not the same. Its not fair to do this to you two but i dont now what else to do, i just wish someone would tell me.â you're not certain when the first tear started flowing but your thankful its the only one.
âHey, weâre here for you. Always.â Somehow, you donât believe it.
#Image credit: nmlupin#spn sam winchester#spn dean winchester#dean winchester#jessica moore#supernatural imagine#supernatural#jess moore#Sam winchester#spn 1x09#spn rewatch#spn 1.09#dean winchester x reader#spn20rewatch#Sam Winchester x reader
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A goodbye post I guess?
Hey yall, i wanted to write something about all of this as this may be the last time I talk about this show. Apologies in advance, this will be long and all over the place cause im using this little essay to get it off my chest and help me calm down my anxiety. Strap in, this will be a doozy.
First off, no matter how sad and disappointed we are, letâs please not stoop down to the level of those fans when it comes to voicing our issues with this situation. Please, letâs not harass, call people names, send them threats, etc. we can voice our opinions in an adult way, and although it fucking hurts and it makes us want to shout from the rooftops and call Murphy, Minear and Stark every name in the sun, we need to be grown ups and come out on top of it.
That being said, I want to first acknowledge how fun and cool yall are. We endured A LOT of shit since april and all that bullshit didnât stop you from keeping the positivity going. I applaud you all for that. It has been hard. I came in contact and became friends with some really nice people here and I wouldnât change it for the world. I loved being a part of this fandom and it physically hurts me that this feels like it was all for nothing.
Even though I feel like a fool as well, I hate to see how you are all so sad with this. This wasnât our fault. We were not naive for believing that this storyline couldâve been great. Donât blame yourself for being taken advantage of. Because thatâs what they did. They saw the opportunity to profit from a community and took it. They are the ones in the wrong. They used us for brownie points and then tossed us away like trash the second they got what they wanted. Itâs on them.
What Iâm about to say now will sound hypocritical as Iâm writing this at 2am while trying to cope with an anxiety attack caused by this very show, but what we can take away from this is that unfortunately, we canât rely on tv shows for happiness. Yes, thatâs a bitter pill to swallow, specially in this political climate as we were hoping for some sort of escape from the horrors of the elections. What i took away from this is that I need to (for lack of a better word) touch grass. I need hobbies, I need friends. All things that Iâve been lacking because fandom stuff is easier. I need to find stuff that makes me happy that doesnât depend on outside factors. But also I want to make sure that if a show is all you have, thatâs okay and is even more okay to feel betrayed. I was an absolute mess a few years ago when a show I adored stabbed their fans in the back, but it gets better. You still get angry remembering you were done dirty but I promise that the memories that stick are the positive ones.
I donât wanna go on a deleting spree but I also donât want to be reminded of this hurtful moment as the wound is still fresh, so Iâm deciding to reevaluate some things offline, like I did with previous fandoms, and come back when Iâm ready. I donât think Iâll leave tumblr or never watch/talk about 911 again but I need some time and space from it so I can feel better. I donât want to doom scroll through the tags like I did tonight. What Ryan Murphy, Tim Minear and Oliver Stark did to us was awful, but the best thing I can do is not let these three men influence my mental health. I wonât let a tv show ruin me because itâs not my fault. Itâs not our fault to believe that there were half decent people in the entertainment industry that cares about the portrayal of queer individuals. They will have to sleep at night with that knowledge and deal with the consequences from the BoBs. And if these guys decide to humor the BoBs thatâs their funeral. It would further show they never cared about representation and just wanted to save face after making so many people miserable for simply enjoying a canon ship. I hope they can see the consequences because Iâm not even the target here. Iâm hurt for all the queer men that saw themselves in buck and tommy, that even messaged the actors thanking them for their honest portrayal.
In conclusion, hereâs my goodbye (for now).
Thank you so much bucktommy nation!
