#i am a girl as in afab)

[hor3nee]

cw: nsf/w shitposting

Leon gets whatever the fuck is the opposite of post-nut-clarity as in pre-nut-happy.

As in he starts laughing and twirling his hair at you when he's horny and hard. As in skipping through the house and batting his lashes when he's in the mood. As in getting on his knees and kissing your hand and foot before he stuffs his face into your cunt and laps at it with a stupid smile shoved against your pussy.

[nonbinarylesbianherb]

ppl who are like "have you ever experienced a close female friendship" to try deny rhaenicent like.. yes bitch i have!!! and thats *exactly* why i can tell theres MORE than just "close friendship" between these two gay bitches!!

[punkeropercyjackson]

"This is the gender fuckery and cis+ website"You guys can't even handle trans people who don't want to physically transition

[beanghostprincess]

Saw somebody once saying that people's arguments to say Nami is a lesbian are always about her negative traits and focusing on her not liking men and... Why do we have to have any arguments when it comes to a sexuality headcanon? Why can't I just say that she doesn't like men, and that's all? But even if you needed arguments, "not liking men" isn't a bad trait or something negative at all. She just is uninterested in them, imo, both romantically and sexually, and that's quite literally the definition of being a lesbian. Yes, obviously we can focus on her appreciation of other female characters and how the way she reacts around them is way different from how she reacts with the men of the show, but saying "she likes women" isn't an argument to prove she's a lesbian because bisexual girls exist. Or really, just any other sexuality regarding women. It's beautiful to focus on her love for girls, but if we're looking for arguments here, I think the best one of all is saying that she doesn't like men. And that isn't a bad thing at all and it is quite literally the only argument you need for your headcanon to work. And yes, I do agree that a lot of people use negative traits of her to call her a lesbian (a "mean lesbian". A term that I personally despise. When it's a joke about a character who's actually mean it's okay and funny, but lesbians are already demonized enough, and Nami isn't even mean. People just hate that she has a personality and stands up for herself) but I've never seen somebody say "she's a lesbian because she's mean". I just see people saying she's a lesbian because she doesn't like men, and, again, that's not bad as long as you don't stereotype her and say she hates men and put her in a little box of "being the mature one" because she's a lot of the time as silly and careless as the men of the crew. Not liking men is not a negative trait. It's literally just being a lesbian. Like we could talk for hours about her relationship with women and womanhood in the show, how her character behaves around them, and the way they portray her. Because yes, I don't know if I'd say she's queercoded but she definitely is way more fond of girls than she is of men and her relationships with them seem way more genuine and organic than the one she has with men. But... Again, the core point of all of this is that she doesn't like men. Easy as that.

[l00ney-m00ny]

Me, wearing my pink gloves, sitting on my pink blanket on cuddling my pink plushies, in my room with pink storage bins, pink art supplies, pink computer gear, drawing pink characters in my book while wearing pink makeup, drinking a pink drink frim my pink cup: I hate pink

[werewolfbarista]

being trans is a beautiful experience actually and if you're not having fun w your gender you should shake things up a widdle bit. try out some weird pronouns, blend masculinity and femininity in ways that make cis people uncomfortable. break boundaries in ways that they wouldn't dream of. it's all fucking fake anyway so if it feels right then why not go crazy with your beards and your tits and your hairy legs and wild hair y'know

being trans is being free to do whatever you want whenever you want and if people are confused, good

[mommycity]

Geto with a pussy…it’s gettin me bro. 

Imagine fucking him hgnnsn. Just another night of fun after you both are stressing about your finals. Getting him on all fours and just fucking him with long slow strokes.the way he’s arching his broad frame, his ass is so full it’s just so fucking much ahgnsnn,, His pussy is so wet and needy, it sucks you in and welcomes you home. It’s the best fucking view when you look at where you connect, so sloppy and wet. Geto is so fucking giving even when he’s getting fucked so he’s fucking himself back on you. Your dick is full of his cream at the base. Imagine just rubbing slow tight circles on his clit. “Does it feel good? Fuck I’m so close baby”, he’s whimpering. You have to grab his hair and kiss him so he can give his cream filled finale, he might even let you finish inside. 

