#fuck you too paraphiles

[chaos-in-one]

Friendly (or unfriendly if you're against this) reminder that this blog is supportive of ALL disorders. This blog does not think ANY disorder inherently makes someone a bad person, and is against any disorder being demonized. This blog wholeheartedly believes that a bad person having a disorder, yes, even if things that are also symptoms of their disorder are part of what caused harm, does not make the disorder a "bad" or "evil" disorder or excuse ableism and demonization directed towards the disorder.

Yes this includes personality disorders

Including npd and aspd

Yes this includes all psychotic disorders & disorders that cause psychotic symptoms

Yes this includes paraphilic disorders. All of them.

Yes this includes disorders that cause, or are even characterized by, attention seeking

Yes this includes disorders that directly have lying as a common symptom

Yes this includes dissociative disorders

Yes this includes any disorder with "gross" symptoms

Yes this includes physical disorders too

Yes this includes disorders that can cause loss of control of any kind- control of speech, control of body movement, etc.

Yes tis includes disorders that make someone "look scary"

This goes for literally any fucking disorder. There are not exceptions.

[vinecoveredgarden]

Paraphilias are Queer because "Queer" doesn't mean "gay" - it means fucking queer. It means "Society at large doesn't like this thing and it deviates from the norm, often with negative reactions or repercussions".

Paraphilias aren't orientations any more than whether you like blonde women or brunette women is an orientation - it's an attraction, it's a preference, it's a "I like this one".

Saying "Paraphiles aren't Queer because <thing they're attracted to> aren't a gender!" is fucking stupid. Do you hear yourself?

Are trans people queer? Are aro/ace people queer? But being trans has nothing to do with sexuality! And aro/ace people don't even HAVE a gender they're attracted to (in their respective attraction types - loving aces and horny aros I see you)!

Being a Paraphile is Queer because it goes against what society deems "acceptable". This doesn't make a paraphilia an attraction - it just makes it Queer.

You can be the most fucking cishet motherfucker alive and still be Queer for being fucking GNC. Not bisexual, not ace or aro, not agender or non-binary, just not preforming your gender "correctly". In the same vein, you can be the most allocishet on the planet and if you've got a paraphilias, congrats! You're fucking Queer!

[boydyke]

when people respond to trans women who have something to say about what they've experienced or witnessed as a trans woman with "haha what do any of these words mean. anyone in this thread smoke weed. none of these words are in the Bible. wow sometimes I stumble across a corner of the internet I never thought possible. op go touch grass" it is 100% coming from a position of privilege rather than whatever holier than thou high IQ normalperson stance they think it is. you haven't seen this shit before because you have the privilege to not be targeted by lolcow forums or called a paraphile for being into bdsm. trans women, women of color, autists & schizos etc--especially if many of these intersect--often don't have the luxury to be ignorant to transmisogyny and racism and ableism, or to not be targeted by neonazis for simply having a blog, their ""neet status"" is irrelevant to these things actually. this shit isn't exclusively online for them! many irl queer groups end up dominated by privileged white transmisogynists maybe because that's the status fucking quo. maybe be fucking nice for once and listen to things women have to say. the amount of meanspirited replies I've seen towards women talking about shit they've personally experienced recently is grating. it costs nothing to be nice and mind your own business. you don't have to act like underprivileged groups are hysterical psychotic freaks who care too much.

[rescuerabbit]

i rly dont like how some people are acting like the only reason all this is happening is because of staff abusing its power or whatever. yes, obviously tumblr staff is complicit, but this is also because of the mass-reporting callout spreading environment present on this fucking site!!! the way you all treat transfems that are sexually deviant or 'paraphiles' as if theyre scum of the fucking earth, this shit is your fault too! if youve rbed callout posts you shouldnt be fucking posting about how suprising and terrible this all is, because trans girls getting deleted en-masse is the natural endpoint of that behavior!!! yes staff is awful but most of this fucking site is responsible too. as long as this hypervigilant ostracization keeps happening through callouts and blocklists, people are going to get deactivated!!!!!!!!!!! dont reblog or spread or even read callout posts and keep this fucking site safe.

