#fuck you too paraphiles

[chaos-in-one]

Friendly (or unfriendly if you're against this) reminder that this blog is supportive of ALL disorders. This blog does not think ANY disorder inherently makes someone a bad person, and is against any disorder being demonized. This blog wholeheartedly believes that a bad person having a disorder, yes, even if things that are also symptoms of their disorder are part of what caused harm, does not make the disorder a "bad" or "evil" disorder or excuse ableism and demonization directed towards the disorder.

Yes this includes personality disorders

Including npd and aspd

Yes this includes all psychotic disorders & disorders that cause psychotic symptoms

Yes this includes paraphilic disorders. All of them.

Yes this includes disorders that cause, or are even characterized by, attention seeking

Yes this includes disorders that directly have lying as a common symptom

Yes this includes dissociative disorders

Yes this includes any disorder with "gross" symptoms

Yes this includes physical disorders too

Yes this includes disorders that can cause loss of control of any kind- control of speech, control of body movement, etc.

Yes tis includes disorders that make someone "look scary"

This goes for literally any fucking disorder. There are not exceptions.

[vinecoveredgarden]

Paraphilias are Queer because "Queer" doesn't mean "gay" - it means fucking queer. It means "Society at large doesn't like this thing and it deviates from the norm, often with negative reactions or repercussions".

Paraphilias aren't orientations any more than whether you like blonde women or brunette women is an orientation - it's an attraction, it's a preference, it's a "I like this one".

Saying "Paraphiles aren't Queer because <thing they're attracted to> aren't a gender!" is fucking stupid. Do you hear yourself?

Are trans people queer? Are aro/ace people queer? But being trans has nothing to do with sexuality! And aro/ace people don't even HAVE a gender they're attracted to (in their respective attraction types - loving aces and horny aros I see you)!

Being a Paraphile is Queer because it goes against what society deems "acceptable". This doesn't make a paraphilia an attraction - it just makes it Queer.

You can be the most fucking cishet motherfucker alive and still be Queer for being fucking GNC. Not bisexual, not ace or aro, not agender or non-binary, just not preforming your gender "correctly". In the same vein, you can be the most allocishet on the planet and if you've got a paraphilias, congrats! You're fucking Queer!

[noctilu-uca]

MOTS DOUX D'UNE DÉFUNTE: LE PRÉVISIONNISTE.

"No person born good has ever had to swear to be it. Many kings have exalted themselves false idols, cocooned in gold."

"To indulge and bask in Summer’s golden hours… what a terrible Midas touch, that even the heart turns to gold."

[rescuerabbit]

i rly dont like how some people are acting like the only reason all this is happening is because of staff abusing its power or whatever. yes, obviously tumblr staff is complicit, but this is also because of the mass-reporting callout spreading environment present on this fucking site!!! the way you all treat transfems that are sexually deviant or 'paraphiles' as if theyre scum of the fucking earth, this shit is your fault too! if youve rbed callout posts you shouldnt be fucking posting about how suprising and terrible this all is, because trans girls getting deleted en-masse is the natural endpoint of that behavior!!! yes staff is awful but most of this fucking site is responsible too. as long as this hypervigilant ostracization keeps happening through callouts and blocklists, people are going to get deactivated!!!!!!!!!!! dont reblog or spread or even read callout posts and keep this fucking site safe.

[corporatecoinings]

DRAGONQUEER/DRAGONPUNK

Emojicode : 🐲🌈🔥/ 🐉🌈🔥

LINK TO THE OFFICIAL DRAGONQUEER/DRAGONPUNK CARRD

A new label! Dragonqueer/dragonpunk (either name works, same thing!) is a queer stance about not being afraid to show how prideful you are about yourself, not being afraid to show yourself, or at least have a desire to want to express how you TRULY are and give the bird to the societal norm standards and those that hate you, existing to spite them; dragonqueer/dragonpunk beings can still live in caves (be closeted) too, however. A major aspect to dragonqueer/dragonpunk is also hoarding a shit ton of labels that describe yourself! Dragons love their hoards :) 

Due to history of dragons, they are seen as either evil and terrifying or benevolent and kind. Dragonqueer/dragonpunk aims to be both; be punk, be scary, be yourself, be unforgiving for who you are while also being a kind-hearted and loving being. There are dragons of all kind; western, easter, wyverns, wyrms, hydras, and so there is too in queer communities. Whichever kind of dragon you are is completely up to you, and you alone; you decide who you are. 

