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corpsentry · 5 months ago

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pick your battles

#my art #my stuff #art #comic #original art #pride 2024 #pride month #trans allegory..... or not even allegory. just trans .... ^_^#i technically cannot come out yet but i don't think the people who i need to not see this stalk my tumblr #i know they stalk everything else like my twitter and my instagram but this might be safe #so fuck it we yap. this is a comic about picking your battles #this is a comic about how for almost a year now everyone at home in singapore has been crying about my sore throat #my terrible fucked up voice. my you know. etc #i came out as not cis and using they/them pronouns in 2015 when i was 14 #but no one ever used my pronouns. none of my classmates or friends even up until i left for college in 2020 #from 2020 onwards every year i wrote an angry vulnreable essay about how much it hurts that they dont remember #and people would dm me apologizing on their hands and knees and commending my bravery #and then forget about it all over again. id ont mean 'they misgender me and then catch it and apologize and correct themselves'#i mean they dont even get that far #and so you might ask yourself: why have you kept them around all this time?#and i would have to explain that by pure bad luck i grew up in the most conservative close minded community #that all of my ex classmates that stayed in singapore are cishet and upper middle class and chinese singaporean #that i Am the trans person. that they were able to ignore me for a decade partially because there was no one else #so this is a comic about how there is dignity and grace in staying in the closet sometimes #about how not everyone deserves to see you at your happiest. about how some people can go fuck themselves #you know your truth and THATS THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS!!! YEAH!!! i love you

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natalieleenorment · 2 years ago

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I'm just going to leave this here. Just remember to be kind to yourself, okay? Being a good person is not a weakness, no matter what anyone tries to tell you otherwise. Being nice is not a sign of weakness either, even though not everyone will accept you for it. You don't have to compromise anything as long as you're not trying to harm anyone or everyone, but it's never too late to save yourself even if you're in pain. Be your own hero and role model, if you can't find that in anyone around you. Just remember that not everyone wants to hurt you.

#be kind to yourself #be good to yourself #kindness is not a weakness #being good is not a weakness #being nice isnt always easy #dont forget to love yourself #love yourself #love yourselves

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conceptofjoy · 23 days ago

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#d draws #hs.mom #something something grounding yourself. youve always wanted someone to love so dont forget yourself

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raining-at-ease · 2 months ago

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positivelypresent · 8 months ago

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Don’t forget! 🐰

#positivelypresent #bunny #rabbit #self love #love yourself #dont forget #encouragement #motivation

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safe-ship-harbored · 4 months ago

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sparkle on

#sparkle on!!! its wednesday!!! dont forget to be yourself!!!#today we've got Another wednesday gif #i got up yesterday just to make this gif btw. i love random motivation because of thinking about mithrun #winged lion wednesday is next (lying) (i hate that thing)#mithrun dungeon meshi #dungeon meshi mithrun #captain mithrun #bugs tw #butterflies tw #anyways art from Daydream Hour i Think?

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charalol · 2 months ago

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I just saw a post that was like. You should always follow your instinct!! Your friends do hate you!!! And like. No?? Do not do this. To yourself or to your friends. Especially with super close friends. Your friends love you. It's why we are friends.

If you're really worried about it. Ask. And I get it. I'm autistic too. It's hard and you notice little changes and you overthink it but. I get busy. Things happen in my life. And I always have to tell myself life happens to everyone. Even if it's hard to see outside your lense.

Tldr. If you're worried. Ask them or talk to them. If you're right. I'm sorry. That sucks but you don't want to be friends with someone who isn't compatible/ mean to you anyways. You'll make new friends. You'll make better ones. I did.

And. Trust your friends.

#autism #friendships #idk im not saying the feeling is completely unwarranted i just think #nobody deserves to think everyone hates them #on the flip side #your friends dont deserve you doubting them 24/7 either.#if youre worried about thwm #ask if theyre okay. ask if you did anything. just ask !!!!#and yknow. i never fault my friends for not texting or for being quiet. bcus. i get busy too #or one hard thing abt online friends for me is. i hate being on my phone for too long qjwhwjwjw #sometimes I just think about them but forget to text bcus my phone is in mysterious place number 7 #be nice to yourself and your loved ones. thank you

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never-ending-pizza-time · 3 months ago

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I think some people forget that peppino can be kind of a jerk. He's not your perfect awkward nervous guy who can do no wrong, he is not perfect, but that doesn't make him a bad guy. He has flaws, because thats a normal human thing to have.

