#good faith interaction please

[gougarfem]

can somebody tell me the material difference between the transphobia trans men face and the oppression butch lesbians face for being gnc? because as a dysphoric, male-passing butch lesbian who lived as a trans man for eight years, i've been the victim of many violent hate crimes (ie. police had to intervene, not "someone called me a slur"), and i've never felt that my attackers had a different motive when i just happened to inwardly identify differently. yet despite still being discriminated against in the same way, and still being dysphoric about being female, and facing all of the same struggles, i'm now considered cis and not systematically oppressed for my gender presentation. so can somebody tell me the difference? what differentiates the oppression i face now as a dysphoric, male-passing cis woman from transphobia? at what point do i no longer have a place in the trans community?

[the-fictive-haven]

Source calling again yay (would appreciate rbs for visibility ty /nf)

Hey anyone from the Sonic the hedgehog universe! We wanna interact with sourcemates p l e a s e (sobbing /j)

Nontraumagenic plurals welcome, any good faith identities welcome, literally if you're not a bigot, a jerk, or bringing syscourse you're good we do not care /lh

Probably gonna forget someone but that I can remember at the moment our system has Sonic, Boom Sonic, Sticks, Tails, Amy, Shadow, Silver, Maria, Prime Shadow, two Nines, Rusty Rose, Eggman, Orbot and Cubot, two Sages, a Fleetway super Sonic for some godforsaken reason(??), Infinite, and likely a Rouge and Metal Sonic in here somewhere as well. These guys are taking over the system help /lhj

[tempesttz]

rare radqueer opinion

(taps mic) i believe in atypical dysphoria (boos from one side) (taps mic again) i believe that the current state of transids/transx can be harmful to some of the communities which the individuals id-ing as transx are from, and in some cases can also harm cisid individuals in question, accidentally or purposefully (confusion from everyone) (taps mic a third time) i think we should have respectful discussion on how these communities can be more accepting and respectful towards "cisids" without devaluing the experiences of those who experience "transids" (and develop clearer boundaries regarding more harmful transids) i think that would be nice :D [gen posi]

[coolwhipdinosaur]

You know, i think I might make a byi banner for my xenogender account because I literally got followed by someone with proshippers, pro endo, pro good fatih in their dni. Like did you even read my pinned at that point??? Did you see a recent flag i posted and just follow from that???

[whitejxde]

Glacier Shore is an inclusive server for otherkins, anti contact paraphilias, pro recovery irls/da, pro/com/darkshippers, good faith identities, and traumagenic systems. We are sfw and non-toxic. The themed channels are hidden and an access role is needed to see them in the main server.

We do NOT allow

endo systems / non-traumagenic DID/OSDD systems

true crime community / TCC

anti good-faith

anti pro/com/darkship

anti otherkin

anti paraphilas

Harmful transIDS ( ex ; transrace, transdisibility, transharmful)

procontact harmful paraphilias (ex ; zoo, necros, map/aam, etc etc)

non pro-recovery

factkins

[trentcrimminallybeautiful]

i think about the whole "love that" exchange a lot.

[cannicullistic]

Borderline Plural Demographic.

It's the new plural & cluster b inclusive server, with a mission goal to fight stigma, create a safe space for your people, and bring people together!

This is an initial post on the generic guidelines of our server, our mission statement (aka what we stand for) and proposing to our demographic about us.

Guidelines to the Discord Server & Tumblr Community:

Respect everyone who comes in, and out, of our server. We welcome good faith identities such as 'lesboys' or others you may be familiar with, Anti-Contact Paraphilia's, Proshippers & related. We do not welcome TransID or ill faith labels like transHarm or anti labels.

Please note that NSFW Content in general is bannable within our server, however we do not have control over what a user makes their profile picture, status, bio and such. We can only ask them to change server side stuff if they have the ability to on discord. Otherwise if its something like a spam bot, we also ban them on sight.

We are an endogenic, plural, non-traumagenic centric community that welcomes anyone outside of plurality & cluster B to join. We even allow singlets who are willing to learn!

We do not want members here who are 14 and younger, or 31 and older. Our server and community range from 15-30 for security reasons. If we find out you're not in this range, we reserve the right to remove you instantly from the community, no questions asked.

Drama is bannable. Period. If you bring up something with a user that occured over 3-4 months ago, we typically take this information with a grain of salt because we believe after 3-4 months, a person can make a good change for themselves and seek out help, actively get better and improve their behaviour. Do not witch hunt any of our users, it's not acceptable at all.

