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spartalabouche · 5 months ago

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sometimes its really obvious how much people dont actually believe presentation=/=gender when they see their nonbinary friend go from extremely masculine to relaxing back into femininity once theyre comfortable with their gender and every time they call it detransitioning with zero indication thats what their friend is calling it. i dont know how to tell you this but sometimes you present a certain way for social reasons and not because thats how you actually feel. sometimes you experience dysphoria about your body that is actually related to how people view you and not how you feel about your body. i really dont think its that uncommon for trans people to swing really hard in one direction for the affirmation and then relax back into a different presentation once they are more comfortable in their gender

#txt #gekkering #idk how to word this but genuinely if you see your friend growing more comfortable in their body and presentation and assume theyre detransi #tioning without them telling you that you should be ashamed and i hope your friend finds someone who is more accepting of experiences they d #dont personally relate to #butch trans women exist femme trans men exist and very masculine AND very feminine nonbinary people exist #i hated my body most of all when i focused on how other people view me. and before anyone accuses me of anything not that you need to but i #do have other dysphoria but its not NEARLY as severe as when i was younger and was obsessed with how other people gendered me #and if that does still bother you thats okay im not saying people who arent bothered by being misgendered are unreasonable or should get ove #r it or anything #but THATS why sometimes your dysphoria from when you first came out can drastically contradict the way you present later in life #such as transmasc people no longer wanting to bind or transfem people no longer wanting to tuck

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s4ndg3m · 8 months ago

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hear me out on scag x split guys. they both start with "s" it's practically canon.

#labyposting #yes i know split x bive but guys we have other women for the both of them. let's explore!!!#don't bully me on my wheelchair drawing skills i have both never drawn one and also attempted a mashup for it so. no real accurate refs #i also couldn't think of how to attach the claw prosthetic to scag's arm so we got tha arm warmerrrrrrrrrrrrr.#probs will change it at some point cus i don't like it. sigh. more references and studies.#not enough time for that now though i must create lesbians #futch4butch my beloved...#they would be so awesome together guys do you have any idea. DO YOU GUYS EVEN KNOW??!???!?!??!#someone ask me about them i want to think about their relationship more but im stuggling with ideas. of what to think.#somebody else ship this with me also. i need a friend in these lonely and trying times #cleft lip gamer electric wheelchair butch nonbinary lesbian IT worker and shop owner scag for the win #oh my gooddddd someone PLEAASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE #my newest freshest brainrot born straight out of my mind. i'm not going to stop thinking about this.#i want what they have.#ok now i will actually put tags #soz guys i got a little carried away #labyart #my art #regretevator #regretevator roblox #roblox regretevator #regretevator fanart #regretevator art #roblox #roblox art #roblox fanart #fanart #regretevator split #split regretevator #split

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spitefulfemme · 8 months ago

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when i am upset i think about how one day i will be getting soothed to sleep by a pretty girl/person i'll get to call my girlfriend/partner in a cozy apartment that we've made a home out of and that is enough for me to fall asleep to.

- this post was made by a minor, mdni accs dni!

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theygender · 8 days ago

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Just discovered the term les4les. Are we really trying to make biphobia cool again

#it was on a blog with sapphic in the username too 🙃 but les4les in their about and tagged on every one of their posts #like you realize sapphic includes bisexual women right?#went to the tag just to make sure i wasnt insane and half the posts were also tagged with wlw #like you realize that ALSO includes bisexual women right??#some dumbass was like 'the discourse around les4les is insane how come we cant say that but bisexuals can talk about #how they wont ever date women' like ??? where are all these mythical bisexual women who hate dating women #someone else was bragging about being gold star #what the hell is happening. is this 2014? we're returning to 'women who date/have dated men are tainted by them' discourse #but this time asking people to pretend its not hateful #and also reappropriating all the terms we created specifically to build community between lesbians and bi/pan women?#(bc of course none of them even acknowledged the existence of pansexuality as a label either)#first blog was also like 'i need butch mutuals 🥺 why do no butches follow me 🥺'#well idk about any other butches but IM not going to follow anyone whos biphobic to my friends and partners #and as someone who identified as 'old fashioned' they should EXPECT me to protect my femmes anyway right?#anyway. probably shouldnt even bother posting this but that was such a stupid thing to wake up to #rambling

