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Give yourself a little credit.
#yay! you made it to 2024!#give yourself a little credit#look at you existing in all your beautiful glory!#HAPPY NEW YEAR MY LOVES! ♡#sebastian sallow#ominis gaunt#hogwarts legacy#ari edits
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Btw, this is your reminder to not let people stop you from doing what you like / love, just because 'you're not talented enough' or 'that's a weird hobby, why don't you use your time more efficiently?'
Only with time comes practise. And with practise comes talent.
You like drawing, even though you wouldn't think of yourself as 'gifted' or 'talented'?
Go for it!
You like writing, but you're in your early stages of writing?
I'm so proud! Keep going and with time you'll get better and better.
Stop telling people that what they like is 'strange' or 'boring'. It's a hobby! A hobby that is meant to give someone peace and happiness.
We all start small in a hobby and work ourselves up to get better and better.
So don't be ashamed for your progress. Be proud of it. Because I'm certainly proud of you.
#motivation#hobby#don't let people dictate your free time#alright?#give yourself a little credit#hugs
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I was only going to put this in the tags but then I had Thoughts and I need to add them--sorry!
About the last point:
Yes, not every detail has some big symbolic meaning. The blue curtains don’t have to represent profound melancholy or some such.
BUT. If the story is worth its salt (hence “If they aren’t you should read better books”)--if it’s mentioned that the curtains are blue, it is mentioned FOR A REASON.
There is a significance in the author’s choice to mention the colour at all. Or even to mention the curtains at all. So why?
That’s the question you should ask yourself when analysing a story or any piece of media. Not “What does this symbolise?” but “Why did the author mention it?”
AND WRITERS, I’m looking at you too!
Ask yourself the same question when editing, even when writing if you’re the type. Ask yourself “What does this contribute to the story?” And if the answer is nothing, CUT IT.
(Also note I said contribute to the story, not contribute to the plot. There’s so much more to a good story than plot.)
Basic rules for analysing fiction, an incomprehensive list jotted down in a hurry:
The protagonist isn’t always right
The protagonist isn’t always good
The protagonist isn’t always written to be relatable or likeable
The narrator isn’t always right
The narrator isn’t always good
The narrator isn’t always telling the truth
The narrator isn’t always the author
The protagonist’s moral compass, the narrator’s moral compass and the author’s moral compass are three entirely different things that only occasionally overlap
Pay attention to what characters do and not just what they say
Pay special attention when what the characters do is at odds with what they say
A lot of the time the curtains are blue for a reason. If they aren’t, you should read better books
#just. basic media literacy folks#basic critical thinking#give yourself a little credit#read and write stories that have just a modicum of complexity#and NUANCE#addendum#the brain is a muscle
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Some of you are operating under this weird white savior idea that you’re saving Palestinian culture by mass consuming Palestinian themed items without sensitivity or reason. You’re not saving Palestinian culture by mass buying kuffiyeh print scrunchies or doing Palestinian miku fanart - you preserve Palestinian culture by preserving Palestinians. Palestinians are going to be the ones preserving our culture, just as we have for decades before this escalation. Not you. Please take a step back and actually treat our customs and identity with respect, not just a thing you can take from.
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#doing your best#healing#you're doing better than you think#give yourself credit#talk a little nicer to yourself today#self compassion#self care#self love#self respect#self forgiveness#recovery#self compassion and accountability can and must coexist#doing the work#doing the hard stuff#adulting#trauma#grief
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hi! how do you feel about people taking inspiration from your drawings? your ube roll rarity made me think of making pony ocs based off of filipino desserts, but i'm not sure if you'd be alright with me using the idea 😅
Feel free to take as much inspiration as you want!
