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#idk if this works bc my computer doesn't have blue/pink hearts yet but i copied it from my phone so like idk#pride#pride month#pride month 2023#lgbtq#progress pride#lgbtqia+#🏳️🌈#🏳️⚧️#love wins#but to the aro people#big slays#my posts
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do you ever see a person and you are overcome with incredible fondness? and you just think "oh." but not in a romantic or sexual way you are just filled with warmth and it makes you happy, it just does. and you think "i'm so happy you exist. i'm happy you are somewhere out there in the world, doing your thing". it's love but also not entirely
like people are lovely and i feel it in my entire chest like a burning candle that smells like roses and a sunny day
#on love#aroace experiences#aroace#aromantic#asexual#aspec#aroacespec#sunbloom talks#<3#just late night revelations#i like love and i love people :)#edit: loveless aros friendly btw#i think that's what i meant when i said love but not really all those months ago#“incredible fondness” is the phrase i really like instead of love#people need to stop coming onto this post being like “nO!! this IS love!!!” shut up you dont know me. maybe it is maybe its not#this was about personal experiences and it blew up somehow unfortunately lol
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#&c.#chatter chatter#🦎🌿#aromantic#asexual#aroace#alterhuman#changed the content of the original post bc some of yall in the tags are clowns (this is an aro joke i made bc im sick of amatonormativity#and so many people in the tags completely missed the point and then reinforced that amatonormativity and im pissed about it)#this breached containment like hell. it got 15k notes. i hate it here. so i changed it#this wont stop people being annoying in the tags but it gives me some release
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Say it with me, everyone.
ARO DOES NOT EQUAL ACE.
ACE DOES NOT EQUAL ARO.
SOMETIMES PEOPLE ARE BOTH. THAT DOES NOT MEAN THEY ARE THE SAME.
AROMANTIC AND ASEXUAL ARE DIFFERENT, AND SHOULD BE RESPECTED AS SUCH.
edit: holy shit, this post has gotten so popular it's getting aphobia notes! thanks y'all
#aro#aromantic#aromantic allosexual#ace#asexual#alloromantic asexual#aroace#aspec#acespec#arospec#acespec mafia#putting the acespec mafia tag for more people to see since some people are avoiding the ace tag bc of bots
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Pride Eeveelutions!
Edit: now as stickers!
#Pokemon#Eeveelutions#pkmnart#Pride Eeveelutions#Pride#my art#Free to use as icons!#I always try to make icons of these guys every year but I lose steam halfway so I have like 4 icons every time dcfvghb#BUT THIS YEAR I POWERED THROUGH#People who says nice things over these designs I owe you my life#Pride Flareon#Trans Vaporeon#Enby Jolteon#NB Jolteon#Lesbian Espeon#Bi Umbreon#Aro Leafeon#Pan Sylveon#Ace Glaceon#now also as stickers!
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Good luck during pride month to all the aroaces who are gonna be blasted with "love is love" everywhere
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This post includes aplatonic people, loveless aros and any other people who fall anywhere on the aro and ace spectrum.
