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I think that discussions of TTRPGs would be much more productive if the advocates of moving from D&D could separate out the ideas of "WoTC is part of the massive Hasbro conglomerate which engages in the shady capitalist practices massive conglomerates do"; "D&D is not suited for every single type of story or gameplay style"; and "here's how to pick a different TTRPG that suits you needs" because as I've said many a time like 99% of them are just trying to sell you on their favorite game, which might be out of print, prohibitively expensive, something no one around you is interested in playing, or is just as bad if not worse a fit for what you want to do as D&D.
I also think said conversations would be more productive if acknowledging many people came into TTRPGs via Actual Play but would be willing to branch out if you weren't the world's most condescending dickhead towards them*; if people considered the hard truth that if you're fluent in D&D and own the materials and have a group already the pitch for Pathfinder specifically actually becomes much harder, not easier; and, as always, if people tailored their recommendations. I agree that heists or space operas or low-combat social games don't play well in D&D; they also don't play well necessarily in your favorite game that you recommend for everything that isn't magically better or more versatile just because it's from a smaller company.
Anyway the point is if you just want to whine about D&D being a dominant force be my guest but you will probably lose all but the most impressionable/desperate for the validation of strangers portion of your D&D-playing audience. If you're actually interested in changing minds and not jacking off to how much cooler and better you are be prepared to ask or answer these questions:
Is D&D genuinely a bad fit for what they want to do, or are you just an intrusive hater?
What is the person you're trying to convert interested in doing at the table? This is is a complex question that covers genre and tone; session-to-session gameplay such as combat vs. RP balance but also (for example) granularity of rules; and overall scope of the game (eg: is this something that you can play a long-term campaign in with character progression? Or is it fairly static and intended to be a few sessions at most?)
What games are accessible to them? This means within their budget (unless you advocate for pirating from small indies, which will not really help with the whole WoTC dominance situation); within what they and their table have time to learn (or, if they are looking to get into games in the first place, what they might be able to find a group for); and again, I can't believe I have to say this but I really do because I've seen it multiple times: whether the game is in print.
Have you considered gently directing them to their friendly local gaming store with answers to the second and third questions above and unleashing them upon a person who knows the gaming scene in their area and (while I've dealt with a Comic Shop Guy or two in my time) is less likely to call them a dumb bitch to their face if the answer ends up being "I'll stick with D&D"? Again, is this about them having a good time? Or is this about you?
*the best way to describe this, since I've been talking a lot about people attempting to claim the status of the systemically oppressed, is that a lot of non-D&D/non-AP fans of TTRPGs on Tumblr act like they are an oppressed class and it's like Kevin, you are a white sysadmin Monte Hall Games fanboy, you are not oppressed by the girlies making Keyleth-inspired D&D characters. You are not part of the more popular fandom and indeed dislike it; this does not make you of a lower class.
#prokopetz is one of the only people on tumblr who seems to be capable of doing this; jenna moran when she's around as well#and unsurprisingly they are both game designers not condescending randos#me at pax u like i refuse to even go to the fabula ultima booth bc your tumblr fans suck so much i don't want to be around the game#anyway i make this post like once every six months but it's always true and none of them ever learn#ESPECIALLY pf people like. why would i switch to a rather similar system and have to find a new table and buy new shit#when it supports the same scope of gameplay and genre. and it's not even indie.#anyway this is both about like. charlie hall. and also the person who thought that playing pf1e in 2014 would inherently imbue a game#that has been played in D&D 5e for 10 years with an increased level of complexity. & the condescending dipshit out of print games fandom
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#cinderace#see now they're back! they're real again… uughhh and they're so furry bait#like some pokémon are furry bait. but this one just REALLY is. especially with the paw shot in the signature move like i've mentioned#before. i think tpc knew exactly what they were doing with this one and i kinda support them tbh#this and meowscarada. furry bait starters are always the best ones and always the most loved ones#because furries like pokémon. randos on tumblr and twitter like to be like “ooohhh don't stand up” and i always know they're wrong#i'm always gunning for the cute cat to stand up. because i'm a furry and i know we'll get a much better pokémon out of it#y'all know it. y'all know the pokémon are better when they stand up. you just won't admit it
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specifically the post i’m annoyed by is by a big blog that will remain unnamed (general big blog, not language sphere big blog…i think. unless my judgement of this person’s online activity is entirely off) and insists that if you ���just turn on the [language] subs rather than english subs” you’ll…somehow magically begin to understand (presumably at least intermediate conversational) dialogue in shows? which, i think comprehensible input can be a great tool but…that’s not CI. you’re just advising people to do something that will have little to no payoff unless they’re already familiar with the language’s basics (at least!)(the post was specifically aimed at beginning learners with no/little familiarity, though!) and which will probably leave them frustrated and demoralised…i don’t mean to gatekeep but i think sometimes maybe people shouldn’t confidently claim xyz method is the One True Secret Solution. especially if they have, quite literally, no sources to back them up besides (to quote the internet) “source: trust me bro”.