#go wild homie. i dont really want 2 gatekeep any of my ideas or drawings#i only have beef if people repost it and say its theirs. or if they trace/copy a whole drawing and dont give credit#otherwise youre free to do whatever you want. if you are Inspired then go create you funky little guy#art studies/tracing is fine if theres credit too. its really just the creditting thats important to me#we're all out here drawing ponies#not art#but just taking inspiration and building on an idea yourself is totally fair game. go craaaazy
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i think it's actually very brave to fight for yourself when no one else will, to insist upon your own self worth, if only in your own actions and self-preservation, when everyone around considers you worthless or unworthy.
If no one else cares about you, you will care, if no one else loves you, you will try to show yourself love to the best of your ability, even if you don't know it, if no one else will protect you then you will fight for yourself. Keep yourself alive. No one else will and it's you're no less worthy than who you're being told to put yourself to the side for, to die for, to admit you are nothing for.
It's trauma, it's resilience, it's survival, it's fight, it's advocacy, it's perseverance, it's natural, it's difficult, and it's brave.
#i'm not tagging the villain trio individually but...#consider mxy was the only one of that “squad” to sacrifice himself for someone considered more worthy and he's not anymore respected#or considered for it. Nobody thinks of him at all.#If anything NHS gets the credit for his death for baiting him into suicide and that's... Anyway#If SMS died to the Wen - either in CR or in the Cave of Slaughter depending on the version of canon - nobody would even think his name agai#If JGY had “sacrificed himself” things would probably be a lot worse but no one would give him any consideration other than maybe#to deride him for fucking up by sacrificing himself lmao#It's always seen as brave and good to help other people but cowardly and selfish to help yourself but like...#if no one cares to help you and never would then that's just saying other people are more important than you. You don't matter.#and it's actually very good and brave to stand against that I think. You should help yourself esp. if you are the only one who ever will#XY is the clearest example of this tbh. If he didn't fight for himself he'd have been dead a long time ago#as an unloved little 7ish year old child#the same society that condemned him to die on the streets as a child because they simply did not care#now condemn him for not understanding the love that was never shared with him. for surviving when they'd rather he died#because these “bad aspects” of these characters aren't despite surviving tragic pasts and difficult circumstance#and they aren't really because of them either#the “bad aspects” ARE survival
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How’s the demo coming along? /genq (Sorry if this is rude, I’m just curious ^^’’)
NO WORRIES I DON'T FIND IT RUDE!! honestly it's been a bit slow, I wanna pick up my pace again and be on that GRIND like how I was cause that felt good!! I'm also planning to delete the game on ren'py since I'm having issue with some of the coding even though I'm following the tutorial exactly as shown so I'm hoping that deleting the game(which isn't that big of a set back for me, I really only had the title screen in there so far) and then just start from scratch cause I don't know if the game file is glitching or if I'm just REALLY bad at coding(though tbf I haven't coded anything since the required coding class in high school and I wasn't even using ren'py for that) Although my plans have changed a bit, I don't plan on going to college this semester(which my dad is NOT going to like so I'm really dreading even TELLING him), rather I want to focus on getting a job(which will still take up my time as well as having to take care of everything at this place) BUT hopefully I'll be less stressed and at least have more free time(I take FOREVR to do college assignments, I'm a really slow worker, I always have been) but I'm hoping that I get a job and make money and save it up so I can GET OUUUUUUT of this place which would lower my stress and give me significantly more free time. And then I wanna do trade school, I wanna use my own money, not my dads, if I'm out of here and use my own money I don' have to worry about anyone else's expectations other then mine so that's also less stress YIPPEE! Progress is slow but tonight I wanna find some music, which thankfully I already have an artist(Peritune) that I REALLY like so I'll just be looking through more of their stuff! Now that I have most of the scenes written out it should be easier to find music and backgrounds! Anyways long story short progress has been slower than I'd like but I'm feeling that motivation kick! I'll try to post more updates as well, sorry for just going MIA!!