[corporatecoinings]

DRAGONQUEER/DRAGONPUNK

Emojicode : 🐲🌈🔥/ 🐉🌈🔥

LINK TO THE OFFICIAL DRAGONQUEER/DRAGONPUNK CARRD

A new label! Dragonqueer/dragonpunk (either name works, same thing!) is a queer stance about not being afraid to show how prideful you are about yourself, not being afraid to show yourself, or at least have a desire to want to express how you TRULY are and give the bird to the societal norm standards and those that hate you, existing to spite them; dragonqueer/dragonpunk beings can still live in caves (be closeted) too, however. A major aspect to dragonqueer/dragonpunk is also hoarding a shit ton of labels that describe yourself! Dragons love their hoards :) 

Due to history of dragons, they are seen as either evil and terrifying or benevolent and kind. Dragonqueer/dragonpunk aims to be both; be punk, be scary, be yourself, be unforgiving for who you are while also being a kind-hearted and loving being. There are dragons of all kind; western, easter, wyverns, wyrms, hydras, and so there is too in queer communities. Whichever kind of dragon you are is completely up to you, and you alone; you decide who you are. 

Dragonqueer/dragonpunk supports/believes…

LGBTQ+, MOGAI, LIOM, etc.

Xenogenders, neopronouns, etc.

Neoagabs/xenoagabs

Good-faith labels

Systems of all origins

Arissomei, desirdae, chronosians, aldernic, aldersex, allions, vesil, vior, xenonatured, eiment, etc.

Otherkin, therians, non-humans, alterhumans, etc.

Neurodivergent, mentally ill, disabled beings

Beings with munchausen's syndrome, factitious disorders, etc.

Hypersexuals 

Gender hoarders / gender collectors 

Multigender / polygender / etc.

Safe and anti-contact paraphiles (not acting on illegal shit??? This should make sense.. If its harmful. Dont act on it.)

Microlabels

Atypical dysphoria

PLUR

M-spec lesboys, turigirls, etc.

Contradictory labels

Systemarchy 

Pluralpunk/systempunk

Furries

Age/pet regressors

MAD pride

Reclaiming labels you can reclaim (queer, dyke, fag, freak, etc.)

Anti-psychiatry

Being endogenic/willogenic is not the same thing as being “transplural”

Educated self-diagnosis

Fiction affects reality

You can be trans without dysphoria

You can be a system without trauma

OC x canon is epic as long as its legal

Objectum and robosexuals

Supporting ex-cops, ex-gov, ex-military, ex-radqueers, ex-transids, etc. that have left their community and wish to recover

Abortion rights, womens rights, animal rights, etc.

Atheism

Kink at pride (when there are no bodily minors)

BDSM (as long as everyone consents and there are no bodily minors)

recovering/ex-religious beings

Consentual recovery for those that want it 

Supporting victims 

Dragonqueer/dragonpunk does NOT support/believe...

Harmful and pro-contact / neu-contact zoophiles, pedophiles, necrophiles, etc. (yet again if its harmful dont fucking do it)

Minors in nsfw communities, minors in kink, or having public kink where minors are around

That “all men should die” or “all women should die”

Harassing innocent cishets

Active radqueers and transids/transx

Terf, radfem, transmed, sysmed, etc. views

Harmful religion

Demonizing or stigmatizing disorders

Singlets in syscourse

“Superstraight”

Heavy political views, such as conservative and liberal

Proshippers, comshippers, darkshippers, etc. (how hard is it to say no illegal, abusive, etc. ships holy shit)

Lolicons and shotas

Racism or prejudice of ANY kind

Ableism

Forced recovery

Mental asylums

Exclusionists

Bigots

Dragonqueer/dragonpunk is neutral on...

Religion in general (dragonqueer/dragonpunk is inherently atheist)

catqueer

THIS IS THE OFFICIAL DRAGONQUEER/DRAGONPUNK. PEOPLE THAT WANT TO "RECLAIM" THIS LABEL WILL BE FACED WITH FIRE !!!

