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when I wonder how's my internet friends doing these days- haven't heard of them in a while- and then seeing the posts I reblogged from them and theres the "Deactivated" in their names... oh
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I moved recently to start a new job and part of my commute now involves one of those high capacity toll booths where a two lane road suddenly flares out into 5-7 lanes of total anarchy with no lines anywhere, and then narrows back down to two lanes again, and we're just supposed to sort ourselves out? Who designed this
anyway I dreamed up this helpful anatomical guide on the drive home
#thought of flipping it upside down for it to read correctly but then it didn't feel like the driver pov#oh also yeah aside from generally pulling back from online spaces for the most part I've started a FAST-PACED full-time job#after on and off contract/part time work since 2020#I am WIPED#all the time#exhausted#I'm told I will adjust and I am trusting these people but holy shit I'm capital B Bushed#you will not see me frequently anymore but do not mourn for me#I am adjusting to my new fish tank...#I will be thriving#by the time I turn 30 next year I will be able to hit my 30s at a run#I'm feeling it mr krabs
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Go for a drive with me until we end up sitting in a parking lot and talking for hours
#wlw#wlw mood#sapphic#sapphism#lesbian#idk if i’ve professed it here but i LOVE parking lot talks😤#all my fav conversations have happened in parking lots#like lets drive and sit and talk and hold hands and i’ll fall SO in love SO fast#im gay and i like sleeping#hehe you may think im online rn but this is actually another scheduled post >:)#ive been so busy lately and the sleep hasn’t been sleeping (rude)#so im actually probably asleep rn >:)#and yet you see the post anyway >:)#you could see this post and immediately nap after it goes up#and then we’d basically be sharing a long distance joint nap😤#nap buddies separated by space but not time#doomed to have beautiful sleep but never together#😔😔#okay sorry done being obnoxious and going to sleep now😤#which for you is the PAST#because i am bamboozling all of you so HARD by scheduling this😤
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I don’t know how to explain any more clearly that it doesn’t MATTER if it seems legitimate to you. You have got to fact check every single headline and post and claim on the left just like you need to do on the right.
The left is NOT immune to misinformation and rushed reporting. And the more emotionally polarizing or shocking the talking points, sound bytes, and headlines are, the worse it is and more frequently it happens.
Learn to verify through multiple independent sources. If you can’t do that, you can’t trust it.
If you have to wait extra hours for the real information to come through vetted channels—NOT just one individual somewhere everyone links to, and not just one single media source either, EVEN if it’s a major news network—thats just how it has to be. What news outside of genuine local disasters near you TRULY needs your outrage and post-sharing in the next hour specifically?
Misinformation works best by not seeming like misinformation and by fitting in with the rest of what you already expect to see. It doesn’t help anyone to not be able to recognize and avoid the stuff.
#hey little star whatcha gonna queue?#and before I get any angry anons saying I’m making the argument that both sides are the same#I am not. and nowhere did I say that#and if your immediate reaction to any amount of criticism of leftist spaces or communication#is knee jerk outrage and defensiveness#this is an invitation to explore why that is for you.#this isn’t about anyone on here this is from conversations I’ve had with a few people IRL who have shared leftist misinformation a lot#so if you’re feeling attacked by this post and I haven’t directly spoken to you multiple times about misinformation with you responding bac#this isn’t. a vague post. about you. okay?#I cannot reiterate enough THIS IS AFTER IRL INTERACTIONS NOT A CAL OUT VAGUEPOST#and as one final note. IF YOU FOLLOW PEOPLE. WHO CONSTANTLY USE. THE MOST INFLAMMATORY WORDING CHOICES POSSIBLE.#YOU SHOULD NOT FOLLOW THOSE PEOPLE NO MATTER WHAT THEY TALK ABOUT.#no one communicating in true good faith to ALL PEOPLE about facts uses loaded language more than occasionally#the sooner you learn that the better. and that really starts narrowing down the pool of who you want to actually listen to (while still#verifying anything they tell you)#get higher standards!!!! and read some books or watch lectures about actual effective communication to broad groups without using tribalism#and also. anyone on the left trying to convince you of massive efforts and conspiracies that are anti everything#is also wrong 99% of the time and not a good source to listen to#never EVER assume conspiracy when it can be more simply explained through either#ignorance obliviousness incompetence financial greed or misunderstandings#the end. I’m really done this time. I’m just sick of seeing so many people fall prey to this#shh katie#cult escapee#politics and current events#don’t get swept up in the constant tsunami of performative online activism#election 2024#world events