Sometimes he gets angry and a bit mean, sometimes he takes joy in beating the shit out of the tower residents, sometimes he gets selfish or says something mean to someone. His anxiety is not his only flaw, please don't forget that. He is not a perfect sunshine boy who can do no wrong. He is not nice and friendly 100% of the time. He is a human person, he is a complex being who cannot be easily defined as completely good or completely bad.

Sometimes good people do shitty things. Sometimes a person will not act in the kindest way possible. Sometimes someone will do something not realising (or caring) how it makes others feel. Sometimes people have bad days. Sometimes people make mistakes. Sometimes people are wrong.

Peppino is a human, he is not immune to being a jerk sometimes. Again, this doesn't make him a bad person, it just makes him human, and I don't want people to forget that and misinterpret him as being someone whos only flaw is his anxiety. Yes it is a key part of his character, but theres more to this guy than that, thats not his only flaw or imperfection or whatever you want to call it. He's not 'kind perfect guy who also has anxiety', theres more detail to who he is than that.

Peppino can be a bit mean, Peppino can be hotheaded, and you know what? Thats okay because thats what a person is like sometimes, and that is a sign of a complex and realisticly written character (even if he is a cartoon guy, his personality still feels realistic). He's not the same guy all of the time, he doesnt respond to every situation in the same way, he's not a one note character. Sometimes he sucks as a person, but its okay because despite all that, he's a loveable and endearing character, and he isn't a horrible terrible person, he just is human, and thats okay.

#okay rant over just had to get that out #pizza tower #peppino spaghetti #peppino pizza tower #pizza tower peppino #pizza rambles #I'm not implying that having anxiety or other mental illnesses is a flaw or makes you a flawed person I just couldnt think of a better word #so sorry if it comes across that way!#I dont even know if I made any sense and got my point across but hopefully I did #my guy kind of sucks and that okay because I love him #sometimes people get such heavily head canoned interpretations of someone they forget what the actual character is like #and its like yeah nothing wrong with hcs but you got to remind yourself that maybe your version of him isnt the same as he is in canon #your brain can twist a character into your idealised perfect version of them which can stray from the actual guy you started with #and you gotta remind yourself of that sometimes #of course if were talking about au peppinos than ignore all of this but if were talking about just regular guy peppino than please remember #he's a bit of jerk sometimes okay? and we love him for that

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spoomkeearts · 1 year ago

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Sparkle on

#art #digital art #digital drawing #artwork #scott pilgrim vs the world #scott pilgrim #gideon graves #gideon gordon #sparkle on!#it’s Wednesday!#dont forget to be yourself!#ugggh i NEED THIS MAN #pls i love him hes so babygirl #also i love the idea of him having painted nails like ugh so slay #lemme kiss his face-#okay maybe im unhinged

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maudiemoods · 2 months ago

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Hate hate hate the idea of being catcalled but also hate hate hate that I never get catcalled it's stupid I hate it

#hate when people hit on me #but also hate that it doesn't happen often #hate that i dont feel pretty because random men dont find me pretty #most of the time i feel really good about myself #but this nasty hatred lays underneath it all and makes every positive i have about myself feel like a lie #anyways! goodnight love yourself because you're the only one who truly knows you and your beauty is not measured by whats “conventionally #attractive“ you're beautiful because you're alive and because you have love and are capable of love #gn #ren won't shut up #delete later idk probably not i always forget

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i-like-forcefem · 22 days ago

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A close friend of mine is out online as trans, wants to be on HRT, and has the means to access it, but has some kind of a mental block scaring her away from trying it out. I want to help her but it’s not working. What can I do?

Talk it out with her, listen to what she has to say, and give her time

Hrt isn’t for everyone! Coming out isn’t for everyone!

That said if she has reasons like thinking she’ll never be “girl” enough to be deserve hrt, forcefem her and some girl pills already!!!

#last part was more of a joke!#always respect the opinions of those you’re talking to!#and I love that you’re trying to make more girls anon!#keep it up!!!#(though dont forget to take care of yourself and your needs too! / remember this is *her* choice and journey!)#.#i-like-talking #asks open!

