#but in a bpd way

[lesbiantrish]

hdjd /neg i feel like im about to cry

[zmbienoir]

i never get jealous ever nope not me ^_^ (about to gut someone)

[underscorepepper]

he must be stopped ..

[adustoflove]

You only realize you've been treated poorly your whole life when someone doing something simple to help you out without asking immediately flusters you so badly you can barely look them in the eye or speak

[chawliekin]

and if I said that dennis’ insistence on being the breadwinner/provider despite literally being a pampered princess who dgaf about traditional roles of masculinity in every other regard (aside from ego) is because his mom only stayed with/chose frank for his wealth and dennis is highly aware that he’s difficult to love and unable to show his emotions openly so he has to be contributing something to the relationship materially in order to feel like he’s worth staying for… and mac grew up with parents who were extremely ambivalent to him and eachother so he has to overcompensate by proving his worth at every given moment and seeking praise/validation from people (and religious icons) who will never demonstrate the same amount of dedication to him but he has no idea how else to desperately keep himself close to those he loves other than by eroding himself into something they’ll approve of… dear god they’re both exactly what the other needs — someone who can’t and won’t leave them even if they try — and they don’t even see it…

[bpdamn]

it’s WEIRD to see people enjoying their life to the fullest when even the good days are an endless battle for you

[cold--carnage]

in my humble opinion as someone with multiple cluster b disorders including bpd, the aim shouldn't be to "cure" it at all, because trauma cannot be cured and this is not an attainable goal, which sets an unfair precedent for us ourselves as victims of the disorder. the aim should instead be to heal and rehabilitate to a point where you can cope with the behaviors you've developed that are connected to the trauma. healing will happen, but the desire to "cure" all "sick" people is not a helpful stance to have and is way more damaging than it is helpful. hurt people don't need to be "cured" so much as just understood and helped. "curing" us is very much a medicalized idea that bases a person's worth on their ability to function. you and your struggles will always be valid, whether you heal or not, whether you're "cured" or not <3

[its-sunny-somewhere-else]

Someone mentioned it'd made sense if Basil had boarderline personality disorder, and as my BFF has BPD, I immedietely got obsessed with this idea lol.

Here's a longer post where I elaborate on my thoughts, if you're curious!

[bloomdoom1]

Am i not pretty enough for you?

[discountdyke]

its crazy that people think having multiple personality disorders makes you more dangerous or fucked up bc like, the more abuse and trauma you suffer as a child, the more symptoms of PDs you will check off bc your behavior becomes so disordered in order to survive. having more than one PD (having several PDs) is common among childhood abuse survivors. PD comorbidity is crazy high and, ultimately, PDs are a way of categorizing symptoms for diagnostics and treatment.

it has nothing to do with your character, your worth as a human being, and your ability to heal. you adapted to survive your abuse. you can adapt to survive life after it.

[honeypleasejustkillme]

i miss the rage (being hypersexual)

[vristrogen]

something about people calling vrisrezi "toxic yuri" always puts me off. i understand the lack of words to really put their dynamic but like you know theyre in a relationship thats largely good for them right. they arent dating because "it sucks but it would be worse without each other" they genuinely really love each other a lot

[eyepatchoflove]

lestat being both french and italian explains everything, because there is actually nothing wrong with him, he's just like that.

[danielenjoyer]

Me explaining how interview with the vampire is the best bpd rep I’ve ever watched

[ndcultureis]

nd culture is hearing somebody say “oh theyre a narcissist/psychopath/delusional” and taking a moment to appreciate your nuerodivergent siblings. anybody who’s disorder is used as a marker of Bad Terrible Person know i love ypu <3

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[rweoutofthewoods]

Snippets of the bpd reg fic for your patience

Obsessed with how James views Reg in this one I have so many snippets of this fic I could/want to share and there's another part about James views reg vs how reg views himself that I'm obsessed with too so... just say when and I'll share more