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this post was a game changer for me. thank you ryan reynolds
#text#LIKE. i beat myself up for a WHILE abt my reaction#But what that person did was much worse#& i did not say a single unkind word to them#& if i had a big freak-out break-down on a PRIVATE BLOG that was essentially a diary because i DIDNT KNOW THEY WERE STALKING ME ONLINE ⁉️⁉️⁉#well i was well within my right to do so. because i should not have been expected to account for their feelings right after what they did#IN MY OWN PRIVATE SPACE. !!!!!!!!! GOD.#and i kept myself in check speaking directly to them & thats all that should have been expected from me. i was allowed to say mean things a#about them in what was essentially a digitsl journal. after they LITERALLY TRAUMATIZED ME ‼️‼️‼️#Sorry Everyone im finally going back and like processing stuff from years ago due in no small part to the shelby abuse stream#so sry if im complaining abt being traumatized more than usual 😒#traumablogging
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man, i had a rly nice day today! ;v;
#my dad and i were going to bake some cookies today but. we needed to clean the kitchen first to free up counter space#just had a bunch of junk that accumulated around the island in the kitchen. depression mess - you know how it goes. so we cleaned it all up#we got that done after a few hours and we were totally exhausted afterwards.#so we went ''phew! okay! now we just need to clear stuff off the island's top!'' ... and then one of the island's legs randomly snapped#stuff went flying everywhere. glasses broke. had to pull some shards out of my foot. and the kitchen was a mess alllll over again#so we spent another hour or two cleaning THAT up and went online to order a new island. and then we just crashed and got some pizza.#i know that doesn't SOUND like a good day but. it was actually rly fun. minor injury aside hehe. i like workin on stuff with my dad! ;v;#plus. sometimes when shit goes wrong it's just kinda funny. sometimes the universe has wonderful comedic timing.#we just spent the day hanging out and chatting while we worked and stopping for snack breaks. and the kitchen looks great now! :3#so i'm rly happy. and i'm callin today a win. ^^
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this is so crazy like dont yall have grandmothers you have to talk to or hell just other human beings that exist in your real life….if u were this nitpicky irl you would end up interacting with maybe 1 person.. but maybe that’s what u do
#it’s difficult to learn after growing up in online spaces but the immense level of curation on tumblr for example#the enforcedly sterile social environment#is not sustainable in peer-to-peer interaction. everyone is problematic. and some of it does not matter at all
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i just read the ASD report that the guy did and he literally misinterpreted 80% of what i said to him? some of the stuff in there (like medical history and background stuff) is fully FACTUALLY INCORRECT
anyway, i'm systematically going through the report pointing out what's inaccurate, which imho is a pretty autistic response, although i may also be a psychopath bc i have a compulsion to make this poor dude bend to my will
#void journal#every once in a while i'll take a dumb online 'am i a psychopath' test#because in my brain i am The Correct One Always and i REALLY need people to bend to my way of thinking#which like i have heard is a trait of psycopathy#and apparently my neuroplasticity is Too Flexible for autism?#of course i have good neuroplasticity i am literally SATURATED with THC#THC makes u bend like willow not stand like oak bruhh#i’m literally paul muad’dib but instead of spice it’s weed#like legit after all these years of therapy and reflection?#if it's not autism i fear it's genuinely psycopathy#like it’s not that i think other people are NPCs i know they have autonomy#the problem is#there's only enough space in my brain for me to prioritize one person and that's ME BITCH#but i dont think that's psycopathy i think i just dont have enough spoons to devote brain space to actively caring about knowing other ppl#do i have confirmation bias? YES OBVIOUSLY#but also are elements of his report literally objectively inaccurate? ALSO YES
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something that's been weighing on my mind ever since learning about the situation with ezra / toonimal is seeing how these predators will take the active hostility that is frequently directed towards minors in online spaces to their advantage and use it to prey on vulnerable children. i think that we as adults in online fandom should probably come together and maybe rethink the language / manner we go about interacting with kids bc clearly the way things are rn is causing active harm.
like obviously, if you're an adult and aren't comfortable with minors interacting with you or your content, you should be allowed to set that boundary and should be vocal about it, ( especially if the content you create isn't safe for them to consume. ) but i don't think talking to them like they're a blight on all that is good and holy is the way to go about it. maybe just saying you're an 18 plus account will suffice, you don't have to tell them to fuck off.
