#(bc of course none of them even acknowledged the existence of pansexuality as a label either)
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Just discovered the term les4les. Are we really trying to make biphobia cool again
#it was on a blog with sapphic in the username too đ but les4les in their about and tagged on every one of their posts#like you realize sapphic includes bisexual women right?#went to the tag just to make sure i wasnt insane and half the posts were also tagged with wlw#like you realize that ALSO includes bisexual women right??#some dumbass was like 'the discourse around les4les is insane how come we cant say that but bisexuals can talk about#how they wont ever date women' like ??? where are all these mythical bisexual women who hate dating women#someone else was bragging about being gold star#what the hell is happening. is this 2014? we're returning to 'women who date/have dated men are tainted by them' discourse#but this time asking people to pretend its not hateful#and also reappropriating all the terms we created specifically to build community between lesbians and bi/pan women?#(bc of course none of them even acknowledged the existence of pansexuality as a label either)#first blog was also like 'i need butch mutuals đ„ș why do no butches follow me đ„ș'#well idk about any other butches but IM not going to follow anyone whos biphobic to my friends and partners#and as someone who identified as 'old fashioned' they should EXPECT me to protect my femmes anyway right?#anyway. probably shouldnt even bother posting this but that was such a stupid thing to wake up to#rambling
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   â maybe the journey isnât so much about becoming anything.          maybe itâs about unbecoming everything that isnât really you,          so you can be who you were meant to be in the first place.
GENERAL INFO
full name: choi jihye.
nickname(s): jinnie. jiji.
gender & pronouns: cisfemale - she/her/hers
sexual & romantic orientation: pansexual, panromantic.
age & dob: 22. september 9th
birthplace/hometown: seoul
parents/siblings: choi jaehwan ( father | living ) , kim hyejin ( mother | deceased )
astrological sign: virgo.
dominant hand: left.
handwriting style: everything is very neatly spaced, petite and clean cut. ( HERE is a visual aid )
language(s) known/spoken: korean, french, spanish, english, portuguese, japanese ( fluent ), and sheâs currently trying to learn cantonese.
religion: she believes in a higher power, but sheâs more spiritual than religious because she doesnât like the labels that come with religion.
current living arrangements: she lives in a small officetel. ( HERE is a visual aid )
occupation/major: sheâs a kindergarten teacher !! also, a freelance photographer & painter when she needs a little extra money on the side.
APPEARANCES
picture reference: JIHYE with light hair. JIHYE with dark hair ( current )
blood type: B
nationality: korean.
skin tone/color: sheâs a little on the tanner side currently, but not quite golden. she says sheâs more like a fish fry sort of tan. during the winter, tho, she gets more on the milky side.
birthmarks & scars: she has a patch of skin on her left shoulder thatâs a little darker than her skintone in the shape of a diamond, about the size of a quarter. she has a lot of small scars from growing up because she was quite the explorer, but nothing major.
height: ~168cm ( 5âČ 6âł )
build: lean, slim.
hair color: sheâs got black hair currently, with some hint of silver. she goes back and forth between light and dark shades, though.
hair length: itâs long, a little more than halfway down her back. she doesnât want to cut any off, beside trim, until it gets to her butt.
eye color: honey brown ( those are because of her contacts, tho ... think like a lion, but just a shade or two deeper ), but theyâre a darker brown naturally.
eye shape: HERE.
diet: what she want, when she want ??
exercise & level of fitness: her only exercise is running around with her kids ( and some bedroom stuff ). sheâs actually pretty weak, but she does a fairly good job and opening jars by herself at home. and when she canât, sheâll run over to taehyun like âplease open this jar of pickles for me thank u ilysm~â
howâs their posture ( or lack thereof )?: she preaches about good posture at school, so itâs only right that she practice it. at home, however, her posture is pretty non-existent.
typical style of dress: her teacher style: x | x | x | x | x her street style: x | x | x | x | x
body modifications: she has (1) piercing per lobe and an industrial in her left ear, which she hides with her hair for school, even if itâs just baby strands when she wears it up.
BODY LANGUAGE AND MANNERISMS
how does your muse walk?: normally, very carefree and airy, almost like a gentle summerâs breeze. she doesnât have much confidence, but her head is held high just so she can smile at everyone who passes by.
how does your muse talk?: sheâs very clear and concise with her words and pronunciation, especially when speaking with her students. sheâs also very animated ( makes a great story-teller ).
what accent/dialect does your muse talk with?: she speaks with a âseoulâ accent, aka she doesnât have one. thanks to all the places sheâs live, tho, sheâs learned/picked up a lot of different ones, so she can speak with a few if she wants to.
how high (or low) is the tone of their voice? are they loud or quiet?: her vocal levels range, going high and low thanks to her need to be animated, but when sheâs speaking normally, sheâs a little on the higher side.
what is their laugh like?: she laughs with her whole body and constantly covers her face. her laugh is more like a giggle, but when she laughs uber hard, thereâs no sound except her occasional wheezing.
how does your muse typically smell?: vanilla and cherry blossoms. she alternates between the two fragrances, sometimes mixing the two when sheâs feeling a little ⊠bold.
what kind of air do they carry? are they intimidating?: sheâs very warm and polite. most find her welcoming and veRY far from intimidating.