As this is a shared space between minors and adults, we kindly ask that adults and minors refrain from DMing no matter the situation. If a minor requires help from a vent for example, an adult may not offer to DM, this is a red flag to us and we will question the adult in a ticket, asking why they'd want to be in a private space with a minor where we don't know what they could be saying or planning. We do not say this to think adults cant be trusted with minors.. it's just that we cannot and will not risk anyone being put in harms way like this. Just simply don't DM people of the opposite age group, only keep to your own please.

Respect everyone's role and boundaries. For some you may need to do a bit of extra diving to see them in a users account and or bio, this isn't too hard to do, and saves people from being upset!

Please use common sense when joining our server, and have some level of emotional maturity. We stand by the idea as well that systems are held accountable for their entire system, be advised.

Stigmatizing, stereotyping, giving negative feedback of and discrediting disorders (especially Cluster B disorders) are a punishable offense and will NOT be taken lightly. Also, this is a server that is pro-recovery for all disorders and against censoring food. We also are pro-emotional permanence and allow IRL's and DA's. However, we don't condone constant feeding of delusions unless it is a comfort (or identity) situation for someone.

Lastly; Creating a safe space for Cluster B disorders can be hard on even staff who may have these or other disorders, so how can you the user help us out? By fighting stigma, stereotypes, and supporting those with these disorders by actively reaching out and providing helpful links like our server and our resources!

Our Mission statement

Our mission statement is to create a community that is stigma & stereotype free for especially Cluster B disorders, along with validating the experiences they, and plurals, have. It's the best of both worlds!

discord permalink: https://discord.gg/8PTCt9v5zj

We invite you to take us on as a new community for you to join - feel free to ask questions under posts related to the server or community, and also open tickets within the discord! Remember, you are seen, you are loved, and you are unique. <3

[lexthanyuri]

AJ Wilson stimboard! ◝(ᵔᗜᵔ)◜

She is my OC!! Her pronouns are she/her, and her full name is Anna-Jane :3

x x x | x 🧡 x | x x x

[pa-pa-plasma]

one of the things that will always destroy me is people believing that good story = darker/more mature/more sexual. this belief has ruined so many stories that could have been amazing & has prevented almost everyone from enjoying other really good stories simply because the age range it's aimed at is one they believe can't have complex themes, characters, plot, etc etc. they don't believe they can be moved by something a publisher or studio decided is for kids & so write it off without even thinking about it. biggest curse of being a writer who actually loves stories & telling them is that literally no one else cares in the most pessimistic, higher-than-thou, capitalism brainrot way you can imagine. & it's all automatic. because that's just what you're taught.

[unclewileys-bahblog]

I want him so badly. It is unreal.

Psycho alter

Name: Norman Bates, Norm, Normy

Age: 29

Gender: Transfem, Pumpkincandycorngender, Halloweengender, Spiderthing

Pronouns: She/her, Shx/hxr, Sh!/h!r, Candy/candycorns, Pum/pumpkins, Spider/spiders, Web/webs, Sh?/h?r, They/them, Th*y/th*m, Candy/candies

Sexuality: Lesbian

Species: Vampire

Ethnicity: White

Source: Psycho

Roles: Warden, OCD holder, Amnesia holder, Social protector, Fear manager

CisIDS: White, Brown hair, Green eyes, Tall, Skinny/Slender, Undead, Vampire, Murderer, Atheist, Calm, Confusing, Curious, Old-timey, Anxiety, OCD, Immortal, Pointy ears, Fangs, Pale skin

TransIDS: TransTraumagenic, TransIrishAccent, TransBlack, TransAge (11), TransLoli, TransAFAB, TransRainbowBlood, TransHeartPupils, TransFujoshi, TransMute, TransNPD, VirgoDiaZodia, PermaAnxious, PermaHappy

Paraphiles: FictoMAP, BarloPhilia, Souvliphilia, Autozoophilia, Fictobiastophilia, Somnophilia, Angelophilia

Other Labels: Norwegian forest cat therian

Faceclaims:

- Mod Steph

[viviviago]

WWDITS PROFIC SERVER!!!!!!!!!11!!

