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"Please just stay here with me"
#hazbin hotel#charlie morningstar#vaggie#chaggie#charlie x vaggie#hazbin hotel fanart#hazbin fanart#The inner demons can be brutal#Having a supportive partner doesn't magically make the yelling go away but they can be there to try and help comfort#Sometimes all you can do is be there#Fluffy art coming soon tm but not today#Little miss sunshine isn't immune to self loathing is my belief and it makes her a deeper character :)#tw self loathing#tw selfhate#angst#vent art#vent#Sorry if I missed a tw I tried to tag the ones I know
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i was supposed to draw something sad but my hands slipped, so oops?
#thats funny how everytime i have a breakdown or im in a bad mood i draw them/one of them#it just helps me feel better and comfort#it's so miserable of me LMAO#my emotional support idiots...#also i love drawing my headcanons#who needs a blanket when you have a bird wing and your partner can produce heat#arknights#stalkiwiart#olivia silence#saria#art#fanart#sariasil
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And here we have the supportive bf suo
#wind breaker manga#wind breaker spoilers#wind breaker#suou hayato#sakura haruka#suosaku#he's like one of thos that can't help but brag about everything their partner does#supportive bf suo#🤣🤣
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#boink#oh instagram reels#btw in this video she had a “glow up”#which was basically having aged a little#like regular young adulthood early 20s type you're not gonna look the same as time goes on#like she got bangs and new glasses#i didnt even notice the first two times the video looped#like what#like cool!#yeah!#having a partner who loves and supports you will probably make you look happier! since you feel happier! ok!#also everyone looks different after a year when they're like twenty one!#what!#that's not the boyfriend effect that's just! being human! what the fuck!#also--- divine femininity??????#oh brother#for pete's sake#if you will#look for the most part i think that in general the women and girls and ppl that go with this kind of thing#the divine femininity and girl math and girl pretty and boy pretty etc etc etc#like i hate this kind of stuff but im not about to say that theyre at fault for it#like this is not helping anyone#and it just#god#it makes me upset!#maybe im overreacting but also i kind of think that we're collectively underreacting about this#like i dont wanna see it all over tiktok /let alone/ from my actual real life friends!#earlier this year my friends (women! women friends! staunchly feminist friends!) were joking unironically about girl math#like do we not see how that's harmful. when we talk about poor financial decisions and completely seriously call it girl math.#how do we not see a problem here
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I think this moment in 15x15 is doing something bad to Dean's psyche. It was just... such an (underappreciated?) psychological blow.
First, Dean was obviously waiting up for Cas and Jack. It's adorable.
But notice: Cas was leaving without saying goodbye again. Here, Cas's panicking, his keys already in hand as he rushes out to find a (heroic) solution.
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Hearthbreakingly, Dean actually asks where Cas is going twice in this scene. He can't hide the anxiety creeping onto his face when he asks.
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They make small talk about their daily works. Cas twirls and pockets his keys, but there's a blink-and-you'll-miss-it moment where Dean tracks the movement of the keys with nervousness:
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Dean forgets himself in the small talk, still laboring under the false promise, that the unethical plan will get his freedom (and everyone else's). There's a millisecond of happiness.
THEN.
There's a big HUH??? He does the little head turn, the same one he will do in 15x18
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Dean's anger rises, just a bit, alongside the panic.
The music swells and Dean, always clued in to when something is wrong, begins to get scared because Cas is scared. He flicks his eyes down to Cas in a panic, trying to understand what's happening, to him, to them.
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There's a familiar sense of confusion and disbelief here, not wanting to believe the bad news Cas is delivering about leaving, about Jack, and visually and beats-wise, it's so soooo similar to how 15x18 goes down when Cas tells him the bad news about the deal and the goodbye.
I actually think this is the moment Dean's mental health sails right off a cliff. Of course it's going wrong. Of course good things don't happen to them. Of course.
#spn 15x15#spn 15x18#spn despair#spn disguised the truth#spn the truth#dean/cas#dean/cas + love confessions#dean/cas + i love you#dean/cas + the dungeon#spn bobo berens#He needs Cas's support at home#maybe even more than he needs Cas on the field.#in sparing him and going out to work cas actually weakened them i think#at home alone and floundering dean worsens#dean needed help and support#specifically here he needed the emotional support of his actual partner#now before you get mad .... cas is not obligated to stay he's doing what he thinks is right#but them being off in their own corners has never worked#dean is so desperate to be free from violation from voyeurism :(((
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(FotR, pg. 42)
(FotR, pg. 74)
Guys Guys Guys Guys I know I know I KNOW we talk about Frodo and Sam's bond. Which is valid. Totally valid, I do it myself on occasion.