@ghosting-plural-userboxes thought you'd wanna see this, just comment if you want us to remove your tag from this post ^-^

[damnfandomproblems]

Fandom Problem #6988:

i miss when proshippers didn't include fucking PEDOPHILES and ZOOPHILES into their community because "oh they're just misunderstood quirky queers :((" and/or "they're disordered they can't help how they sexualize REAL LIFE children and animals :((" and/or "if we don't accept them they're more likely to offend, they need a safe space/community so they don't rape children and animals :(("

like i am no longer a proshipper because of this bullshit, i am still anti censorship and harrassment but FUCK being in a pedo friendly community

pedophiles and the likes can seek therapy and learn how to how to not sexualize children and animals, they can find their safe space/community offline and in group therapy supervised by a therapist so they're not normalizing sexualizing kids to each other, and if they're really doomed to offend if they don't feel welcome by others then they were always going to offend! that's just "oh her skirt was too short i can't help it" rape culture bullshit!!

"pro para" my ass, you're all just fucking pro pedo

"oh but what about paraphiles that aren't about children/animals/etc?? you're anti them, huh??"

pro kink covers that without including pedophiles! age play, pet/animal play, cnc, all of those and the paraphilas that may center around them are covered by being pro kink, the only difference between pro para and pro link is one community accepts pedophiles and the other does not—i am pro kink all the fucking way, but pro paras and their precious wiwwle pedos uwu can go kick rocks until their toes break

you all are just providing antis right, that all proshippers are just pedophiles and pedophile defenders who want to normalize pedophilia

you all are fucking sick

[afuckingsystemsthoughts]

i know I'm gonna get some hate for this, but it needs to be said.

hazbin hotel is problematic. the creator is problematic. the creator romanticizes sexual abuse in the show, along with sexual violence in general. it's also offensive to Christians, which, I'm not a big fan of Christianity, but I also won't offend their religion because that would be anti-theist and that's not good; we should respect all beliefs and religions (that are not cults, harmful or toxic.) i say this as a sexual abuse survivor myself- sexual abuse and sexual violence are not funny or entertaining. and if you fetishize sexual violence, you are not a person with a harmless kink. you are a paraphile, which makes you radqueer, which makes you a part of the community that mocks peoples races, trauma, physical and mental disorders, and normalizes pedophilia and zoophilia. including that in your shows and doing that alone speaks for who you are.

and ofc, the DID fakers and endos are gonna pretend they have hazbin hotel alters. every sys server I've been in has at least one system with an angel dust alter, he seems to be the most common, but there's others too, and id believe the systems who say they have hazbin hotel introjects, if it wasn't for every system we've seen with a hazbin hotel introject also has a fuck ton of other introjects from other media used by admitted and obvious fakers. I can accept fictives from toxic sources, because fictives aren't their source, just the brains representation and internalization of the source- but so many fakers following a dumb trend have these hazbin hotel introjects, that it makes me paranoid around system spaces and just... people who say they have DID/OSDD in general. and the fakers are following the trend using toxic media like hazbin hotel, which makes it worse because of how toxic the show and creator are. it shows that fakers truly do fetishize us and our trauma.

[eeveecraft]

Why are There so Many Radqueer “Build an Alter” Blogs???

Fucking christ, why are all these pro-radqueer blogs fucking EVERYWHERE lately??? It’s like when MAPs tried inserting themselves into the queer community, but for some reason, I keep seeing these goddamn blogs with a focus on creating templates for people to create systemmates with.

As seen in my last post about these... individuals, radqueers are not good. They’re trying to normalize things like paraphilic disorders and other things I won’t delve into here, and we seriously should be concerned at how many of them that have cropped up in the last few months.

Let me make this clear, radqueers:

YOU ARE NOT WELCOME HERE.

Either stop trying to normalize and justify sh!t like pedophilia and zoophilia, or get the fuck out of the plural community. We don’t want you, and we sure as hell don’t want people who try to equate queerness with paraphilic disorders. I’ve had to block so many of these weirdos, but they keep. Cropping. Up. And they’re really focused on headmate templates and requests for some reason??? I wonder if it’s the same user with a sh!tload of alts, trying to make it seem like there’s more of them than there are. Or maybe it’s a group of friends that are desperately trying to insert themselves into our community by appearing goddamn everywhere like they’re the norm here.