Dragonqueer/dragonpunk supports/believes…

LGBTQ+, MOGAI, LIOM, etc.

Xenogenders, neopronouns, etc.

Neoagabs/xenoagabs

Good-faith labels

Systems of all origins

Arissomei, desirdae, chronosians, aldernic, aldersex, allions, vesil, vior, xenonatured, eiment, etc.

Otherkin, therians, non-humans, alterhumans, etc.

Neurodivergent, mentally ill, disabled beings

Beings with munchausen's syndrome, factitious disorders, etc.

Hypersexuals 

Gender hoarders / gender collectors 

Multigender / polygender / etc.

Safe and anti-contact paraphiles (not acting on illegal shit??? This should make sense.. If its harmful. Dont act on it.)

Microlabels

Atypical dysphoria

PLUR

M-spec lesboys, turigirls, etc.

Contradictory labels

Systemarchy 

Pluralpunk/systempunk

Furries

Age/pet regressors

MAD pride

Reclaiming labels you can reclaim (queer, dyke, fag, freak, etc.)

Anti-psychiatry

Being endogenic/willogenic is not the same thing as being “transplural”

Educated self-diagnosis

Fiction affects reality

You can be trans without dysphoria

You can be a system without trauma

OC x canon is epic as long as its legal

Objectum and robosexuals

Supporting ex-cops, ex-gov, ex-military, ex-radqueers, ex-transids, etc. that have left their community and wish to recover

Abortion rights, womens rights, animal rights, etc.

Atheism

Kink at pride (when there are no bodily minors)

BDSM (as long as everyone consents and there are no bodily minors)

recovering/ex-religious beings

Consentual recovery for those that want it 

Supporting victims 

Dragonqueer/dragonpunk does NOT support/believe...

Harmful and pro-contact / neu-contact zoophiles, pedophiles, necrophiles, etc. (yet again if its harmful dont fucking do it)

Minors in nsfw communities, minors in kink, or having public kink where minors are around

That “all men should die” or “all women should die”

Harassing innocent cishets

Active radqueers and transids/transx

Terf, radfem, transmed, sysmed, etc. views

Harmful religion

Demonizing or stigmatizing disorders

Singlets in syscourse

“Superstraight”

Heavy political views, such as conservative and liberal

Proshippers, comshippers, darkshippers, etc. (how hard is it to say no illegal, abusive, etc. ships holy shit)

Lolicons and shotas

Racism or prejudice of ANY kind

Ableism

Forced recovery

Mental asylums

Exclusionists

Bigots

Dragonqueer/dragonpunk is neutral on...

Religion in general (dragonqueer/dragonpunk is inherently atheist)

catqueer

THIS IS THE OFFICIAL DRAGONQUEER/DRAGONPUNK. PEOPLE THAT WANT TO "RECLAIM" THIS LABEL WILL BE FACED WITH FIRE !!!

@ghosting-plural-userboxes thought you'd wanna see this, just comment if you want us to remove your tag from this post ^-^

[caninemillimeter]

we're pro paraphile forever here. thought crime isn't fucking real. develop an actual ethical compass instead of resting on what christianity and the catholic church instilled in your culture. if you wonder why tgirls don't feel safe around you it's probably because you have way too much shit to unpack to keep up with us

[damnfandomproblems]

Fandom Problem #6988:

i miss when proshippers didn't include fucking PEDOPHILES and ZOOPHILES into their community because "oh they're just misunderstood quirky queers :((" and/or "they're disordered they can't help how they sexualize REAL LIFE children and animals :((" and/or "if we don't accept them they're more likely to offend, they need a safe space/community so they don't rape children and animals :(("

like i am no longer a proshipper because of this bullshit, i am still anti censorship and harrassment but FUCK being in a pedo friendly community

pedophiles and the likes can seek therapy and learn how to how to not sexualize children and animals, they can find their safe space/community offline and in group therapy supervised by a therapist so they're not normalizing sexualizing kids to each other, and if they're really doomed to offend if they don't feel welcome by others then they were always going to offend! that's just "oh her skirt was too short i can't help it" rape culture bullshit!!