BUT.
BUT.
FRODO AND MERRY!!!!
FRODO PROBABLY GREW UP WITH MERRY!!! (I did the math cuz I'm a nerd) Merry was 7 when Frodo left to go live with Bilbo, but Frodo spent 9 years in Buckland!! He was there when Merry was born!! Merry hasn't known life without Frodo!!! Yes, Frodo was 21 when he left but he was in his "tweens" and probably still had to hang out with the younger kids aka MERRY!!!
Just. Look at them!! Frodo was a Respectable Gentlehobbit and Merry was one of those weird Brandybucks but they were both Adults and Frodo trusted Merry to find him a suitable house that he would supposedly retire in and Frodo didn't know that Merry knew that Frodo was leaving!! He just trusted Merry to get all the accounts settled and to find him a cute little house and he does!!! Merry does!!! He helps him find a house, he goes with the furniture to set it all up for Frodo when he gets there!! He even helps monitor everything that's being given away after Bilbo leaves and Frodo needs a moment!!
It's just. We're not even 100 pages in, they haven't left the Shire, but it's so blindingly obvious that Frodo trusts Merry and Merry looks out for Frodo, even though there's a 14 year age gap between them. They're friends, best friends, look at that first bit I put up there, they're joking around after Lobelia insulted Frodo and it's so natural, such a great little moment.
It's so. It's so obvious, right from the very beginning, like, of course Merry follows Frodo out of the Shire. It's not because Frodo's All That or anything, it's just that they're best friends and Merry cares for him and he wants to make sure he'll be alright. And I love that about Merry, I think it's a great character trait of his that you see again with Pippin. He loves them, so he follows them, even and especially into the unknown, but when it's their time to leave, to move on, he let's them. He keeps on loving them and trusting them, except this time it's trusting that they'll come back. And hoping that letting them know that they are loved will help them return.
#it's just.#THE HOBBITS GUYS THE HOBBITS#THEY WERE BEST FRIENDS#THEY WERE COUSINS#THEY WERE PARTNERS IN CRIME.#I'll probably do another one of these rants soon on Frodo + Pippin#but for right now#MERRY AND FRODO AS THE RESPONSIBLE ONES#like ofc Sam is responsible he's great I love him no notes you know I support his wrongs etc. etc.#but!! Merry and Frodo!!#I love them your honor <3#they have jokes and they know the same places.#and he visited him when he left with Bilbo to go live in Bag End#and something about how you should be able to ask your friends to help you move and unpack#something about that's what friends are for and getting rid of the idea that you shouldn't ask things of your friends#(┬ ┬)#just yelling into the void#the lord of the rings#meriadoc brandybuck#frodo baggins
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i don't consider the bapo new york workshop to be canon (considering most of the changes never made it to any official production/cast recording) however i think they provide some very interesting insight into the characters. for example during the dialogue part between confession and portrait of a girl you've got the girls and nadia talking shit about ivy ("the girl is like the anti-Mary, so many men have touched her it's a miracle she hasn't conceived") then the stage directions go "Ivy overhears and walks off. Jason stops her" and that's when Jason tells her "hey, chantelle says your drawing looks great". and i think this says a lot about jason's character. he is smart and notices a lot of things. he is aware of how fast rumours can travel and how they can ruin someone's reputation. but he is also kind and feels for ivy because he knows exactly how awful it'd be if rumours were going around about him too. i think he sees himself in her. and i also think it's very sweet (in a sad way) that their relationship started with him simply trying to comfort her and letting her know she's not alone despite the bullying she's facing. they could have had such a sweet friendship if things hadn't escalated the way they did
#i genuinely think ivy would have been the most supportive character when it comes to jason and peter#i don't think nadia would have found the right words to say to help jason#after all she didn't have much to say to him in promise besides 'you'll find a way dw just don't tell dad' which... like... that wasn't#comforting lmao#but ivy is way more in touch with her emotions and other people's emotions than nadia is#(since nadia has a tendency to bottle everything up and self-isolate and reject everyone)#isn't it ironic that jason was the only guy to support ivy but that in the end he ALSO eventually chose to see her as a sex partner rather#than a friend?#bare a pop opera
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Peter Parker’s the boyfriend that will hold your yarn ball and unwrap some every time you tap him with your foot while you’re crocheting/knitting.