Yall are the best,
Love, Lety đ€
#the good thing about writing this while having an anxiety attack is that it took the time for the meds to take effect and now Iâm sleepy#take care of yourselves yall#go outside#do something you enjoy#eat something delicious#donât let this break you#they donât have the right to do this to you#911#lety rambles#bucktommy#tevan#ryan murphy#can go fuck himself idec#oliver stark#tim minear#kinkley#kinley#firepilot#firefly#911 abc#tw mention anxiety
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miss vegas. how do u survive in college. please give me some tips. i am barely hanging on by a thread and it's only my first year. how do u do it. also ilysm.
hi nonnie đ. omg ofc! i used to live on campus, i donât anymore which is way easier for meâ also, donât stress. first year can always be a lot and extremely overwhelming but i got uuuuu !!!!!! love u too
it's a lot of things i wish i knew as my first year LOL. i guess one thing that is probably super basic, donât procrastinate. just get your stuff done so you donât have to worry about it later âïž itâs easier said than done, but trust youâll feel a lot better once you finish your assignments / projects early n on time !!! also, staying up late while working on stuff â donât do that. itâs not good for you, and i always did that eheh. waiting âtill the last minute of 11:59 to finish essays nuh uh. do your stuff as soon as it get assigned, DONT PROCRASTINATE đ«” also, go to all your orientations. do nawt skip them
sleeeeeep. you need lots of sleep, regardless of what year youâre in itâs very important. i wish i knew that as a freshman đđđ. i would stay up all night doin work, especially on the weekends. certified loser nerd. also, set an alarm !!!! if youâre a heavy sleeper like me, set a fuck ton of them !!!! or uh⊠have someone wake you up. i used to oversleep a lot, a way to prevent this is to usually go to sleep earlier than you usually do ( from my experience )
if youâre on campus, have some sort of map / guide so you know where youâre going !!!!! on my first day i literally got lost right away and i barely knew much english so it was even more embarrassing LOL. beeeee prepared !!!! âïž do research on ur school, they should provide those things â also, try to get those things ahead of time before your courses start so you arenât askin random ppl where one of your rooms are. of course, its okay to still get lost anyway. it happens. ask for help if needed but make sure youâre prepared !!!
you donât necessarily need friends to âsurviveâ in college. everyoneâs experience is different, but i found my experience easier by just keepin my circle small đ«. IM NOT SAYING TO BE A LONER, you can have / make friends throughout your years ofc !!! in college, youâll meet the best and worst people of your life. your main priorities should be yourself and your studies â but you come first at the end of the day. friends will always come & go, but eventually youâll stumble across some nice ppl who share the same interests as you !!!
thereâs prob super more important details but for the last thing iâll say thisâ donât let your grades define you đ. it sucks majorly to get bad marks on something, especially if you stayed up countless hours on it, givin it your all. i personally have / had a habit of doing that, but never let it define you. if you truly think you didnât get the right grade for any number of reasons, you can always talk to your prof about it in private. but donât stress ab it !!! always remember you matter first over some exam đ«”
#â°ăĘ Ś
àŁȘ asks.#đ§#everyone's college experience is different â but try to have fun !!!!#make the most of it. you aren't alone. âïž#one step at a time xxx
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I don't think right now I really have a good relationship with any of them tbh I try really hard to connect w ppl but I just don't so I think I'm like ready to move on. Not August though, if u see this August hi ily, would never drop u
#Back to the others đłđłđłđł#i put myself out there and get rejected fairly often#and that is onay#okay#i respect that i love their honesty#it's difficult for them to make time#not like i have all the time in the world EITHER#im okay if i just never talk to them i guess#like. im done#im moving on emotionally#grief and love are very similar emotions unfortunately#it is verrrryy sad and painful oopsies#i am buying melatonin tomorrow for fun#i feel like this is a me problem specifically#like wjo will ever ever care#i mean. I DO. its my problem:) but like#i dont think if i talked about it w them it would matter#i dont think they care about this l#lol#i cannot tell if its my uninclusive habits or what but teehee neglect is hard#i keep seeing yaoi awesome and cute in my recommended tags like STFU PLEASE...NOT NOW HAHAHA#itd be so funny if i dropped one of those in there#qnyways guess whos feeling disinclusive today. smiles.#uninclusive? idk#unclusive#wtf#okay anyways anime boys need to be drawn lalalala#i need to not be limerent
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I really hate how my physical body looks so so so much. unfortunately there isn't much I can do about it.