"pro para" my ass, you're all just fucking pro pedo

"oh but what about paraphiles that aren't about children/animals/etc?? you're anti them, huh??"

pro kink covers that without including pedophiles! age play, pet/animal play, cnc, all of those and the paraphilas that may center around them are covered by being pro kink, the only difference between pro para and pro link is one community accepts pedophiles and the other does not—i am pro kink all the fucking way, but pro paras and their precious wiwwle pedos uwu can go kick rocks until their toes break

you all are just providing antis right, that all proshippers are just pedophiles and pedophile defenders who want to normalize pedophilia

you all are fucking sick

[afuckingsystemsthoughts]

i know I'm gonna get some hate for this, but it needs to be said.

hazbin hotel is problematic. the creator is problematic. the creator romanticizes sexual abuse in the show, along with sexual violence in general. it's also offensive to Christians, which, I'm not a big fan of Christianity, but I also won't offend their religion because that would be anti-theist and that's not good; we should respect all beliefs and religions (that are not cults, harmful or toxic.) i say this as a sexual abuse survivor myself- sexual abuse and sexual violence are not funny or entertaining. and if you fetishize sexual violence, you are not a person with a harmless kink. you are a paraphile, which makes you radqueer, which makes you a part of the community that mocks peoples races, trauma, physical and mental disorders, and normalizes pedophilia and zoophilia. including that in your shows and doing that alone speaks for who you are.

and ofc, the DID fakers and endos are gonna pretend they have hazbin hotel alters. every sys server I've been in has at least one system with an angel dust alter, he seems to be the most common, but there's others too, and id believe the systems who say they have hazbin hotel introjects, if it wasn't for every system we've seen with a hazbin hotel introject also has a fuck ton of other introjects from other media used by admitted and obvious fakers. I can accept fictives from toxic sources, because fictives aren't their source, just the brains representation and internalization of the source- but so many fakers following a dumb trend have these hazbin hotel introjects, that it makes me paranoid around system spaces and just... people who say they have DID/OSDD in general. and the fakers are following the trend using toxic media like hazbin hotel, which makes it worse because of how toxic the show and creator are. it shows that fakers truly do fetishize us and our trauma.

[eeveecraft]

Why are There so Many Radqueer “Build an Alter” Blogs???

Fucking christ, why are all these pro-radqueer blogs fucking EVERYWHERE lately??? It’s like when MAPs tried inserting themselves into the queer community, but for some reason, I keep seeing these goddamn blogs with a focus on creating templates for people to create systemmates with.

As seen in my last post about these... individuals, radqueers are not good. They’re trying to normalize things like paraphilic disorders and other things I won’t delve into here, and we seriously should be concerned at how many of them that have cropped up in the last few months.

Let me make this clear, radqueers:

YOU ARE NOT WELCOME HERE.

Either stop trying to normalize and justify sh!t like pedophilia and zoophilia, or get the fuck out of the plural community. We don’t want you, and we sure as hell don’t want people who try to equate queerness with paraphilic disorders. I’ve had to block so many of these weirdos, but they keep. Cropping. Up. And they’re really focused on headmate templates and requests for some reason??? I wonder if it’s the same user with a sh!tload of alts, trying to make it seem like there’s more of them than there are. Or maybe it’s a group of friends that are desperately trying to insert themselves into our community by appearing goddamn everywhere like they’re the norm here.

Well, they shouldn’t be.