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#liv speaks#?#peter parker x y/n#Peter Parker as a boyfriend#Peter Parker as a partner#peter parker imagine#peter parker x you#Peter Parker x you imagine#peter parker head canon#peter parker headcanon#Peter Parker x you headcanon#he just wants to be included#and helpful#the sweetest boy#I love him#he will also wear every beanie or sweater or pair of socks you make#a supportive man#spiderman x y/n#spiderman x reader#Spider-Man headcanon#spiderman imagine
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ballerina marinette lives rent free in my head
#mari going to uni to be a fashion designer#taking up gynastics in her free time#then attending one (1) ballet class and fallung in love#taking up ballet and droping gynastics#mari performing on stage as a ballerina and her friends coming to support her#adrien cheering the loudest in the crowd#:(#miraculous ladybug#marinette dupain cheng#ladybug#adrien agreste#adrienette#love square#omg adrien privately taking up ballet as well and helping her practice as chat noir#chat noir becoming her practice partner bc they’ve always worked beautifully together#her coach or whatever tf their called in ballet watchibg chat noir and mari dance flawlessly#the coach (?) telling them that they have to dance together in the performance bc it was just so beautiful#shennanigans as chat noir tries to come up with an excuse as to why he cant but the coach (?) wont hear any of it#now adrien has to come up with an excuse as to why he cant come watch but he wont be able to stand the sullen expression on mari’s face#so he has to find a way to be there as both adrien and chat noir#adrien sitting in the seats until its mari’s turn and then sneaking out to show up back stage as chat#calming a worried mari who thought he wasnt gonna show and then them both swinging on stage together#giving the performance of a life time#and then chat leaving for adrien to reappear#alya conplaining that he missed chat noir but its okay bc she got it all on tape#adrien complimenting mari after the show and then chat finding her later that night to compliment her again#is it obvious i prefer marichat?? LMFAOOO#marichat
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On my hands and knees please please please have Amy be shadows classic stage counterpart
#my arguments:#she’d support him in the plot while he gets fucked over by his dad#she could be a reminder of his promise to Maria and her if he gets mind controlled or corrupted or something#she’s my favorite sonic character I need her#if they wanna keep the modern vs classic aesthetic she has a classic version too#sega has been really pushing their friendship lately what with the Twitter takeovers and tmosth and merch packages of just them two#even if shadow goes down a dark path she would stay by him and help because that’s what she does (especially classic Amy (trip and metal))#it’s all about shadows past and I’m under the impression she reminds him of Maria who’s the core of his backstory#if I think of more I might add them later#should I leave these as tags or put them in the post or in a reblog#sonic#sth#sonic x shadow generations#shadow the hedgehog#Amy rose#and my final reason I want Amy to be shadows partner in the game:#shadamy
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TBH I'm not trying to step on anyone's toes
But I would literally ship Phone Guy with any other adult character than William, because if you look up Purplephone 80% of the fanart is William overstaying his welcome and Phone Guy having his personal space violated.
Like ANY healthy relationship is fine. That one just bothers me in particular because if you take away the cutsey blush it's just William/Vincent getting close and PG telling him to stop.
#tbh I don't think it's accurate in the romance sense to show the character having a literal panic attack because they're scared of#their partner#Phone Guy needs help and looks like he doesn't want to be there half of the time is the thing#opinion#Like so I find Willry interesting because it's supported by the books#and in my head it might be a lil one sided-as William holds a lot of love and envy for Henry-which sometimes leads him to make rash decisio#MAYBE William doesn't know how to express himself and resorts to violence easily-which pushes Henry further away#It doesn't mean I ship it-but it's an interesting dynamic when your wanting to show both sides without romanticizing the one#purplephone
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no little hair on your face is safe from this drow's tweezers!
#[ 🕷️ ] —— [ crack ] —— it was a beautiful webbing.#[ she has immaculate brows for a REASON ]#[ no but for those new here- I don't support body hair on Drow HOWEVER!! ]#[ eyebrows need to be kept in check or they get so unkempt. ]#[ her male partners she will also help shave their faces its her favorite thing to do. ]#[ ladies she will pluck your FACE ]#[ the plucking single hairs applies platonic AND romantically ]
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Ryan, Barbara. “BEYOND EMBARRASSMENT: FEMINISM AND ADULT HETEROSEXUAL LOVE.” The Centennial Review, vol. 37, no. 3, 1993, pp. 471–86.