#am i maybe getting too annoyed by some rando’s post on tumblr dot edu? maybe#however in my defence i am deeply deeply sleep deprived#i just…as someone who tries to generally speak from personal experience OR with citations (or preferably both!)#it really ticks me off when people act like they know the One True Way to things#especially when said people have no apparent qualifications and deride the people who question them#anyway. if you know this post feel free to commiserate. if you agree with this post…not sure i can do anything#i also just really get annoyed when people claim that the longstanding educational#methods for language learning are 100% without fail Wrong and actually *their*#solution is perfect and flawless (sources: zero)#like i’m not saying that traditional learning methods are perfect or above reproach but…they exist for a reason?#and that reason is usually because it works more often than not (and also it’s not as resistant to new research/discoveries/etc#as some people like to think…academic fields aren’t perfect but they aren’t the ivory towers of stodgy white men some people online think)#anyway. that was a tangent. sorry#delete later#indigo ink
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idk y'all
I'm actually pretty here for Irving being the one to spot fake-Helly but would we say Miss "I could not with a knife to my throat be less interested in being your family" was...never cruel...
#this is not my only or primary criticism#generally i just like...why are we doing this. in the order in which we're doing it#i've had story order complaints all season but ESPECIALLY insane to do this episode now#whatever man. stop you're losing me etc#maybe we'll turn it around#severance spoilers from catey on tumblr dot com#hope that catches your blacklists lol not trying to hear from randos who think this is brilliant
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love to block people on the internet. annoying post? Wrong Opinion? luigi inflation art? block block block. block the person who put the post on your tl too. block them all. much simpler and sweeter option than subtweeting them on priv or (god fordbid) typing up an angry response and hitting send imo. imagine how many minutes of being upset you could avoid experiencing. once you hit that block you never have to hear them yap ever again. out of sight out of mind. be generous and kind to yourself; you are not being problematic or cruel by blocking because blocking is truly never that personal (and people who feel it is are small and vicious and need to touch grass) you are taking care of yourself!!!
#gelmo#it’s also just cathartic cos i see some fuckass post and i’m like Kill 🤩🥰🪂 but instead i hit block and they disappear#and i’m like ok. grug no more kill grug go eat bug now#people are both sharper and softer on tumblr than twitter and i just want! the youth! especially! to know#you Can just block people. don’t apologize or explain anything (barring like if this is your long term friend that’s different situation)#if it’s some rando or a mutual you don’t talk to or whatever man fucking go for it. love your best life#that is my yap of the day#i sleep
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I’m upset that a lot of people here, in fandoms I’m currently into, have deactivated accounts on this site
I feel like I was late to see, like, share, and enjoy what people posted in my fandoms and I just want to experience the same hype when it was there, yk?
#idk man#especially in 2015#didn’t have a tumblr#not even a#pinterest#I saw people like Floating Megane post about Vanoss#loved their art as much as seeing Vanoss art#this is a#banana bus squad#post#and I will stand by it lol#hoping#that my inner artist awakens in me so I can make silly fan things#fyp#art#artist rant#text#Rando’s thoughts and talks
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well @futurebird i am a punctuation nerd. can you explain what exactly compelled you to comment this seeing as i see no problem
i have a plan for punctuation day everyone! so here's what i want you all to do!
my goal for the day is to get punctuation trending. is this too ambitious? maybe, but i don't care. i want everyone to appreciate punctuation a little
what are some things i can do you ask? well let's look at some things i could think of:—
you can make a post with every punctuation on it (but try, and here's the hard part) to put some text around it and not just list them all out
you can make up a new punctuation mark! for inspiration i would look at the works of people like hervé bazin, martin k specktor, or other people who tried to invent new punctuation
you can make a post about your favorite punctuation mark and why you like it
you can post anything related to punctuation really, those were my ideas but feel free to. i dunno. dress up as an interrobang or make art or something. go wild
so everyone! mark your calendars! september twenty fourth is the day we get #punctuation trending!