Well, they shouldn’t be.

At least I see a few accounts that are vocally anti-radqueer, so it’s not completely one-sided. Still, one of these blogs like this is already one too many. I suggest blocking any radqueer blog on sight, deprive them of attention and maybe they’ll fuck off. I don’t know how possible it is to make them realize this sh!t is wrong; they could be too far gone to be reasoned with.

Anyway, radqueers bad, don’t welcome them in the community.

[antiradqueer]

wow i sure do love posting this every few months. omg i dont even think its BEEN a month since i last had to say this.

Endogenic systems have nothing to do with rqs, transid, so on.

Mspec Monos have nothing to do with rqs, being radically inclusive is not at all like radqueer.

Transpecies, alterhuman, atypical dysphoria, so on, are not radqueer and will never be theirs.

Having atypical dysphoria or being a paraphile does not make someone rq.

By bringing them into your bullshit youre allowing them to latch onto the thing youre arguing about, not just in the way where they begin claiming shit thats blatantly not theirs but in other peoples eyes too.

Just like. Holy shit, stop bringing that shit into the antirq tags when what youre talking about has nothing to do with them. Believe you me, it works out in their favour more than yours.

Im tired of the absolute fucking losers who ive never seen before either in the tags, my notes of in my entire life just appearing in the tags talking about completely unrelated shit. Get a fucking grip on yourselfs, get lost, damn.

[sp00nful0fsuga]

Reminder that anything in fiction is never too far. Maybe for you personally, but not to just exist. You can find anything uncomfortable but telling someone something is "too far for fiction" is just not true.

Drawing a fictional character with a paraphile flag is not "morally wrong". This character doesn't exist sweetheart, and nothing is going to make them rape a horse because they physically cant. Not to mention, paras have a right to find comfort in projecting their own attractions onto characters they enjoy. People do it with their sexualities, gender and mental disorders all the time and (mostly) no one gives a fuck!

Sorry for the rant, two fuckheads in my fiance's server finally left over an image of Blitz and his sister wearing para flag shirts. (Blitz canonically wants to fuck horses bro lmao)

They gave me mega bad vibes since the start so. Lol bye losers.

We hate antis on this account 💕

[dovspeaksbeast]

[WHO'S THAT BEAST? WHO'S THAT BEAST?]

hello I am a werewolf on the internet and on the internet you can call me Dov . the name Dov means bear which I think is really funny because I am a wolf.

i am an adult male in my early 20s. i consider myself to be both human and beast at the same time. hence werewolf. being a werewolf feels like home. i use the term semi-loosely. I might call myself a wolf or a dog. or other beastly things. my experiences do not line up exactly with the stereotypical werewolf depiction. it is a word i think accurately describes me and my relationship to “humanity”. the word “alterhuman” works too. i don’t like labelling myself for the most part.

i’m a musician and music is pretty much my whole life but also i love any kind of art ever. I love nature and the woods and bones and dark lakes and that big ol’ moon. and the ocean and seashells and salt and deep blue. i have always had a deep affinity my entire life for anything surreal and the bizarre things that come out in the night and the strange world of dreams. sometimes I just post silly words. I like anything that can be described as “liminal”, which is also a word that describes me.

i am gay and cisgender . trans/nb/gnc folks are forever welcome with open arms and safe on this blog . i love u . queerness is the coolest thing ever

any nonhumans , therians, alterhumans, otherkin etc. are of course cherished and welcome here as well <3

my dms are always open and if you are respectful i am a very friendly beast that loves to bark and wag my tail and make new friends!!! :))))

asks are lovely too, I’ve just turned off anon asks. if you have nice things to say i wanna know who you are and i would love to chat and hang out and be friends . I promise im very silly. if you have mean things to say , at least say it to my face, person to person, and don’t hide behind anonymity like a coward.

pls come say hi!!!!

DNIs:

minors please don't interact. minors interacting with this blog makes me uncomfortable. this is a mostly sfw blog but i may post nsfw occasionally. also just a warning i am a werewolf and may occasionally post gory/unsavory things . 

homophobes fuck straight off. transphobes/TERFs fuck straight off. any queerphobes fuck straight off . you are not worth my time and energy.

my culture is a core part of who i am and if you are an antisemite i will block you. i will also block you if you don’t believe palestinians deserve to live as free and dignified lives as anyone else. 