Stop saying "but theres platonic love and familial love-"
#nothing wrong with love is love but pls being queer isnt just about loving someone#it can also be about the lack of love im certain aspects of peoples lives etc.#idk if that explains it very well but whatever#pride month#lgbtqia#aroace#aromantic#asexual#this goes to anyone on the aro and/or ace spectrum btw#anyway have fun during pride month everyone i hope you have a great time#im turning the reblogs back on#but if i see one person say any shit abouy platonic love im disabling it agaain
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if you say any queer identity is not part of the lgbtq+ community, including but not limited to people with neopronouns, bi people who just happen to be in a straight relationship, and anyone on the ace or aro spectrum, i curse you with the gayest tapeworm you've ever seen
#lgbtq#lgbtqia#queer#asexual#ace#aromantic#aro#aroace#bi#bisexual#nonbinary#neopronouns#i love queer people
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You use "arospec people can still date and feel romantic attraction " as an excuse to ship cannon aro characters , I use it as justification to headcannon characters who canonically feel romantic attraction as arospec , we are not the same
#aromantic#arospec#aro#aromantism#rans rambles#adding tags for clarification#yes this post does have a negative connotation#and it is directed at the people (allos specifically) who completely ignore/erase an aro characters identity just so they can ship them#i hope that clears things up for anyone who might have gotten thw wrong idea#idc if someone ships and arospec character as long as they dont ignore their aromantisism
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people who exclude straight trans people and straight aspec people are my worst enemies. btw
#trans#ace#aro#apl#transgender#asexual#aromantic#aplatonic#im not straight but guys do you not realise how important they are#I love you straight trans people I love you straight aspec people
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i nerfed this post bc of the stupid addition but you can reblog the new version here
going to start saying people "obviously aren't in a romantic relationship, they have something deeper and more intimate going on" to confuse and upset alloromantics
(ID: a banner with an aro pride flag in the background, with small text above and below large text dripping in green goo reading, "this post is about hating the hierarchical system of relationships". the top text reads "idc abt blorbotags go wild but" and the bottom text reads "& if you're mad about it you've probably been poisoned by ace discourse brainworms. and are also proving my point." end ID)
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"You aren't aromantic if you like cuddling! Cuddling is romantic!"
Straight people making up new definitions for Aromantic/Asexual cause they don't like the actual pre-existing definition.. Anyway whats new!
#aro#aroace#shitpost#shitposting#Did you miss queer history 101 or like#I mean yeah why am I surprised at straight people shit#LMFAO
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Actually, no.
You don't owe your parents/guardians anything for raising you.
You don't owe them in-laws.
You don't owe them grandkids.
You don't owe them favors.
It's your life!
You decide how you want to live it.
You decide what you want or don't want in your life.
#And that goes for ANYONE in your life#Don't let anyone make you feel like you owe them anything/ any part of you#no matter what your feelings or relationship with them is#Don't let people make you feel like you should “try” anything you don't want to do either#Live your life and set your boundaries#Nobody is entitled to you or your life#child-free#childfree#ace#asexual#aro#aromantic#aroace
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"aphobia doesn't exist"
bitch literally not that long ago an aroace youtuber animator was insulted by almost half of its community for being it
#i did some research about it and found out that the problem was principally that she had previous experience in the romantic area#so people just didn't take her seriously and said she was lying#even though she stated multiple times that she wasn't comfortable in those situations#now things are more calmed but damn#mind your own bussiness#i believe she knows more about herself than you#sorry if i offended you with this comment but i hate how aro/ace/aroace people are always left behind#insulted and rejected because they “dont know what they are talking about”#or because they “just have to wait for the right person”#or because they are “psychopaths and they are missing something”#i love that animator and she helped me realise a lot about myself#and now that i know the context i think i will start making a list and killing aphobes one by one#aromantic#arospec#asexual#aroace#acespec
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bitches will be like "oh yeah your heart beats really hard and you breathe faster, and you get, like, butterflies in your stomach" when you ask them what a crush is like no fam that is a panic attack
#aromantic#aromantism#arospec#let me tell you I got so confused when people described it to me#Like what do butterflies in your stomach even feel like#How do you know how to describe it like that#aroace#aro problems#I would like to preface that I do not genuinely think crushes are panic attacks#aro pride#aromanticism#queer pride#lgbtqia#lgbt pride
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Being aroace with a squish is really like. You look so nice and cute and pretty (not like that), I’d like to snuggle up in bed with you (not like that) and play with your hair (not like that) and lay there for a while (not like that) and hold your hand all the time (not like that) and hang out with you one-on-one (not like that) and get to you know you on a deep and personal level (not like that)
#it’s all platonic#but other people wouldn’t see it that way!#platonic attraction#platonic#aro#ace#aroace#aromantic#asexual#asexual aromantic#aromantic asexual#aspec tings#aspec#squish#platonic crush#she’s so pretty and lovely and wonderful and amazing and she deserves the world!#edit y’all don’t have to keep calling them platonic crushes the word for that is squish#a squish is the platonic version of a crush#and they’re phenomenal
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