#☕️-cafe sweet#🎤-asks#yandere visual novel#male yandere#yandere#visual novel#yandere boyfriend#yandere vn#It started out as a little break from writing and drawin cause my wrist was hurting and i felt drained#but then stuff just kept getting worse at home#im safe though dont worry just STRESSED LMAOOOOO#honestly though seeing people still being interested in Cafe Sweet is giving me a big motivation boost!#Thank you! I'll get more done tonight!#Also with money being mentioned i REFUSE to open up a kofi or a patreon#one i dont have a credit card#but two im such a slow worker that i have like nothing to offer like im not sure id be able to do monthly specials#and so id feel like im scamming people and i DONT want to do that#maybe eventually in the future but def not right now!#I also wanna redo Artemis' sprites cause i was NOT liking how they were coming out#which also made me unmotivated LMAO#I might fix up some of the beginning of the script tonight as well#i need a smooth way to transition into naming yourself and picking your pronouns as well as naming your cat
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look, not to be a bitch, but im tired of the whole ‘mike is such a bully and a controversy king hmph!’ Like I get it. He says dumb shit. But for a 44 year old man, he’s pretty good. Compared to the other 44 year old men I know in Real life, he’s pretty damn good. I get how his whole ‘stfu Zoomers’ schtick can be annoying, but he’s clearly joking. He finds that funny, it’s lighthearted, whatever, he’s a 44 year old man, I don’t give a shit. I’m in my late 20s, I have rent to pay buddy, I’m not worried about what this man says when his most controversial take of the Week is that he calls his audience young. Like??? You have not been on YouTube fuckin long enough or seen enough awful shit if you think that’s the worst thing a man can fucking do, if I’m calling Mike a fuckin relief, a fucking respite from the rest of the internet, what the fuck do you think I’m comparing him to. honestly. think about it. If he’s the Best (ish) for the select kind of Man I want to watch, because I get joy from it, can you possibly imagine the kinds of other shit men within his bracket? And when I hop on tumblr dot com I don’t go to the rlmblr tag to see y’all going ‘oooh he said a nasty thinggg grr shame on you bad man’ no I go because I want to see you guys’ goofin and having fun and posting the thirstiest tags known to man I don’t come here to see blortch and co.’s rancid, mid-ass, ice-cold takes. They do it for shits and giggles, (which. I mean, do you.) but some of you take mikes word vomit a little too seriously. It’s a 44 year old man. On the internet. Who does movie reviews. He meets the baseline moral criteria, baby, and that’s all I care about. I don’t watch him for his sociopolitical beliefs, I watch him bc it’s an hour+ of voices in the background so I can work, because I have a Job and I have Rent and Bills to Pay, and because I want to sit on his fat cock that’s all that’s it I rest my case goodnight.
#this isn’t a callout or nothing I’m just having fun.#it’s just like the culmination of all the eyerolls when I see a ‘mike is saying a bad thing!’ like.#you don’t think I know that. I have enough nuance to know when he says a thing it’s for shock or dark humor#and when something’s actually morally bad like you gotta give me and yourself enough credit to know the difference#without having to make a shady little post about it every episode they make#like we get it now can we move on to how they made each other laugh cause that’s all I care about at this point and time
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thinking again about my beloved tracy thephiladelphiastory. what it means for a girl disillusioned by her father to say 'the right time to decide on someone is never.'
