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sadaveniren · 2 years ago

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Im one who said that it is soon for me. But it isnt that they must broke up with her bf or any other shit as your anons say. It is because i have daughter in the similiar age of twins. And i dont know how big she will get help from others, but for me it changed my live in next years to not comparatible to before. It changing all priorities for rest of my life. And it goes with some not too pleasant experiences. My first whole night sleeping without waking up to care of my daughter was when she was 5 year old for example. Or it is no influencer holidays on ibiza in next years. And i had planned pregnancy and would never give her to anyone. She is my whole life. So it is more my experience than anything. But yes she could planed it and knew all im saying, only my real time experience of planned child is, you never know all things before. I obviously dont know if you have kid or kids.

Anon… I’m going to be 100% real with you. Phoebe is wealthier than any of us can conceptualize I promise. She’s the kind of wealth that can buy her a nanny, that can buy her a night doula (someone who’s literal job it is is to watch the baby at night and only wake mom up to breast feed/pump and then mom goes back to sleep and the doula is the one who does all that). She will probably never post about them but those are honest to god things rich people do. And some non-rich people too but it’s more common place in wealthier communities.

And you wanna know something else? She’d be valid for doing that. Because to answer your final question - yeah I have a kid. I planned my kid. And I got so fucking lucky that my baby was born at the end of February 2020 right before the world shut down so I was given essentially 6 months of paid maternity leave that allowed me to not have to worry about literally anything else but being with my baby because everyone else around me was right there with me in being locked up for 6 months. And that experience has given me a lot of insight into what post partum care should look like, and should be. And so yeah, if you have a village USE IT. Stop glorifying the idea of “I did it all on my own” YOU SHOULDNT HAVE TO. ITS BETTER IF YOU USE THE SYSTEM!! And she can!

I’m sorry you’ve had a rough time. Sleep deprivation is a serious health condition and not getting a full nights sleep for FIVE YEARS is a lot. A lot of us have rough experience. Some of us don’t. And some of us can afford to buy the support system that might not be in place! And that’s okay!!

#yeah you don’t know until you know #but that’s also the fun of life #answered

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biggest-gaudiest-patronuses · 8 months ago

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historical drama/sitcom where two gay best friends (woman and man) get lavender married--and proceed to spend the Fancy European Honeymoon their parents paid for acting as each other's wingman

#and hijinks ensue. obviously.#BONUS POINTS if they're gender nonconforming/questioning/trans coded #back at home they'd get dressed up then switch outfits in the taxi on the way to the gay club #now that they're married/on vacation in a new country they just wear what they want #he already has a glamorous collection of silk dressing gowns but she's the one who drags him out to buy a closet full of evening gowns #he tries to throw his suits out to make closet space and she steals them for her own wardrobe #also i think they should be a fun mixture of supportive and Cattily Judgemental about each other's dating decisions #just for funsies #like when your bestie is making a mess of their love life but you're in no position to lecture them bc youre WORSE #no wait wait wait #FINAL SEASON they both realize they're trans and move abroad permanently--where they each assume the other's legal identity!!!#SERIES FINALE: a joyful double wedding--wherein they lovingly divorce each other #and (under their switched identities) legally marry their longterm partners

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symphonyofsilence · 3 months ago

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Let the poor man rest.

#also no he doesn't want to experience life as a normal person. no he wouldn't sacrifice his powers to live again.#he LOVED being powerful. he was very proud of his powers. he was at the top of the world. what he disliked was being so lonely at the top.#which having reunited with Geto now he is not.#and he wanted to keep the next generation safe due to his past regrets and teach a generation of kids to be at the top together.#and he wanted to get rid of the corrupt higher-ups and reform the Jujutsu society.#and he did all of that. Yuta and Yuuji are both alive and safe and the kids are all reunited with each other stronger than ever #and the higher-ups are d**d.#Gojo obviously wouldn't hate to keep living. he clearly didn't expect to lose and die. but as he himself confirmed #he died doing what he loved. he went out the way he wanted. he went out with a bang. he had the best fight of his life and gave it his all.#as he said 'he had fun'. he said it would have been embarrassing if he died of old age or sickness.#and now that he's gone he's happy with his friends and especially Geto. he found peace.#He said it himself 'Now i'm wishing that it's not just a dream'.#also for those of you who say that Geto & Gojo wouldn't be together because one would go to hell and one to heaven... no. just no.#first of all. Gojo did a mass m*r*** before his death #second of all. they're Buddhists. they don't have heaven and hell. don't bring Abrahamic religions into everything.#and you'd be surprised by the excuses the Abrahamic religions find to not let people in heaven.#probably Gojo wouldn't go to heaven even if he didn't kill the higher-ups due to...idk... occasionaly doing pranks or sth.#but Gege apparently created a whole other afterlife of his own. and Toji Geto Gojo Nanami and everyone were all gathered there together.#you SAW that. so stop.#jujutsu kaisen #jjk #gojo satoru #satoru gojo #jjk gojo #gege akutami #my two cents #satosugu

