#bisexual confusion

[the-ultimate-obsessive-fangirl]

Shadowhunters is way too bisexualy confusing for me 😭😭😭😭

[closetnerd62]

Welcome back to americas favorite game show: Am I having a bisexual awakening or are we just choreographing a romantic musical number together?

[aka-tua-braindump]

I wanted to make a post starting with "as someone who is straight presenting" because I identify as a like 1 on the Kinsey scale (I know that's not cool anymore but that is the best way to describe how I identify) but then I realized in high school everyone thought I was bi and in grad school some of my closest coworkers thought I was lesbian until I showed up with a date who was a man and it's making me question my entire life. Like am I homosexual enough to identify as a disaster bi or am I not allowed because I am married to a man? Or only rarely attracted to women? If asked to put it into words my word would be heteroflexible but like is that ok to say anymore?

I blame the umbrella academy and Robert Sheehan as Klaus Hargreeves for bringing this forgotten issue forth again. No, actually it's all of them. They're all too pretty and I love them and it confuses me.

Somebody please help me.

Being at a con this week did not help because I loved all the pride booths but also when trying to buy merch was very confused like which one am I? Like pretty sure I'm demi but am I bi? Who knows? Not me that's for sure.

[suzypfonne]

In a moment of self-realization: GO has made me rethink a lost relationship. A friend I had started having romantic feelings for and pushed away, not in an "I need to protect you from my feeling, give me a bit" way, but full on hurt them and shoved.

As I've been basking in all things GO I've realized how much I needed them, how much I miss them, how touch-starved I am, and how much I miss the soft intimacy of someone really knowing me. I'm not good at navigating the border between platonic and romantic though and I don't trust myself to look for another relationship in that vein.

[daniegraceg]

This is giving me as new bi baby "I just think women are pretty and soft and wanna bury my face in titties but in a totally platonic way, cause they're comfy" 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀 I was as stupid as buck lmao

[buddieinmybeddie]

LGBTQ+ folk what was your gender/sexuality pipeline?

[murdockbuckley]

babygirl always looks so confused and concerned, maybe there's a reason he isn't always the guy with answers

[strawberri-draws]

princess tutu fellas from memory

[buckboi]

Okay this is the meanest thing im going to say & then im going back to happyposting but if you think bucktommy was “groundbreaking” and you’re saddened by the “loss of representation” then i think you might be stupid, and media illiterate, an probably racist, maybe even biphobic

[mannap]

Why does literally EVERY F1 TikTok on my feed suggest this search????😭😂

You go girl🤴🏼 (but what is the reason tho)

[esperastra]

random avalance gifs [17|∞]

You know, I-I never saw my parents kiss or laugh or, you know, fight even. I never had a mom to like hug me after a heartbreak or just a dad to tell me that he was proud of me, and I just never had a family… to love me. And I really don't know that I'm gonna know how to love ours. That's all.

[aflawedfashion]

Maura & Jane | Rizzoli & Isles 1x06

[imfinereallyy]

Steve didn’t think much about what gender to like for years. It just always kind of been women for him so he didn’t think too deeply about it. It wasn’t until Eddie Munson that he re-evaluated. And it wasn’t during the Upside Down or anything. No, it’s six months later when they are smoking a joint together during a an older kids hang and he realizes how soft Eddie’s lips look.

Steve just thinks, huh well that’s different like no panic at all, just curiosity. So in front of everyone he interrupts Eddie mid rant and asks “Hey Eds, can I try something?” And Eddie says of course, cause why would he think anything of it.

Steve just kisses him. Right there. In front of everyone. Eddie is shocked cause holy shit what, his crush is kissing him. And Steve just pulls back and nods with a “Yea okay. Guess you do it for me too.” And kisses Eddie again.

Eddie is enthusiastic about kissing him back.

[screampotato]

Thank you. As a demi bisexual I feel like Schrödinger's queer. In this universe somebody opened the box and I'm married to a man.

PSA

Bisexual people are allowed to fall in love with and sleep with members of the opposite sex and still call ourselves queer. That's...that's kind of the point.

[sickosdotjpg]

[ocs] between the two of them, they almost have an entire outfit

(pls don't reblog to non-kink blogs!)

[sorrbet]

//long text post sorry

Whenever I think about Chilaios like both of them falling in love to me they’re the dynamic of one fell first and the other fell harder. Chilchuck being the one who fell harder.

But I’m thinking how would Laios be like when in love cause Chilchuck is a special case who knows his insanity but isn’t the most fond of it.

And my thought is that to anyone who knows his mannerisms well and how he acts could easily decipher the affections he shows to Chilchuck which are very minor things. But to anyone else they’d be like “that’s a stretch” but it isn’t.

So it would be only like Falin who’s like “I see you flirty Mac flirty pants” to Laios Just passing the salt to Chilchuck and they’re both like giddy about even the slightest moment he has near him.

And Chilchuck is going insane cause of the absurdity of being in love with Laios but also the absurdity of know he has to contain it but something just something tells him Laios is flirting which he can catch for some reason.

So any time Laios does slightly nice Chilchuck is playing 3rd chess trying to decipher what is and isn’t flirting, while Laios and Falin are giggling to themselves since both of their ways of flirting never got past the third grade and letting someone use your crayons.