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seagull9111 · 2 months ago

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hi, its okay to not be okay. we all know that. but wanna know something else? its okay to be okay. its okay to smile for no reason, its okay to wake up and be exited for the day even if nothing special is happening, its okay to be okay. trust me you deserve it, sit down, open a book, take a breath. and be okay. okay?

#i love yall #i hope you have a good day #you dont need to follow this trend of saddness just smile let yourself live and forget this chase of deppresion #im not saying your feelings are invalid #im saying they are not forever #they will not dictate your whole life just maybe for a little bit #go read some fuffy fanfiction or watch your comfort shows #bye #oh and one more thing #stop scrolling

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lesbiantrish · 1 month ago

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i think i could heal if people were more crazy about spydoc. btw

#guys u dont understanddd ☹️☹️☹️#they are so tragic #spy is like a fucking psychopath right (i can say that i have psychosis 😊)#and thirteen is too but she tries to push it away #spy reminds thirteen of everything she wants to forget #they bring up all this shit right?#but its also.#the way she treats him #its this thoschei thing but ESPECIALLY THEM #‘oh u think ur good? im going to get under ur skin until you realize how horribke u really are’#thats the plan but it doesnt work #she just goes further into their toxicity #i love theta sigma. theyre such a horrible person (meeee)#spydoc symbolizes this huge thing cause like.#they had been traveling with the fam for awhile right? usually the doctor doesnt have that many companions (which is an entire other #conversation)#everything was calm. it was GOOD #‘you think u can escape me. darling i will always come back when u hate it most’#spy wants to crawl under thetas skin until their souls are merged into one #which is why she killed her #tried.#koschei will forever try but the fact of the matter is #they WANT theta to survive #it would be no fun otherwise #and theta wants koschei to survive. ofc they do #(ie: tensimm)#u love him and u hate it. u love him and u hate yourself for it. u love him and he is always going to be the reason u die #ahauahh #anyway pls talk about spydoc. pretty pls and ty #spydoc

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strawglicks · 1 year ago

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A MEETING OF TWO MINDS IS ONE YEAR OLD AND IM NORMAL ABOUT IT

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padsmoony04 · 7 months ago

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Just read "Batman: Three Jokers." and I just want to say I'm officially broken... and hmm, DC? You better watch your back bitch cause I'm going after you.

#like what the fuck #you make my boy go all soft and open with barbara to leave like that? like... seriously?#LET'S NOT FORGET HIS DISCUSSION WITH BRUCE! THAT LITTLE SHIT!#EXPLAIN YOURSELF BRUCE WAYNE OR I SWEAR ON YOUR PARENTS GRAVES #Like... WHAT DO YOU MEAN... YOU DONT GET IT #I'm TIRED of Jason suffering and unhappy #I can go on and on is not even funny #stop this Jasonphobia DC cause my boy deserves better and you fucking know it #HE DESERVES TO BE PROPERLY LOVE!#dc comics #dcu #batman: three jokers #batman #batman universe #red hood #batgirl #barbara gordon #Jason Todd #jason todd deserves better

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thisdreamsalive · 3 months ago

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I've been waiting for the Umbrella Academy since I was 15 because it's literally been in development (was originally supposed to be a movie) for that long and I feel like I just wasted the past 13 years of my life being invested in it for them to fuck it up spectacularly at the final hurdle

#so many plot holes #whoever decided to put five and lila together needs to go straight to jail #wheres Sloane????#why doesnt the kids in the new timeline cause the grandfather paradox since their parents dont exist #reggie cant kill ben but its cool for them to kill a bunch of people on the way to save ben and risk the entire world #five literally told Viktor the season before that Harlan isnt more important than the world so why is new Ben who doesnt even like them #0 logical character development #lets undo everything we set up #did they forget that theres other marigold children besides the umbrellas and the sparrows #tbh going back in time and killing reggie would have fixed everything #fuck killing yourself because your abusive selfish dad did a woopsie #i would love to know how gerard felt about his season #umbrella academy #the umbrella academy #tua #tua season 4 #tua spoilers #the umbrella academy season 4 #gerard way #Gabriel ba cameo was cute tho

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