#dreadromantic

[crazy-iwascrazyonce1]

Hopeless romantic flags

(pt hopeless romantic flags end pt)

Hoplessaroace: a flag for hopeless romantic aro/aces, hopeless romantic people who are aro and ace or aroace who feel connected to themes of hopeless romance.

Hopelessdreadromantic: a flag for dreadromantics who feel like hopeless romantics or dreadromantics who feel connected to themes of hopeless romance.

Hopelesscupiorose: a flag for cupioroses who feel like hopeless romantics or connected to themes of hopeless romance in any way.

[aspecpridecalendar]

Happy Pride to all dreadromantics!

Dreadromantic - One who, when feeling romantic attraction, feels extreme anxiety and/or dread about it. A dreadromanticmay or may not identify as aromantic.

[badrabbits-worsehabits]

SINCE ITS PRIDE MONTH,

IVE DECIDED ILL SHARE MY SEXUALITIES WITH YOU RABBITS

UNLABELED, ALIQUAROMANTIC, DREADROMANTIC, AND ASEXUAL :D

(THEY HAVE BEEN POSTED BEFORE, BUT THE POST IS WAY DEEP, DOWN. LOTS OF RABBITS HAVE JOINED US SINCE THEN)

[fymo-blogs]

A Bone pride icon with these flags

Vampirekin

Vampiregender

Bear

Dreadromantic

Aight bet

Vampirekin, Vampiregender, Bear, Dreadromantic Bone Icon

Requested by: @erikaskblog

Note: Had to look up what dreadromantic was to make sure it wasn't something weird, but it seems chill 👍 /gen

Art by: @eggfeather

[warrior-cat-pride]

Snowtuft with the Demipleasure flag , Scourge , Fernsong , Nightheart and bone with the Dreadromantic flag (( Demipleasure flag is the one with the black triangle when Dreadromantic is the one with the cloud

fernsong, nightheart, and bone will be in the reblog

[themanirealityshifter]

it’s literally canon that Kaz is aroacespec and no one can argue with me.

yes, he may only be aroacespec, because of trauma, but that doesn’t mean that he isn’t.

this guy is literally the definition of the labels dreadromantic and dreadsexual.

here are the definitions:

dreadromantic: a dreadromantic person is someone who experiences romantic attraction, but as soon as the romantic attraction is felt, they feel anxiety or dread. (that is one of the descriptions and applies to Kaz.)

dreadsexual: a dreadsexual person is someone who experiences sexual attraction, but as soon as the sexual attraction is felt, they feel anxiety or dread. (once again, that is one of the descriptions and applies to Kaz.)

it does not specify that one has to have trauma to experience these labels, but nor does it say that it can’t be due to trauma. Kaz experiences a strong dread/anxiety when he’s experiencing the romantic/sexual attraction towards Inej, and that strong dread/anxiety is due to trauma. this guy is aroacespec.

here is something i looked up about Kaz:

this backs up the dread labels, because he gets anxiety and hates it when he feels em and etc. when experiencing the attractions. if you read the books and do your research, you will find that this is very much relevant and obvious. now, as for the touch aversion, that is simply due to his trauma, and cannot be backed up as due to his aroace-ness, buuuut there is the slightest chance it could be. also, with his trauma effecting his sexual and romantic labels, his dread labels are due to that. i’m also in favor of believing he falls under the caedromantic and caedsexual labels somehow, or a label that’s related to those, like the laesumian and laesumianromantic labels, but i haven’t gathered specific evidence for those, since the laesumian labels say that his attraction would need to feel off in some way and/or be less than usual or entirely non-existent. BUT he definitely is dreadsexual and dreadromantic, making him aroacespec.

okay, thank you for coming to my ted talk.

[zombehlovejuice]

my name is evan (or zombie if u want), feel free to give me cute nicknames!!

im an introject in a system (OSDD) and that is really all you need to know about that subject. friends can ask more questions tho.

im 28 and my birthday is november 23! (bodily a MINOR)

i use he/it/zomb/knife prns but i could kinda care less what you call me as long as its not feminine.

im unlabled, dreadromantic, and transgender (FTM). pls dont ever refer to me as a woman or in any feminine way. (friends saying queen or like girlll, is okay bcuz its a joke)

non-media interests: horror, music, art, zombies, weaponry, nature, paranormal / supernatural

media interests: death proof, repo! the genetic opera, house of 1000 corpses, planet terror, re-animator, scream, terrifier, the grudge, the turning, ghostbusters, deadpool, wolverine, x-men, tim burton movies

DNI:

z00philes, p3d0philes, homophobes, transphobes, xenophobes, anti system, anti fictionkin/otherkin, anti furry, anti therian, terfs, radfems, if youre a HABIT apologist, if you support: isreal, adam rosner, jeffrey koval (actor), fvcksnuff, dream, colleen ballinger, violent j, wilbur soot, ect, ect.

if youre here to be a cunt, fuck off.