#ive got fat genetics from both parents families going back generations and ive been trying to lose weight forever#my stupod body likes being fat i can excercise like crazy and eat barely anything and i wont lose anything#i was excercising 2+ hours a day before i got sick and it made me stronger but i.stayed fat. now that im sick im weak and still fat.#and im not the kind of fat anybody can find pretty. if i could somehow not be fat id be decent to look at my face isnt bad#my skin is bad though my skin sucks#in my eyes im disgusting#and its so messed up because i dont think other fat people are gross#but i hate how i look so much that i cant imagine anyone being okay with it#like no matter how kind and understanding and sweet i am to people its never gonna make up for the fact that my body is grossly ugly#and i cant blame anyone for not liking me i get it.#sorry#this is a problem i have#bacause i just usually pretend my body doesnt exist and i wear pretty loose fitting dresses that cover me completely so but#even though i am what i am#sometimes you happen to meet a nice person and they are polite and dont seem disgusted by your existance so then your traitorous brain t#thinks hey maybe this person would be willing to marry us someday if they got to know us. which is so silly becuz theres no way thatd ever#so it makes me sad when i should be happy that a nice person talked to me. yay good job successful friendlyness. but it has to remind me#that i had this expectation from when i was a kid that id marry somone and have at least 3 kids and love my kids and take care of them and#give them everything i needed when i was a kid. and of course that never happened. because i never dated anyone. because people dont just#magically get married out of nowhere. its stupid. so i keep trying to be okay with whatever. but i guess i never stopped wanting a family.#which we know im aroace now so. i need to stop. but my brain is always bothering me about this.#why can't i just accept that no one will ever love me. why cant i be happy that they dont?#ive got cats#someday i will have irl friends again#sorry i think everything would be so much easier if i was just#this isnt a problem with an easy solutiom#i guess im gonna try to do the useless excercises again because at least it will look like im trying even though nothing will change
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havin the weirdest crisis of my life
#this is like. did related so im gonna sound completely uh#whatâs the word. odd and shit for a sec okay? okay#so Iâve been here. hi im cheri silver yknow me for about 20 years total but jay used to front for years when we were in middle school#im not the. original host I guess but Iâve been around since#we were in the early single digits and never left#so im the host right? I existed to go thru the Trauma#but. itâs been my life for so long. my parents donât know Her#theyâve only known me#but like. weâre finally starting to let go of that trauma#errr not let go but make peace with it. and weâve been holding onto it for so long. Iâve been holding on to it for so long#but.. who am I without it? like yes thatâs my trauma but also. is my purpose over?? is that why we havenât been able to draw?#Iâve been the host for 20 years this is my life#my friends my gf my life my hobbies itâs mine not anyone elseâs#I let others take the wheel when I canât (or they forcibly do it for me) and jays been gone for like 3 years he only came back because Iâve#been being traumatized everyday recently. but like. will I have to go too??#reintergration is not really our goal. never has been but like#if we do. will I be here or will She come back? weâve had false alarms before but itâs mostly been decided that itâs my front my life#maybe im just triggered all the time and thatâs why I feel extra out of it#less myself#New Traumas are happening to us everyday#but yeah. I dont talk abt this aspect of my life much but itâs so scary to think about#Iâll talk to Chevy when they get off of work tomorrow abt it if itâs still like. freaking me out#I am me. we are a bunch of niggas but I am me.#did niggas when the identity disorder makes them dissociate smh#đ«
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#periodical life updates#eurgh. hiiii im so tired just got home from the family gathering thing im. exhausted hkjfh. and i still gotta draw the eca#still gonna be quiet for a while sorry gang <3 anyway lets not talk about any of that hdkjf ARTFIGHT THEME REVEAL!!#you'll never guess which team jace ''kellystar321'' starlight is choosing for seafoam vs stardust hfjkh#*gestures at my oc list* but also. what if i dont CARE anymore hfjkhf obviously i want to draw for people! its my favorite part! but like.#GODDD i dont care about my ocs anymore!! :') ive always been more of a fandom guy i dont... /want/ art of my ocs?#like yeah obviously agent my beloved! alexandria my beloved! eca has a whole daily blog! but my actual interest in them is sooo low.#there's so many people on artfight who LOVE their ocs like their children. their ocs are their blorbos!! but my ocs are like nothing to me?#i like fandom characters :'0 i would not be as excited to see art of my characters as someone else would be who actually likes their ocs!!#people should focus more on drawing art for people who CARE about their ocs. because if /I/ don't care about my oc and /YOU/ don't care#about my ocs then WHOS FLYING THE PLANE HJFSD no but theres ZERO ENJOYMENT coming out of it you get me? it doesnt make sense to draw for me#BUT ALSO. for silly ''i dont like seeing them all greyed out/hidden :('' reasons i dont want to archive them and hide them from everyone#/BUT ALSO./ i DON'T WANT ART OF THEM. ATTACK SOMEONE ELSE PLEASE. SOMEONE WHO CARES ABOUT THEIR CHARACTERS hfjkfh urgh.#like hey sorry i dont? care enough about the guys i made up? can you draw reader or kim k!tsuragi instead? thank you. hdjhfg;;;#also ive been. so tired :'> how much will i even be able to do this year? every year i gain more targets to attack because i keep meeting-#new friends all the time. i have some people from lgbt club im attacking this year! my stickmin friends. avm friends. my hell gang hkhg#my hlvrai friends and my longtime mutuals and MY BUREAU OF BALANCE GANG... not to mention revenges from last year :'>#its a lot. and im so tired;;; so. im not sure. i'd still like to join for my 8th year of artfight but damb. i dunno. :'> <3#okay thats all GOTTA DRAW AN ECA GOODBYE I LOVE YOU!!