PSYCHOLOGY
what makes your muse happiest?: cherry blossoms. photography. art. taehyun !!!! walking around museums with tristan. also, tristanâs voice. food. spending time with minkyo. hanging with laon; watching him interact with her students. rainy days. warm showers. seyeon. sleeping late. long train rides & walks. coffee with sehyun. her job !! scolding taemin after listening to his radio show. reading. learning. growing. smiles. surprises. sunflowers. banana milk. ice cream. ace. basically everything, tbh ??
what upsets them the most?: herself. impatient people / lack of manners. being forgetful. nightmares.
does your muse have any quirks?: licking her lips/chewing her lips and cheek. shaking her left leg. cracking her neck. clicking her tongue and sometimes sticking it out when sheâs focused or thinking about something.
what are their hobbies? how frequent do/can they do them?: photography and painting. she does them every chance she gets, which is usually fairly often.
do they have any guilty pleasures?: when sheâs not having the best day or sheâs kind of stressed out, sheâll scream out a pokemon name and their âbattle cryâ before she goes back to doing what sheâs doing. ( ⊠donât ask; just know her neighbors really donât like her for it )
is your muse an extrovert? an introvert? neither?: sheâs a mix of the two, tbh. sheâs more open with kids, tho.
do they have high or low self-esteem? what about confidence?: she falls on the lower side of the scale for self-esteem and she doesnât have much confidence. at all.
are they easily stressed? how do they respond to stress?: she gets overwhelmed sort of easily, but she normally tries to plow straight through the issues until she gets to a solution, but that doesnât always work. and when she finds that itâs not working, sheâll do that habit she has of screaming and then get back to it.
what is your muses worst fear?: losing people. never finding a love that lasts.
what is your muses biggest dream?: finding a love thatâll last.
is your muse an early riser? a night owl?: sheâs both.
how intelligent is your muse? do they acknowledge it?: her intelligence level is above average, but she doesnât speak on it too much. she thinks sheâs dumb.
what is their sense of humour like?: she finds almost everything funny and very rarely will you find her not giggling. and the more sheâs NOT supposed to laugh, the harder she actually laughs. itâs terrible.
RELATIONSHIP TENDENCIES
whatâs their sexual orientation? what about romantic?: pan errthang !! pls let her lov u ://
are they currently in any sexual or romantic relationships?: sheâs in one ongoing/regular sexual relationship with minkyo. sheâll gladly get into a sexual relationship with almost everyone. sheâs not in any romantic relationships yet, tho.
what is their experience with relationships?: she has some, but none of them have worked out that great ( mainly bc sheâs a sack of jealous :// so :// )
how does your muse view the idea of friends with benefits? have they ever had one, or would they ever?: she doesnât mind the idea. so long as the people youâre hooking up with donât have significant others. sheâs very much against cheating. sheâs currently in a fwb relationship
sex, is it important to your muse?: of course, but itâs not everything.
what are their biggest turn on and turn offs?: in her own words ?? turn ons : everything but the nasty stuff :/// turn offs: the nasty stuff :///
does your muse find it easy to make friends?: she personally doesnât find it very easy; not making actual friends, anyway.
how important is friendship to them?: very,very, very important.
quantity or quality of friends?: quality always beats quantity, obviously !!
how important is family?: to her, the most important.
are they close to their family? why or why not ?: sheâs not the closest with her dad, not the way she used to be as a child, anyway. and she feels like sheâs close with her mother ⊠well, as close as she can be.
HEADCANONS
001. her relationship with her dad started to go downhill as jihye grew older and she noticed the difference the day after her father had told her that she was beginning to look, and act, more like her mother.
002. continuing on the same topic as the above headcanon, she doesnât dislike her father, nor is she angry with him. she understands his issue isnât with her, itâs just that heâs still having a hard time over the loss ⊠that doesnât stop her from blaming herself for his broken heart and the death of her mother.
003. she suffers from insomnia, she thinks, because sheâs forced herself to stay awake for so many years. sheâs suffered from a reoccurring nightmare, specifically of her mother, so to stop it from happening ⊠sheâs done what she could to stop herself from sleeping. now, itâs just a habit. she seems to get tired when sheâs not meant to sleep.
004. flowers & nature are her favorite things to photograph, and paint. she also gets enjoyment out of painting portraits of her friends, with flowers ( which she associates with that specific friend ) as the backdrop. Â
005. she makes a lot of the clothes she wears for school. her students even help her out sometimes by creating the stencils or giving her patterns.
006. she also has a habit of bringing it a white maxi dress at the end of the school year and has her students put their handprints / draw small pictures and write their name underneath said handprint and/or picture. then she stores them so nothing happens to them.
007. she makes it a POINT to stay in contact with the parents of her past students, along with the students themselves. sheâs very invested in them and their education, and she likes to watch as they grow.
008. there are only two things in this world that jihye would literally throw fists for ⊠that is taehyun and her students. ( in case you couldnât tell ⊠she rly lovs her kids :/// & her pooh bear )
009. sheâs a nickname person. she adores them and if you scroll through her contacts list, itâs literally made up of ALL nicknames. and if you want her to love you even more than she already does ?? give her a nickname.
010. touching on the accent thing ... sheâs got a very good ear for them. if you speak to her in ( or she listens to ) an accent for a total of, at least, three minutes, sheâs able to mimic it. which is partly why, when she goes on any sort of trip, she likes to speak in a different accent the whole time. you know, pretend to be someone sheâs not.
011. sheâs uber light handed when it comes to her handwriting, so sheâs always writing with a pen !! and she prefers ballpoint ( whereas sheâll only sketch with a mechanical pencil ) sheâs also an avid collector of stationary. and all of her cards for birthdays and/or holidays are all handmade because sheâs disgustingly sentimental :///
#seoultask#did i do the second one before i even completed the first one for her ........... nO WYM#dont @ me pls ://///#also this is rly gross & i got lazy hence the disgusting graphic n 2938575 possible spelling errors
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