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hauntingblue · 2 months ago

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Rewatching act 2.... yeah ISHA WATCH OUT FOR THE CYCLE ISHA!!!!! NOOOOO

#ambessa setting up the logs on a fireplace while literally adding fuel to the fire with cailtyn... subtelty #silco spent his whole life trying to rile the undercity together STUPID JOKE THAT IT IS you have the chance to pull it off #isha is the true revolutionary after all... jinx get up to her level #was jinx scared of having hallucinations when the girl she released was gonna touch her shoulder??? and then she didn't #what i find really funny is that warwick knows how to use elevators and that funicular to the prison #also there is a lot of blood when he appears in the prison.... it was surprising #vander recognizing jinx with the name of powder after she complained about it eariler its just crazy crazy crazy #people commenting that its unrealistic how caitlyn bests vi when they meet in episode 6 as if there wasn't a montage about how she lost her #edge because of alcohol and living like shit.... she's not like jinx lmao....#rewatching so recently is so weird i imagine it is as close as being dr manhattan as i can get it is literally happening all at once #also the people of piltover are so dumb... lets let the government implement martial law and put this 20 something with 0 political #experience on charge with the army of this outsider agent. alright. i can tell you guys dont vote in this oligarchy you know fuck all #well i guess in that case it isnt the people of piltovers fault... just the important families that contribute in this oligarchy...#putting count fagula in charge.... salo is speciallt dumb but we all knew that #katie leung needs awards btw.... and interviews #“do not test this or you will yearn for caitlyn's dungeons” be careful singed my friend vi fell for that and look at her... her dungeons...#vander reaching for isha not jinx.... OR VI.... she just stopped him #“hes gonna kill you” and vi fighting vander to protect jinx.... yeah #and then she trusts jinx and the beast turns into vander... he serves as a recognizing tool for their true selves...#their mom being so worried about how to name vi and then names the second one POWDER kahdksjsk never not funny... also the barber of zaun #when vi joins with jayce she unlocks this loser flop aspect of her mother's inheritance.... two losers joining to maximize their joint flop #also vander kinda giving up this promise to protect the girls instead of bettering zaun... how it puts him in a standstill bc it's either or #like damn there is nothing as undoing as a daughter for reals. she didnt experience that bc she died so now vander has to and here we are #episide 6 starts with the end of the episode when viktor drops that metal piece..... hello..... is this anything #“do you think this place could work” underground utopia.... DYNASTIES AND DYSTOPIA FEAR IS NEVER AN OPTION SO DYING'S NOT A REAL PROBLEM #didnt ambessa suspect anything when they spent loke a full minite staring at each other 😭😭 she's lost her edge...#just like when she clocked sevika but not jinx... when there's a strong butch in the area her radar gets jammed up #and caitlyn leaving her weapon behind... ambessa thought she was gonna fistfight warwick or something #the metal thing falling when viktor dies repeats THREE TIMES WHAT DOES THAT MEAN #watching arcane season 2

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gorespawn · 7 months ago

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also while we're here i would like to share the two iterations of tumblr user gorespawn that have existed since i abandoned this blog back in like early 2021. Who wants me