I do not want pro-contact paraphiles here. period. please. no ed or s/h blogs PLEASE. 

if ppl are rude and annoying to me i will not engage with you i will just block you. 

anyways WELCOME TO MY SILLY WOLFY BLOG AROOOOOOO

(painting is "Glow" by Kim Dorland)

[goobersnart]

Joyqueer

Image description of flag is tba

I want to preface this coining post with the following:

This blog is not a discourse blog or a coining blog! We don't take requests for this stuff. If you start shit you will be blocked and ignored! ^_^

The emojicode (cus we're a sucker for 'em): 🌤️🌈

Feel free to do whatever the fuck you want w/ this flag, it's a pretty flag, have fun with it!

This is a long post, be prepared HELP

Joyqueer is essentially a blankqueer term where one prefers to focus on positivity. They try and look on the bright side of things, even in the darkest of hours.

Even though Joyqueer focuses on the positivity, it doesn't condone toxic positivity. We're not naïve, the world isn't sunshine and rainbows 24/7. We look on that side when applicable to ease life and stress because focusing on the bad 24/7 and being drowned in misery is painful and hurts.

This stance is for good faith terms/identities, follows P.L.U.R (Peace, Love, Unity (and), Respect), and users might spread positivity and joy amongst others.

This stance is supportive & inclusive of/to the following:

Mspec queers (ie mspec lesbians, gays, biles, bipan, etc.), gender anarchy (being a girlboy, transfemasc thing, having no gender while having gender, etc), & relationship anarchy (being aplatonic, being loveless, having sex with your friends and or doing things with friends that others consider "weird", polyamory, being with objects and or stuffed animals, etc)

System inclusive with the respect of cultures and against spreading misinformation.

Inclusive of ones with cluster B disorders and to educate about them and spread joy to the ones with the disorders that are suffering. NPD abuse doesn't exist, and pw HPD/BPD/ASPD aren't bad for existing!

Anticontact paraphiles that are just existing in a world that sadly doesnt understand them. attraction isn't action and no matter how ""harmful"" the attraction is (attracts cannot be harmful as thought crimes dont exist), you aren't a bad person for something you cannot control.

Anti-censorship in art and storytelling; fiction freedom in the largest of sense. Fiction isn't on the same level as reality, characters are the dolls you play with.

Youth liberation; realizing that the youth isn't stupid and that children are people too.

Atypical dysphoria and the ones that're nonhuman and or alterhuman, extranthrope, altsex, therian, objectkin, conceptkin, etc. A means to spreading positivity and joy to the ones suffering with odd and unusual dysphoria. This includes transhumanism and the personal choice of deciding what one does to ones body; this includes things that you'd find personally uncomfortable/harmful.

This stance is not supportive & inclusive of/to the following:

Transitioning to harmful transids (transnazi, transracist, transblack, transasian, etc.)

xenosatanism

any sort of harassment

antitheism/abolition of religion

Like I said above the cut, any sort of hate will get deleted. Spread positivity to the ones that need it, the world needs more positivity. If one has any questions, feel free to ask! :]

[pathetic-manwh0re]

fuck people only talking about parasocial relationships. paraphilic relationships baby!

we both fuck on top of graves, kidnap someone and operate them while getting of together, opening someone's body and seeing how their breath catches at the sight of the organs. telling her to touch it because "it's fine, they'll be dead soon anyway", guiding him when it attempts to fuck the would. sneaking into other people's houses and watching them have sex, hand over her mouth, forcing it to stay quiet because shh i know seeinh them being intimate turns you on, don't let them notice that youre getting all worked up by it, baby. using him whenever i want to because they love me, so they must enjoy it. being pathetic and illegal with each other, always threatening to call the police if she wont do what i want, but it knows damn well i wont because i love him too much <3

[sewers-headmates]