At least I see a few accounts that are vocally anti-radqueer, so it’s not completely one-sided. Still, one of these blogs like this is already one too many. I suggest blocking any radqueer blog on sight, deprive them of attention and maybe they’ll fuck off. I don’t know how possible it is to make them realize this sh!t is wrong; they could be too far gone to be reasoned with.

Anyway, radqueers bad, don’t welcome them in the community.

[francicide]

tl;dr I’m pro NON-harmful transid, and anti-contact pro-paraphilia, I’m both transid and a paraphile, and im pissed and tired of the mogai community.

Not revised, I just woke up it 9 am, i had a bad dream, i haven’t ate, if I said something wrong let me know. I am not the best at explaining things so if someone thinks I explained something poorly please feel free to correct me, thanks, I’m an open learner.

Ok. Dude. Stop following me when you have transid/transx in your dni. I’m heavily against harmful transitioning, along with harmful transid types (transrace, transharmed, transharmdul, etc etc). You guys realize like… not all of them are bad right? It’s based on atypical dysphoria. Not all transids are harmful, I’m tired of seeing just “transid dni” in general when like…. there’s half of it that’s legitimately harmful. I have coined anti-radqueer transids and permaids and I plan to make more. They don’t /have/ to be harmful (ex. transblonde).

this goes for paraphilias too. you’re just ableist if you have “pro-para/para” on your dni. not all of us are pro/neu/complex contact. paraphilias are disorders, we’re not all predators. pedophilia, zoophilia, whatever is “harmful” when it’s with contact, you guys realize that right? you get what I’m saying? It is BAD when there is no consent involved, along with contact. Thoughts aren’t actual real life crimes and thoughts do not mean we will act them out. You’re excluding a part of the mogai community, please know that. If you don’t want pro-contacts to follow you, just say dni pro-contact. it’s not that hard.

kind of sick of this blog when the community lowk just… fucking sucks.

Not going to tag in the main tags, but feel free to reblog.

[dovspeaksbeast]

[WHO'S THAT BEAST? WHO'S THAT BEAST?]

hello I am a werewolf on the internet and on the internet you can call me Dov (pronounced like "dove" as in past tense of "dive") . the name Dov means bear which I think is really funny because I am a wolf.

i am an adult male in my early 20s. i consider myself to be both human and beast at the same time. hence werewolf. being a werewolf feels like home. i use the term semi-loosely. I might call myself a wolf or a dog. or other beastly things. my experiences do not line up exactly with the stereotypical werewolf depiction. it is a word i think accurately describes me and my relationship to “humanity”. the word “alterhuman” works too. i don’t like labelling myself for the most part.

i’m a musician and music is pretty much my whole life but also i love any kind of art ever. I love nature and the woods and bones and dark lakes and that big ol’ moon. and the ocean and seashells and salt and deep blue. i have always had a deep affinity my entire life for anything surreal and the bizarre things that come out in the night and the strange world of dreams. sometimes I just post silly words. I like anything that can be described as “liminal”, which is also a word that describes me.

i am gay and cisgender . trans/nb/gnc folks are forever welcome with open arms and safe on this blog . i love u . queerness is the coolest thing ever

any nonhumans , therians, alterhumans, otherkin etc. are of course cherished and welcome here as well <3

my dms are always open and if you are respectful i am a very friendly beast that loves to bark and wag my tail and make new friends!!! :))))

asks are lovely too, I’ve just turned off anon asks. if you have nice things to say i wanna know who you are and i would love to chat and hang out and be friends . I promise im very silly. if you have mean things to say , at least say it to my face, person to person, and don’t hide behind anonymity like a coward.

pls come say hi!!!!

DNIs:

minors please don't interact. minors interacting with this blog makes me uncomfortable. this is a mostly sfw blog but i may post nsfw occasionally. also just a warning i am a werewolf and may occasionally post gory/unsavory things . 

homophobes fuck straight off. transphobes/TERFs fuck straight off. any queerphobes fuck straight off . you are not worth my time and energy.

my culture is a core part of who i am and if you are an antisemite i will block you. i will also block you if you don’t believe palestinians deserve to live as free and dignified lives as anyone else. 