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It's insane how most of the time I don't get how ppl interact and I also Don't Fucking Care
#vent ig#i wish i could#but unfortunately i havent had the occasion of sharing one of my interest with you in the past three months and when i did it didnt go as i#wanted and now we're supposed to talk through smalltalks except i dont know how to do those so im awkward as hell and unconsciously cut the#short and now im being hated (?) even tho that wasnt my intent#but i guess no matter how trustful i am i just look like a liar#and i cant even bring myself to care bc how am i supposed to explain myself when youre convinced what i say is a lie#we werent even supposed to be this close so sorry if im stiff. i tried to get along but i just cant#the never ending circle between 'i want to have ppl to interact with being alone to experience this world is exhausting and dreadful' and#'im not even remotely interested by any of you'#its different on tumblr bc i can curate my own experience & nobody comes @ me when i dont interact with them for days or weeks (BC IVE GOT#NOTHING TO SAY) and its okay and its normal and we dont have to do the 'hi how are you wyd' script every single time (sure we can check up#on each other once in a while but it doesnt become a script. it feels genuine.)#anyway. im so normal. i can def care about ppl that have never been as insane as me about something we both love(d at some point)#am pretty sure i developed 'i perceived you saying/thinking One(1) bad thing about me and now i dont care at all about your existence' as#a child as a coping mechanism but goddammit i feel like an asshole everytime it happened#i hate feeling apathetic#and i hate lying too so i cant just say shit to reassure them when i dont mean them#cant tell them im sorry about how my behavior is perceived when im so damn tired and would rather they disappear of my life
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I KEEP GETTING RECOMMENDED SO MANY DRAMIONE TWEETS HELP
I don't understand where they're all cOMING FROOMM why do they all HATE ASTORIA WHAT DID MY GIRL DO TO YALL BFFR LEAVE HER ALONE đŁđŁ
#i barely even use twitter man#but i keep getting them pushed towards me WHY#if you ship dramione then good for you idcâŒïžbut i did not ask for all these tweets and why are half of them allergic to respecting astoriađ#the amount of dramione shippers who make astoria an arranged marriage who dies after giving birth and never mention her again is just đđ#im going to scream put some RESPECT ON MY GIRLS NAME#if youre gonna include scorpius in the fic or headcanon or whatever THE ONLY THING I WILL ACCEPT IS THEY HAD A LOVING MEANINGFUL MARRIAGE#âŒïžWHICH THEY DIDâŒïž#and then she dies like canon đđ and draco spends ages grieving BUT ALWAYS KEEPS ASTORIA IN THE PICTYRE TALKS ABOUT HER THINKS ABOUT HER#ESPECIALLH AROUND SCORPIUS THAT IS HIS WHOLE MUM OKAY#SHE IS THE LOVE OF HIS LIFE#and then đđ i guess đđ hes allowed to heal and move on BUT HE STILL BETTER KNOW SHE IS THE LOVE OF HIS LIFE AND SHE WILL BE MENTIONED AT#EVERY POSSIBLE MOMENT đ€șđ€șđ€șđ€ș#i saw one tweet which was like omg arranged marriage astoria she dies rught after giving birth and then HERMIONE SATRTS BABYSITTING!!! đđ#AND THEN SCORPIUS CALLS HER MAMA đ€đ€đ€ AND DRACOS LIKE OMG SO TRUE SHE BASICALLY IS HIS MOTHERR#when i tell you i felt so much rage#AND ASTORIA WAS NOT MENTIONED AT ALL SINCE THE FIRST PART OF ARRANGED MARRIAGE GAVE BIRTH DIED LIKE EXCUSE ME#SHUT UP????????#im still mad can you tell#the treatment of women in hp both canon and fanon tbh is my roman empire i will never not be thinking about it#it makes me so so angry#and all the replies to it were like omg so cute đ„șđ„șđ„șđ„ș hermiones his mum now!#dracos in love now!! đ„șđ„șđ„ș#shut the FUCK UP#i know a lot of it is caused by the fact we know jackshit about astoria because her treatment in canon is not much better but plz đđ#yall made the marauders fandom outta nothing and you cant use a little imagination to make sure astoria isnt just a FUCKING INCUBATOR??#astoria greengrass you deserve so much better babygirl#astoria greengrass#hpcc#im scared to tag draco malfoy the stans might come for me#i am so god awfully sorry about the amount of tags here oh my days
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lovee when ppl who think im cool invite me to hang out bcs i do fun makeup and discover i am the most boring loser ever <3
#the parasite talks#teaching ppl not to have expectations abt anyone#or just making them never invite me again i guess#but it's fine#they also say how weird i look without my makeup#like... thanks i guess đ§ââïž#im usually okay with ppl calling me weird it's just that i know we dont have the same definition of it
