#as a genderqueer genderfuck

[danandfuckingjonlmao]

i need to steal charles rowland’s gender like i need air to breathe. not even joking. i need it so bad.

[genderqueerdykes]

you can't support the normalization of the usage of singular they/them pronouns and then say you don't support people who want to normalize it/its because it's "too weird," as if using singular they/them pronouns isn't clearly weird to a lot of people.

you can't refuse to acknowledge an identity because it's "weird," they're all "weird" in the eyes of cisheteronormative society. people who use neopronouns like it/its, ze/hir, xe/xem, thon/thons and others don't deserve to have to settle for they/them if that's not what they use. it doesn't matter if something is "weird" or not. let go of the compulsive need to assimilate and just let people express themselves freely

[actualalivecreature]

not femininity or masculinity but a secret third thing (faggotry)

[im-secretly-a-frog]

Y'know what? Fuck it. I am a dude. I am sapphic. I love girls in a very gay way. I love boys in a very gay way. I am a guy, but not a man. A use he/him but I am not a man. I don't use she/her but I am sapphic. I have a complicated relationship with a lot of parts of my identity, and that will not change overnight, but right now what is important is that I am amazing.

I am queer and beautiful and in love. I use labels I want and reject ones I don't.

[sirenium]

transphobes calling trans people confused for their gender is just a cover up for the fact that the transphobe is confused. I know you cannot fathom the complexities of my gender, but that's not my issue lmfao.

[enemywasp]

What if I tell you i feel trans in both ways. Like I'm a trans man but also sometimes a girl but there's nothing cis about that.

Also sometimes I'm neither and also both and really I'm just me and I'm definitely trans and queer as fuck

[ellis-reblogs]

Nonbinary and genderqueer folks of tumblr

Feel free to tag your name (and gender identity if you please)

[teleportzz]

assimilationism is so wack i actually can't. like do you idiots not understand that queerphobes can't tell any of us apart and don't care to? in the eyes of conservatives, we are all faggots. kissing ass and throwing the rest of us under the bus for table scraps of liberty only creates the false image of progress if you're white, abled, neurotypical, and fall under one of the few labels they can easily understand. yet even for you, it's not real. they'll create the illusion of a good life for you in exchange for oppressing your own community members and then turn around and feed your face to the leopards.

like sorry not sorry, man, but we are all in this together whether you like and appreciate it or not. you're sharing your labels and safe spaces with neopronoun users, he/him lesbians, slur reclaimers, old label adopters, drag queens, loveless aromantics, gnc folks, and the kinksters. we've always been part of the community. it isn't our fault you don't value your own history and vehemently refuse to learn it. we still aren't going anywhere. cope.

how sweet is the blood of your queer siblings as you lick it up clean from the boots of your own oppressors? hope it tastes real fucking good

[smilepilled]

i think the term "imposed gender" should be used more, potentially... imposed gender inherently implies that it was imposed upon a person, and it doesn't specify any sex/"agab" details at the same time. so if you were raised as a specific gender, you could say it was your imposed gender (not necessarily negatively, but can be).

it would also mean that cis individuals do (primarily) identify with the imposed gender, while trans individuals don't (to some/any extent).

this would mainly be aimed at guardians or responsible adults imposing a gender onto a child as they grow up; behavior-wise, mannerism-wise, clothes, toys, interests... the list goes on. i think you can catch the gist of this..? :P

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[genderqueerdykes]

now more than ever it's blatantly obvious that people go out of their way to erase trans men from communities and queer history. it's always been happening, but it's way easier to watch it in real time now thanks to the internet and social media. we are watching people basically gloating that they misgender trans men and don't see them as men. we are now watching people kick trans men out of queer spaces because they are often "femme and them" or "nonbinary and woman" support groups, conflating nonbinary identities with womanhood, and denying trans men or transmasc nonbinary people places to go. many of them get told that their presence would "scare" the lesbians, women and enbies because they have trauma.

where do the trans men with trauma go, though? we can't go anywhere. when i was struggling with domestic violence that ended up destroying my right leg, i was denied shelter in queer spaces and even women's spaces even though i have F on license. domestic violence shelters especially will turn trans men away if we pass. even if we partially identify as women, we can't go in because 'our voices are deep and scary and we're loud and aggressive and threatening and might prey on the defenseless scared women'

finding transmasc support groups is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. i've seen numerous organizations across the US have transfemme support groups, nonbinary/genderqueer support groups, and then nothing for transmascs. where the hell do we go when they won't let us go anywhere?

we try to exist online and they try to erase us from here, too. bickering and arguing about how we're not real men, sending trans men death and sexual assault threats, acting like they're saviors for kicking out the "dangerous ugly men" from the queer community, as if we don't belong to it at all.

i refuse to be erased. i refuse to sit in silence while people tell me my problems don't matter because now i "have male privilege". I don't. once people find out what my legal name is they view me as a woman. strangers however view me as a cis man and will deny me help, either through programs, or because i'm a "strong young man, i should be able to pick myself up by my boot straps." i'm not white. i'm not abled.

i'm proud to be a trans man and i will be here to fight for other trans men's rights to have a platform to speak, and spaces to occupy. i will not rest until trans men & mascs have safe places to be and meet other trans men.

trans men are queer. we belong here. we are taking up the space we rightfully deserve and we are not leaving.

[actualalivecreature]

i want all genderfucked and nonbinary people to have a very i love you

[bog-dwelling-butch]

Oh shit forgot to post on the day

5 years after top surgery

7/30/19 and 7/30/24

Getting a chest tattoo soon

They/them butch not a binary man thx 👍

[sirenium]

if we taught people that gender is an abstract concept, you'd probably see less hatred for xenogenders. 'How is your gender a dog that makes no sense' the same way your gender is man, or boy. Maybe I've just intellectually ascended or something, but the idea of someone being a pupgender neogirl just doesn't confuse me.

Stop treating concepts like 'man' and 'woman' as more solid than 'mushroom' or 'cleaver' in terms of gender, because gender in itself is abstract. It makes so much less sense to enforce the 'invalidity' of xenogenders because all these rules are made up.

[jimothantheclown]

you know what?

shout out to all the people with funky genders who can't express them because it's already hard enough just to be seen as binary trans

shout out to my fellow genderfuck genderqueer multigender genderfluid xenogender transsexuals who can only be them around other transsexuals and queers

shout out to those who have to settle for being a 'confused' boy or girl or a 'wannabe' girl or boy or have to deal with that shit

I see you, I'm there too, I love you

[realqueerpositivity]

It makes me really sad that there's still transphobia on this world, especially on this app when there's so many amazing queer people here.

Anyways, I just wanted to say that I love you trans people. I love you, even if you haven't transitioned yet, even if you use the "wrong" pronouns, even if you have surgery scars or the procedure went wrong. I love you even if you're old, even if you transitioned late, even if you regret some or even all of your transition choices. I love you even if you're not supported, even if your family stopped talking to you, even if You've lost loved ones or you have to keep this away from them. I love you even if you're gender non nonconforming, even if you pass as the gender you were assumed to be, even if you still dont pass. I love you even if you use "weird" or "niche" genders, even if you're mogai, even if you're "cringe", even if you're cis trans, even if you use "contradictory" labels, even if you don't fit society's expectation of what a trans person should be, if they're okay with us at all. Hell, I love you even more if you're brave enough to present as yourself for yourself, not presenting as what the world wants you to be.

I just love trans people...