#i'm opening myself up for ppl to leave the stupidest takes on this post but whatever i need to get this off my mind#before anyone says anything about the kids on that website. they're grooming victims. they're literally kids being taken advantage of#show them some fucking kindness and be understanding that they're the victims in this situation#idk what it is about becoming an adult that causes so many ppl to lose their empathy towards minors it's weird#like yeah kids can be annoying and pushy on online spaces sometimes but a lot of them are old enough to know online etiquette lbr#alot of us were annoying kids on the internet at some point we should understand that you don't just. get a handbook for how to act online#that's shit you learn overtime but ppl seem to forget that#they also seem to forget that talking down to kids isn't gonna teach them shit they're not gonna listen to you if you treat them like idiots#what i'm trying to say is that we really need to talk to minors more respectfully and maybe give them a little grace#( obviously there will be situations where some of them need to be yanked up by the collar but there's ways to go about that >>>#without treating them like shit )#these kids need to know that there's spaces for them to be online safely without having to stumble into places that'll pray on them#we all know how much it sucked to be a kid online we should want better for the ones coming in after us ya know#sorry if this comes across as preachy it just breaks my heart and boils me blood to see kids being taken advantage of like this#especially when there's ways to prevent it idk#how do i even tag this....#mj.txt#there's trigger warning on the linked post btw#tw csa mention
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feeling solidarity these holidays with everyone not allowed to talk about their partner with the family
#for some reason i too am not allowed to bring him up when my dad is present because he gets really uncomfortable about it#and my mom has to come tell me off about it in private bc he wont say the problem directly to me#thunderclap#i understand the problem but what the hell man im almost 27 years old#its extra annoying cause ive been to his house a lot already and i know his parents and have a good relationship with them#but my parents absolutely REFUSE to let him come here because again itd make my dad uncomfortable to have us (checks notes)#living in the same space??#my GRANDPARENTS have seen my partner more than my parents have#i just think its annoying as hellll holy shit all i did was bring up miguel sleeptalking and say hes woken me up once or twice saying stuff#and my mom told me off on it after like 'dont bring up you being in bed with your guy in front of your dad' HUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!#HUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOW AM I SUPPOSE TO INFER THAT AS THE MEANING TO WHAT I SAID... I WAS JUST TELLING A FUNNY ANECDOTE#THAT HAD 100% TO DO WITH THE CONVO WE WERE HAVING (SLEEPWALKING)#ARRGHGGHGHGHGH THIS IS JUST LIKE COSMIC ONLINE REACHING BUT IRL
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Personal notes from before the szpd epiphany nr. 1: on maintaining online correspondences. More info in tags
sometimes I want to be alone. Arguably way too often. A break from online interaction too, that at its core is people interaction too.
Connection, in whatever kind of form, is far better than total isolation. The benefits outweigh the bad, though that too isn't pleasant to endure. I keep thinking about returning to my original state of isolation.
Going off for a break is fine. But what if you don't come back? they could be on my mind for the entire duration, yet I don't reply to them or share whatever it is that I've been up to. It's probably the maintenance which is the hardest part.