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We got koby today.... tashigi could cut the hand like zoro did in dressrosa but we got koby today....
#they blew helmeppo up!!! damn.... rip helmeppo#couldn't garp pull these moves in marineford like damn#<- constant complaint even if there are justifiable reasons#idc what happened he should have stepped up!!!#like okay good for this guy with the green hair who just appeared saving the people on the ship#but like tashigi (and the other two FEMALE marine officers <- i think thats an important remark) is there too...#she never gets time to shine and now is waiting with the others to be saved. come on now....#the baby and old man lesson paralel is a slay im gonna give them that#KUZAN FUCKING IMPALED GARP??????#damn. now i guess the party is going to get started#in egghead at least#tashigi gets me up the walls honestly. i believe zoro didnt get more story in wano simply bc she wasnt there and his arc evolves#with hers because obviously it fucking does. they got something in punk hazard but again tashigi loses for zoro's development#and i do not want that. but otherwise tashigi goes nowhere every time she appears. since arabasta when she declares shes goint#to get stronger practically nothing has happened or wr havent been shown how she achieved that and now we get koby development in one ep#like can i get some spare change for tashigi.... crumbs.... something....#bc how can she win??? literally how. if her path to what she wants is blocked by two swordsmen at least. and as a captian in the marines by#fucking koby. what is going on with her??#idk what im saying anymore but yeah. tashigi please#i dont care about koby i get him as a character but it i do not care about him#like maybe i care more about garp bc i can hate him so much akdjakak and i do enjoy him as a character i get him. but koby?? idc#talking tag#watching one piece#episode 1122#also relating to the post text i get how the plot is to paralel koby to garp but..... tashigi could have done something... anything at all
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;~; (tags vent)
#i feel so lonely and i dont know how to fix it#im trying to engage with people. im trying ot take space. im trying but nothing is helping#and like im hormonal so i wanna cry about it today#and like this loneliness isnt for one reason only#there's no One Thing#but so so many things making me feel like i cant connect#and even wiht making progress and even with coping and even with reminidng myself its okay to just feel bad sometimes like#i want company. i dont want online company i want irl company. i want friends. and im so miserable about the fact that i struggle to#make irl friends - not bc im not a good friend!! honestly tehre's been plenty of opportunities for me to make friends is the worst part#between work; disabilities; energy; and like interests/things to talk about its really hard to make friends (and tbh the first three-#really are the biggest drains). and i love my online friends i do i jsut. miss them all so much when i talk too much and then it hurts more#and i lost a friend group recently so im feelng really out of place#nearly everyday for the last idk. 5 months i had a group of people going âhey. love youâ (even if they didnt say it verbatim daily) and lik#im so sad! and the feelings are coming out today ig cause i havenothing to do at work so im just. here#but yeah - ik part of this grief im experiencing is YET AGAIN experiencing change and loss re:friendships bc of things largely out of my#control /: and every time this happens it just brings up every single wound#im talking with my therapist about it too i just. wish friends were more permanent in my life yk?#or at least that i had friends irl still /: but all my deepest connections are all So far away#and it hurts so much to miss ppl rn im just. isolating myself#but i dont awnt to TALK. i dont want to TEXT. i dont want to hang out on a vc. i awnt to be held and loved and just talked to about anythin#other than the stresses in peoples lives. i want people to infodump to me w/o me having to Beg or Engage Correctly#i want people to tell me about themselves. jsut fucking lore dump in my inbox. its not dumping. i dont care about trauma dumping. if you do#cw i guess i jsut. im so tired. im tired of the âhaiiiiii love you!!!!!â i have to do over the keyboard to have social connections#im tired of being so disabled i cant make friends bc no one wants to be friends w/ me irl and all the reasons (âur a flakeâ âu cancel plans#âu never want to go outâ âu never have energyâ âwhy do you disappear when you need to recharge it makes me feel bad?â etc etc etc) all#relate to me being disabled and like.i feel like the problem. my existence is a problem. and the worst part is all iwant to do is just.#go run errands with someone. do important tasks &get a little treat to celebrate after. go to the doctor. the hospital. wherever im allowed#i want ot be a PERSON#): i jsut miss my friends#and liek im going to a thing later this month to try and make friends irl even if its just exercise friends
