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Orym's feelings for Dorian and the place he is in right now are fascinating because he *did* get to know Dorian before he left. And it hasn't been that long, even though they have both experienced so much trauma and loss in the intervening time. Just because a part of Orym longs for the times before Dorian left, and even though nostalgia has put a shine on Dorian for Orym, I don't think that means he's fallen for the idea of him rather than the reality. They have both missed so much, but in the end they *are* paralleled to each other. Orym may be saddened by what Dorian went through, but a Dorian who never knew loss couldn't understand Orym as he is now. There is a potential there for both of them to truly be *known*.
Orym didn't ask Dorian to come back as a band-aid, or to reminisce or somehow bring simpler times with him, even if that was part of the longing. The initial reality that Dorian, too, was affected by the same sorts of things that affected Orym is jarring, but they can re-learn each other. Dorian has meant safety and support to Orym for a longer time than the time they've been apart, and I don't believe Orym would turn away from him because he's angry and grieving.
"Dorian," Orym said, truly and sincerely. "I'm so sorry."
Realizing that he's spent all of this time needing Dorian, and maybe Dorian needs him, too.
#dorym#orym of the air ashari#dorian storm#it's a complicated thought to put into words#but they are complicated men#and part of building something together is realizing that#gosh everything about this is so good and full of potential#they can build something so strong and healthy#critical role
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*I worship you Tumblr please don’t remove it
Inspired by Duckkiken’s art on twitter, they put Holm in the gnome hood Kui designed and my heart melted
#also it would be incredibly hilarious if Holm’a taste in men is as horrible as his sister#or good#idk its complicated with when it’s Kabru we’re talking about#dungeon meshi#holm kranom#kabru of utaya#SquareCloud
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don’t get how you can watch iwtv and be a sincere diehard lestat hater. like the world’s biggest lestat hater is louis and that man can’t even commit to it for more than five minutes before literally hallucinating lestat wearing a wedding ring and talking pretty to him. this show is about louis and every road leads back to lestat for that man
#nobody hates lestat like the men who have brain rot about him#like that’s Claudia’s mother their whole thing is far too messy to be reduced to hate#like sorry that was her mumdadbastardparent. too complicated to get it sorted out right#madeleine didn’t even know him#daniel doesn’t know him (yet)#santiago will bend over for any vampire with more power than him unless they don’t like him#(then he’ll seethe while imagining getting fucked) so in another life he’d dickride lestat or seethe at him and louis hardcore#uhhh. who else knows this bitch. his momma dipped she got her own shit going on she don’t really think about him#maybe Louis’ family are bigger lestat haters but they’re all dead#armand hates him but that’s entirely dwarfed by the sex thing and also he’s way more obsessed with daniel. lestat is not touching that thing#so yeah it’s just louis who knows him deep enough to be a true pure hater#and louis loves him so so so much. so it’s kinda over this show is literally about these two#attacking each other and then holding hands. or punishing the other for 77 years#so. yay!!!#this is not the show for you louis gets the mic for like five minutes n he’s immediately going ‘so there’s this blond-’#like we all didn’t know. get off the stage!!!!!! silence on the blond guy. but alas. louis has the mic still so it’s blond guy central#louis de pointe du lac#ldpdl#lestat de lioncourt#loustat#iwtv#interview with the vampire
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nothing funnier than fabian somehow being the most popular kid in school while simultaneously walking around telling people he eats raw vulture innards and fumbling maizie and [redacted sequence at the end of the episode]
#fhjy#fantasy high#fantasy high junior year#dimension 20#fhjy spoilers#put him on the complicated men podcast fr!#he contains multitudes ig#my posts
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ghosts in the 15th century
#dont mind me am just sitting here thinking about men and their complicated relationships#bit of a rough start tm#medieval fantasy#monsterfolk
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my wife and my husband for 2024
#but columbo is zenigatas uncle. the situationship we have is complicated#been watching columbo and im in love with him he has risen ro the rank of husband (provisional)#happy new year 2024#its gonna be tough#we have gay n funny little detective men thou. its fine#columbo#zenigata#doodle
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grian and his bombastic husband
(for my darling girlfriend)
i know just a little bit more about them now
apparently, the bombastic guy is no longer sort of dead? zombie husband? nice
stay tuned because i am now watching 6 season of hermitcraft for a deeper understanding of these guys