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eydilily · 2 months ago

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this is fine

#namemc spoilers #goodtimeswithscar #gtws fanart #wild life smp #life series smp #trafficblr #i wanted to draw him a bit more manic but it didnt come out that crazy #i still really like this though :]#fun experimenting with colors !!!!#eydidraws #my art #mcyt #also if it wasnt obvious i love his skins for wl #i believe i must thank hoffen for that praise be

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buzzrds · 5 months ago

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here's my wonderful isopod child, handcrafted in leather

#art #leatherworking #isopod #marine life #he was super fun to make and i learned quite a bit #honestly id love to make another #id need to check the pattern designers website but i think im allowed to sell these as long as i repurchase the pattern every few sales #if thats the case i'd totally take commissions to make these #its a lot of work but its fun!#also yes he is a bag #there are attachments for a strap and a zipper on the bottom #ill reblog and link to the pattern i used if anyone wants to know where i got it

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the-game-spirit · 9 months ago

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sometimes a piece of media just! grabs you by the throat and says, "hey buddy! I'm gonna irrevocably alter your brain chemistry now! have fun with that!!"

and then you just ! gotta deal with that ! you guess !!

#isat #in stars and time #bungou stray dogs #bsd #dp #danny phantom #spirit chats #this is specifically about isat rn but bsd and dp did the same thing to me tbh 💀#so they get an honorable mention for also screwing with my head in fun and unique ways #EDIT: SEVENTEEN THOUSAND NOTES LATER AND I FINALLY NOTICE THE GLARING TYPO 😭#mortifying. life ruining. a fuckin tragedy #throat..... not thoat..... 😔 tf man

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foolsocracy · 7 months ago

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identity reveals are always fun

#batcave search history that night: friend has no name. atlantis naming conventions. atlantian names. r there birth certificates in atlantis #theyre so fun to draw guys im sick with it #also: everyone thinking 'But his name is Garth'#I know that and YOU know that but he doesn't until like..... a few years later. canonically #Unnamed Youth 'Aqualad' No Last Name #and arthur does call him both minnow and tadpole so wally n dick r both right in their own ways #and for ppl who really dont know. garth was abandoned as an infant and didnt hang w anyone until arthur took him in lol. what a life #and arthur girl...... was aqualad the best and only u could do #teen titans #fab five #donna troy #wally west #dick grayson #garth of shayeris #roy harper #dc #dc comics #my art #everyone hangin by the salt water pool so garth can hang w them :]

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artkaninchenbau · 1 year ago

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Crocodile finds a strange stray cat an 11-year old Nico Robin (AU where they met 13 years earlier. Robin's been on the run from the World Government for 3 years. Crocodile's 27 and has not set up base in Alabasta yet)

It seems like I have become possessed. By some sort of demon.

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#My art #One Piece #Nico Robin #Sir Crocodile #Y'all the OP brainrot is BAD #According to an SBS Crocodile would absolutely spoil his child rotten if he had one. *We all know how Robin's childhood went*#Scary mofo who does not know how to parent a child but boy does he have the spirit + Child who has never had proper parent in her life #They'd make. An absolute disaster of a duo. This AU concept is so fucking funny to me okay #But also sad because I would fucking die for baby Robin she deserves the fucking world #This poor girl has never been spoiled in her entire life AND NOW PAPADILE IS HERE TO SPOIL HER #You know it's funny. I know 11 yo Robin should LOOK older than 8 year old Robin. But Crocodile is a fucking giant so she's still baby sized #Also I just had too much fun drawing Robin looking as pathetic as humanly possible lmao #She's a like a wet kitten in the rain 😭