#there's so many threads of thought in this movie which really feels more exploratory than i think most people's reactions to it give it#credit for. there's an urge to take everything it gives you at face value but the morality of the movie is murky and contradictory#which i think is the most valuable part of it far more valuable than the efforts it makes to pin down a Moral.#anyway im going to be thinking about tracy for a long time. i see her in myself i can't help it#there's a thread through it all. tracy's inability to accept her own and others' weakness. her inability to#trust anyone after her father let her down. the way she holds herself at a distance from the world#so she can't be loved only worshipped.#if you never believe in anyone then you can't be let down#if you keep people on trial all the time you can stop them from being human and scary or at least punish them for it#if you keep yourself on trial all the time maybe your father will love you or maybe it will stop mattering that he doesn't#at least you wont ever become him#mike remarks how strange it is that dext knows so little about her even though they were married. dext says#is it?#of the three men he's the only one who sees her defenses for what they are. i find his arc of resentment-to-acceptance to be refreshing#he's not the moral arbiter in the end just the guy who recognizes that she's a bit ridiculous#and loves her for it#the philadelphia story
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Found myself reminiscing about an old friend and his character, decided to draw them to get it out of my system ^^
#art#fan art#?#I guess?#not gonna tag him because.. frankly.. I don't want him to find my tumblr#he's a pretty cool guy tho!#I should give SOME form of credit however so maybe you can look him up yourself with a little extra effort#his name should be lobatus.. I think.. and his character is called many hands#some eldritch horror shit#check it out of you think that's cool
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Happy New Year from my silly 1/2 hour rock!
Midnight has landed and it is 2023 where I am <3 Very very excited to tell you all: 1 - I love you. Thank you for brightening my life so much this year. Joining Tumblr and using it has been such a wild ride and y'all have made it fabulous <3 2 - Take care of yourselves, be safe!! DON'T Drink and Drive and don't go anywhere handy to someone who is!! There are safer ways home!
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3 - THESE have produced a wonderful gift for you all, and it is: 4 - Surprise bonus chapter updates for THE RESCUE and THE STRANDING! Your New Years gifts from moi <3 Please enjoy!!
The Stranding - Chapter 50 - Oh Captain, My Captain
The Rescue - Chapter 37 - Mind The Sails
I am very drunk, love you, kiss kiss smooch smooch BE SAFE and tell me all about your best and favourite parts of New Years even if you were just chilling at home in a bathrobe like me <3
#Fuck yeah I love my weirdass little timezone#I also love you#You who is reading this right now#Yeah#You're worth more than you give yourself credit for#and you deserve more peace and comfort than this world has given you#I hope it comes to you#I hope you get more#You don't need to earn it or struggle for it or work hard to deserve it#you already do#kiss kiss love love#g/t#giant/tiny#giant tiny#g/t author#g/t writing#gtauthor#gentle giantess#gt#Also HAPPY 2023 PLEASE ENJOY SO MUCH GRANT#SO MUCH#HE JUST WILL NOT GO AWAY
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when are people going to realize that "credit to the artist/photographer ❤️" doesn't do shit. giving credit is acknowledging that a person made something or contributed to it; you can't acknowledge "someone, I don't know who though". this is not acknowledging, this is the OPPOSITE of acknowledging. if you repost someone's work, the BARE MINIMUM is to state the name of the artist as visibly as it's possible. and if you don't, get smashed with a rock i swear to god it's 2024
#shrimp thoughts#ngl it pisses me off when people who repost fansite photos go 'credit to the logos' or whatever. babe? i cant see the logo for SHIT#because your pic is a blurry screenshot of a video. and if you put so little effort in making sure the artist/photographer is known#then why do you even say it? to make yourself feel better about yourself? do you think the artist will feel good seeing you 'credit' them#lile this? oh someone made this i guess but i dont give a fuck enough to find out who give me likes and reblogs anyway?#i also dont like it when gifmakers do their best to make the credit as subtle as possible and dont even#name the fansites. just like. put the link under a 'cr.' and thats it that's the job. or worse 'x'. why dont you go further and#put the link under a '.' like whats Stopping you
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you said merms bloodlust and i thought "ooh merms vampire fic? 👀"
NO BUT SERIOUSLY i hope you are feeling better and good things come your way merms lovey <3
fun fact!! i actually had a massive vampire phase a million years ago!!! like, during the Twilight/Vampire Diaries hayday, LOL. everything i wrote back then involved vampires. fanfiction, original fiction—role-play. yeah!!! your girl here used to role-play with other people online!!! i’ve written teenage-girl-stumbles-across-sexy-bad-boy-vampire-who’s-old-enough-to-be-her-great-great-great-grandfather tropes. vampire highschools, ala Vampire Knight. Vampire Secret Societies. name a trope and i probably wrote a half-assed outline for it!!! if they had sharp pointy teeth and were driven by uncontrollable bloodlust into sucking on someone they cared about’s neck then i was there!!!