#i grew my hair out so i could twirl my hair while giggling about bald men #and also t.o.p of bigbang #and short men i see at the grocery store who honestly make me feel light-headed with raw and unbridled Want #but that's just a joke. i am. Lesbian #''no ur not'' I AM #anyway i used to be so ripped and hunky but now i am frail and sickly #what getting a job can do to a mf #thankfully i quit my job last week YIPPIIIEEEEEEE so now i will work towards becoming an absolute hunk again #wish me luck #ALSO #if anyone is obsessed with me and remembers all my lore i used to be transgender and i still am like lowkey on the down low #but in a new exciting way #anyway i used to be a gay man and then a stone butch dyke (as seen above) but now im practicing being a girl #it is very difficult but it is also fun. ive never been a girl before so it's a lot #anyway i bought two super cool sexy dresses yesterday for the first time ever in my life #sexy dresses meaning up to my neck and down to my feet and past my elbows. kind of like a wardrobe straight out of the handmaid's tale #from (to quote my friend) ''*The* old lady store'' thanks man. well i think theyre pretty and its v exciting bc ive never been a girl befor #anyway #who wants me #i still use the name emil online btw and i honestly always will i think it's just so me and also i do still answer to he/him dw #in a man way not in a he/him lesbian way #''he's LGBTQA+'' what. all at once?#yes.#i have mastered them all i have collected all the genders and all the sexualities and ive never been ''wrong''#it just keeps switching. which is fine. well im a girl now. in a detransitioning man way. who is insanely attracted to men #but you will have to tear this lesbian label out of my cold dead hands #''you can't call urself lesbian if u have sex w men'' well first of all fuck you and second of all i am celibate so you dont need to worry #''what the hell are you talking about'' nothing. now look how hot i am #im just joking around i hope that's fine w y'all

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mycological-mariner · 23 days ago

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“God why do I feel so stressed and tired all the time?”

*has 15 different things going on at once, none of which are related

#okay maybe FIFTEEN #but I’m working on my own research project #while also being in 3 films #while also volunteering at a museum and an archive #while also creating and selling my artwork #while also helping my friend with his research project #while also trying to get these fiction pieces out there #while ALSO trying to work out the logistics of getting a motorised sledge across the country without a car #(tbf that’s easy — assemble at chosen point and disassemble for transport)#while also trying to make sure I have things like food. and rent money. and that I eat the food. and pay the rent money #I feel like a squirrel in a blender #LETS FUCKING GO WE BALL AT DAWN #I blame Antarctic history for at least 1/3 of the reasons I’m so all over the place #the rest is 100% on me #(oh Christ u just remembered the two auditions I’ve been called back for AAAAAAH)#I also need to sign up to do some HEMA courses since it’s been a while. and I need to keep that up to date #and my first aid certificate…. fuck me #I just wanna play the banjo and smoke bad cigarettes and badly flirt with butch ladies

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yourgamemasterthewhiterabbit · 4 months ago

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Of my 2% capacity to be attracted to anyone, my type is like 90% women, 5% pretty men and 5% men you would swear are super fucking manly, and never questioned being straight and cis, but are now suddenly *stressed* that they can't figure out why their attraction to me [fully socially interpreted as a woman and labelled that way up until relatively recently] feels incredibly fucking gay

#you are a straight man correct? Yes. Attracted to someone you view as a woman correct? Yes... But you are afraid that makes you gay?#Afraid is a strong word but also stop asking stupid questions #The end result is I tend to date a lot of men who either then realize they are women or bi or gay and I am there when they are taking out #the messiest parts of that on whoever they are with at the time #and on one hand it means I created a space that made them feel safe enough to self examine #but on the other hand I'm their last stop when the fallout hits #OR they just realize they find the expectations put on them for masculinity to be really oppressive even negligent or abusive #I would say I need to adjust my strategy and stop trying to 'woo' men the same way I don't actually -flirt- with women #but I have already solved this problem by refusing to date ever again #The retrospective is funny though #The problem is I am attracted to men in a gay way and to women in a gay way but no one tells you the consequence of that and looking #like a pretty butch is that it really confuses the straight guys #Like why is this guy who's usually hmmm... as dom and masc as you would imagine suddenly in my lap and red and having entire feelings #about the way I am holding his hip? He doesn't knoww either and he's really pressed about it #And that thing messy lesbians do where they act jealous of you and also like they want to fuck you at the same time that looks like a red #flag from hell? Imagine dragging that out of unsuspecting straight guys -menTM-#They don't know why they are acting like that around me either but it's going to go one of two ways #either it will seem overtly threatening and aggressive to everyone involved including themselves or they'll have enough social sense #and tact to be playful about it but still not be sure if they are flirting or whether they like me at all #I have patience for one of those and unfortunately[?] it's the guy who's in my lap looks like he's being tortured and can't find his footin #not the guy telling me how much he's going to beat my ass at some game and I am going to like it or some macho bullshit #And I will be oblivious for the first 50% of it #because if there are gods they are cruel #He never realized he's actually the little spoon be nice and give him a minute #He can't tell me he likes me if he doesn't know he likes me but I opened a jar for him and asked him about his feelings and now he's warm #I actually ended up never dating many women at all because of weird lesbian mixed signals and things #At least not while they were women #I don't flirt or make friends I just decide that people are mine and start taking care of them [while respecting their autonomy and shit]#and I am starting to think this is how I make problems for myself #yes I am playing 5-d chess with gender and am now a he/they but it is not what it is cracked up to be