I do not want pro-contact paraphiles here. period. please. no ed or s/h blogs PLEASE. 

if ppl are rude and annoying to me i will not engage with you i will just block you. 

anyways WELCOME TO MY SILLY WOLFY BLOG AROOOOOOO

(painting is "Glow" by Kim Dorland)

[antiradqueer]

wow i sure do love posting this every few months. omg i dont even think its BEEN a month since i last had to say this.

Endogenic systems have nothing to do with rqs, transid, so on.

Mspec Monos have nothing to do with rqs, being radically inclusive is not at all like radqueer.

Transpecies, alterhuman, atypical dysphoria, so on, are not radqueer and will never be theirs.

Having atypical dysphoria or being a paraphile does not make someone rq.

By bringing them into your bullshit youre allowing them to latch onto the thing youre arguing about, not just in the way where they begin claiming shit thats blatantly not theirs but in other peoples eyes too.

Just like. Holy shit, stop bringing that shit into the antirq tags when what youre talking about has nothing to do with them. Believe you me, it works out in their favour more than yours.

Im tired of the absolute fucking losers who ive never seen before either in the tags, my notes of in my entire life just appearing in the tags talking about completely unrelated shit. Get a fucking grip on yourselfs, get lost, damn.

[wolfertinger]

Wissalem: IT'S JUST KINKS IT'S ANTI AND PROSHIP YOU'RE FASCIST PURITIAN NAZIS-

ok why is salem bluesky moots with the black mold zoophile kroobs/reywolf/wolfsin. like, kroobs specifically stated they were not talking about fictional content: they supported actual zoophiles, and likely they are one themselves. salem retweeted/skeeted/whateer the fuck you call it when it's bsky their scamming begposts and regularly reposts their art. I know the mod has the screenshots of them being a freak and salem interacting so you can put it here for proof, but kroobs was so blatantly zoophilic that proship/deaddove spaces on twitter kicked them out for being an obvious danger to animals. same with freakpet and all her grooming and pro paraphile/"pro map" shit. another 4lung orbiter, too, hmm that's a pattern...

You can't go uwu just fiction when you're besties with actual groomers. cope harder that you're the ultimate victims: neither of you are, you're clout chasers who stick by pedophiles and zoophiles because they're the only people who accept losers and abuse enablers like you.

genuinely. kr00bs is a nightmare, in the furry community. they were arguing for ACTUAL paraphilia expression. not even, fictional ones.

[sp00nful0fsuga]

Reminder that anything in fiction is never too far. Maybe for you personally, but not to just exist. You can find anything uncomfortable but telling someone something is "too far for fiction" is just not true.

Drawing a fictional character with a paraphile flag is not "morally wrong". This character doesn't exist sweetheart, and nothing is going to make them rape a horse because they physically cant. Not to mention, paras have a right to find comfort in projecting their own attractions onto characters they enjoy. People do it with their sexualities, gender and mental disorders all the time and (mostly) no one gives a fuck!

Sorry for the rant, two fuckheads in my fiance's server finally left over an image of Blitz and his sister wearing para flag shirts. (Blitz canonically wants to fuck horses bro lmao)

They gave me mega bad vibes since the start so. Lol bye losers.

We hate antis on this account 💕

[beatthemwithabatart]

Intro!!

Welcome to my part of the block! The part of the block that isn’t afraid nor shamed to beat up those who have wronged you!

This account is dedicated to making free art that can serve both as a simple art piece and therapy! I make art of fictkin abusers getting what they deserve, any way you want! Stabbing, kicking, beating, anything goes for those bastards!

You can call me BAM! Or just call me Artist,

Happy to have you here! More about how this all goes below!

But first… DNI!!!

If you fall under any of this criteria, you are *not* allowed to request any art! You can look, but that’s all!

Bigots, Anti-Furry/Therian/Fictkin/Otherkin, Dangerous/Problematic Paraphiles, Radqueers

Bound to change,

Requesting art!!