R U PROFICTION? DONT GAF ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE DO AS LONG AS ITS NOT IRL? AWESOME. NOW, DO YOU LIKE WWDITS? (WHAT WE DO IN THE SHADOWS)? ALSO YES?!!?!?!?! THEN THIS IS THE PERFECT PLACE FOR U!!!! (you can join if ur just a vampire or otherkin too. dont wori.)

accepting of THERIANS, OTHERKINS(we love em), IRLS, RADQUEERS, SYSTEMS, KINNIES, ETC! YOU NAME IT! JUST DONT BE MEAN OR TOXIC AND WE WILL ADORE U. DISCOURSE IS NOT TO BE HELD HERE. DO NOT JOIN IF YOURE AN ANTI JUST TO TROLL. THERE IS A VERIF SYSTEM, SO YOULL JUST BE WASTING YOUR TIME. THANKS. https://discord.gg/6Zjz3wFjFT <3 see u there!

[cringetasticsys]

welcome to the garden !

# COMING SOON -

alter intro masterpost

we are radinclus, pro-para, anti-syscourse, proship, and just tend to want to spread kindness! we are a minor and a traumagenic system! we are trying to get a diagnosis.

don’t interact (or else my cat claws are coming furr you)

- if you’re pro-contact, neutral contact, and any other contact except anti-contact for harmful paras.

- if you’re pro-harassment and/or an antishipper.

- if you judge alters off of their source, or assume they’re automatically their source and not their own purrson. (unless the alter says they’re okay with it)

- you plan on being a creep to us.

# NAVIGATION -

# purrfect pleasures - things we like, aesthetics, mood boards, etc. usually in reposts.

# sad time - vents and negative rants.

# pawsitivity - positivity for me and others!

# mewl echos - random thoughts or rants!

# got a question? We might have an answer! - polls, can be asked to be made in asks, too!

# grumpypaws - anon hate or negative posts being cross tagged, usually with my response.

more tags will be added if needed.

# CURRENT ALTER SIGNOFFS - (current freq fronters mainly)

davepeta - 🍊 , #meowdy everykitten!

cal / theo / tito - 🩻 , #im an angel I do no wrong!

katt / karkat - 💥 , #shake your fist at the sky!

kankri - 🐞 , #justice shall be served.

[prettygirlgerard]

not old enough to say minors dni so I just added an age disclaimer to my pinned post 😭

[buriedmyhead]

Some women have bastardised feminism,I can see our continued oppression enduring forever,our insistence upon tolerance and liberation of everything makes us fools.

Being tolerant to religions who see us as dirty and unholy when we menstruate, treating religion as a racial issue (it’s not). Treating race like a woman’s issue, treating everything but womanhood as a woman’s issue. The word feminism has become so inclusive it advocates for everyone but women.

To effectively argue for women’s issues we need specific wording of what causes our oppression, sure the femininity forced upon us does aide our oppression, but it is our sex that makes us bitchy and rationalise our place in the home.For the last tens years we’ve fought for men’s right to be women, men’s right to fucking cry and victimise themselves.

Women when allying with male centred movements are always left behind. Being a woman effects us more than race,sexuality, or religion. Women who argue for themselves and their rights have become the true oppressor. Women wanting to acknowledge biological sex and the oppression we receive because of it, women who want to acknowledge the religious dogma that allows the rape of slave women as broodmares,Women wanting to acknowledge the female oppression in our own race. Women wanting to acknowledge that rape of poor women are silenced and forced into submission because poverty made the male rape a woman.

In wanting to appease males of every race,reglion and movement you have left women in the mercy of men who hate us.

No amount of “happy women’s day!!!” Makes it better at all, it makes it worse. Making men believe because of a holiday we have affectively erased sex inequality, when we have only regressed. The third and fourth wave feminism was a mistake and we can’t take it back.

[semi-personal]

The term op is looking for is called trauma bonding jsyk

It's really bad, also comes with a good amount of ptsd. For this case, I would assume the ptsd would be something along the lines of losing trust in humanity and people in gen because of the shit that we watched and endured in that fan group. It was not a pretty time. Pretty sure happened with a lot of modern mcyts. Yayyy... trauma... 😑

I think ex-dsmp fans have a bond identical to soliders who fought in the same war

[whitejxde]

-doesn't support endos even though they provably exist (ableist)

-supports harmful and abusive paraphilias (dangerous as hell)

Pick a struggle

HELELEPDPPEOE BAHAHAHAHAHAH how tf are you gonna have a trauma based disorder without trauam💀💀💀 also did you know that people can struggle with paras and try to get better!!! if you take one look at my account you’ll know that i support anti contact paras!!!