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I saw a TikTok the other day with several million likes that said something along the lines of “my little sister is a therian and wearing cat ears to school and im so scared for her” and like. Weird video obviously but what really did me in was a comment that said “my younger sister was also a therian, im glad I bullied her out of it, it was for her own good :(“ and it had like several thousand likes. are you people okay. that is such a miserable way of living your life. bullying someone out of doing something is already disgusting but for it to be your younger sister, someone who looks up to you? and for what? because you’re afraid they might get bullied? congratulations! you’ve just become their first bully! you have just mocked and scared them out of a passion or something that brings them joy most likely because YOU’RE embarrassed. what an awful way to live and treat others

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need a fem girlfriend to apply my lipgloss for me by putting it on her lips first and then kissing mine for me. i think that's the only correct way to apply it tbh.

- this post was made by a minor, mdni accs dni.

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if caitvi find their way back to each other during season 2 then surely there is hope for me 😇

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on tiktok

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Reblog if your blog is a safe space for LGBTQIIA+

Lesbian

Gay

Bisexual

Transgender

Queer

Intersex

Italian

Asexual

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dont think about how agatha all along could be considered as a queer allegory. dont think about how agathas mom telling her shes born evil is the exact same thing so many parents have told their children after they came out. dont think about how lilia hating the witch stereotypes is the same way queer people who dont fit typical lgbtq stereotypes feel. dont think about how when lilia said i loved being a witch after so much time spent hating it is how queer people feel when they can finally appreciate and accept and love who they are.

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“Butch is a trickster gender—and so, in a similar way, is femme. Lesbian gender expressions do not emulate heteropatriarchy, they subvert it. Femme removes femininity from the discursive shadow of masculinity and thereby strips from it any connotation of subordination or inferiority. Butch takes markers of “masculinity” and divests them of their association with maleness or manhood. Butchness works against the gender binary—the masculine/feminine paradigm—and reclaims for women the full breadth of possibilities when it comes to gender expression.”

— Caroline Narby, “On My Butchness” (The Toast)

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my brain: sevika is one of the most impressive characters to exist in all of fiction. from her character design to how her choices are used to depict her strongest quality as a character. she showcased arguably the strongest emotional restraint out of all the characters. i cannot get over how well sevika is written to be confident and not proud. her "no beating around the bush" attitude serves for great dialouge that is so engaging. she has the capability to be vulnerable and heartfelt around someone she respects, which is something writer's struggle to make feel genuine and natural. she is imposing on screen but there is also a weight of tiredness to her. all this and more within 15 minutes of screentime.

my mouth: sevika hot lady

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I love you gender non conforming lesbians love you forever and ever.

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you can love a character and still admit when they're wrong. i love sevika but i acknowledge her flaws (she doesn't have any) and i can hold her accountable for her wrongdoings (she has never done anything wrong in her life) and call her out on her actions (which are always right) <3

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A rambling comic I made in class instead of paying attention

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manhandling is OUT

dykehandling is IN

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Being stone can simply mean that you won't ever be penetrated, or that you won't ever penetrate someone else, but it can also mean:

"I'm ok with receiving oral sex, but I do not want to be penetrated."

"I do not want to receive oral sex, but I do like to wear a strap and have that played with/sucked, etc."

"I do not want anyone (other than me/not even me) to touch me from the waist down."

"I'm ok with having my breasts/chest touched, but not my vagina/hole/cock/t-dick/strap."

"I'm dysphoric about my breasts/chest and would rather no one touched with it."

"It takes time for me to warm up to someone, and until then, I do not want any part of my body touched. Period."

"I'm ok with using certain toys to stimulate certain parts of my body, but I'd rather no one touched me in those same ways."

"I'm ok with performing oral sex on someone else, but am not comfortable with penetrating them."

"I'm ok with being penetrated, but do not want to perform oral sex on someone else."

"I'm ok with touching another's breasts/chest, but would rather not touch them below the waist."

You can learn and build the boundaries that will better work for yourself. You can communicate those boundaries to a partner. Those boundaries are valid, they should be respected, and they do not make you any less worthy of being listened to, in a space where you feel safe to change your mind, say no at any time knowing your partner will immediately stop.

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running her a bath. warming her towel in the dryer so it's warm when she gets out. getting us both water and protein bars when she's too boneless to leave the bed after fucking me relentlessly. warm wash cloth to clean her thighs and fingers, kisses to her hairline, soft scratches up and down her back; giggling together about how desperate we were. I'll do her laundry, I'll set her shoes by the door. packing her lunch for work- making sure there's something crunchy. water reminders, medicine reminders, brushing our teeth together so that we brush them at all. head scratches lulling her back to sleep after she woke me hesitantly, 'i had a nightmare.' what is a chivalrous, loverboy butch without her equally devout femme? I'll grow old with you, baby, and you never have to worry.

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tgirl dick <3

tgirl pussy <3

tgirl tits <3

tgirl chest <3

tgirl ass <3

tgirl tummy <3

tgirl thighs <3

tgirls <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

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hello 13 year old girl, don’t count your calories. don’t do it. it WILL permanently fuck up your relationship with food and follow you for the rest of your life. don’t listen to the instagram healthfluencer, their livelihood depends on your misery, don’t let them win. eat the cake eat the pasta enjoy your teens and your weird ever changing body and mind.