#thanks for explaining why they are waffle duo#i appreciate you#i don't fully understand what is going on with them now but yeah#go zombie husband go#or no? geez these minecraft men are complicated#grumbo#waffle duo#mumbo jumbo fanart#mumbo jumbo#mumbo fanart#wild life#life series#grian#grian fanart#wild life fanart#life series fanart
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Nightcrawler - Kurt Wagner 🇩🇪
• Teleportation • Enhanced abilities of agility, strength, flexibility, and night vision • Camouflages in shadows • Blue fur • Pointed ears and end of tail • Three fingers, three toes • Skilled Acrobat
Teams: X-Men, Excalibur, Quiet Council, Legionaries, X-Treme sanctions Relatives: Mystique (mother), Destiny (mother), Rogue (foster sister), Gambit (brother-in-law), Margali Szardos (foster mother), Azazel (father), Baron Wagner (father), Raze (half-brother), Graydon Creed (deceased half-brother), Amanda Sefton (foster sister), Stephan Szardos (deceased foster brother) TV / Movies: X-men: Pryde of the X-Men (1989), X-Men: The Animated Series (1992), X-Men: Evolution (2000), X2: X-Men United (2003), Wolverine and the X-Men (2009), X-Men: Apocalypse (2016), Deadpool 2 (cameo) (2018), X-Men: Dark Phoenix (2019), X-Men '97 (2024) First Appearance: Giant-Size X-Men #1 (Apr 1975)
#Marvel#Mutant#Powers#Nightcrawler#Kurt Wagner#Quiet Council of Krakoa#Legionaries#mein gott#complicated family tree#X-treme Sanctions#X-Men (70s)#X-Men (80s)#Excalibur (1988)
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I offer transmasc anya... I fw this concept A LOT (please see my vision)
#mouthwashing#anya mouthwashing#mouthwashing anya#trans anya#my art#not only losing your bodily autonomy but also getting reduced to your agab#thinking of him not openly being trans#so jimmy has even more power over him. threatening to out him if he tells anyone#having LOTS of complicated feelings about this#also internalized homophobia from jimmys side because in his mind he can't be gay because transmasc!anya is one of “those” men#transphobic jimmy moment ^#still have no clue what name to give to transmasc anya too :(#he also wears glasses because he feels like it makes him look more masc#I just didnt draw it bc omg drawing glasses my BELOATHED
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Trans Logan is such a great concept to see art of, because seeing him with top surgery scars is great, but seeing people factor in that he simply would grow them back, and adapt it to portray him as a burly, testosterone fueled little man who just so happens to have a chest is GROWTH. People are DEVELOPING. The world is healing because of this.
#me when gender is a complicated concept and more than just physical qualifiers#hoooooly shit#trans logan#logan howlett#trans wolverine#ftm#x men
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One of the many things I find funny and irritating is the slant of a lot of interpretations of Alecto's name (that it's about feminine rage)--on this here wlw internet in the year of our lord 2024, it's easily made to figure as rage against God, or rage against patriarchy, or religious oppression, and therefore an allusion to the idea that she's going to get her vengeance on John for betraying and oppressing her somehow, but like
John is the one who named her Alecto. He's the one who named her that. So, naming her "Alecto" is alluding to the embodiment of John's rage--their rage, since they are joined inseparably (John even explicitly says that when he first perceives her: "You wouldn't stop screaming. You were so scared. You were so goddamn mad").
He says of Alecto to Harrow, "In a very real way, you are [Alecto's] children". At a very surface level, Alecto is (depending on the text or tradition), one of the Furies--famously, in several surviving Greek tragedies, who punish Orestes for the crime of killing his mother. In fact, in Aeschylus' Oresteia, they declare that they are specifically bound to avenge matricide.
So the name "Alecto" alludes to the nature of John's mission and how he sees it.
It also implies that his divine rage, the rage that gives him power, the power that makes him divine, that he either represents or wants to represent, is feminine rage. He was chosen by Earth (which, Furies are sometimes the daughters of Gaia); he is her champion, however he's managed to fuck that up. Once the truth of that comes out, it becomes clear that all of his power comes from her.
And that's why you get statements from Tamsyn Muir like:
“[T]he God of the Locked Tomb IS a man; he IS the Father and the Teacher; it’s an inherently masc role played by someone who has an uneasy relationship himself to playing a Biblical patriarch. John falls back on hierarchies and roles because they’re familiar even when he’s struggling not to. Even he identifies himself as the God who became man and the man who became God. But the divine in the Locked Tomb is essentially feminine on multiple axes – I think Nona will illuminate that a little bit more."
So yes, he plays the role of Emperor and God and Teacher, with all of the things that implies. And I don't think it should be discounted. But he also is (and partly sees himself as) the chosen champion of a goddess, or what is for all intents & purposes for a human like him a goddess. He is her avenger, and while she sleeps, her avatar.