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also uh im kind of not thinking about it much because its insane. but if everything goes right (and i mean a considerable amount of things that probably wont go as planned) but if they DO... i will have a major surgery in like two weeks
#vertical sleeve gastrectomy to be exact insert nerd emoji here#i might document a lot of whats going on with it and even take some videos honestly#not to share here other than some oversharing text posts about probably constipation LMAO#but like no one shares whats it like to be mentally ill and go thru vsg and like the process and not many people as young as me get it#feels weird calling myself young on the chronically 13 year old website#but anyone that does post about it posts for like a year and then falls off the face of the earth#genuinely there are so many youtubers that start talking about this stuff#then you find their channel three years deserted and its like man.#i sure hope this means you found better ways to spend your time#and like okay time to get sappy and corny as hell in the notes so go ahead and skip this part idk who even reads my notes hello#but basically everyones that gets this shit is like you gotta find your why#and most of them have kids or like a husband or plans to travel the world or do better at their job#and none of those things really apply to me#i kind of have the perfect storm for being fat#i dont do anything work wise that encourages any kind of movement#im chronically afraid of planes and i cant afford that shit anyways rn#also not very good at romance LOL and never want kids and my entire family is also fat barring my brother#thats not to absolve myself of any of the blame for this shit either like i know i put myself in this situation#i just think like wow my life is pretty much perfect for staying fat but i DONT WANT THAT#I want the highlight of my week to be more than eating takeout man#i want to live life instead of meal to meal to something better#idk what yet maybe jewelery piece to jewelery piece#i could do some serious kandi making while im down for the count#but i dunno man my therapist tells me that in order to feel like a person and not get tired of life i have to do people things and#participate in life yknow?#and its hard to do things like go to the gym talk to people explore fashion styles when i have this overloomingness of being fat#so i guess that could be my why? like i want to experience more of life#i want to be able to walk in a mall and look at all the stores. i want to walk in a mall period. cause it fucking hurts the way i am now#thats all to say the actual âwhyâ that i have is Goddamn it i want to be able to jump from a swing#and not break my fucking ankles
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oooooo dreading my birthday next month.... but not because of what one might think!
#im not scared of aging. if anything im very excited to be older... but i am scared of this upcoming one cause idk what to Do really#i dont vent here often but some people ik irl follow me on my twt priv and i dont want them to think im talking about them bc im not#but ngl im scared of being. alone? when i turn 21? i guess thats the best way to put it#i never really liked celebrating my bdays because its just a reminder of how much control my family assumes over my life#on bdays im not allowed to hang out with my friends or do what i want without my family. this year in particular is just harrowing tbh#cause this time i have people irl who call me their friend but then they constantly disrespect me! ack!!#ive been awfully depressed lately because of it tbh. but the people who do genuinely respect me are so sweet it makes me want to cry#a couple of them said they wanna arrange something so that we could hang out!! like!! you stop that or im gonna cry!!!!#help im just rambling at this point but yeah... itll be okay. i just need to think about it a bit more#im turning 21 its about time i take the reins of my life yknow
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