#as an aroace person: good shit
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Hmm itās been more than a month since I was regularly playing I Was a Teenage Exocolonist and I am just now appreciating the aro&ace characters being beacons of passion and empathy under a violent regime.
#I Was a Teenage Exocolonist#Nomi nomi#rex (i was a teenage exocolonist)#basorexia#nomination#as an aroace person: good shit
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not everybody needs a romantic love story. some people are content without romance. there are so many kinds of love/care in this world. god, why is it so hard for big creators to reflect these alternatives instead?
#tua#the umbrella academy#spoilers#tua spoilers#five hargreeves#aroace#aromantic#not say they had to make his character aro#but as an aromantic person and a five stan this season is just shit#they could have done so much better in regards to the siblings relationships#and they ruined a perfectly good sibling vibe#they turned his character upside down
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Love struggles
#this is way more personal than my usual art#my aroace identity got tainted just because my mesh (alterous crush) misunderstood my feelings#i tried talking to him but it was no use#he saw me as me head over heels romantically for him#like no. what the fuck#which caused him to ghost me for months#i projected this onto my selfship because i love igor and i also love meself a good angst#ofc igor feels the same way (queerplatonic) but afk!feli had a whole ahh arc going on#and also because i want people to know just because aroaces aren't āinherently getting the worse treatmentā doesnt mean we NEVER got shit on#we still do (and most likely the same level as any queer people)#uhm yeah rambling aside i hope you enjoy this angst YIPPIE#selfship#afk journey#phantom artist#art#self ship#artists on tumblr#aroace#asexual#aromantic#queerplatonic#alterous attraction
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The way I need to- [remembers jokes about suicide are bad for my mental health] ...kill Steve Blackman
#the way I'm punching air as an aroace and as a person who enjoys actually good television#hey five what the fuck are you doing bud!š#I mean this whole shit felt tired and empty but the five/lila stuff? please somebody tell me I'm hallucinating#tua s4#tua s4 spoilers#tua#five hargreeves#number five#lila pitts#the umbrella academy#umbrella academy
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GUYS SOME LEGIT CONSERVATIVE WAS FOLLOWING ME THATS SO FUCK8NG FUNNY IM AHAJSHWJDHD
#xero says things#i saw the email pop-up for them following me jad two emails so i was like oh???#like who is this person why have they followed me on two seperate occasions???#and so i checked their blog and they were VOCALLY TRUMP SUPORTIVE AND SAYING SUPER TRANSPHOBIC SHIT AAAHHHHHAHAYAYQHAJAGDJSD#LIKE UHMMM HONEY. YOU ARE FOLLOWING AN AROACE IT/ITS OBJECTUM HOW THE HELL DID YOU GET HERE LMAOAOA9SJDOSJF#VERY BLOCKED NOW THO. GOOD RIDDANCE LMAO#now i wonder if the person who just sent 'faggit' in my inbox was that person LMAOOOOO
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Saw a YT vid with the title, "Fandom Can't Handle Asexuality"
You're right, they can't... Because it doesn't fucking exist to them.
