#tagging as nsft just because of like genital mention

[schizowitchic]

also like i partially found out i might be intersex because i was looking at trans stuff and there was like "(however many) months on t and finally seeing some bottom growth" and like pictures of t-dicks and i was like.... um.... that's kind of just what my clit looks like anyways. so i was like "hey google give me a quick rundown on this" and learned what clitoromegaly was and then i was like. hm. intersex resources. and it's like a sign? symptom? side-effect? of certain intersex conditions

[idyllic-affections]

ugh, the bucketload of untagged smut on this site is so bizzare. how hard is it to tag 'nsfw' 'nsft' or 'smut'.

not to mention all of those people who specify afab/amab reader.....which .. what does that even mean?????? are we really going back to 'your agab determines your genitals' again? (and some ppl just use it to mean female/male reader anyway. not great)

aaa sorry for the mini rant lol, hope yours days been good

🐌.

so real. it's literally not that hard to tag your work appropriately. i have all three of those filtered, plus a million other tags, and yet i STILL am unfortunate enough to see smut? like. tag your fucking work, dude. not hard at all. the "curate your own experience" website does not work if you don't use the tagging system???

AND YEAH???? I DON'T CARE ABOUT AGAB PLEASE JUST TELL ME WHAT PRONOUNS YOU'RE USING FOR THE READER??????? that's why i just put "they/them pronouns for reader" with no mention of the agab. because it Does Not Matter (in the case of my content specifically--i understand why it might matter a lot more for romantic or sexual works). agab ≠ gender ≠ pronouns. PLEASE specify the pronouns. "afab" is not a sufficient description. if i am hit unexpectedly with a she/her one more time i will lose my mind

(and my lack of care for the agab relates to my specific and personal identity as a nonbinary person, i believe, because if it were up to me? i would have no reproductive organs at all. none. there would be NOTHING!!!! /lh)

some fic writers make me so furious. they're absolutely insufferable. my blocklist is... very extensive at this point.

[normal-thoughts-official]

My tags

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So I already had a tag post, but it's very outdated, so I decided to make a new one because at this point it's easier than editing the other one

Accessibility tags

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Following are my accessibility tags, divided in types of disability:

For the visually impaired and dyslexic people

Not described: for posts that do not have image descriptions

No plain text: for posts that do not have a plain text version. Since what kinds of plain text a person might need depends on the person, I've separated in the following kinds:

Lots of bold/lots of italics: for posts that have big chunks of text in bold or italics. If it has both, I'll tag both separately, ie "#lots of bold #lots of italics"

Eventual bold/eventual italics: for posts that only have one or two words at a time in bold or italics. If it has both, I'll tag both separately, ie "#eventual bold #eventual italics"

Tiny text: posts with tiny text

Big text: posts with big text

Embedded links: posts with hyperlinks

Colored text: posts with words in colored text

Cursive: posts with cursive

Special fonts: posts with different fonts that aren't offered by Tumblr

Caps: words in caps lock

Censored words: for posts with words where a part of the word has been replaced with an asterisk, number, etc.

For people with ADHD and intellectual disabilities

Long post: a post that is too long and might be difficult to follow

No TLDR: for a long post without a TLDR at the end

Long paragraphs: for posts with paragraphs that are too long

Complex language: for posts with difficult language and no plain language version

For people with dyscalculia

Lots of numbers: posts that have many numbers

No written out numbers: no version with the numbers written out. For example, "14532" without a "fourteen thousand fifteen hundred and thirty two" at the end

For epileptics, people with migraines and otherwise photosensitive

Flashing: for strobe lights

Eye strain: for visual content with lots of bright colors

For d/Deaf/HoH people/people with APD

Not transcribed: for posts without transcription or closed captions. Although it is unlikely that you'll see those here as I need them as well

No audio description: for audio files without description (for example, a song that has the lyrics but not a description such as "an upbeat techno song")

Content warning tags

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Posts that go into detail about potentially triggering content will be tagged "[thing] tw". For example, "racism tw" or "blood tw"

Posts that only have a brief mention of potentially triggering content will be tagged "[thing] mention". For example, "racism mention" or "blood mention"

Posts with slurs will be tagged "[letter] slur", such as "f slur" or "d slur". I do not and will not tag posts that talk about queer people or the queer community with "q slur". You can filter that word if you really don't want to see it. The exception to this is if it is actually being used as an insult, but I can't imagine why I would ever reblog a post that did that

NSFW content used to have a different system in this blog, but I'm switching to the "NSFT" model since it's become somewhat usual. So

NSFT: blanket NSFW tag

NSFT mention: mentions of nsfw content

NSFT text: text post with nsfw content

NSFT image: images with nsfw content

Artistic nudity: pieces of art featuring naked people

Trans [character] smut: for pornographic content featuring a trans character, particularly where the character's genitals or order gender markers are described in detail. I'll usually just use the first name or the name the character is best known as, such as "trans magnus smut"