TELEMACHUS AND ANTINOUS FROM EPIC THE MUSICAL BUT THEY GET A LIL FREAKY WITH EACH OTHER AND AND AND TRANSMASC TELEMACHUS PELASEPLEASEPLEASEPLEASEPLEASEPLEASEPLEASEPLEWASE IM VEGGING ON MY KNEES AND KNOWING AT THE BARS OF MY ENCLOSURE

(i am unwell. the sharpwolf brainrot is TOO STRONG)

Custom Android: Telemachus & Antinous

developer note: sure! honestly more inspired by mythology! i like epic but more of a mythology fan instead of the musical (love epic hate the fanbase kinda thing). also odysseus’s number one hater same with Achilles. FUCK Achilles. so unrelated but it always confuses me in some versions that Telemachus and Circe marry. like ok that’s a choice kid!

Name: Telemachus,

Nickname: none

Age: 20

Gender: transmasc

Pronouns: he/him

Sexuality: gay

Species: human, transWolf

Source: epic the musical

Roles: mood booster

cisIDs: human, greek, prince, scrawny, optimistic, brave, friendly, honorable, ADHD, autistic

transIDs: transGender, transWolf, transWolfEars, transWolfTail, transFangs, permaHappy, transLoved, nullTrauma

Other Labels: mono

Appearance:

Name: Antinous

Nickname: none

Age: 33

Gender: cis male

Pronouns: he/him

Sexuality: bisexual

Species: human, transLamb

Source: Epic The Musical

Roles: persecutor, anger holder

cisIDs: human, greek, anger issues, BPD, NPD, god complex, destructive, abusive, scars

transIDs: transLamb, transLambEars, transLambTail, transWool, transBovineEyes, transHappy, transHypersexual, permaCollared, transOwned

trisIDs: trisHarmful

Paraphiles: masochist

Other Labels: mono

Appearance:

i hope you enjoy well enough! little short but uhhh maybe i shouldn’t do my requests at 12:50 am t-t hugo is sort of keeping us up oops

-mod damien

Order Complete! Enjoy Your Android!

[cassiopeacollective]

The Cassiopea Collective

We are a self diagnosed polyfragmented DID system

We are Anti endos (and any non trauma "systems") and would kindly ask endos and pro endos to go argue/harass/whatever the fuck you want on @mangles-cove , as it's Mangle's blog and they are an anger holder craving to argue with people

We also make sysboxes and banners on @antiendosysboxes

Our subsystem has their own blog ( @thejavamultiverse )

Our Tommyinnit introject decided to make his own blog

( @tommys-confusion )

Our DNI, About us and other stuff is under the cut

Dni

Endos/Proendos

Pro contact paraphiles

People who claim source trauma isn't real trauma

Ableists, Homophobes, Transphobes, Aphobes, and any other queerphobes.

Fakeclaimers

Israel supporters

Nsfw blogs

Anti furries, anti therians/otherkin, anti age regression/pet regression, anti paper dragons

CG5 haters

About us

Bodily 17

(French) Canadian

Bilingual

Introject heavy, non-human heavy and queer heavy

Androack (go see the link)

Unknown amount of alters

Alternates between I/Me and We/Us

Diagnosed with ADHD, Anxiety, SPD and Dyspraxia

Not completely diagnosed with autism (not sure how to explain it)

Collectively pan, arospike, asexual and polyromantic

Like to think we're funny but we make dad jokes. (Our only funny jokes are flipping off inanimate objects and threatening each others)

Other stuff

Alter list that could/will post

THIS WILL NOT BE UPDATED ANYMORE FUCK THAT SHIT WE'RE TOO MANY

( ) or parenthesis He/Him sign off is -()

(( )) or double He/She/They sign off is -(())

((( ))) or triple He/Him sign off is -((()))

Alec or Dream He/Smile/Green sign off is -🎭🗡️

Alex any masculine pronouns sign off is -🟢🔴

Ares She/They sign off is not set

Asher He/They/She/Love/♥️ sign off is -♥️

Asmodeus He/They/Dem sign off is -🟣🟠

Bee slime They/Them sign off is -🍯😁

Branzy He/Him sign off is -🟣🗡️ (Host)