#aroace#asexual#enby people arent real either#we're told to stop using neopronouns and to stop being aroace bc 'nobody will take LGBT seriously'#keep being exclusionary#i dont want to be your friend if you're gonna act like that#I'm a genderqueer aroace person who's pronouns are it/its and you're gonna fucking respect that or be called a bigot#this shit has got to stop#also... because it matters#dont be ableist#ever. just dont#one of the main reasons i hate Alastor so much... is the fandom's treatment of him as a character#most of them completely erase his sexuality in favor of shitty crack ships.#I think a QPR with Lucifer or Rosie is a cute idea! but that's it#keep Vox pining for Alastor... that's great too#its like when I tried to erase Porter Gage's Bisexuality.... It was wrong and I've changed (Fallout 4's romanceable companions are cannonic#cannonically bisexual... I don't make the rules) I was just mad because someone had MY BLORBO in a disgusting ship and I got sick of seeing#it... And THEN I learned how to block tags!!!#idk where this is going#i'm just upset that aros and aces and enbys are erased#maybe it's a confirmation bias and i've just spent too long doing demographic research#i HATE demographic research#it takes me to disgusting places#i need to find my sewing patterns so I can refocus my energy into something good
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#personal shit#not even sure i ship this#y'know cause Alastor might be aroace#its not confirmed tho#what is confirmed is that hes asexual#hazbin hotel spoilers#au#fanfic#radioapple#angst#tw blood#tw sui implied#tw depression#tw isolation#not my fic#its a good fic tho
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happy pride month, im so glad to see people doing fun new varieties of ace discourse this year -_-
#that one post is really rekindling my 2016 urge to scroll through the ace tag and look at just how many people hate us#just saw a post unironically being like 'erm actually the ace discourse was justified bc all aces were homophobic and evil'#and called talking about how bad the ace hatred was 'rewriting history' or some shit#to the person who wrote that post: if youre hate scrolling the ace tag and happen to see this fuck you!!#and to all the people STILL pretending that being asexual somehow=being sex negative and eeeeevil: go die!#my fav thing about the ace discourse is how people rend the ace community in a wildly conflicting variety of directions#to really pin every possible sin on ace people's shoulders#it's just every goddamn thing#@ every single person whos like 'no no THIS time our hatred and exclusion of a marginalized group is for good and valid reasons'#I fucking hate your guts!#try growing as a person and not having your head so far up your ass maybe!#I refuse to even think about aro discourse bc by god it's always the dumbest shit you've ever seen#really throwing a dart at a wall of balloons labeled 'things to pretend aroace people do and get mad at them for'#I'm happy seeing everyone reblogging my greed pride post again this year. it's very nice seeing people be happy about pride and who they ar#but I'm feeling kind of down still seeing the same shit regurgitated nearly a decade later#just fucking let people define or choose not to define their own fucking experiences#how is that POSSIBLY still something you all have trouble with#year after goddamn year#fluffle talks#negative#happpppyyy pride#anyway if anyone happens to see my comments on that one post and comes to my blog#hello š I hope you're having a nice night
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I've been playing Coral Island (it's so good, I'm really enjoying it so far) and the URGE to draw my farmer (who's basically me, cause I always do my first playthroughs as 'myself') doing dumb shit is so strong but...
I'm not a fanart person, drawing other characters with set designs in my style has always been really hard for me for some reason...but I wanna draw them so baaad...
#would y'all be interested in farmer Tabatha's exploits?#ive been taking notes for shits and giggles so#and honestly i kind of just wanna yell about it real bad#coral island#farm sim#farming simulator#video games#love a good farm sim#really rots the brain#plus playing a dating sims as an aroace person is really funny
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woe characters inspired by some of my cats be upon ye. info on them in my tags lol
#dialtown oc#jack dlc#twerpys head is a sledgehammer bc the cat theyre based on was born in a wall lmao#he works at the petstore with outis bc i got said cat frm the local petstore#lilys head is a fluffy couch pillow thing and she works at an animal shelter bc thats where i got the cat shes based on#twerpy is genderfluid bc we make jokes that my cat twerpy is genderfluid a lot#also i feel like shed be aroace if she were a person. its just the vibes yk#lily isnt labeled as anything shes just vibin#the 2 are part of a big sorta found family type shit that consists of chars based on my other 3 cats i just didnt feel like drawin more rn#twerpy is really mean and stuck up but is secretly super sweet it just takes them a long time to warm up enough to someone n show it#shes also secretly incredible at like. comforting people and helping them out. but again only shows it for people hes warmed up enough to#lily is super confident and full of herself and spoiled. she thinks shes super fuckin smart but she is very much Not /lh#she loves attention though and gets her feelings hurt super easy#also shes Huge on physical affection. she loves giving people hugs and holding hands and shit#like. shell be like oh im so fuckin hot and cool literally no ones on my level and of ur like eh idk that fit isnt really that good on u#she will start Crying. and get mad that youre being mean to her for no reason while sobbing#and probably will hug onto you while doing it#twerpy also gives really good hugs but they Hate being touched. so if it willingly touches you then youre incredibly lucky special#also lily loves sitting in peoples laps#if youre friends with her she is far more likely to sit on your lap instead of any chair in the room nd thats just smth youll have 2 deal w#dlc wiki