#this is me being conflicted about keeping correspondences with online friends.#i had a certain rigid mentality of either i ditch them entirely or i keep interacting witht them at the expense of myself#it was rather hard for me to tell them i needed space for myself in a way that'd have them understand#good thing we have moved past that now !! a friend told me he wanted to take some distance off his phone and i co opted that#thing is. he didn't stick with it. but i did !!#the first few days i was off discord i felt awful as i wasn't used to being alone anymore. i was confronted with how empty my life was#more than anything i was forced to recognize how much I'd been using discord as a means of escapism. and how much i was consumed by it#that definitely did distract me from issues i should've tackled head on sooner. i did find out about szpd only after i took distance#made a few other epiphanies so it's all well worth it#rambling#schizoid#szpd#schizoid personality disorder
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tumblr "lesbian elder" butches that are never older than 25: baggy loose clothes arent masc. flowers arent masc. open toed shoes arent masc. bright colors arent masc unless theyre boy colors i mean masc colors. any fashion style that isnt mine isnt masc unless its in a black n white photo of a lesbian and if it is then you arent matching the look right so its still not masc.
butches in real life: hey hows it goin
#rue.text#i still feel viscerally disgusted w my lesbianhood after spending time in online lesbian spaces#bc they were almost all run by the same genre of know-it-alls who never read a book in their life#who insisted that they knew lesbian experiences more than everyone else bc they realized their sexuality at 12#and they had the most fucked up gatekeeping of butch/femme bc they held everyone to the same spectrum of masculinity n feminity#ignoring all cultural/religious/medical/social/racial circumstances that make the spectrum really complicated#they were fucked to butches they were fucked to femmes and god they fucked me over in regards to sexuality sm#i wasnt femme enough for them bc im a hobbyist mechanic and my irl friend group was mostly cishet guys#idk im rambling but to this day i avoid online lesbian spaces like the plague
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#i haven't been this online since around 2020/2021 adfsgh#all for a good cause tho - the royai cause 😌#spending my saturday night counting and spacing out promo posts so they're (relatively) even 💀#(pls spare me i've had a lot of wine as i try to accomplish this HAHA)#i've got spreadsheets on spreadsheets for this event 😎#and i'm just. so thankful and grateful for everyone showing their hype and enthusiasm for the big bang event#royai still going strong after all this time!!! we love to see it!!!#still bringing ppl together 🥰#feeling gratfeul to have been brought in to be a part of it all 🩷 ana ily and ur big magnificent brain for this MWAH#emma talks
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#I am somehow glad that despite my obsession with vidarkness#somehow it doesn't bother me if they don't come back if and when s2 happens#it's weird cause with ac I had such hopes for cartinelli....not even like make them canon..but just#I wanted angie to stay as a part of the show#but then they went and took away every single thing that made s1 great#be it the relationship between cartinelli#or the ladies hostel stuff#or the fact that Peggy was operating on her own along with Jarvis#fat head male coworkers and unnecessary male li-s be damned#but then s2 came and I couldn't even sit through the 1st epi...sighh#and I was left with this bitterness and anger ...feeling thoroughly betrayed#after all the petitions and continuous online chatter that fans produced so as to make it happen#so now I am kind of numb to it all#if they bring back old characters... amazing ..great#I'll be seated#if not I'll just shrug it off and move on#I don't really expect anything from marvel#I have some faith in jac and co. cause they did deliver a lot with this season despite limitations#but I just can't really have too high an expectation from mcu.#is it me preemptively safeguarding myself from potential disappointment...yes probably#but I refuse to give them the power to ruin something that I genuinely enjoyed after a long time#the aaa fandom for the most part has been such a fun and creative space#I haven't been able to feel this sense of community in a long time#so that's the win I am taking..#the rest is just noise anyway#I be talking to the void#all these s2 buzz is making me feel a certain way#I've been burnt before...I don't need a repeat of that#tag ramblings#for ts
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Insane how everything can stack up on you on a single day and make you not want to wake up the next.
#unemployment trying to void my pandemic assistance and make me pay 8k back to them#but here I am trying to be a functioning adult and get degree stuff done.#but also giving up on my current degree after ten or so years cause shit keeps getting in the way#i can tell im way more stressed than I like being because my body feels super alien to me rn#Meanwhile I see online all the people my age who have started their lives#I cant even say I feel backed into a corner. I just want to lie back down in this empty space and give up
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The cartoon Network official site has shut down (the one with clips of their shows and little games for kids)
Great. Lovely. Another website dedicated for children, now wiped off the internet.
#discourse#cartoon network#flame talks#i am fucking sick of this#kids already barely have any spaces online#for just them#after flash got killed all the good games got wiped
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