#bi butch men

[emeldiir]

Fat Butch Saturday ✨💅

can we talk about how hard it is to dress according to your style when you’re a plus size trans man? and poor?? i don’t have the money to get pants tailored and it is incredibly frustrating.

[genderqueerdykes]

the term lesbian means many, many things, but it has never and will never mean "hates men,". when you want to say "i hate men" you should say "i hate men". just say what you mean. lesbian means having a queer relationship with sexuality, gender, presentation, and/or biological sex, it means something about who you love and who loves you, but it does NOT mean hate or who you pathologically hide from. it will never stand for who you hate, only for who you are, who you find community with, and/or who you love. inclusion, not exclusion.

[bisexualfagdyke]

I am so desperate to spread the bi butch Wolverine agenda like. He is so butch and so bisexual. This is our chance to have a character recognised as both bi & butch simultaneously but IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN BCUZ PPL HATE BI BUTCHES AND IM JUST SO DEVASTATED. ppl will never consider bisexuals to be butch!!! U could give them the most gnc butch ass bisexual and they will wholeheartedly refuse to say butch. What if I fell to the ground and violently sobbed

[lesboytism]

i love being a lesboy!!!

[lavend3r-stardust]

Boy that lets me cup the his face and kiss him until he's speechless and giggling >>>

[13thdoctor]

i really really really like the whole thing the toymaker has going on but i like women and i really needed to see her as a fruity butch. or else id die. So heres if the toymaker was an old fruity butch. hi. i thuink im going to be sick over how bad i want her

[asshole-rebel-psycho]

The older I get the more I realize these things about dating.

I have been trying to have deep connections and stimulating conversations for some time.

This doesn't seem to work. Especially on dating apps for I guess obvious reasons.

But as an observant, shy, lonely and somewhat intelligent person ( who happens to be gay) I have unfortunately never found love or relationships myself.. I have only seen it through other people

It's pretty apparent that dating is for simple people. I don't mean this in an arrogant way but a majority of individuals seem to not take the question asking part of dating seriously. Idk if this is due to them not being attracted, busy, simple minded or a more narcissistic culture but it is apparent to me that the closer these people are to my location, the less they are willing to learn more about me.

I wonder why that is? 🤔 I've had plenty of engaging online, non dating app conversations with people all over the world.

So part of me thinks that this is due to our new emotionless, soulless culture. Because this problem only exists when I engage with potential matches that can turn into reality.

The need for connection is still there. Fear is holding us back.

Why are people so afraid of reality? What are they running from? Themselves? Other people? Is the world in such a bad place right now that we feel like if we make a connection we know it will probably end up broken like the society we live in? 💔

The more I observe dating and other people's love lives the more it is apparent to me that deep, intellectual, stimulating conversations are not a part of the game AT ALL.

( take it as a grain of salt but from my observations dating goes like this)

One, attraction is the 1# thing! Because if you don't have it there is no fuel to get anything going. The car won't even get out of the lot. Especially off apps.

Secondly, the man usually takes action by getting the girl on the date as fast as possible..he has to woo her by showing her a fun, spontaneous, adventurous, humorous, and flirtatious time.

It is usually filled with banter, funny nostalgic stories, flirting and none of that would even matter if the two ( especially the man who usually carries the convo) was not attracted.

You can seriously make anything work with mutual sexual attraction. I've seen two plain and boring people talk for hours about nothing but because they had those saucer eyes for eachother it just worked! They definitely don't talk about work or deep concepts.

So the man drains his ( or if hes in his 20s) his daddy's resources on the girl to have a "fun" time..meanwhile his sexual motivation is keeping it going because she obviously has many other options.

The girl then looks pretty and vets if he is worthy for a LTR.

If so, she gets brought into this new, advantageous, silly, successful man's life and uses him as a tool to get away from her boring and domesticated life. She uses him for fun, community, hobbies and eventually family.

She uses his resources as a way to post on tiktok, fb and ig to show off to all of her friends " look at the amazing, good looking and successful guy I am able to get" mostly to show status as a woman and to make her friends jealous..because they were mean to her in the past.

None of her *connection* to her man has pretty much anything to do with conversation. ( sounds harsh I know but hear me out)

If you doubt this why do men and women immediately separate at Christmas parties and work events?

