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salems new lesbian label just shows he never viewed any of his male gnc characters as men to begin with

this is also, what i think about. salem spent the better part of a year, crying about his characters being seen as girls/feminine, in any way. yet, he turns around last second, and decides being a lesbian suits him best. if this is the case. that is fine. but you can do that, in a way that does not flatten your entire message, of "just because i look like a girl, does not mean i am one." he has just destroyed, months work of his own. salem is actually becoming transphobic, because he refuses to look inward.

again. i ask. if a straight cis male decided to start identifying as lesbian, "in a boy way". that would be unacceptable. but, because salems maleness is not recognized by his audience, this is ok.

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as someone who’s been called a faggot by a stranger in public it does not feel good, if salem ever went outside, he’d piss and cry over being called one. calling yourself a “fag” doesn’t make you any better, salem, it just shows you’re playing up your blatant ignorance against other LGBT people by constantly victimizing yourself. people have been killed over their identity yet you feel like you getting called out on your shit basically equates to that. you’re an ignorant sack of shit, salem. get over yourself.

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Salem, straight is not the evil sexuality, you can be a straight man, it's fine.

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he needs to stop saying fag holy shit. i'm an actual masc gay trans guy and even i dont say fag because i havent actually experienced anything like the lifelong homophobia other gay guys have. he's not even attracted to men, nobody is going to be calling him that, he NEEDS TO STOP

he does not even go outside. much less, get called slurs. him saying the f slur, is just another way for him to be performative.

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I personally just don't agree that a man can be a lesbian, no matter how complicated gender expression is. I just think people are afraid of being straight. However I'm wondering is Salem just testing the waters to see how far he can go with his audience. Seeing how they will agree to before he starts revealing some of his actual kinks or whatever.

Maybe I'm looking too far into it but there's not much inwould put past Salem.

that is the case. he understands, being a transgender man, exclusively attracted to women, makes you straight. and that is fine. there is absolutely nothing wrong, with being a straight man.

but to salem, for some reason. there is. i feel, it is less woke of him to admit that trans men can be lesbians, than he thinks. how does he view trans men, if this is the case. how does he view others masculinity. especially, after he has just been on a spiel, about how damaging it is, to be seen as a girl.

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personally I just think if someone's gender and/or sexuality doesn't make sense to you, it doesn't have to + is just not our business. that being said though him posting about it all the time n shit feels very performative, he's very obviously just asking for validation and using labels to shield himself from valid criticism.

my main thing is just that this feels very inconsequential compared to the other shit he's done that's actively causing far more harm. by attacking him for being queer in a way we don't personally understand, we're taking the pressure and attention off of the more important issues and giving him more things to hide behind and use to say he's just being harassed without reason.

i am pressed, to disagree. i think you can have this opinion. but salem complicating his gender identity, to this degree. is doing nothing but hurting him, and his case, more.

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With the lesbian thing , he/him lesbians and transmasc lesbians have been a thing way before Salem so it’s not super out of the question that he’d feel aligned to that term

The problem stems from him calling himself a fag but never being attracted to masc bodies. If he saw a masc or butch lesbian who’s fat but has no boobs and doesn’t apply themselves femininely in any shape or form he’d explode.

He only likes feminine bodies (most with dicks attached but whatever at this point)

this, is another reason i am mad. salem has been throwing around words like "faggot", for months now. yet, he is readily admitting, not only does he feel 0 attraction to men, especailly not in a gay way. but that he is LESBIAN? right back to where he started, to begin with.

he is becoming puppychan again. willfully.

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I'm ready to bet a gazillion dollars that Salem calls himself a lesbian now purely out of pressure that comes from Wis refusing to let go of the lesbian label despite dating a man

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why does salem constantly post shit that he knows is going to bring backlash from tumblr and kf? i know the answer is that he feeds on chaos and negativity but still. also, if you want to identify as something niche, just do it. i dont see why you have to check in with your audience first to make sure its allowed lmao?

because none of this, is about how he actually wants to identify. he simply does whatever gains him, the most ass pats. i guarantee. he is simply going back to his lesbian label, the same as he has been, for over a decade now. but he has capitalized and fetishized, "boy boobs" so hard, if he backed out now, he would be recognized as the fetishist, he is.

instead, he feels the need to force himself, into lesbian spaces. if he wants to be a man. he needs to respect, there are spaces WITHOUT MEN.

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"Keep anon please

The lesbian thing is genuinely making me mad. Salem does not consider himself a man. It's so blatant oh my God.

His fans don't consider him a man either. I genuinely did not think anyone could be this idiotic. They're all idiots.

Salem it's okay to be bisexual. ITS OKAY TO BE A STRAIGHT MAN. ITS OKAY TO BE PANSEXUAL. BE WHATEVER U WANT. BUT JUST STOP SAYING STUPID SHIT."

this is genuinely, just blatant lesbiphobia, and biphobia. he and wis are so scared to admit, being a man and a woman dating makes you not lesbian/gay. you can be bisexual still. yet, this label isnt gay enough, for them. they just HAVE to be lesbian. they HAVE to have, the ONE label that is defined as "not attracted to men".

and lets be honest. if salem, as a man, is exclusively attracted to women/trans women. that makes him straight. not a lesbian.

he sounds exactly, like straight male conservatives, calling themselves lesbian, as a joke. he is becoming a joke.

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he/him lesbians exist, gender and sexuality can be very complex. I dont think getting so worked up over Salem wanting to call himself a lesbian is worth it, it's far from the main issues with him. Given how fem aligned he is in his presentation, and exclusively seems yo be attracted to women and feminine bodies, I don't think lesbian is very far off for what he is. Language is constantly evolving and changing over time, yall gotta stop saying shit that makes you sound like terfs

that is the thing. he/him lesbians are different, from salem. salem claims to be a trans boy. a male. a man. he has repeatedly stated, being seen as a girl/woman/nonbinary is the equivalent of misgendering him. yet, he turns around and not only feels comfortable dating a lesbian, but saying you can date a lesbian "in a boy way."

if a straight man said this. would this be ok? genuine question. can a straight man date a lesbian in a boy way?

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jesus christ he really does just want the best of both worlds always.

he wants to date a lesbian, but he also wants to be seen as a male or sorry "boy", but he also wants to be as physically feminine/girly as possible to the point he "gets euphoria" from straight men confusing him as a girl, but he also claims to have dysphoria from having breasts, but he also claims "letting his boobs hang" made his dysphoria go away, and now he claims "can you be a lesbian in a boy way". motherfucker i cant with this clown

this, also after saying, "you could force fem him if you tried hard enough".

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how long until he starts saying dyke 😭😭

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Does he know thay you can still love women and not be labeled a lesbian

I find it funny that someone who makes a humongous deal out of not being perceived as a woman wants to use a label only women can use

I'm actually tired of him and the people in the replies dickriding every single thing he says. At this point it doesn't even make sense. He just wants a horde of labels to use for some reason

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now salem is implying that hes a "little bit of a lesbian" in his latest post

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interesting how salem is promoting his ko-fi exclusively on tumblr where follower count isnt publicly displayed. this might allow him to maintain an illusion of need and avoid scrutiny that could arise from having a visibly large following. on bluesky, where his follower count is transparent, its more difficult to justify reliance on donations.

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LMAO not him trying to pretend his repetitive ventposts and vagueposts have been bc of his autism + whatever mental illness he decides it is this time, and not just that he's so pathetic he can't help but obsessively read this blog

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