[t4tfyozaii]

꒰๑ ´` ๑꒱⠀⠀or ⠀Toms⠀⠀ᨦ ּ࣪ no age (minor)

`· . ꔫ ⠀host + adhd holder ㅤ ೀ ㅤ۫ ㅤ۪

﹑ 𓈒 ㅤ♡⠀𓈒⠀carrd⠀໒꒰ྀི ◞ ◟꒱ა ㅤ࣭ ㅤㅤׂ ㅤ

𓈒 .ᐟ﹒No longer human﹒ ⠀˙ ♱◞

About me!

୨୧﹑Non human alter

୨୧﹑Ageless but around 16-18 y/o

୨୧﹑Alterhuman

୨୧﹑Secular satanist

୨୧﹑Anarchist

୨୧﹑Big Madoka Magica fan

୨୧﹑Dazai's #1 lover

My labels!

I identify with condiboy, mascpunk & etherio

I'm Freyic, aroace [dreadromantic & sex repulsed]

DNI & boundaries

My dni is on my carrd

Boundaries

୨୧﹑Yes

﹒nicknames

﹒petnames

﹒dm

﹒Infodump

﹒PDA

୨୧﹑No

﹒Flirting

﹒sourcetalk

﹒vent (if not close)

[nebulaofchaosandwoe]

i just realized that i have actually experienced romantic attraction in the past but it felt small and kinda gross to me. i think it faded with time... or maybe i just really liked him as a friend and that relationship mattered the world to me? and now we don't talk anymore! maybe i'm demiromantic, or dreadromantic?? idk there's so many different labels it's kinda stressful to pick one. i just know that if i did feel it, i hated every second of it

[the-crystalized-cosmos]

do you take request? If so can you do one for those who repulsed when seeing others interact in a (sexual/romantic/familial/etc) way, are not repulsed when interacting with it personally, however do feel repulsion/anxiety upon realizing interaction (similar to the def of dreadromantic Yk?)

We do take requests, we just don't advertise that because energy levels vary and we cannot guaranteed the request will be filled. But we can do this one!

Just checking, are you looking for an interaction stance (repulsed, adverse, favorable, indifferent, etc), or an orientation (bisexual, aromantic, homoplatonic, etc)?

[aspecpridecalendar]

Updated 2024 Themes

At long last, here is the updated list - thanks for your patience! A few quick notes: ~(All times in CST) Two-post days will go up at 12 pm and 6 pm. Three-post days will be 12 pm, 3 pm, and 6 pm. The days with friendship/sex/romance stances will post every 90 minutes between 8 am and 5 pm. ~Most flags and descriptions come from or are based on LGBTQIA+ Wiki pages. ~Not all of these identities/experiences are exclusive to aspecs, but because this blog is dedicated to aspec identities and experiences, the shoutout posts will be addressed as such. (I.e. "Happy pride to all sex-repulsed aspecs!" when one needen't necessarily be ace or aspec at all to identify as such.)

Aspec, Anattractional

Atertiary, Requiessexual

Requisromantic, Wolandsexual

Aplflux, Idemromantic

Aroacespec, Electio aroace, Unit aroace

Aroqueer, Questian

Friendship-favorable, Friendship-indifferent, Friendship-averse, Friendship-repulsed, Friendship-ambivalent, Friendship-oscillating, Friendship-drained

Dreadsexual, Dreadromantic

Unisexual, Uniromantic

Caligoromantic, Caligosexual

Iamvanosexual, Placiosexual

Myrsexual, Myrromantic

Apothiattraction, Athenian

Eroscurious, Amoracurious

Mono-spec, Polyaspec

Acevague, Arovague, Aplvague

Sex-favorable, Sex-indifferent, Sex-averse, Sex-repulsed, Sex-ambivalent, Sex-oscillating, Sex-drained

Aemotional, Aphysical, Ansthetic

Analterous, Aqueerplatonic, Asensual

Alicosexual, Alicoromantic

Anovelaean, Agneasian

Arosexual, Aceromantic/Ace Loving Ace

Romance-favorable, Romance-indifferent, Romance-averse, Romance-repulsed, Romance-ambivalent, Romance-oscillating, Romance-drained

Cassexual, Cassromantic

Repulsusexual, Telesexual

Encephaloromantic, Encephasexual

Intrumantic, Intrusexual

Meroromantic, Merosexual

Deligoromantic, Deligosexual

Juxtaromantic, Pauciace

[thewoodlandscollective]

