#healing words

[agirlunfilteredsblog]

KIND REMINDERS 🤍

1. You are someone’s dream girl exactly the way you are right now.

We put so much emphasis on growth and getting to that “next best place”, which is fine, but we always forget that we deserve self-love as we are right now. It does not mean that you aren’t at your “best” physically and/or mentally that you aren’t deserving of love, kindness, and respect.

2. Perspective is everything

Stop stressing over that one bad grade you received at school. In ten years, you won’t even remember what teacher gave it to you. Focus your energy on things that’ll have lasting impacts. When you look back on your life, you want to see the beauty of it, not the anguish.

3. Growth isn’t linear

Don’t blame yourself for messing up. We aren’t perfect and we are bound to mess up every once in a while. Learn from your mistakes, and try to not repeat them. And if you do, that’s okay, there’s always another time. Growth has no time limit.

4. You are not a bad person

If you are sitting here constantly asking yourself if you are a bad person or underserving of love, I’m here to tell you one thing: bad people don’t worry about whether they are perceived as “good” or “bad”. Give yourself grace, and stop letting your overthinking consume you.

So much love,

A girl unfiltered 💋

[samxcamargo]

You don’t have to be healed to deserve the good things in your life.

-Josue Camargo

[iwajidshaikh]

When Mahmoud Darwish said

I do not abandon anyone, but I do not hold the hand of that who wishes to leave.

And Wajid Shaikh wrote

Jo utra dil se, phir utar hi gaya,phir chahe woh falak ka chaand baney, mujhe qabool nahi

[wordsfromwise]

[altraviolet]

As much as I would love a TEG sequel, I do think you’d write an amazing Rodimus/Soundwave story with a fanon continuity. Your world building is fantastic and tends to be very interesting. I fell in love with the world The Angel Breaker is set in and have always wanted more stories set in a unique world from you. Overall I and maybe others do look forward to a new story!

Thank you so much =) this is very nice to hear 💜

[ardent-reflections]

Crawl inside this body- find me where I am most ruined, love me there.

Rune Lazuli

[retrosexualrage]

Mindfulness 🦋

🌾🐺🌘There are several healthier ways to cope with difficult emotions and express yourself creatively. Here are a few suggestions: 1. Writing: Keeping a journal or writing poetry can be a therapeutic way to process emotions and express yourself. You can explore your thoughts, fears, and fantasies in a safe and private space. 2. Artistic Expression: Engaging in various forms of art, such as painting, drawing, or sculpting, can provide a creative outlet for your emotions. You can use art to explore your inner world and express yourself visually. 3. Music: Playing an instrument, writing songs, or simply listening to music can be a powerful way to channel your emotions. Music has the ability to evoke and convey a wide range of feelings. 4. Physical Activity: Engaging in physical activities like dancing, running, or practicing yoga can help release pent-up emotions. Physical exercise can also boost endorphins and improve your overall mood. 5. Mindfulness and Meditation: Practicing mindfulness and meditation can help you become more aware of your emotions and thoughts. It can provide a sense of calm and help you process your feelings in a healthier way. Remember🦋💀🦋🌘 it's important to find activities that resonate with you personally. Exploring different creative outlets can be a positive and fulfilling way to express yourself and cope with difficult emotions.

[moon-stars-and-ink]

— Najwa Zebian, A Book Of Healing

[ruminate88]

When you’ve been the family caretaker soooo long, you don’t know how to “be your own person”. So long your identity was in others. Not everyone understands how lost you are. How easily you hide yourself in one-sided relationships with toxic people because you don’t have to find yourself. You just focus on the other person.

I found myself marrying a really nice guy which is GREAT accept idk who I am and for the first time, I don’t wanna be “him.” I don’t wanna be like him… I wanna be my own. I know what hobbies I have…. That’s not a “true identity” though.

[splittheirspines]

Sisters

you weild the samson sheers

I am dutiful at your feet

and really, all I want is your love,

because without it I am ugly.

Sister,

If you mame me I will return

with blood matted fur and a belly full of hope

i do anything for a kiss, sis

Swallow the whip

Bite

Right through

The lip

- niko amka

[agirlunfilteredsblog]

via @ valiceeev on tiktok

[samxcamargo]

Healing is important, but not because you aren’t enough and you need to become a “perfect” version of yourself to deserve good things in your life. You are enough as you are now and healing is important because you deserve to be able to feel at peace.

-Samantha Camargo

[iwajidshaikh]

From Book Sukoon,2023 by Wajid Shaikh

[lightofemotion]

I stopped. I stopped begging, chasing, & vying for love that was never meant for me. I stopped making excuses for people that had time & time again shown me exactly how they feel about me. I stopped sending long heartfelt paragraphs to people that had never really cared to respond. I stopped waiting on love from others & started cultivating love inside of me instead. It wasn’t easy. It wasn’t painless. & it wasn’t without loneliness or grief. But boy, was it necessary.

[kitapdostum]

Yalnızlık size kendinizi daha iyi görmenize yardımcı olacak bir büyüteç verir.

Bu ruhani bir faaliyettir.

Kendinizin farkında olursunuz.

Kendinizi metafiziksel olarak kör, hasta, acı, bencil, kibirli, kalpsiz ve daha pek çok farklı şekilde görürsünüz.

Ancak kendinizi yıpratan düşüncelere kapılmak zorunda değilsiniz.

Siz bundan daha fazlasısınız.

Yaralarınızdan çok daha fazlasısınız.

Nazik, sevilmesi kolay ve terk edilmesi imkânsız bir insan olmak için kalbiniz üzerinde çalışın.

[anya-moon]

Your destiny is midnight sun

I sense a lot of struggle in you now, your bitter craving for truth as you're disamored with exquisite lies, dancing on the edges of flower petals. No more.

Standing in front of the open door, looking into the strangely cool day of summer, realizing how illusions of you being so powerless, so lost for this world rising from the shadows,

your destiny is midnight sun above serene meadow, yet now you should go through the forest of harsh things you secretly told yourself were the only truth.

Your power to manifest, your nature, your vision, glory of the soul incarnated are here, buried under the mother mountain, behind the pale swords forged by fathers, patriarchs, your creeping fears.

And you can be furious now, in anger, in tears while imagining how many times you were left buried in misty mountains. Your hands are shaking, you're awaken so you're bitter and restless, rushing to answer every phone call from distant lands, healing old wounds with plasters bought in dimmy gasoline stations of nowhere. You know that there is only a way further, pushing, breaking through.

But your shadow is still laying down in the halls of the spirited away, transfixed with other people's dreams and desires, looking from the corner of her eye how life in the rhythms of the dark ocean, in waves is coming over her - a stone, a time capsule, a promise of journey back.

So one day you will see the garden, the path among trees crooked with the wind, someone waiting for you eternally, you will see the glimpses of far stars in everyday objects wrapped with the calmness of the island and you will know the truth of all this, the simplicity of no effort,

that will not be a dream but a vision your soul caught in the looking glass in the world of no beginning and came here to touch with her pearl hands.