Carmilla carmine She/They sign off is -🔫

Cassidy She/They/It sign off is -🔋👻

Cedric He/She sign off is -🦊

Circus baby or Elisabeth She/It sign off is -🎪🔧

Clay He/Bear sign off is his name or -🐻

Clownpierce He/It sign off is -🃏(Host)

Cyrus He/Him sign off is -🎸👓

Eret She/Her sign off is her name

Eret #1

Eret #5

Eret #6

Erkas He/Him sign off is -🐦⚫

Ezrael He/Him sign off is -⚫⚪

Flora She/They sign off is -🌸

Fred He/It sign off is his name

Gryf He/Roar/Claw/Griffe sign off is -🦁

Icarius He/They sign off is -🗡️🩸

Jake He/Him sign off is -🐎

Jigmose He/Him sign off is -🚒

Kaboodle She/Her sign off is -🐰(Host)

King He/They sign off is not set

Kristina She/Her sign off is -🎮🩸

Lucien He/Duck sign off is -🦆

Marc He/They sign off is -🕶️👑

Marshall She/They sign off is -🌈

Matpat He/Him sign off is -🔍

Music man He/It/Radio sign off is -🎵

Mysticat or Mysty any pronouns sign off is -🟠🟢

Oliver cumbucket He/Fox sign off is -🦊🍷

Pancake cat or Pancat Meow/Pancake/🥞/It/They sign off is -🥞

Ranboo He/End sign off is -🖤🤍

Sam bucket He/It/Bucket sign off is -🪣

Sandy or Wilbur ask pronouns sign off is -🥀

Sherbert They/He sign off is -🟣🟡

Slime They/Goop/Sad sign off is -💧

Sun They/It sign off is -🌞

Tommyinnit He/Him sign off is -💿

Tulin He/She/They/Bird sign off is -🕊️

Urus He/She sign off is -🐉

Wolf He/They/🐾 sign off is -🐺

XXRBWATASLRB or Flabor Void/It/He sign off is -🕳️

[eeveecraft]

This Blog's Stance on Radqueers

Just had to block an account saying that you can't be pro-endo but be against radqueers. Why? Well, I recently discovered what a radqueer is, and I'd like to enlighten you, so you don't make the mistake of mistaking them for something they're not.

What's a Radqueer?

Well, if we input that question into a search engine:

The fact that the fucking MAP Wiki pops up as the third result is already concerning!

This is what the Radqueer Wiki states:

Radqueer is the term used to refer to a radical political movement that advocates for paraphiles, transids, and other ostracized identities to be accepted in mainstream queer spaces. The term was originally coined in late 2021 by now deactivated Tumblr user foucault-divine-mephisto as a response to "the puritanism, hypocrisy and general rejection in the Queer community regarding a range of marginalized and stigmatized Queersexualities (paraphilias), internal identities (transage, transabled, transill/transnoso, transpecies, alterhumans/transnonhuman etc) and behaviours (social, sexual eccentricity etc). " Since its original coinage in 2021, the community made a steady increase in popularity, though never branching out of obscurity.

Oh? Paraphilias? You mean... as the National Library of Medicine defines it:

Paraphilias are persistent and recurrent sexual interests, urges, fantasies, or behaviors of marked intensity involving objects, activities, or even situations that are atypical in nature. Although not innately pathological, a paraphilic disorder can evolve if paraphilia invokes harm, distress, or functional impairment on the lives of the affected individual or others. A total of eight Paraphilias are listed in the DSM V and include pedophilia, exhibitionism, voyeurism, sexual sadism, sexual masochism, frotteurism, fetishism, and transvestic fetishism.[1]

If you thought zoophilia was missing, don't worry, it's under "Other specified paraphilic disorder," as stated in this Advances in Psychiatric Treatment paper.