i’m kinda all vamped-out these days… i much prefer my bloodlust to come in the form like, a favourite character’s head being bludgeoned-in with a rock or something, LOL. just normal, non-blood drinking violence. 🥹🪓🫀🩸 idk if i’ll ever (seriously) write a vampire!AU for BNHA—maybe more drabbles, randomly. but to me the magic of a vampire story came with like, pairing it up with teenage girlhood (including but not limited to the connotations of the whole, blood-drinking-in-the-place-of-sex thing). and idk! it’d be hard to pull that off in a x Reader without like, flattening whichever BNHA cast member we picked for the Lead. and i write (and read!) fanfic because i’m interested in them, in their complexities and lives and the things that stretch out after canon. idk!!! now that i’ve said that, watch me pull a iida/reader/tokoyami vampire!AU outta my backside. 😭
(that’s a joke; i don’t have time. 😔 but also… 🧐 you could do some pretty interesting things with a set up like that… Dark Shadow could be like, part of Tokoyami’s vampirism? And between DS and his mutation—the bird-like qualities—he has to live lowkey. 🧐 whereas Iida could be the “youngest” in a clan of regimental, powerful vampires that have successfully infiltrated the modern world with fearless business acumen… hmmm. MUCH to think about.)
#ofmermaidstories-asks#how can i talk about the magic of going into the massive Borders in the city and seeing a wall of Twilight?#that feeling when you’re in a bookstore and you’re young and you don’t have much control over anything in your life—#but for that one precious afternoon you are standing in front of a merticulous display of books#all with the same ghostly cover#and you have enough in the way of cash to choose something for yourself—#and here’s a story promising you a girl who’s maybe a little bit like you—#who doesn’t know her place in things#who moves to a new town and ends up stumbling into the adventure of a lifetime#Stephanie is not a perfect writer and no matter the criticisms i had and have of the books back then and as an adult#i will always love her and be indebted to her for giving me that moment#that promise of picking up that book and *knowing* it was going to take me away for a little while#and the overwhelming excitement that came with choosing it#i was going to make a joke in these tags like ‘if this ask kickstarts my twihard phase i will take u all down with me 🔪’ but#mostly it just leaves me overwhelmingly fond and nostalgic for that time#and the things i created in the wake of it#cue MCR’s vampire money for the closing credits of this lmfaoooo#kids don’t care if you’re alright honey! 🎶#pills don’t help but it sure is funny! 🎵#gimme gimme some of that vampire money!!! 🎶
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#self respect#self love#self care#self compassion#happiness from within#validation from within#talk a little nicer to yourself#you are enough#you are worthy#give yourself credit#you matter#codependency#fawning#people pleasing#boundaries#career#relationships
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the t4t girlies btw. if you even care.
#just got the rin ending and like. i shit you not they become a wrestling tag team#but the game implies its specifically for womens wrestling cause thats what everybody at the bar always watches. tobys esp a big fan.#like. the night before the ending. if you talk to erica she'll be like#yeah im thinking of trying out for womens wrestling. but i dont wanna do it alone#i need to find a partner... hmmmmm#she also talked abt this on an earlier night#but on that same night. right before the ending. toby is like#hey guys erica did my makeup and i actually rlly liked it :)#and remember that line where tobys like. if i was a girl id be all over chief.#LIKE. TOBY. GIRL.#tedpost#tedtalks#also. say what you want abt atlus's wonky lgbt rep but like. now that ive actually played through the whole game...#i gotta give them a little credit. its def a step in the right direction. even if they dont fully grasp it yet#the gist of this ending is just. being true to yourself (lgbt) will make you and the people around you so much happier. kinda crazy actuall
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