Maybe next time you should spit on his asshole and stick a thumb in? I’m just a freak ass nigga tho stay safe yall 

[w3ndytheraccoon]

Ik I said I’m fine with any pronouns, and I am !

But. But that feel when someone call me a boy. That feel when someone call me mister. That feel when someone call me anything vaguely masculine. The disappointment when they correct themselves and call me a girl instead.

[fuzzyspiderpawz]

Fnaf made me realize my gender identity

I just realized that fnaf indirectly helped me realize that I’m nonbinary back in 2020

I started listening to NateWantsToBattle because of FNAF (and Monster Prom but mostly FNAF cause I was into FNAF first) and while watching his music video for Phantom I realized that I’m nonbinary cause the power of men wearing makeup transformed me into something stronger

[windwardstar]

"transmascs can be feminine and still have their gender respected while transfemmes have to erase any signs of masculinity"

Except if you're nonbinary and feminine you're just a theyfab and not really trans

If you don't bind you're just faking it

If you have long hair and get misgendered it's just your fault. You should try harder.

If you try harder. If you bind. Cut your hair. Foreswear anything pink or girly or feminine. You're misogynistic and toxic masculinity.

You're an evil man (because all men are ontologically evil. It's not biological which is why trans women are women and good but trans men are men and bad. It's the masculinity itself. Rid yourself of masculinity and you are purified, washed clean of the sin of man). You're an evil man (your misogyny is somehow the worst possible most harmful incarnation of misogyny without any of the grace given to cis women. Where you have to unlearn youre misogyny but nobody has to unlearn their transphobia)

You raise your voice to speak up, to defend yourself, to take up space and it is proof testosterone has made you angry and dangerous and evil. Tainted by the original sin (of being a man). (And because you choose this, it is worse, because it is not something you can say is just something that happened to you, that you cannot repent and say please save me from this darkness, your revel in all the ways the mark of the devil changes you into his image) you speak on pregnancy and get accused of mansplaining. You speak and get told to shut up to let women speak- as if you too have never had your voice silenced.

You get told you just want to be oppressed. That you don't experience misogyny. As if you are not trans. As if you have not grown up under the thumb of misogyny that pressed out and punished any display of masculinity (because it wanted you to be a girl. Good and pure and feminine.)(where you're not really trans you just want to escape misogyny- you're just a confused little girl, shut up you dont know your own experiences.)(where you are trans and so have escaped misogyny- so shut up you don't know your own experiences)

You get told to be caring and kind and pushed to be feminine. To be the homemaker and nurturer. Because you are a girl. When you transition though suddenly it is proof you are a predator. Why would a man want to be in this position? Why would a man want to be around vulnerable people if it wasn't to take advantage? And you're trans. Which makes you a sex freak. Which makes you a dangerous pedophile and predator.

You get told you have to realize women see you as a threat (as if you are not already intimately familiar with why, as if you have not been the victim, as if you are not still able to be one)- because you are now a man (inherently dangerous) and there is now way women (inherently victims) can be a danger to you (because transphobia against transmascs doesnt exist). (And how can cis women possibly be a danger to trans men. Don't you know it can only be men who are dangers to women)

That you have to be ok with being kicked out of girls only groups. That sorry this program is meant to uplift women+ voices and you're a man and there are already enough men. As if by claiming the title of man your transness does not matter, that your marginalization does not matter.

You're transmasc. You are feminine. It is proof you aren't trans.

You're transmasc. You are as masculine as you can be. It is proof you are irredeemably evil.

You're transmasc. You try and find a balance. Masculine enough to be respected to not be misgendered, to not have being misgendered be your fault. Feminine enough you don't get accused of misogyny and hating women and toxic masculinity. Feminine enough you don't get cast out of every space you occupied before because just the presence of testosterone in your body makes you dangerous.