#i mean i forgot to hyphenate twenty-four that's on me#but i mean this is the way i punctuate things. fuck the mla okay it's a form of expression#especially with the period useage. it is standard punctuation for the setting i am using it in (tumblr)#obviously i would type differently on an essay or something but like. there is different formality and standards based on setting#especially if you are using punctuation to convey a message like how a sentence should be read#due to the lack of commas in tags (mostly) this means that tumblr users tend to use a full stop instead of a comma#and the period as a full stop can as well dictate an idea of cadence. it's perfectly logical#anyways sorry that just bugged me. i have not been studying punctuation for this blog for like a month and a half to be sassed by randos
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Hey. You. Yes, You. Did you know there are ways to support your local punk scene without having to go to live shows.
now, I know the best thing to do when supporting bands is to show up to their shows, however, If you are socially awkward, people stress you out, if you got insane anxiety, or if youre a parent and work 2 jobs to survive, YOU ARE STILL PUNK. YOU ARE STILL AN ACTIVE MEMBER OF THE SCENE, if you use some of these little tips and tricks.
attend a show if possible ONLY when you can, even if you dont know who is playing, but always bring a friend who is a comfort post to lean on.
Find local artists through socials. Every single music venue around you has Insta/Facebook/Twitter/TikTok, and if they are awesome Bluesky/Tumblr, If you find a punk/harcore adjacent band flyer. SPREAD THE LOVE. share em around get more eyes on it, tag the venue and every artist listed, help them get people who can attend shows, Do some listen along content highlighting said bands and point your audience to the shows and their socials
Speaking of spreading the love. If artists around have any flyers made on socials, download the image, print/trace it, Make hundreds of those bad boys and put them up where the hell ever you want. IRL eyes attract IRL attention, and IRL attendance, and its a major fuck you to algohell.
BUY THEIR SHIT. So you found a small band that sound fucking awesome, They got bandcamp? Buy a single, Patreon? 1 month donation, Merch market? Get a shirt or Patch.
Make. A. Zine. They are STTUUUUPID SIMPLE, like mad easy and super fun. Dont gotta be this artistic masterpiece, just make a lil collection of doodles and essays and poems, List local shows, bands, socials for the bands, donation links, political activism, The world is your toilet, so throw some shit around!
Are you yourself an artist? See above, but also, DM local bands offer your services, Flyers, Album art, Logo design, stickers, shirts, DIY shit is awesome and if you got some design and drawing talent, [i know you do dont doubt yourself] bands make music, thats really it, some if not most arent fluent in other mediums, lighten the load, trust me, theyll love it.
Lastly; Dont sweat the dipshits. People online are legion. Lots of conformists or true scottsmans all over the damn place, If some slackjaw cishet [yes its mostly dudes, almost always against femmes in the scene] dingus is givin you shit for "nOt bEiNg pUnK eNoUgH" tell that dipshit to go fuck himself, its a much better use of both of your times. Dont listen to every lil tiktok rando, or annoying tumblrite, If you are punk, if you have punk values, if you are doin shit. Fuck em. Keep livin life, and struggle on, cuz for every dipshit chirper, there are thousands of awesome and cool peeps who are waaayyy worth your attention.
punk is a beautiful community full of talented people and unfortunately in an internet age, the most toxic and immature aspects are brought to the limelight, it is up to us as a community and individuals within, to not bother with this garbage, Putting people down, especially if they might be disabled, or anxious, or femme, or just "not cool enough for you", Is not "Supporting the scene" Youre just being a dick. To all the baby punks out there, Have fun, Struggle well, Stay Safe, Dont Die.