Oh. Yeah, including those paraphilias. So... why are we wanting to allow people with conditions that makes them far more likely to hurt children and animals into queer spaces? And if you think the Radqueer Wiki isn't also including paraphilic disorders in the definition, well, here's one of the definitions from the good ol' MAP Wiki:

RadQueer is unconditionally inclusive of: ALL trans-x/transid identities (and supports all their social and medical transitions) ALL paraphilias and the multiplicity of their related contact stances (anti-contact, complex-contact, neutral-contact, restricted-contact, pro-contact). — Pro-c’s on “potentially harmful paraphilias” (if acted upon) are completely welcomed in the RadQueer community if they stay behaviorally non-offending/non-active. Ex-offenders are welcomed too! Debating on contact stances is totally acceptable as long as it doesn’t directly incites to committing offenses ~

Oh? You're skeptical because that's from the goddamn MAP Wiki? Fair enough. This one's from Radqueer Info's carrd:

Here's more elaboration from their FAQ:

So, to summarize: a radqueer is someone who is accepting of ALL paraphilias, including paraphilic disorders, and other "controversial" identities. There's other things they accept that are eyebrow-raising at minimum, but let's stay on topic.

Why is This Bad?

Let me make it clear, as the National Library of Medicine stated, paraphilias are not inherently harmful. It's paraphilic disorders like pedophilia and zoophilia where it leads to the harm of others or the person with the disorder is when it becomes an issue. Being accepting of paraphilic disorders can normalize these behaviors and also convince the person with the disorder that they don't need help. This is like MAPs saying fucking pedophilia belongs under the queer umbrella, and hopefully, you all know why that is a massive fucking NOPE.

Conflating queerness with literal disorders that compel a person to harm children, animals, and/or non-consenting adults is quite frankly, fucking insulting. Being queer does NOT make you more likely to harm others, it does NOT urge you to harm others. A grown dude consensually having sex with another consenting grown dude is NOT the same as a grown man violating a child, period, I can't believe I have to fucking state this.

And just to draw back to my original statement, this is also NOT the fucking same as being pro-endogenic. Endogenic systems, like queer people, are NOT more likely to harm others because they're endogenic. Does me having five Dragons in my head make me more likely to torture some non-consenting person for sexual gratification? No. But if I'm sexually attracted to such a prospect, then yes, that makes it more likely for me to do it.

Notice the language I've used throughout this post, I'm saying having these disorders makes you more likely to engage in harmful behaviors, it does NOT guarantee someone with these disorders WILL do these horrible things. Experiencing attraction is not a crime, nor do thought crimes exist, but acting on this attraction is. A pedophile is not an inherently evil person, but they become one when they act on their attraction and ruin a child's life for good. Same goes with other paraphilic disorders.

Instead of being allowed into the queer community and offered the same acceptance as non-disordered identities, these people should be redirected into getting treatment and help before they do end up causing irreversible harm. However, if they haven't done any harm, they shouldn't be demonized and harassed. Harassing and demonizing these people just causes them to recede further into harmful thinking and behaviors, and it will cause them to seek solace with other people who will encourage that thinking (Think of the "MAP Pride" movement as reference).

And especially with "accepting" these paraphilic disorders, it allows communities based around them to form, which allows echo chambers to form that can make someone with a paraphilic disorder even MORE likely to become a perpetrator. It's like being around a bunch of binge drinkers. If you're around a bunch of binge drinkers for long enough, you're far more likely to start binge drinking yourself.

So yeah! You can absolutely be pro-endogenic and anti-radqueer. I'm anti, "Allowing people who are at higher risk for harming people on the same level as queer people." Like, do you not see how harmful of a connotation that is? It's equating queerness to literal disorders, harmful disorders at that. And after all the queer community's done to prove we AREN'T disordered/inherently harmful, conflating that with paraphilic disorders that are defined by harm is such a slap to the face.

Conclusion

There's other issues with the radqueer label that I could bring up, but this post is long enough as it is, and I hope the stuff I have listed is enough reason already to not like this label. It is important to be inclusive, but not inclusive to the point where innocent people are harmed because of it. Now that I know what radqueer actually is, I'm definitely concerned by their presence in the endogenic tags, and I don't think it's a good idea to welcome them with open arms.

If we happen to have any radqueer followers, I really hope you read this post in full and see where I'm coming from. If you still don't agree, you're free to unfollow! I don't want people who are fine with allowing people with paraphilic disorders in queer spaces instead of encouraging them to get help following this blog.

7-19-2024