#change your perspective

[reality-detective]

[neurodivergentdingo]

Here's a little explanation of queerplatonicrelationships(QPR)

How does a QPR differ from a friendship? Well, a QPR can be very similar to a friendship! While a normal friendship may include "I love you"'s and a strong love platonic towardsome and other, they usually don't include a deep desire to spend the rest of your life with said person, sometimes longing for marriage, to go on dates, and be in a committed relationship with said person.

Usually people see those things attached to romance, but they aren't always associated with that. QPR are common amongst aromantic folks, due to the lack of the romantic and sometimes sexual feelings too. Some QPR do include sexual activities but just lack the romantic aspect of the relationship.

Queerplatonic can be defined in many different ways because it can be used as an umbrella term for relationships that don't fit the mold or friend๋࣭ship or a romantic relationship. There is no "right way" of having a QPR! it's different for every individual. Some people may have a queerplatonic relationships that is a serious monogamous commitment, and others may have multiple queerplatonic partners (QPP) like a romantically oriented polyamourus person does. Some individuals may have their committed QPR, as well as a romantic relationship at the same time, with the consent of both parties of course.

Overall, it's a beautiful thing. Help decolonize relationships standards :)

I hope this is helpful!

[sononatanellepocasbagliata]

"Quando scelgo di vedere il lato positivo delle cose non lo faccio perchè sono ingenuo, è strategia, necessità, è così che ho imparato a sopravvivere a tutto. Ho deciso di combattere a modo mio."

- Everything everywhere all at once

[888e222]

Why you here?

You not love yourself enough?

You are in the body in which God accomplished you to play a game. The game of life.

Delete social media’s and live the fucking amazing luxurious life.

Life is too short to be wasted on negativity that you are feeding yourself. Sweetheart, you are missing out time where you could exactly enjoy the beauty, love and money ;)

[conscious-pisces]

“True happiness is to enjoy the present, without anxious dependence upon the future, not to amuse ourselves with either hopes or fears but to rest satisfied with what we have, which is sufficient, for he that is so wants nothing. The greatest blessings of mankind are within us and within our reach. A wise man is content with his lot, whatever it may be, without wishing for what he has not.”

—Seneca

[positivepostoffice]

[journey-to-balance]

If you're inherently a free spirit, there may come a point in your life when you're called to make a radical change in your lifestyle, a time to begin to boldly do things which you may previously never have thought of doing, or been too hesitant to attempt.

So many people live within unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned to a life of security, conformity, and conservation, all of which may appear to give one peace of mind, but in reality cause damage to their spirit.

The very basic core of a free spirit, is his or her passion for adventure.

The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have the opportunity to experience a changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

If you consider yourself a free spirit, and want to get more out of life, you must lose your inclination for monotonous security and adopt a pragmatic style of life that will at first appear to you to be crazy. But once you become accustomed to such a life you will see its full meaning and its incredible beauty.

Reflections, Our Journey to Balance

[theanonfirefly]

I always used to think that in the New Year, you should have a clean slate.

But now that I reflect over this thought, it doesn't have to be like that, you don't need to have a clean slate because if you do, you loose all your progress. In fact, in the new year, we can learn from the past and revise our slates whenever needed.

That's the joy of having a slate filled with experiences and memories!

Happy New Year 2025, whenever it arrives!

[real-afterglow]

You need to realise how powerful you are.

Your brain literally doesn't know the difference between reality and imagination , so if you start imagining yourself as your best version, you'll eventually become it

[1introvertedsage]

Changing your perspective to look at life with a childlike wonder and curiosity because you’re a forever learner.

~I.S.~

[reality-detective]

THE SCIENCE THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE; - Bruce Lipton

“You are made of 50 trillion cells so you are a community, not a single person. Learn how the cells work and you will know more than most doctors in the world today because they still believe in the genes.”

[angelsonthesideline]

All beautifully healed 🥰

[safe-haven-safe-place]

@letsallrise_

[dearjewels22]

What's the saying? "It could be worse."

This does NOT minimize the real troubles you DO have. It gives you perspective on how small/trivial your not-so-real troubles are or shifts you from a place of sorrow into a positive alert because it COULD be worse and you don't want that.

Find those silver linings and be thankful for surviving.

[interzalactic]

i agree with this sooo much! i remember making a voice tweet about how in my mind, no one is prettier than me. that doesn't mean i don't believe others aren't beautiful or even that other people might same some are prettier than me, it simply means that in my mind, in my world, i am the beauty standard. the second i allow any comparisons to change my perception of myself, it's no longer my perception i'm taking into account, but everyone elses and well, who cares about them ??? and on the topic of art and other things, i think about all the random pictures i saved on my phone or my pinterest, and i think to myself "why did you save this?" "why did you take a picture of this?" and then i remember it's because i thought it was pretty or interesting. once you take yourself out of the world's yapping, everything is so much more beautiful and enjoyable!

you are allowed — no, in fact, supposed to — define beauty on your own terms. beauty has become such a loaded, weaponised, corrupted concept in order to control and disempower us. perhaps precisely because, when wielded with confidence, beauty holds so much power. and i’m not talking just about how you look but about the aesthetics of everything, the art of everyday. beauty defined on our own terms connects us directly with our human spirit, circumventing power structures (patriarchy, capitalism, racism, imperialism, etc) that try to dictate that for us. to control us. aesthetics play a massive role in our sense of self worth, and our sense of self worth plays a massive role in the trajectory and quality of our life. it matters greatly (so it is no wonder we are trained to believe, too, that it’s vapid or stupid). when i talk about finding beauty, training yourself to see it, pursuing it yourself… this is what i mean. forget about the “standards”, you must develop your own taste, your own conviction about what beauty means (it is different for all of us) as a type of creative pursuit, and invest your time, energy, and money into cultivating it. it’s not just for frivolity and pleasure — it truly does create power, and dilutes the power of pernicious power structures too. find the beauty everywhere, on your own terms. please.