If you got anymore awesome tips, put em in the tags, scream em to your cat, tell a friend, share it, spread the love,
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Prince x Pirate AU
Okay so. Hello tumblr... I have lost ALL motivation to write for this au, BUT I'm just gonna lay out some of it and give fun facts >u<
In this au, Scar is a pirate and Grian is the prince he "kidnapped"- more like saved.
It's a slowburn, of course, but they do fall in love in the end!! There's also some small Redscape/Grumbo, Flower Ranchers, Shiny Duo (beginnings of a qpr), and Jizzie. There is a Clockers family dynamic, a Cub and Scar brother dynamic, and Skizz and Impulse act like fathers to everyone.
Here's my facts:
(Please note that these were written on discord to my best friend who I yap with about this a lot.. there's probably so many plot holes but WHO CARES)
Scar's Father left when he came out at 14, his mother helped him and stayed before she passed away from -- when he was 17. He gathered up close friends to start a crew of pirates with no official name, and that crew included Cleo, Bdubs, Cub, Impulse, Skizz, Gem, Joel, Mumbo, and previous member Lizzie. (Oh and Etho, but he just abandoned ship. Lizzie fell off and "drowned".) (There's also a few crappy randos)
Scar Facts: -Scar found a kingdom named Rivendell. He received top surgery there with stolen money, and he also helped Cleo, Skizz, and Joel get their surgeries. (They're all trans ok,,, shhh) -Scar has killed 20 people; the first two years he was squeamish (18 and 19), but when he turned 20 he began killing bad people and stealing mainly their riches. He avoided stealing from the poor. (Those people do not make up the entire 20..) -Scar and Mumbo had some romantic feelings for a while, but Mumbo stated that he believed Scar was fit for someone else and he couldn't handle a full-on romantic relationship. They remained qpr. -Lizzie fell into the ocean, yes, BUT… a siren found her, and felt.. mercy. They turned her into one, and she basically became the queen of the fuckin' ocean. She reunited with Scar's crew (AND JOEL YES YES YES!!) 2 years after she "died". -Scar thinks of Gem, Lizzie, Bdubs, and Cub as siblings. He sees Impulse and Skizz as father figures, and Cleo as a mother figure. He sees Joel as a best-friend/brother.
Grian Facts: -Grian is worshipped and pampered like a god, and he is seen as the embodiment of the sun. He does not see himself this way. -Grian's parents only wanted one heir and one child, so they kept Grian and sent Pearl and Jimmy away. Jimmy went to Rivendell, and he eventually found a lover (or two) and married them. Pearl went to Mythland and found a guy who became her best bud named Sausage. Grian was 16 when his siblings were taken from him.
Scar AND Grian Facts: -When Scar started the fire in the kingdom, (he's 23 at this point), he started it in Grian's parents room (Grian is 20 at this point). The guards fled and got the civilians out of the kingdom, but Grian had passed out in his room due to the smoke and was forgotten. Scar found him, though, and escaped with him over his shoulder and a ton of riches in his hands. -Grian woke up bound in rope, done by one of the crappy randos. Scar checked on him, tended to his wounds, yada yada. Cleo knitted him a sweater, Scar gave him one of his old binders that he outgrew and some shorts, and Scar also wrapped his feet since they had no shoes on board so he wouldn't get cuts on his feet. -Grian sleeps in Scar's cabin, in his bed. Scar sleeps on the damn floor. -It takes months, almost years, for Grian to adjust to Scar's crew, but he grows close to Joel, Gem, Mumbo, and especially Scar. -Grian grows feelings for Mumbo faster than he did for Scar, but Mumbo tells Grian the same thing he did for Scar and Grian is okay with it. They do kiss though. -Grian decides just randomly one day to ask Scar to kiss him. Yes, it was 1 AM. Yes, Scar was awake. And yes, they did kiss. And Scar finally got to sleep in his bed. (Scar has been sleeping on the floor of his cabin ever since he gave up his bed willingly for Grian.) -They get "married" unofficially, and Scar throws the crappy randos overboard (FINALLY.) -Grian eventually tells Scar about his siblings, and Scar helps him find them. They found Pearl first, and they have a happy reunion and Pearl joins the crew. She gets along quite well with Gem. -It takes them a while longer to find Jimmy, and boy was Grian shocked that he could pull AND that he was a king now. But, either way, Scott, the now-king and previous lone prince of Rivendell, was the officiant to Grian and Scar's wedding. -They stay a bit in Rivendell, and Joel grows close to Jimmy. (The Bad Boys become a thing now guys) -Scar finally tells Grian he killed his parents, which he hadn't done before. Grian doesn't care, neither do his siblings.
