#tua retriggered my identity crisis

[aka-tua-braindump]

I wanted to make a post starting with "as someone who is straight presenting" because I identify as a like 1 on the Kinsey scale (I know that's not cool anymore but that is the best way to describe how I identify) but then I realized in high school everyone thought I was bi and in grad school some of my closest coworkers thought I was lesbian until I showed up with a date who was a man and it's making me question my entire life. Like am I homosexual enough to identify as a disaster bi or am I not allowed because I am married to a man? Or only rarely attracted to women? If asked to put it into words my word would be heteroflexible but like is that ok to say anymore?

I blame the umbrella academy and Robert Sheehan as Klaus Hargreeves for bringing this forgotten issue forth again. No, actually it's all of them. They're all too pretty and I love them and it confuses me.

Somebody please help me.

Being at a con this week did not help because I loved all the pride booths but also when trying to buy merch was very confused like which one am I? Like pretty sure I'm demi but am I bi? Who knows? Not me that's for sure.