And I don't think we're meant to read him purely as a parasite who's taking advantage of her to gain power for himself, either. Or an oppressive, Kronos-like figure. Especially if you consider Palamedes' theory of the Grand Lysis, even if he was purely motivated by desire for power before (which I really doubt), there are parts of each in the other, now. What was clear and separate before is uncertain and interpenetrated. Is his rage his own, or hers? Is his mission of revenge his, or hers? If he wants power, is that his own selfishness, or her desire to survive?
And does it matter?
#the locked tomb#tlt meta#john gaius#i really wish there wasn't such an intense desire to find the worst possible interpretations of johns' actions#because like. they're plenty hurtful on their own! they're plenty shitty!#there IS however something tamsyn muir is trying to express through the series and it's fairly complicated-otherwise it wouldn't be a serie#and i don't think it actually helps us to turn john into a cardboard cutout labeled 'evil'#or apply tropes we've marinated in from radfem-informed segments of online wlw culture about how men are parasites on the Divine Feminine#or apply the messages of other shows with a big emphasis on queer and wlw themes--like spop--to something that just fundamentally isn't the#there is more than one way to talk about lesbian religious trauma and there is more than one narrative around it#and more than one perspective on it#i wish that people would try harder to experience the story on its own terms
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A lot of cis people may not want to hear this, but here goes:
You are going to have more in common with trans people who have a similar gender identity to you than you think. Trans people are reliable narrators of their own experiences, and whether you like it or not, we will have similar or even identical experiences to yours. Cis people don't have a monopoly over their gender or the experiences people have as a result of their gender.
#trans#transgender#lgbt#lgbtq#ftm#mtf#nonbinary#ally advice#like in my experience i have had way more in common with cis men than cis women#and of course it is always more complicated than what a tumblr post can provide. but by and large i have noticed this trend#cis people like to pretend that trans people are a seperate species to them when that can't be further from the truth#cis people don't like to think that their bodies/experiences/lives could be in any way shape or form similar to a trans person's#but they're wrong in that case. there are so many of us with baried experiences. because we are PEOPLE#i feel like i am screaming my personhood into the void sometimes so i hope maybe this reaches somebody#as horrifying as it is (/s) i am as much a person as i am a man#and as horrifying as it is (/s) other trans people are as much their genders as they are PEOPLE#enjoy me posting my stream of consciousness then going back to play skyrim and fo:nv until i pass out or whatever i feel like lol<3
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Vanessa Doodles before work™️
My interpretation of canon Vanessa + her w Snatcher + Someone wanted to hug he <3
#a hat in time#not really an au but ya know not really canon lol#ahit vanessa#ahit snatcher#queen vanessa#demondoodles#my art#ahit#snatcher#my beautiful queen waaaaah#the noodle loser guy <3#the hold she has on me should be studied i swear jssjnwwn#anyways yeah#i know her having a shorter dress makes sense in the context of her wanting to be called princess but#I like long dresses :]#my hc is after the whole freezing she chilled out and felt guilt for some time but then she grew to not care as nobody wanted her apologies#so why bother right?#she and snatcher reconnected and they still dislike each other but still gossip over tea and murdering intruders <3#Vanessa: Can I talk to you like a girl friend for minute#Snatcher: Ya sure give me a sec#Snatcher: Heeey girlie men ain't shit#They have a very complicated situationship but they're essentially stuck together so might as well deal w it lol#I imagine Vanessa wouldn't care about his relationship status but he would be jealous over hers#a mix of 'She doesn’t deserve to move on from ME after what she did to me' and 'I am normal about my ex I swear but-'#He and Van get together for tea and watching 50 kids competing for their amusement lol
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what the fuck..
they really getting into it 😨
he got a treat at the end that’s something 😭
why did pinterest decide to show me these pictures…
Charles live reaction ^^^
#my mind is totally in the gutter im sorry#charles get over here 😨#does it count as cheating if its ur ex?#hurrmm 🤔#i’m sure it does for cherik they’re complicated#cherik#erik lehnsherr#hank mccoy#charles xavier#x men#wish does not shut up#xmcu#xmen days of future past#xmen dofp
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JOSHUA BASSETT The Complicated Tour · 2023
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#joshua bassett#jbassettedit#the complicated tour#HSMTMTS#ricky bowen#throwback#shirtess#hotguys#hotmen#men in 4k#tvgifs#hot dudes#dailymengifs#dailyflicks
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does anyone know any movies about women that are interesting i have been looking at my letterboxd diary and i have got to stop watching shit about men. for personal wellbeing
#this is not an antimen post but an i am goddamn sick of movies about men#neon has thoughts#criteria is woman must be written in a way that makes her interesting / complicated / human. not just 'female main character'#doesn't have to be a drama necessarily but like. many romcoms disqualified under this criteria#nothing against it as a genre i am just seeking something that is not how women tend to be written there
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