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ok yep im very aroace what the fuck
#my identity is so confusing but yeah aroace fits me well#what the fuck is up with allos???#like apparently allos can deal with mediocre romance writing just cuz it has a sex scene???#and apperently some find the romance to be unnecessary???#like 99% of the time romance is totally unnecessary in stories but when its a romance story people will put up with shit writing to get off?#if i choose to read a romance story it better have good writing with characters that have personalities and not just 2 sentient fuck dolls#like yeah yeah yeah i know sex sells and all that but come on!#if i read another story where 2 characters without personalities just fuck for 20 chapters ill puke
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Idk why everyone is saying you're a loop kin. you remind me more of a siffrin
Excuse you, we're way hotter than that guy. We've aged out of being a socially anxious nerd in a cloak. Now we're a hot nerd in a trench coat and/or several different layers of jewelry and/or an outfit that has people say to us phrases like "you look like a time traveller who figured that the 1980s are basically the 2020s in the grand scheme of things and is only now realizing that the time periods are very different however you are indeed very hot" or the perhaps more descriptive "you look like harry dubois".
Actually, was nerd the one that originated from the guys biting chicken's heads off with their teeth? We should use that one. We're the guy doing that but hotter and also more likely to torment fictional characters for fun.
#asks#we speak#not liveblog#anonymous#these are phrases we would consider compliments btw we are very attractive in browns and greens its part of why we're a mantis#you could make this comparison about us when we were seventeen maybe we were like way worse about things then we're better now#siffrin has way more problems than us now. lol lmao et cetera. we are no longer seventeen years old so we are no longer Like That#our condolences to them on their apparent continued issues. we wish them a very no moth in their brain hoarding their memories#we find it generally helps to get more insufferable and start becoming a worse person instead of worrying about if youre inherently good#we had character development and now we're aroace and random teenagers at the queer alliance ask us how we got so confident#the trick is that lying to people with your immense knowledge of how to talk to people will have them view you as unreliable#but writing about people with your immense knowledge of how to talk to people just makes you a very good author#we still own more than one cloak though. we never throw shit out.#we don't know if any of these phrases make this more or less convincing honestly we're saying normal words
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Since Iāve come out as aroace Iāve been dissecting different worldviews i was raised with and how theyāre different from the way I want to live my life now. And obviously one of the big things Iāve been contemplating is relationships in media/pop culture.
One of my favourite movies is How to Train Your Dragon.
And tho Iām a sucker for romance, and Hiccstrid all and all that jazz, I absolutely love the relationship between Hiccup and Toothless more.
Itās one of the only movies I can think of where the platonic relationship actually overshadows the romantic relationship. I just love that one doesnāt negate the other, and the message that your platonic or other relationships doesnāt have to be lesser than the one with a romantic partner.
#anyways I hope all you aros and aces and combination there of are having a good pride#and that your loving your dragons#bc I know for sure Iām not the only aroace person who loves the shit out of dragons#asexual#ace#aro#aromantic#aroace#lgbtqia#aspec#the a isnāt silent#ramblings#how to train your dragon#httyd hiccup#toothless#httyd
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four and sixteen for milgram? :3
4- what was the last straw that made you finally block that annoying person?
Ok imma be real I've never blocked a person,,,,, I've blocked plenty bots tho
I've gotten reeeaaaallll close to blocking someone but like. I like seeing people's opinions even if I think they're unreasonable. It's a mix of a strange type of entertainment and kind of to keep me open minded? Cuz if I have to look at it and I wanna talk about it I gotta read it through in detail to make sure I'm reading them right so yeah I don't have anyone blocked š„
16- you can't understand why so many people like _______
............ok I won't that theory because I have another ask that I'll do that for....