Cat Facts: -Scar had one cat, Jellie, that he had since he was 10, and he brought her aboard. He found two strays, and left them unnamed, unsure what to name them. During his travels, he found two kittens, the same breed as Jellie. He named them Katy Bee and Mr. Finnegan. When Grian came aboard, Grian named the two cats Pearl, after his sister, and Maui, who he almost named Timmy but didn't care enough to do so.
#gtws#gtwscar#goodtimeswithscar#grian#desert duo#scarian#flower ranchers#redscape#grumbo#waffle duo#shiny duo#gempearl#clockers#hermitcraft#hermitshipping#trafficshipping#traffic smp#life series#trafficblr#hermitblr#convex#cubfan135#pearlescentmoon#zombiecleo#impulsesv#skizzleman#smallishbeans#ldshadowlady#solidaritygaming#jimmy solidarity
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Hey, Anon who just messaged me about legal advice, you have sent this ask to several other people and I'm about 90% sure you're just harassing the person you named in the ask. If you aren't, apologies and I can't help. If you are, I'm not stepping into your weird beef, so please fuck all the way off.
More broadly to all my readers: Don't ask randos on tumblr for legal advice, and if someone asks you, especially if they name a "friend" by tumblr username and discuss their criminal charges while on anon, don't post the damn thing. If someone is dropping other peoples' usernames in your inbox they shouldn't be on anon, full stop.
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I understand that we should just block content we don't wanna see, but I still think things like proships or ships that are wrong and illegal in irl should be kept private. Because that is exposing kids to the romantization of abuse, incest, and pedophilia. This content may expose them to predators, which could cause them harmful trauma, the type that people claim to use proshipping for. They may think that a person older than them liking a kid is ok, even though the adult has bad intentions. We know that they are fictional characters, but they represent real people and can still affect kids. And if this isn't supposed to affect them irl, why do so many groomers show proship media and illegal art to grow kids?
Don't want to start anything just curious
I think the short version of the argument is basically "the internet shouldn't have to be a 100% sanitized and safe space for children". But getting further into it...
"but I still think things like proships or ships that are wrong and illegal in irl should be kept private."
It's not worth mentioning now but "proships" aren't a thing. Proship doesn't stand for problematic ship, it's not an adjective.
My question is why this line of thinking only applies to ships? Murder and cannibalism are also illegal, but no one's going around saying you should keep your love of horror to yourself, or only watch R rated movies in the privacy of your own home.
"Because that is exposing kids to the romantization of abuse, incest, and pedophilia."
The majority of people interacting with media like this, or making posts about this, DO NOT want kids interacting with their content! They slap every rating, warning label, and trigger tag under the sun onto their work to say that it is not for kids. At the end of the day, that's all you can do. It is not one random proshipper's job to shelter every single child in the world.
Furthermore, kids are exposed to that crap from plenty of other places besides randos on tumblr. Walking into a library or turning on a television can easily expose kids to these topics just as much as going onto ao3 or opening tumblr could. That doesn't mean every professional author or tv writer on earth needs to create art that's palatable for children. Because that's not their responsibility.
"This content may expose them to predators"
It's grim to say, but literally anything on earth could potentially expose a child to a predator. Getting on the bus, going to the park, going to school, going to church, going to a friend's house, going home. Honestly I think it's a bit of a privileged mindset to think that a child would be 100% safe in this world if it weren't for faceless boogeymen online committing the sin of writing dark fic of their Blorbos.
"which could cause them harmful trauma,"
Again, that trauma could come from anywhere. And you're putting the weight of preventing that onto random strangers online, not anyone who's concretely in the hypothetical child's life, or actually responsible for them
"the type that people claim to use proshipping for"
Appreciate the subtleties of invalidating other people's trauma. Just because you don't have the same coping mechanisms doesn't mean theirs are invalid. Especially when countless licensed therapists agree that writing is one of the better ways you can help process trauma.