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verflares · 8 months ago

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just how long is forever? // not long enough, with you

pssst. check this out on inprnt :]

#pssst also. you should click/zoom on this. for better quality and to see all my silly little details :] hooty hoo #this is my totkversary thing im just too impatient to wait till the 12th LOL. big shoutout to this game tht has ruined my life. and zelink.#zelink #light dragon #link #zelda #loz #totk #princess zelda #totk spoilers #link totk #zelda totk #tears of the kingdom #loz fanart #i had soooo much fun drawing this i really did. i think this is a good capstone piece for how much ive improved so far this year #i still have a long ways to go ofc but. i am pleased ^_^ nd i am glad i can use zink like experiments to do so hehe #anyway. YURI FOREVERRRRR BITCH #my art

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isjasz · 7 months ago

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Stellar death

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justsomeectoplasm · 5 months ago

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#Ghost makes videos #new tag #So actually there is a video of this somewhere on the internet with this kind of edit.#but for the life of me I couldn't find it #so I made one #so this is kinda original?#maybe #animals #coyote #badger #also fun fact! Coyotes and badgers often hunt together!#so these two are most likely friends in the ecosystem

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datcravat · 3 months ago

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SCIENCE BEGETS TRUTH✨

#ace attorney #my art #ema skye #the text behind her also says 'SCIENCE BEGETS TRUTH #and she's holding two micro pipettes haha #I really liked doing this one tbh... it's fun silly ace attorney stuff but behind it is a message I truly believe in too!!!#I used to work in a lab. I thought I wanna gunna be a scientist #I'm an artist now though (as you can see haha). I hope AU scientist me is out there living her best life!#this art is a love letter from me to ace attorney and to science!!!!#thank you everyone on patreon for voting for me to draw ema skye

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biggest-gaudiest-patronuses · 2 months ago

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main take aways from Halloween (1978) rewatch:

michael myers is canonically 21??? this bitch should be at the club

*sees tiddies* ***MURDEROUS RAMPAGE NOISES***

that's it that's the movie

outside of the fact that everyone who has sex is murdered by the narrative, this is a surprisingly chill portrayal of female sexuality? these teen girls are horny and actively enjoying Getting It On with their boytoys. no pushy boyfriends sneaking in through their bedroom windows--these ladies are taking the initiative to sneak out and GET SOME. one of them gets laid and then immediately orders her boyfriend to get her a beer. (yes she gets Slashered soon afterward, but so does the boyfriend so honestly, gender equality.) yes the Final Girl is the only one not having sex, but she's not bullied for that, nor are her friends slut shamed except possibly by being murdered by the narrative

actually the only character who is shown being morally condemned on-screen is michael myers. specifically FOR his violent overreaction to other people's sex lives. (people he is spying on). metaphorically, the villain is American Puritanism sticking its judgy nose into other people's business.

aka Michael Myers Is A Republican

but actually the real villain is the doctor. guy's a judgemental, shaming, pathologizing asshole. and he's been in charge of michael's care since he was SIX YEARS OLD? kid never had a chance. i'd go on a killing spree too

also the parents. where are the parents? it's halloween night and all the teenage girls are home babysitting their younger siblings? come to think of it, michael's first victim was his own older sister, whom he killed while she was babysitting him. teen girls are really shouldering a labour burden here. maybe parentification is the true villain

side note: mike commits his first murder wearing a clown costume...which is never referenced again? his 'iconic' costume is a generic mask and wig and jumpsuit, when we coulda had a Killer Clown Michael Myers??? travesty

i like how the Final Girl and her friend casually smoke weed in her car. yeah she's an honor student and her friend is the sheriff's daughter. yeah they smoke weed. so what it's 1978

(to reiterate, mike is 21 and should be at the club. im not saying he shouldn't be rampaging, im saying it's sad that he broke out, tasted freedom for the first time in his life, and immediately snuck back into his childhood home to go rampaging. let's have a remake where he goes to a nightclub and has a few beers. maybe some slutty dancing. then rampage)

oh no he's hot