Here’s what you need when requesting!

The character and kin’s pictures and names (Needs to be a kin!)

Need to specify who’s beating who’s ass

A reference pose(s) is needed + who made it! (So I can give creds)

If you want a background (Will take longer)

If you want color or not (Will take longer)

I do traditional art to on paper! You can request that too, but disclaimer it won’t have color!

What I WON’T do:

I refuse to draw art of an adult beating a minor! So I ever get a request like that I will be rejecting it!

Also I will not be taking down art! If you kin a character that ends up being on the receiving end of the beating, you can simply ignore it! Don’t come whining to me about it. I will simply reply with a WOMP FUCKING WOMP :)

Disclaimers and extras!

My friend makes art like mine! Just a lot *less* violent, go check him out! :D

@fictionkin-art-gallery

Please be patient with your art! Depending on the characters, refs, what people requested, and the queue, it could take a while! Checking in is fine, but rushing me will get you incomplete art or nothing at all.

This is free! I am allowed to say “No” to certain requests due to my artist abilities!

If too many things get requested, I will be turning off asks and put in my description that there’s a lot and will not be taking new ones! Don’t fret though, once I get more done requests will be back up!

I am not an advanced artist by any means, so if the art doesn’t come out to your expectations I apologize in advance-

There will be violence, blood, knives, anything considered violence! So if you’re not into that, well my page is not right for you!

Hope you have fun here! Because I know some people won’t be ;]

CREDITS FOR THE BANNER AND DIVIDERS!

@vmpyrgal

@animatedglittergraphics-n-more

oh and here’s a link to a post (incase it gets lost to the void) with my example art!

Example art!

[eeveecraft]

This Blog's Stance on Radqueers

Just had to block an account saying that you can't be pro-endo but be against radqueers. Why? Well, I recently discovered what a radqueer is, and I'd like to enlighten you, so you don't make the mistake of mistaking them for something they're not.

What's a Radqueer?

Well, if we input that question into a search engine:

The fact that the fucking MAP Wiki pops up as the third result is already concerning!

This is what the Radqueer Wiki states:

Radqueer is the term used to refer to a radical political movement that advocates for paraphiles, transids, and other ostracized identities to be accepted in mainstream queer spaces. The term was originally coined in late 2021 by now deactivated Tumblr user foucault-divine-mephisto as a response to "the puritanism, hypocrisy and general rejection in the Queer community regarding a range of marginalized and stigmatized Queersexualities (paraphilias), internal identities (transage, transabled, transill/transnoso, transpecies, alterhumans/transnonhuman etc) and behaviours (social, sexual eccentricity etc). " Since its original coinage in 2021, the community made a steady increase in popularity, though never branching out of obscurity.

Oh? Paraphilias? You mean... as the National Library of Medicine defines it:

Paraphilias are persistent and recurrent sexual interests, urges, fantasies, or behaviors of marked intensity involving objects, activities, or even situations that are atypical in nature. Although not innately pathological, a paraphilic disorder can evolve if paraphilia invokes harm, distress, or functional impairment on the lives of the affected individual or others. A total of eight Paraphilias are listed in the DSM V and include pedophilia, exhibitionism, voyeurism, sexual sadism, sexual masochism, frotteurism, fetishism, and transvestic fetishism.[1]

If you thought zoophilia was missing, don't worry, it's under "Other specified paraphilic disorder," as stated in this Advances in Psychiatric Treatment paper.