And to state the obvious, you don't need to have trauma to be a proshipper. Not everyone uses dark content for self reflection, some people just think it's neat.
"They may think that a person older than them liking a kid is ok, even though the adult has bad intentions."
A kid should not be getting 100%, or even most of their life lessons from fictional media. Parents, guardians, teachers, and other trusted adults in a child's life are the ones who need to teach them right from wrong, and how to protect themselves. I remember being a kid and being told by my mom "now if a stranger pulls up to you and says they lost their puppy and they'll give you candy if you help them look for it, do NOT go with them". That was her job as a parent.
Now I know that sadly, not every child has that kind of trusted adult in their life. But it's not the responsibility of a bunch of fanfic authors on tumblr to fill in the gaps.
"We know that they are fictional characters, but they represent real people and can still affect kids."
It doesn't matter how closely or loosely fiction depicts our reality, it's still just fiction at the end of the day. Movies have been using the whole "Any resemblance to real persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental" disclaimer for almost as long as there have been movies.
"And if this isn't supposed to affect them irl, why do so many groomers show proship media and illegal art to grow kids?"
One, art is not illegal. Unless you get caught graffiti-ing, then you might get fined. And no one is saying this kind of thing can't affect a child. But why, in this scenario, are you putting the blame on fanfic authors and fanartists before putting the blame on the actual groomer??
And again I ask, what exactly is "proship media" anyway? I'm guessing the kind of stuff that constantly appears on people's DNI lists, which could be anything from Steven Universe to Cannibal Holocaust, so who really knows??
Like I said in the short version, the internet should not have to be sanitized for the sake of the children. The entire internet does not need to be one giant safe space for kids. Adults have a right to talk about adult things with other adults. To explore dark topics in fiction, or to have fun with taboos in a harmless way.
I want the world to be safe for kids too. But the way to do that isn't to forbid adults from posting shit online. Instead of trying to shield children from every controversial, difficult, or uncomfortable topic under the sun, give them the tools they need to learn how to process these things.
Be a safe person to talk to if a kid has a question. Help them understand why something might be okay in a fantasy setting, but it's not something that should carry over into real life (like, a fairy tale prince kissing an sleeping princess to break a curse is fine, but in real life where there's no magic you should always make sure someone is okay with it before kissing them. Something like that)
Teach them internet safety, above all else. When I was a kid, you didn't give out any personal info. Nowadays kids have no qualms about giving out their full name, age, list of phobias and disorders, showing their school, their house - the list goes on.
Honestly, I think we need to go back to scaring kids with Stranger Danger, at least a little. But that's starting to veer into a different topic and I think I've said all I need to say about this one today.
#proship#proshipping#proshippers#proshipper#pro ship#proship safe#asks#proshippers please interact#anonymous#sip rambles
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I'm not going to coddle TERFs just because they have trauma, I'm going take a hard stance against them deliberately traumatizing more people.
No one gets a free pass on viciously attacking innocent randos, and this goes double when they're carefully and meticulously selecting targets who are especially vulnerable. This stuff is planned and carefully deployed, it's not just random upset flailing.
And no, very few people actually think that what's wrong with TERFs is that they don't want to have sex with trans women. That's what the TERFs say to get you to feel bad for them and to paint trans women as sexual predators. There is some "hmm, that smells terfy" that goes around when someone is a little exuberant on what their own preferences are, and we could stand to look a little closer and sift out the poor wording from the actual violent bigots (and we also need to remind people that lots of trans women don't have dicks and lots of women who do have one enjoy sex that doesn't involve it), but the problem with TERFs, and what we mock them for, isn't that they're not keen on dick, it's the premeditated and carefully crafted violence.
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It's ironic and horrifying how the narrative keeps being dragged back to ~waaaah, assaults in bathrooms~ by asshole bigots when what actually happens in real life is trans women being murdered there.
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love to block people on the internet. annoying post? Wrong Opinion? luigi inflation art? block block block. block the person who put the post on your tl too. block them all. much simpler and sweeter option than subtweeting them on priv or (god fordbid) typing up an angry response and hitting send imo. imagine how many minutes of being upset you could avoid experiencing. once you hit that block you never have to hear them yap ever again. out of sight out of mind. be generous and kind to yourself; you are not being problematic or cruel by blocking because blocking is truly never that personal (and people who feel it is are small and vicious and need to touch grass) you are taking care of yourself!!!