You strike the balance, you contort yourself into making them comfortable, and they say you don't have to try. That you get respect regardless of what you do.

(Also before anyone wants to misrepresent or misinterpret or misunderstand this: none of this makes what transfemmes face any less hard or horrific or whatever words you want to use to describe their struggles. It is possible for multiple groups to face the same struggles and recognizing shared experiences, to speak about the unique manifestations for one group without claiming there isn't a correspondingly different version for another. Trans women and trans men are both punished for masculinity. Trans women and trans men are both punished for femininity. Society wants both groups to conform to their agab and wants both groups to transition in a way that makes them conform as closely as possible to their chosen gender to get respect- and will simultaneously be punished for doing so and accused of misogyny. Trans people are both failed women and failed men, both and neither and whatever will be most easily wielded against them.

And this all goes for nonbinary and intersex people who have their own unique ways in which those aspects are experienced.

You don't have to push down one group, dismiss and invalidate their struggles in order to speak about and uplift another group. You can talk about the things transwomen deal with without dismissing what transmascs face (and the reverse, but this is in direct response to a series of people doing the first.)

[trans-estinien]

i love being autistic cause sometimes i get a glimpse into how regular people perceive things and its like. what the fuck. what the fuck is that? you live like this? and its normal?? i think YOURE the weird one actually. im fine. thanks though.

[thecedarchronicle]

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[peridyke]

ok. life defining early lesbian experience: when you're a shy and awkward little nerd kid in middle/high school and other more feminine and extroverted girls in your class take notice of you and tell you how they want to try putting makeup on you and see how pretty you would look. the sensation of another girl getting so close to your face. the intimacy as they gently stroked their lipstick across your lips. the cold sensation as they brushed liquid eyeliner over your lids. their gentle voice telling you to blink as they held the mascara wand under your eyelashes. their breath warm on your face and their lips up close to yours as they smiled and told you how pretty you looked with makeup on. all the while the last thing you cared about was what your face would look like when it was over

[yourfavecharacterisqueer]

any time i reflect on my sexuality and gender journey i remember that while i was 8 i realised i’m asexual and that this was from ONE (1) sex education lesson. the wild thing is though is that six years later covid happened and i realised that i am both aroace and not totally a woman but now the only thing i am sure of is my sexuality and that is a weird feeling.

[ivys-garden]

Oh I've got a story sorta like this

My freinds mum works with this women whose children are named Dana and Samantha, which she noticed since she liked Supernatural, but she didn't actually think that this women had named her children after Sam and Dean.

But then she remembered that this women's surname. Was Winchester.

So, curious, she asked and the women just went "What's Supernatural?" And her mum is still embarrassed about it to this day

But more importantly, by some Cosmic fluke these twin girls had the names Dana Winchester and Samantha Winchester. And I find that hilarious

Also, there was the time when I met the family of one of the children from the nursery I "work" at, the child's siblings we're called Mason and Mabel and the mum was wearing a mickey mouse t-shirt, so 90% sure she's a Gravity Falls fan, never was brave enough to ask her though (the third child had a normal name though)

And technically I had a fandom name, I was named after a director by my father, now that could lead to some normal names right? Steven, Alfred, Stanly, Tim.

But no.

I was given the directors SURNAME as my FIRSTNAME

Imagine walking down the street and meeting a Spielberg Jones or a Hitchcock Johnson.

That was me. I was Hitchcock Johnson. (well not actually but you get the idea)

[schizowitchic]

also like i partially found out i might be intersex because i was looking at trans stuff and there was like "(however many) months on t and finally seeing some bottom growth" and like pictures of t-dicks and i was like.... um.... that's kind of just what my clit looks like anyways. so i was like "hey google give me a quick rundown on this" and learned what clitoromegaly was and then i was like. hm. intersex resources. and it's like a sign? symptom? side-effect? of certain intersex conditions