Maybe how some characterize yuno as just "girl boss" n not much else? Honestly jokingly it's totally fine but c'mon there's still a bit of girlfailure and inability to let others in there yk it'd be fun to talk Abt it more
Alternatively I do have things I don't understand about what people DISLIKE in this case es milgram I've talked to quite a few ppl (on disc mainly I don't think Ive seen it on tumblr much) who despise es and like!!!!! Bestie that's my silly lil guy you're talking about what'd they do to you!!!!!!!!!
I mean I understand why but also,,,,,they're just a lil creature man they're 15 and in a position of power with no memories of course they're gonna be a bit egotistic in this situation
#sand speaks#this is what i get for saying i dont get asks huh(joking joking it was a nice surprise to get asks hehe)#but yeah i dont block people! i dont like dojng that i need to see their opinions no matter how rancid i think they are!!!!!!!!#its enrichment its entertainment its expanding my horizons its morbid curiosity idk man#and yeah idk theres not a lot that i completely dont understand why people like things#like. i dislike purge march but thats personal opinion so i understand ppl who like it#i dont understand why people simp over characters but im aroace so no shit#idk this just made me realise how unopinionated i am haha#ph the yuno point is kinda moot cuz i saw quite a few ppl talking abt her character completely recently lmao#ah well i dont have much to talk about in terms of what ppl like. i can usually see why they think that way even if i dont#literature class has helped me so much i love literature#listening to others takes even if theyre kinda surface level or a reach. seeinf how others think and relating it to how you think.#its fun idk im being too poetic in tags onto the next ask so i can show you what i mean by akother ask tot alk abt the thing!!!!!!#oh incase you see this before i finsih writing my toher answer the thing is the organ harvesting theory. it always is. i will have a Time#have a good day if youve read this far!!!! i type too fast and tooooooo much for anyones good
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i think people should stop thinking in stark black and white and stop taking things violently at face value and maybe society would be a little better. or at least stop making it the problem of other people. it really is a great brain exercise to stop and be like well okay wait a minute. you literally feel better.
#the taking things literally is hard i get it but#it does good to think outside of the box quite often.#court rambambles#some people literally just. look so dumb when they say one thing is ONLY THIS WAY. babe.#if we humans have the ability to think fluidly. why don't we do it more.#idk maybe if everyone were autistic it would be easier /hj we'd all just be annoying each other#this is about art and human identity#why is it so hard to abandon structure a little where it's not needed. where it doesn't help Anything#let things be gray and every other color#im not talking about rights and morals we should uphold but just#basic human existence shit#one person does not get to decide how another person should feel about and express themself based on what they know#also shout out to aroace people#generally the most open it is what it is group of people out there#when both the lgbtq+ and not communities are against you what can you do
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#feeling really weird in my body tonight so im going back to bed#idk just.. have had gender and identity issues today. its just. a lot#like being ngc and not out of the closet cause i dont wanna talk about it is so exhausting and im just. yeah#not to mention the whole aroace thing#just been thinking a lot today. idk. i know im not faking any of it but bringing it out to ppl is just. so much sometimes#i have two irl friends who know. one thats thankfully very careful about it around other friends cause he knows im not out yet#but its still exhausting. especially when the conversation goes on those rails while undermining specifically my identities#without these ppl knowing about it. and i dont wanna talk about it cause technically its irrelevant but like..#idk. im just afraid of being left alone. being called awkward and weird and faking it and that its just a phase and... yeah idk#idk where this is going im just complaining now. i would just like to exist as myself without having to explain shit#cause these are terms and things i would have to explain. oh whats an agender? then why do you still look feminine and not enby(???)#how do you know youre ace if youve never dated? or aro?? as if these things dont work the other way around#im just already tired of it but i feel like eventually i should break it out. these ppl are my friends. we have a trans person in this grou#and ppl understand him and his perspective. i guess part of that is the thing im afraid about tbh. that they think im following a trend#or an example. that i havent been dealing with this for at least like five or six years before they came out as enby and later trans to us#but.. idk. its just hard. these identities are so hit and miss with ppl and them understanding and being hurtful later on#aaaand now im crying. this is so stupid im going to bed good night#night is an absolute mess on main#(tho be clear tho ive known im ace for over half of my lifetime now. the five to six years was about being agender/enby. fyi)
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