#gelmo#it’s also just cathartic cos i see some fuckass post and i’m like Kill 🤩🥰🪂 but instead i hit block and they disappear#and i’m like ok. grug no more kill grug go eat bug now#people are both sharper and softer on tumblr than twitter and i just want! the youth! especially! to know#you Can just block people. don’t apologize or explain anything (barring like if this is your long term friend that’s different situation)#if it’s some rando or a mutual you don’t talk to or whatever man fucking go for it. love your best life#that is my yap of the day#i sleep
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I understand being upset by the moonpaw dog post but i dont think talking about some random teen publicly (on a pretty big fandom blog) as opposed to like, dming them about it, is a very nice thing to do? Would recommend keeping that kinda gossip in dms going forward personally.
??????? "That kinda gossip???"
Saying that it's fucked up that a publicly posted incest joke about how deformed she should look went to the top of the Warrior Cats and Moonpaw tags, is gossip???
TRENDING TAGS?? GOSSIP?
I'm not talking about "some random teen," I have not even dropped a username and been VERY clear I don't want harassment of anyone. During this discussion about wider ableism against Moonpaw, I've directly answered two anons about the contents of a post that was/IS extremely popular to the tune of nearly a thousand notes.
One of those two asks was an anon who only stumbled in to say that the post was funny in a display of SHOCKING tonedeafness, while I was talking about how shitty it is to compare people who are the products of incest to unethical dog breeds, especially in the context of WC. The other was an actual XX/XY chimera who expressed that the extremely popular post hurt their feelings, and when they tried to express discomfort to someone, got told they "probably killed their twin in the womb."
It's not just one rando weenie little blog the minute half of the Tumblr space is openly laughing at a joke about deformed incest kids and hoping Moonpaw dies because she's so "gross." Not nice?? Your feelings are hurt? OTHER people's feelings were ALREADY hurt.
NOTHING about this was "nice" to begin with!
Difference is, when YOU cry me a river, you can build me a bridge, and get right the fuck over it. A person who's the product of incest cries and has to go right back to every shitty banjo-hunchback-hapsburg joke they've heard before, just feeling more unsafe about a space that PRETENDS to care about the abuse they experienced. If you feel guilty about that, maybe you should!
If you were under the impression I was ever "nice" about bigotry, you were mistaken. I don't appreciate calls for ME to be more polite when I'm at a trend of fandom ableism and calling it fucked up. I've named NO names. Sounds like what you ACTUALLY want is for people like me who have a platform to shut up.
#btw that person WAS contacted privately by someone and I did see the 'apology' they posted as a result.#Which was not an apology. They called people being upset 'virtue signalling'#I'm SO fucking sick of the parade of idiots coming into my inbox trying to tell me that none of this is a big deal#REAL fucking question actually; why are you people insisting that victims of incest be ENDLESSLY charitable towards open fucking mockery?#''What if they didn't mean it like that'' and ''oh maybe they just didn't know it was ableist to joke about inbreeding deformities''#I'm gonna be BRUTALLY honest with you because I'm this close to just gutting you all like fish instead; It feels like being gaslit#Half of these idiots come in here to say ''well maybe you interpreted it wrong maybe these other unrelated things are what you mean''#And then when I AM specific and AM targeted in a very particular thing I'm talking about#I get shit like THIS telling me it's mean to be so direct. Even if I was NOT very direct at all#I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't. Like I'm crazy for reacting with anger.#So forgive me for not being as sweet and as patient as molasses pie#mooncourse
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Hey so I'm going to make this as absolutely non-judgmental as possible, but I've been seeing a lot of people complaining about certain content in the tags again. I see more of those posts than I do the content people are talking about.
And look man, you absolutely DO NOT have to be okay or comfortable with seeing that kind of content. It's natural for it to make you feel kinda icky, especially of you have some trauma related to it. I get it.
But trying to censor the internet is a sysaphian task that you are not up to. You're only going to end up making yourself feel more bitter and angry and you're going to have a hard time enjoying the media you love because of it. You need to learn how to curate your own online experience.
