#gay men of color

[nubiannewyorkers]

[genderqueerdykes]

now that my post about breaking down one's idea of what a woman looks like has circulated for a while (thank you all), i'm now going to make this post, as i do not want people to derail that specific conversation, nor this one.

we also must break down our idea of what a man looks, acts, sounds, behaves, and presents like.

men are not cis, het, allosexual or highly sexual beings, tall, muscular, strong, hairy, deep voiced, broad chested/shouldered, emotionless, mean, aggressive, unemotional, uncaring, distant, cold, stoic, heartless, standoffish, bread winners, bad/absent fathers, macho, obligated to work despite disabilities, or obligated to be "the man of the house."

men are people. first and foremost.

men are allowed to express just like anyone else. men do not have to be pillars of their communities. no obligation. men are allowed to be disabled, tired, weak, emotional, caring, compassionate, asexual, aromantic, friendly, warm, in need of support, neurodivergent, mentally ill, chronically ill,and have personality disorders. men have their own struggles and we have to stop telling them to "suck it up" and "move on" and "pull yourself up by your boot straps".

we are forcing men to do this: this is a cage of our own design.

once we dismantle this idea of how a man "should" be, once more: we will move past radfeminism, patriarchy, trans/androphobia, and fostering a culture where this is an acceptable way to treat men. it's not. we must allow men to be diverse. we must allow men to be who they are on the inside

[lgbtqtext]

[theensuingchaos]

Valentin

[apiercedotter]

Come cuddle in bed, no pants allowed

[mumblejar]

hello gender euphoria king

[kingcrustacean]

Can you tell how much I loved drawing this

[bluegekk0]

// Lost and found again //

[imaginal-ai]

"Heroes and Lovers"

[youaremysunshine-court]

My favourite hc ever will be andreil buying matching racquets in their final year, and when Neil goes pro it's takes a minute for people to realise his new racquet matches andrews new racquet and everytime they have to get replacements they always always match and then some exy fan makes a video about the minyard-josten rivalry and the matching armbands and gear and then, then it all blows up and Kevin calls to yell at them from Europe because "can't you be subtle when you're on two different teams, for fucks sake" and andreil are just sitting there smug and holding hands bc at least no one realised they also wear matching shoes like the great big dorks they are

[nubiannewyorkers]

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[hrokkall]

Recharging

[theensuingchaos]

👓

[apiercedotter]

Well, long story short, I sent an ambassador application to C-IN2 and got approved.

I’m so happy to see different kinds of bodies get more representation on social media, and even happier that brands like C-IN2 are interested in giving them visibility.

The briefs are comfortable af by the way 🦦✌🏻

[inyoureyes-415]

Frank ❤️ Joe

June 30, 2024

Location: San Francisco, California

[grayoil]

I hate backgrounds.

Day 5 War | Adventure @erisweekofficial

Yes, he does have gold fangs.