JSTOR, http://www.jstor.org/stable/23739489.
#heterosexual relationships#love#romance#barbara ryan#beyond embarrassment: feminism and adult heterosexual love#long post#i don't 100% agree with the author but i think this is still worth a read... she makes a few good points#the part about how women can and should help their male partners become better feminists... that is definitely eye roll inducing#BUT it is important to leave the echo chamber and engage with texts that aren't 100% supportive of your worldview. expand your perspective!#personally i am much more in agreement with separatists but i don't think hostility (on either side) is the right approach#sorry to be cynical but i don't think we're ever going to be able to convince women to give romancing men up#i don't know what the right approach is though#it's so nuanced... even 30 years after this was written we're still having this exact same debate here on tumblr...
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Bout to muse about something that is part headcanon part canon events
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Tails is finally saved from his bullies by the (currently) small time hero he admires
Tails stalks follows his hero, uses his mechanical knowledge to improve Sonic's plane
While Tails follows Sonic around, even on dangerous journeys, the hedgehog keeps an eye out for the younger fox behind him, keeping him from being in too much danger
Sonic leads by example, demonstrating to Tails how to fight, and Tails runs maintenance on Sonic's plane and teaches him how to read
Soon enough, they become softly inseparable. Even if they can't adventure side by side (although they do more often than not), Sonic keeps contact with Tails whenever he can.
They strengthen each other's weak points. Where Tails lacks in raw strength, Sonic makes up for it with experience and speed. Where Sonic lacks in firepower, Tails has a machine, a gadget, or the technical know-how to take one. Sonic often rushes into danger, fighting without thinking too hard, but Tails' specialty is strategizing or making plans, and he's one of the few who can slow Sonic down enough to make sure he's prepared. And where Sonic supports Tails by being a force of nature, someone who can roll with the punches and execute one of Tails' plans with complete trust or faith, Tails also supports Sonic by understanding what he cannot, by crafting plans when Sonic is at a loss for how to proceed. They have such unwavering faith and trust in each other's abilities now.
Where Sonic is a hero, Tails is his own kind of hero, saving the people only he can save, helping in the ways only he can help. They support each other. They look out for each other. Even if Sonic is a force on his own, or Tails can go on solo adventures, they're more effective when they're together.
And no matter how things change as they grow, the people who come and go, the two of them are a constant. Sonic and Tails, ever at each other's sides.
#sonic the hedgehog#sontails#unbreakable bond#miles tails prower#tails the fox#i just be ramblin#Sorry they just make me emotional and insane#Although really the only thing that's solidly a headcanon and not either canon or my reading of them is that Tails teaches Sonic how to read#Despite them being 'hero and sidekick' I always like to think that as they grew (both up and closer to each other) and as time passed#they maintained this push and pull. They slotted into place as partners that support each other and help where the other falters#And really no matter what happens relationship wise or life wise with the two of them‚ I can only imagine that they still live and fight#together#Tails could get married and Sonic would still crash at his place and Tails would still keep food for him#Sonic could get married and/or have a kid with someone and Tails would move right in with them (if they don't just straight up stay with#Tails)#No matter what happens I can never see them not at each other's sides#And of course I like the idea of Tails starting out a bit more codependent but ultimately someone who works to support Sonic so he can#continue to be needed/wanted and be at his side�� while Sonic‚ who initially believes that he let Tails into his life and is protecting him‚#grows more secretly codependent. I think Tails is aware of how important Sonic is in his life (even if Tails has interests and wants and#whatnot outside of him)#while Sonic is...the kind of guy who believes that he chooses to keep Tails by his side‚ but whose world would also begin to crumble if#Tails disappeared (and I think Sonic Prime gives me pretty good ammo with that)#Gaaaaaah they just fascinate me. they fascinate me🥺😭💖
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aye can i get a fuckin uuuhhhh
break. on my burger