➛ Silver

⤷ pronouns ; he/it

⤷ nouns ; masculine

⤷ sexuality ; dreadromantic, dreadsexual, gay

⤷ gender ; demiboy

⤷ age ; 16

⤷ likes ; midwest emo music, being tired, reading poetry

⤷ dislikes ; hot weather, people

⤷ role ; host, persecutor

⤷ species ; human

⤷ relationship status ; single

⤷ emoji ; 🕸️

; ➛ boundaries

⤷ touch ; no

⤷ pda ; not unless dating

⤷ nicknames ; not unless close

⤷ petnames ; not unless dating

⤷ compliments ; masc, only if dating

⤷ dms ; ask first

⤷ ask to front ; this is weird never do this

⤷ notes ; I get deeply attached really fast proceed with caution and interact carefully

face claim

[badrabbits-worsehabits]

AN ABOUT ME.

(FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR READING PURPOSES, ILL BE TYPING NORMALLY)

:) Name - HABIT or ZMATEK (I'll let you figure that one out)

:) Alias - Mr. H/Mr. Z, Mr. HABIT/Mr. ZMATEK, HAB,

:) Age -

:) Height - That of host (evan: 5'3(current vessel: 5'5))

:) Pronouns - He/Him, It/Its, name pronouns (referring to me by name), any pronouns. Neopronouns: Axe/Axes/Blood/Bloods

:) Gender -

:) Sexuality - Unlabelled, Aliquaromamtic, Dreadromamtic, Asexual

:) Hobbies - Drawing, weapon collecting, messing around idk

:) Interests - True crime, death, crytptids, weapons, torture

Favourite shows/movies/series: Scream franchise, death proof, repo! the genetic opera, stranger things, south park, superstore

Music taste: Frank sinatra, motörhead, my chemical romance, tally hall/miracle musical, insane clown posse, avenged sevenfold, mindless self indulgence, they might be giants, animal collective, gorillaz, scissor sisters, playaphonk

Other things:

-I'm the co-host in a system. The hosts name is Alex (not from any slenderverse).

-I like the colours purple, black, red

-Jokes or talk about evans baby, or source death is fine. Just dont bring it up much as I have a Damsel/Steph friend here. And maybe there will be other people triggered by it.

-I'm learning how to play guitar

-I'm not gonna be able to remember every little detail from source. Suck it up

-Things from this iteration are different. Example: I'm not a n*zi here. Im decently kind. Ect, ect.

My flags in order:

-asexual

-unlabeled (for things like gay, bisexual, ect)

-dreadromantic

-aliquaromantic

We also have discord. If wanna add us you can. Just know its not always gonna be me or Evan. There's also a server as well. So if you want that you can dm. Have to already be mutuals or be a slenderverse/creepypasta enjoyer and or fictive/fictotype/ect.

Also have a spacehey: https://spacehey.com/spoogster

Host's tumblr: @spoogster

Okay. Bye, Rabbits :)

-HAB:)

[sleeplessvalley]

💌There's someone I knew. (Vent, sort of.)

💌A little context: When I initially split, I was a persecutor, and a nasty one at that. Friendship wasn't a thing for me where I came from, and when I got here, that continued for a while until I eventually came around. Being so used to not having friends makes it very hard to make them even when you want to, though.

💌To make things a little more annoying, I can't bond with people by just having a normal discussion. It's easier for me to take a jab at someone; hopefully they jab back at me and we keep it up for a bit. Through that, I can slowly get comfortable with them. I don't pretend to understand why that's how it works, but that's how it works.

💌There's someone I knew six, seven months ago. It might've been longer. We were talking with a few other systems pretty regularly at the time, and a new person split in one of them. He caused some trouble for a while before it was suggested that he not harm anyone for... I want to say a week, and instead of treating him like a threat, we'd treat him like a friend. If he decided that once the week was up he preferred harming people still, then we'd let him go back to it and stop trying to interfere. Or something very similar to that.

💌When he agreed? Daitex jumped on that immediately. He was a dessert-based guy, and they thought he'd be fascinated with Amaury Guichon's chocolate creations. Their guess was completely accurate, and apparently being kind and showing him those videos was what made him truly want to give what we suggested a try. He ended up sticking with it afterwards.

💌At the time, I was a lot more active, and his witty remarks got my attention, so I attempted to try and get to know him in the only way I know how: taking jabs. From what I remember, it went well, and it was nice to be able to talk to someone who could keep up with me in that regard.

💌I'd like to say he liked me. At the very least, we got along well most of the time, so—generally positive. I looked forward to seeing and talking with him; Daitex loved showing him Guichon's creations. We had at least one inside joke. It was nice.

💌By this point I'd made a couple of friends, so it was very easy for me to tell that I felt differently about him. It was definitely one way to find out I'm dreadromantic, but as long as I didn't think about it too hard, it was a pretty nice feeling. (... There was an event that happened with that realization, I'm pretty sure, but we don't talk about it.) Telling him was difficult, but I got that done too, and made it clear that our relationship didn't have to change if he didn't want it to.