Oh. Yeah, including those paraphilias. So... why are we wanting to allow people with conditions that makes them far more likely to hurt children and animals into queer spaces? And if you think the Radqueer Wiki isn't also including paraphilic disorders in the definition, well, here's one of the definitions from the good ol' MAP Wiki:

RadQueer is unconditionally inclusive of: ALL trans-x/transid identities (and supports all their social and medical transitions) ALL paraphilias and the multiplicity of their related contact stances (anti-contact, complex-contact, neutral-contact, restricted-contact, pro-contact). — Pro-c’s on “potentially harmful paraphilias” (if acted upon) are completely welcomed in the RadQueer community if they stay behaviorally non-offending/non-active. Ex-offenders are welcomed too! Debating on contact stances is totally acceptable as long as it doesn’t directly incites to committing offenses ~

Oh? You're skeptical because that's from the goddamn MAP Wiki? Fair enough. This one's from Radqueer Info's carrd:

Here's more elaboration from their FAQ:

So, to summarize: a radqueer is someone who is accepting of ALL paraphilias, including paraphilic disorders, and other "controversial" identities. There's other things they accept that are eyebrow-raising at minimum, but let's stay on topic.

Why is This Bad?

Let me make it clear, as the National Library of Medicine stated, paraphilias are not inherently harmful. It's paraphilic disorders like pedophilia and zoophilia where it leads to the harm of others or the person with the disorder is when it becomes an issue. Being accepting of paraphilic disorders can normalize these behaviors and also convince the person with the disorder that they don't need help. This is like MAPs saying fucking pedophilia belongs under the queer umbrella, and hopefully, you all know why that is a massive fucking NOPE.

Conflating queerness with literal disorders that compel a person to harm children, animals, and/or non-consenting adults is quite frankly, fucking insulting. Being queer does NOT make you more likely to harm others, it does NOT urge you to harm others. A grown dude consensually having sex with another consenting grown dude is NOT the same as a grown man violating a child, period, I can't believe I have to fucking state this.

And just to draw back to my original statement, this is also NOT the fucking same as being pro-endogenic. Endogenic systems, like queer people, are NOT more likely to harm others because they're endogenic. Does me having five Dragons in my head make me more likely to torture some non-consenting person for sexual gratification? No. But if I'm sexually attracted to such a prospect, then yes, that makes it more likely for me to do it.

Notice the language I've used throughout this post, I'm saying having these disorders makes you more likely to engage in harmful behaviors, it does NOT guarantee someone with these disorders WILL do these horrible things. Experiencing attraction is not a crime, nor do thought crimes exist, but acting on this attraction is. A pedophile is not an inherently evil person, but they become one when they act on their attraction and ruin a child's life for good. Same goes with other paraphilic disorders.

Instead of being allowed into the queer community and offered the same acceptance as non-disordered identities, these people should be redirected into getting treatment and help before they do end up causing irreversible harm. However, if they haven't done any harm, they shouldn't be demonized and harassed. Harassing and demonizing these people just causes them to recede further into harmful thinking and behaviors, and it will cause them to seek solace with other people who will encourage that thinking (Think of the "MAP Pride" movement as reference).

And especially with "accepting" these paraphilic disorders, it allows communities based around them to form, which allows echo chambers to form that can make someone with a paraphilic disorder even MORE likely to become a perpetrator. It's like being around a bunch of binge drinkers. If you're around a bunch of binge drinkers for long enough, you're far more likely to start binge drinking yourself.

So yeah! You can absolutely be pro-endogenic and anti-radqueer. I'm anti, "Allowing people who are at higher risk for harming people on the same level as queer people." Like, do you not see how harmful of a connotation that is? It's equating queerness to literal disorders, harmful disorders at that. And after all the queer community's done to prove we AREN'T disordered/inherently harmful, conflating that with paraphilic disorders that are defined by harm is such a slap to the face.

Conclusion

There's other issues with the radqueer label that I could bring up, but this post is long enough as it is, and I hope the stuff I have listed is enough reason already to not like this label. It is important to be inclusive, but not inclusive to the point where innocent people are harmed because of it. Now that I know what radqueer actually is, I'm definitely concerned by their presence in the endogenic tags, and I don't think it's a good idea to welcome them with open arms.

If we happen to have any radqueer followers, I really hope you read this post in full and see where I'm coming from. If you still don't agree, you're free to unfollow! I don't want people who are fine with allowing people with paraphilic disorders in queer spaces instead of encouraging them to get help following this blog.

7-19-2024