So this is how you do it.
STEP ONE: BLOCK THE TAG:
Oh no! You've seen something and you didn't like it! That sucks! What do you do now?
1. Go to your tumblr homepage (this is for mobile btw but I can make one for desktop if wanted)

And click on the little gear icon (this is my main Blog btw)
2. Go to your account settings

Helpfully highlighted for you here.
3. Go to "Content You See"

You can manage a lof of your online experience under this tab btw
4. Go "Filtered Tags" and type in the tag you want to filter



AND VOILA!!! You won't be seeing anything tagged with that anymore!!!
"BUT AIDEN WAIT" I hear you cry, "WHAT ABOUT PEOPLE WHO DONT PROPERLY TAG THEIR CONTENT?!"
That is a major problem and those people suck!! So what do we do when we come across them??
STEP TWO: BLOCK THE USER
You fucking block them. It's not rude, it's not "losing" its just protecting you piece. Here's how
1. Click on the tumblr users name. Here's a rando I found on my dash

This will take you to their page.
2. Click the little person icon

You know the one!
3. Hit the block button.

It's right there. So pretty, so beautiful. Block button my beloved, I use her liberally.
Note: DO NOT HARRASS PEOPLE. DO NOT ANNOUNCE YOUR DEPARTURE, THIS IS TUMBLR NOT A FUCKIN AIRPLANE.
Harassing people because you don't like their content isn't going to make them stop posting it. Most times it makes them double down. All your doing is getting yourself worked up over nothing. It's hateful.
Just block them and move on with your day. You're going to feel so much better. You don't need to say your final piece, or attack someone about it. It just makes you look bad. Again, trying to censor the internet will get you no where and only hurt yourself more. Just block the tag, block the user, and enjoy the work that you actually like to see in this world. Please.
And if anyone comes into my inbox or at me on this post with any sort of hatefulness, I'll just assume you live a sad pathetic life and block you ✨️✨️ and then I'll go hang out with my chill ass moots and read my fluffy fan fic 💜💜
#i hate clogging the tag more but i fear this is the only way to reach my target audience#i promise i wont do it again#resident evil#leon kennedy x reader#leon kennedy#re4#re4 remake#albert wesker#albert wesker x reader
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tbh it is sad that like every time i interact with mxtx fans beyond just reblogging fanart/having my fanart reblogged/people commenting on my fics, there's like a 50/50 chance that i get harassed by someone who acts like the devil incarnate over very average interpretations or jokes or just gives a blanket 'what are you talking about' because i got 1 friend that actually knows mdzs and tgcf (and the damn woman refuses to read tgcf, she insists on waiting for the donghua) bc god sometimes i do wanna just talk about this shit nonstop n hear other people's opinions without that opinion being "how does it feel to be the stupidest person on earth you fucking moron, how dare you say the color red is red, you're a dipshit"
there is something in the water with mxtx fans that makes so many of em psycho on a level i haven't witnessed since like. 2016
especially when revolving around characters like jiang cheng, which is really sad bc the best part of mxtx's novels are the whole cast of characters that are all written insanely well. n god forbid i take any of that convo off of tumblr because it's even worse off this site
its particularly fascinating bc obviously for most english speaking fans, this is a culture we're likely not truly familiar with, and stuff always gets lost in translation ESPECIALLY with languages as different as english and chinese, and the stories are actually very well-crafted and long and there's a lot of themes and metaphors and subtext that i think a lot of the fandom tends to glaze over due to the nature of the genre, but like any conversation at all to really pick apart what you think, unless you're only stating the most surface level, stated-outright-in-the-translation-notes stuff, you get basically a slap in the face. like if you go ANY deeper, if you theorize at all, if you talk at all about even obvious subtext, if you talk about any characters beyond the main couple in any meaningful way, you're treated like a dumb asshole by at least 1 psycho and probably their group of friends too
and like i'd think it might just be me if i have not heard multiple randos say in the notes or replies of various posts that they've been given death threats lmfao
#mxtx#i think i end up attached to characters that these kinds of weirdos are attached to too#or anti-attached to. apparently. bc they all hate jiang cheng#but like that weird guy i had to block twice was SUPER obsessed with he xuan i think for instance
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