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infraredss · 5 months ago

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absolutely fucked that i can't go into the hairdressers and just say "lesbian" and have them immediately understand what i want

#lesbian #butch lesbian #shitpost #i might be getting my hair cut in a couple of days. it's too long now #by that i mean slightly past my jaw #but how do i explain to the likely decently older hairdresser that the haircut should give me approximate #introverted kid who plays Minecraft vibes but in the lesbian sense of the word. like i guess the closest to my vision is pixie cut #but im really gonna need that Minecraft creeper waterbottle to complete the look #between the haircut and my rounder features and my height i get asked if im 12-14 way more than i want to #literally sometimes on a weekly basis btw #but idc if i look like a 12 year old boy. do you know how much i like Minecraft #not in the cottagecore way #my ex would be out most of the day mining and i would be building the most efficient farm possible. every day.#but also looking like a 12 year old boy is probably why i dont have a girlfriend #and because i mention my ex a lot but i cant help it that was 4.5 years of my life and hes one of my best friends still #lesbian stereotypes 101. friends with all my exes

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wewerebornsextuplets · 4 months ago

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thinking about the kiru and kara dynamic again. in particular karas view of her is very amusing to me

#larry time #to start out he views her as like. a glamorized version of how she portrays herself/wants to be seen #kiru likes to be seen as reliable and 'safe'#strong. unoffending and unassuming. calm and collected and the kind of person you'd like to ask for help #when they first meet kara sees her as this And a manifestation of his sort of ideal of masculinity. butches always winning etc etc #of course her dressing like (a classy and tasteful version of) the models in his magazines certainly adds to this #kara is also observably the kind of person who likes to help others. albeit because he likes praise and looking like a good person #so i think he would offer help to kiru quite often and do silly little tasks for her (esp. when she's still in college) to look good #BUT luckily for him unlike his brothers kiru is actually very appreciative of this #she's the kind of person who would drive herself to the ER because she didn't wanna bother anyone. like #egregiously independent and she has been since kennys death. she doesn't expect help so when she Does receive it she's very appreciative #this obviously only inflates karas ego further. but over time as they became close friends it becomes more genuine #especially after she starts helping him with learning english and other miscellaneous stuff #and even more so when he finds out about everything she went through before #that paired with kiru picking up the nickname of 'appi' (which is kiiind of a regional version of 'aniki')#just really gets to him. hes the second biggest offender of the moefication of kirumi nikuya #(guess who the biggest is. bet you can't)#so he goes from thinking of her as super cool + suave to like Ah. i need to protect you.. (loses at arm wrestling against her in 2 seconds)#ANYWAYS. im done rambling

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starzwithapen · 1 year ago

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Dawn Dory is that one lesbian homo-erotic relationship you have with your best friend that ends terribly because you got too attached and she has commitment issues and "doesn't like you that way" despite treating you like a girlfriend the past 3 years and she dips out on you except they're both like . Grown ass women

#sorry john dory is a butch lesbian 2 me i cant see her any other way #delta dory is toxic yuri . i need everyone to see my vision #JD the type to go “we're just friends idk why u're so worked up about this” then turn around and introduce u to her family as one of her ow #im aromantic andnone of what i wrote is real to me btw . literally just for the sake of fictional angst nonsense #do i tag this ..... is this too niche #dawn dory #thats theirship name right #starztalks

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wowieeitsisa · 23 days ago

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TenGolf is one of those awesome ships I get to project into and it’s really fun