#shit chat#family cw#got sicker than i have been in years my bank closed my checking account on accident work is nightmarishly busy#and my mother is sending strings of long voice memos in the family group chat again#i simply will not be listening to them. at most i'll ask my dad or brother for the sparknotes version#bc her pattern for the better part of this year has been radio silence. no attempt at communication whatsoever#and then BAM like 5-10 min worth of voice memos screaming crying sobbing shaking#I DON'T KNOW WHAT I HAVE TO DO TO GET MY CHILDREN TO FORGIVE ME. I'M CRAWLING ON MY KNEES ON THE DESERT FOR A HUNDRED YEARS REPENTING#WHAT THE FUCK IS FAMILY FOR YOU KNOW I LOVE YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING AND I'M SUFFERING SO MUCH AND I'M ALONE BECAUSE#MY FAMILY ABANDONED ME. I HAVE NO ONE. I DON'T KNOW WHAT I DID BUT I'M BEGGING. I NEED HELP I NEED MY KIDDOS AROUND ME PLEASE I'M DYING#followed by several minutes of sordid updates on her shitty miserable life#which is tbf pretty shitty & miserable. she's extremely physically disabled & mentally ill#her partner had a severe stroke a couple months ago and is still recovering. they've both been in & out of hospital#neither working. partner's adult son who lives with them is the only income in the household#partner's permanently disabled mother also lives with them. plus 2 large dogs 6 cats and 3 each of chickens & ducks#they're in court suing their landlord bc he's trying to evict them but the property is an uninhabitable shithole to begin with#but like. whenever i do make the mistake of responding to one of her groupchat tantrums#she's just like 'oh you know me im a survivor :) i just miss yous is all :) now that you're here i'm gonna bitch about my life for an hour#and ignore everything you have to say and show active disdain & boredom whenever you tell me anything about yourself or your life :)'#and if i offer help she refuses it#like it's just a bid for attention. expecting unconditional love and absolution and salvation from us bc That's What Families Do#she doesn't actually seem to give a shit about any of us as real people. just this ironclad delusion of unconditional family support#that she frankly has not earned#my brother actually did go visit her in the hospital on thanksgiving. driving 2hrs out of his way to do so#and she was a raging passive aggressive bitch to him and threw the gift he'd brought her back in his face#ma'am i know you're Going Through It but so are the rest of us & frankly you've given me zero reason to want to interact w/ ur caustic ass#plus this is petty but yet another way in which she doesn't listen to me & makes no attempt whatsoever at genuine relationship#i've told her numerous times that responding to groupchat voice memos is hard for me. that i love & miss her#and if she wants to see me or needs help or whatever to please contact me one on one either by call or text#nope. refuses to respond to/initiate individual contact. ONLY traumadumping in the fam chat. TLDR MY MOM IS A DISFUNCTIONAL TOXIC NIGHTMARE.
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What about Silco as Medea? The two are so alike in the way that their actions are essentially held by a different standard because they act as agents of fate. Where Medea is bound to Jason to fulfill the gods' task for him, so does Silco exist to aid Vander to create the nation of Zaun.
On the surface their both easily read as violent and spiteful figures whose actions draw disgust and condemnation, and yet they escape true punishment. That is because the actions of Medea and Silco are above divine reproach. It is their respective partners that walked back on their divine tasks, where Vander abandoned Zaun's independence just as Jason a champion of Hera abandoned his blessed union with Medea.
After both Silco and Medea had their revenge on the men they that loved and helped achieved great heights, they didn't have easy lives but they still found success and even peace in the end. They were both devoted to their divine responsibility and were rewarded in turn. Medea married another king and was rewarded with a place in Elysium. Meanwhile Silco built an empire, got to avoid experiencing the true bloodshed his choice to protect Jinx (the spirit of Zaun), and was able to die with the knowledge that he wasn't betrayed by the last person he ever loved.
#arcane#arcane meta#silco#blah blah blah arcane is a greek tragedy blah blah blah#then lets talk about some greek plays then!!!!!!!#silco and medea is such an easy lay up#you've got two figures that support their partner through insane endeavors#medea used her magic (and straight up violence) to help jason and the argonauts obtain the golden fleece#and silco helped vander build The Lanes#and yet they're both betrayed in the worst way possible only to see their forner partners live off the success both brought to them#discarded like an inconvienent memory#*thinks about how Vander hides the self-defense scar Silco gave him*#also i think it's fun to think of silco as a divorcee#zaundads#also lets talk about how national origin stories are on par with mythology at times to really play with greek analyses
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