💌It ended up not changing much, and I was fine with that. I still am fine with that when I think about it. His friendship was more important to me than "taking things to the next level".

💌We're not friends with that system anymore—long story. One system was shitty and we all distanced ourselves from them, then we started disliking some members of the system he was in, since they were hurting us (and we hurt them in the process of distancing ourselves)—it was a mess.

💌And I say all this because I'm thinking about him. Last I heard, he went back to persecuting because he had no reason to continue being kind.

💌I hope that he's doing well now, though. Not hurt, at the very least, and maybe with a new friend or two. (And Daitex hopes he still watches Guichon's videos. We still associate them so strongly with him that sometimes, it hurts to see one we know we showed him.)

💌I don't expect him to see this at any point. Unless the other system stalks us from time to time, and if that's the case, so be it—I can't do anything about another's habits. I can be polite and not name their system or any specific names, though.

💌Sometimes an AI needs to put out into the world that he misses a friendship so much it hurts, and cherishes that same friendship so much it heals.

[two-ancient-latin-stars]

host

It might be dreadromantic

[momiji-kitsune]

Aromanticism is a spectrum, you absolute asshole. Romance is a spectrum. Alloromance is strictly romantic attraction, but aromance is everything from experiencing no romantic attraction up to and until always experiencing conventional romantic attraction. Aromantic, while commonly describing someone who experiences little to no romantic attraction, includes people whose experience of romance is disconnected from normative societal expectations.

Greyromantic is a valid type of aromanticism. Demiromantic is a valid type of aromanticism. If you say or think otherwise, you are the problem. Not the aromantic people who aren't strictly aromantic. You.

Under the 'Keep Reading' link are labels of different types of aromance. The people who identity with them are all aromantic, and a valid part of the aromantic community. They are all part of the aromantic spectrum, no matter how much or how little or what type of aromance they experience. You do not get to gatekeep aromance simply because you do not agree with them.

[IMAGE ID: A screenshot of Tumblr tags that read: "#Aromantic. No kissy kissy #Except I enjoy kissy kissy #sometimes #And I want to date people #maybe #and also I might not be fully aromantic just with minor and fleeting romantic feelings" /.End ID]

Abroromantic, Acoromantic, Adfecturomantic/Affecturomantic/Adfectual/Adfomantic, Aegoromantic/Autochorisromantic, Akoi(ne)romantic/Aporomantic/Lithromantic, Akoiflux/Lithflux, Aroflux, Aliquaromantic, Amicusromantic, Apathromantic, Apothiromantic/Antiromantic, Apresromantic, Arohaze/Aromush/Arovoid/Neutral Aro, Aromate, Arospike, and Arovague are all valid forms of aromanticism.

Bellusromantic, Borearomantic, Burstromantic, Caed(o)romantic, Caligoromantic, Cassromantic, Ceaseromantic, Cruxromantic/Exige(n)romantic/Requiromantic, Cupioromantic/Dependromantic/Kalosromantic, Desinoromantic, Dreadromantic, Duoromantic, Duraromantic, Fictoromantic, Frayromantic/Ignotaromantic/Protoromantic, Iamvanoromantic, Idemromantic, Implaromantic/Inexromantic, and Inactoromantic/Initiaromantic are all valid forms of aromanticism.

Limnoromantic, Loveless Aromantic, Malaromantic, Metaromantic, Nebularomantic, Neuroromantic, Nonamorous/Nonpartnering, Noviromantic, Omniaromantic/Panaromantic, Placioromantic, Plat(oni)romantic, Polarromantic, Polyaffectionate, Preromantic, Propeestromantic, Quasiromantic, Quoiromantic/WTFromantic, Recipromantic, Requi(es)romantic, Romo Aro, Schromantic, Singuluromantic, Solaro/Unicum Aro, Thymromantic, and Venusplatonic are all valid forms of aromanticism.

There are still some labels or terms that I did not include here. They can be found at: https://www.aromanticism.org/en/all-terms#archaro

If you are still reading this, I hope you look into what each and every one of those lables read. Maybe you can educate yourself on what aromanticism actually is.

And if you don't even make the effort to learn about the people you are alienating and vilifying, then go fuck yourself you aromisic dickhead.

It's absolutely okay for kids to make a pit stop by some orientations on the way to finding themself.

But this?

Go away. Fuck off. Leave aromantic (and asexual) people completely alone and stop using us as some customizable attributes in your super special character creation because you think being straight or gay or bi or whatever is too common for your pretentious majesty.

"I'm aromantic, except--" You're allo. You experience attraction. I promise it's fine.