Salt: for negativity and/or venting

Anti [character]: for talking shit about a character I don't like. I'll use the full character name. For example, "anti jace herondale"

Anti [thing] fandom: for talking shit about a particular fandom. For example, "anti supernatural fandom"

Disclaimer: the "anti" tags are so people who do not want to see anyone saying bad things about their favorite characters can filter out these tags instead of picking fights with me, not because of, idk, something else

Organization tags

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Posts about a fandom will be tagged with that fandom, usually in the form of an acronym

Posts about a particular character will be tagged with the character's full name

Posts about headcanons of a character will be tagged as "[headcanon] [full character name]". For example, "autistic jim jimenez"

Ship posts will be tagged as the ship name

Posts about relevant issues will be tagged "social issues"

Posts that involve people fighting will be tagged as "discourse"

Posts about certain science subjects or animals will be tagged "[thing] tag". For example, "history tag" or "dogs tag"

Posts that contain anything I find relevant to find later will be tagged "reference". I've also been trying to sort them out into different groups, such as "information" for posts with good sources, "piracy" for piracing resources, "writing resources" and so on

Accessibility: for posts that discuss accessibility practices

Overflowing trashcan: my original posts (that arent just personal stuff)

Personal: random stuff about me

How to filter out tags

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I don't use desktop, but on mobile, all you have to do is go to settings -> account settings -> filter -> add filter

If you add a word filter, any posts with that word in the body of the post will be blocked. If you add a tag filter, any posts tagged as that content will be blocked. You'll want to use the tag filter in this case

And that's all folks. If you want me to tag anything in particular for whatever reason let me know and I'll add it to this list. That's all, thank you

[gandalfs-mommy-milkers]

I posted 18,187 times in 2021

643 posts created (4%)

17544 posts reblogged (96%)

For every post I created, I reblogged 27.3 posts.

I added 209 tags in 2021

#wes tag - 31 posts

#scream - 29 posts

#adhd - 24 posts

#death mention - 22 posts

#my wedding outfit - 21 posts

#nsft - 20 posts

#genital mention - 17 posts

#<3 - 15 posts

#queer - 15 posts

#honey nut queerios - 15 posts

Longest Tag: 139 characters

#this happened with long division! it took me like 2 weeks to learn it from my after-school daycare staff bc my teacher just didn't teach me

My Top Posts in 2021

#5

lets get this healing

298 notes • Posted 2021-08-04 15:57:36 GMT

#4

having adhd is typing your messages

like this

because that is how

they enter

your brain

or alternatively:

typing a whole bunch of things in one run-on sentence because you don't want to miss anything and if you hit send right now you'll forget it all or at least you'll forget what connected it to the thing that you said at the beginning of the sentence

311 notes • Posted 2021-06-02 02:37:48 GMT

#3

straight people can be queer :) y'all just love using language that excludes trans people, aspec people, and poly people <3

599 notes • Posted 2021-03-17 21:44:25 GMT

#2

i just love it

1224 notes • Posted 2021-09-30 14:01:56 GMT

#1

shh don't bother me i'm pondering my orbs (touching my titties)

1230 notes • Posted 2021-12-01 18:26:15 GMT

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[megacross-ground-zero-rated-r]

Warning for e///xplicit NSFT text and a genitals mention.

For the record, if I ever talk about characters "soft-swapping", what I mean by that is:

At least two couples / groups having sex in the same place with the understanding that watching is encouraged and everyone's cool with the mutually voyeuristic nature of it. Even if they personally aren't aroused by seeing or being seen, they consented to being in that social environment.

Stress on the word "social:" Close proximity, eye contact, and being loud / chatting are expected, normal parts of the experience, not immediately read as an invitation or a declaration of interest in someone not part of their couple / group.

Some people using this arrangement say that kissing participants from the other side does not constitute "crossing the line." Some say a little ((or sometimes a lot of)) contact is allowed if it's deemed more "playful" or "intimate" than motivated by lust. Playing with someone's hair, holding hands while lying next to each other, etc. These exceptions are much more often brought up and accepted by experienced swingers than groups that wanna soft-swap to get a taste of it.

I dunno maybe "mutual voyeurism" is a better term? Because apparently soft-swap can also mean "no vaginal or anal penetration with a penis, everything else is fair game" or "no sexual contact between men, only f/f and m/f."

Also: I tagged this as "consentual voyeurism" for the purpose of being specific, but when the word "voyeurism" pops into my brain I'm typically thinking of the kind where everyone is in agreement, not the classic someone peering from a bush scenario. Similarly "cuckhold", again, defaults to something that's arranged ahead of time as a roleplay scenario, not like actual cheating / degradation of a partner.

I'm putting my foot down right now: It's Not Masturbation If Someone Else Does It For You, by God does that one drive me up the wall when it's applied to just one person stroking someone else. THE WORD HANDJOB EXISTS FOR A REASON, use it.

The term "mutual masturbation"... is...

Actually that one's kinda tougher to classify.