Have you ever observed a straight guy talking to a straight girl before? At any age?

It's usually a girl talking with her friends about things that doesn't interest him and his eyes roll over astrology and the girl eye rolling about video games or sports banter. Exc...

It's pretty obvious how for 95% of the population..male and female worlds have NOTHING to do with eachother. And want NOTHING to do with eachother except for what each gender lacks...

Emotional support from the woman and financial stability from the man. What binds them is sex and what keeps them together is family.

This is why my nerdy lesbian ass has such a hard time with dating. Lol

In the typical female way I am relying too much on talking, not much action. And in a very unfair lesbian way I can't seem to find my opposite.

I am trying to find an intellectual match when I should just be finding my feminine opposite. I'm treating dating like lunch dates with friends, Like men discussing politics on the Titanic while smoking cigars.

Unless I want to talk to a mirror long conversation isn't the way to go.

Because it never was to begin with. This is the code I finally cracked. Lol 😆

I'll leave the cerebral banter and philosophical insights to the lonely, individualistic writer side of me..the side of many great minds in history...But even a great writer will drop his work like a hot potato as soon as he finds a woman he is undeniably in love with. 🥰

My point is to find my opposite not my reflection. And my opposite might surprise me with what they can give or know...even if it's not deep or extremely interesting to me. This goes for any gender. Love doesn't work that way.

[the-bi-line]

i always laugh to myself when people say bi women see butch women as a replacement for men because butch women are hotter than men in all factors. there’s no outfit or haircut a man can wear that a woman cannot wear better imo

[princessefemmelesbian]

My friend said that Harry Shitter would be a transandrophobia truther and I am literally SCREAMING CRYING THROWING UP AT HOW ACCURATE THAT IS 😭 HE WOULD THO

[stardroppoetry]

send this to a hot bitch who should take their top off

[genderqueerdykes]

"Why is it called coming out?"

George Chauncey, a renowned professor of American queer history at Columbia University who has worked as an expert witness on many key US gay rights cases explains that in the period before World War II, gay people "did not speak of coming out what we call 'the gay closet' but rather of coming out into what they called homosexual society or the gay world, a world neither so small nor so isolated, often so hidden as the closet implies."

Chauncey draws on an example from a 1931 headline in the newspaper the Baltimore Afro-American, which announced the "coming out of new debutantes into homosexual society" at a ball referred to as a "frolic of the pansies." Apparently large drag balls were popular at the time and were a classic place for men to come out into gay society in America. These were not underground affairs; instead some drew thousands of spectators. Chauncey writes that, by 1931, "this aspect of gay culture was entering mainstream parlance."

-- "Bi: The hidden culture, history, and science of bisexuality" by Dr. Julia Shaw.

[bisexualfagdyke]

Saw someone on twt say Sevika & Silco are "obvious homosexuals" & "shipping them is hilarious" so I am now going to ship them out of spite, bcuz clearly some of you will never understand the power of femme/twink bi man x butch bi woman, bisexual fagdykeism genderfuckery. And I feel sorry for you. That you cannot experience and see these wonders.

[lesboytism]

straightbian/lesbihet ₊˚♬ turihet

straightbian, one who feels a queer and straight attraction to women

turihet, one who feels a queer and straight attraction to men

reasons for this could be due to being androgynous, multigender, genderfluid, etc.

[ not my coined term, just flag redesigns!! ]

[lavend3r-stardust]

Holding his waist while he sits in your lap and kisses you harder 😵‍💫😵‍💫 pretty boy looking so damn good with his lips parted and plump, breathy gasps spilling from his mouth, running his cute little tongue on them when he pulls away; got those gorgeous "fuck me" eyes, big and needy with lust while he grinds against my body

[eggpla]

I know I'm swinging a bat at a hornets' nest here but I don't know how to phrase it better than. The rest of us just have sexual orientations. But there are certain people who believe that lesbians were a prechristian germanic tribe and they have to Reconnect with The Holy And Pagan Art Of Liking Women

[pockspocket]

X-men Oc! They manipulate shadows/darkness and have to stay at a certain light level, otherwise it gets too overwhelming. Tools and weapons can be created out of the darkness but he needs to know how to use it.