^ This is THE dynamic ever

#IsaSpeaks #something about Tennis Ball isn’t straight AND neither cisgender #gb is low key cisgender 2 me tho #the only reason i don’t 100% project lmao #anyway #aromantic gb who makes an extremely well calculated list of possible contestants she finds suitable to date #girls are added; tb? is not #AND BRO KNOWS IT #2 me; tb is that guy friend who gets a crush on his girl best friend and is scared shitless to ruin the friendship #my vision is awesome #they’re queerplatonic partners #it’s just they never discussed about it <\3 #AND are blind to the possibility #tb is the only fuck ass object gb would be willing to spend her LIFE with #she doesn’t need to worry about this type of stuff with him ! that’s her best friend! lab partner! GET THE VISION NOWWWWW #DO I EVEN NEED TO RAMBLE MORE? DO I NEED TO OFFER BUTCH TB?#SHAKING YOU BY THE SHOULDERS OH MY GODDDD

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marblecakemix · 11 months ago

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Fuck it, I'll spend all my free time developing my own story about medieval lesbians that has nothing to do with anything productive I want to do in the future. I'll make it for the sake of my insanity.

Time to read those historical five books about Anglo-Saxons and the wars between them and Nordic people.

#talk tag #my post #i do have majority of the story in my head but i lack the historical record to make it justice #good thing i have a friend who is studying history and now i have everything i need to learn #shy butch viking x oppressed noble lesbian coming hopefully soon #i already have couple of songs for animatics #I feel so much for them #if i can't have my women just how i like them I'm going to make them myself #actually lesbian #lesbians #wlw #my stuff

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mashmouths · 3 months ago

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does anybody wanna come over and cut my hair

#i don't trust myself not to fuck up the back bc now shaping and evenness is important? unlike when it was long as hell and you couldn't tell #-_-#i need to book a haircut appointment but 1) i don't want to 2) expensiveeeeeee so fucking expensive 3) no time 4) i do not Want To #all my gay friends moved away Right after i cut it....... when the world needed them most they vanished..................#it could be a bonding experience like that comic about butches and getting the affectionate touch you need #where's that comic actually i love her #a post

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theloveinc · 1 year ago

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i love u bakugo katsuki😔🫶🏻 my pookie bear … my baby😩

#I’m going insane #dreamt of him and we touched so much #I can’t even write abt him bc I just want to live with him and marry him and be in a relationship with #I literally could dine on him I want him so badly #I honestly think not have a date friend right now is driving me insane I truly do #I just need a man whos my type or any butch woman please #anyway uhhhhhhhhhh #finished unwind I am so ☹️😢#it’s an amazing book but so f*cked #it’s funny those ya novels… they’re so quick to read but some of those old ones really knocked it out of the park #WAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH #caitie blabs

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hexados-on-a-string · 1 year ago

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before i go back into hibernation again. spectra and gus' mechtanium surge designs >>>>>>>>>>> their new vestroia designs. i think they're just cooler and less messy and all over the place. i also appreciate that it does actually look like they're older which is neat. also i think gus looks kinda like a prince.

#i will say. spectra's ms outfit IS one of the gayest outfits ive ever seen.#no i wont explain. he just looks gayer. thats all u need to know.#i like to think their outfits are more coherent and better looking bc they got their lives together #nv spectra is iconic but there's just so much going on. and gus' orange coat in nv is. kinda ugly ngl #i love gus but that coat was atrocious #also the purple on spectra's ms mask makes it looks like he has eyeshadow im not the only one who sees that right #ive said this before but the funniest thing is seeing everyone in ms wearing regular clothes #and then spectra's overdramatic goth ass shows up. i love him.#like at least in nv when he was w the brawlers he took the mask and coat off. he doesn't do that in ms. at all.#id say that its like when a straight friend group has a token gay friend but like.#look me dead in the eyes and tell me that any brawler is straight. u cant. its impossible. none of them are. they told me.#i do like mira's nv design more but mostly bc im mildly annoyed they made her more femme. they should've made her more butch methinks.

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