#aroallo humor

[lgbtqtext]

[lovequeerindigo]

i’m not a loveless aro but i agree with their beliefs

[acexualien]

M ade this (aspec version inspired by @fairy-of-divorce who made a “Thank God I’m Asexual” post!)

[agrebel18]

someone: what is WRONG with this generation?? is love not a thing anymore??

me: no. love loses <2

[ihhfhonao3]

Aesthetic attraction is really nice and I really wish that more allos understood it. Like. Mettaton EX is objectively pretty to me. They're attractive. Hot, even. But I wouldn't like. Do anything. With them. They're just some nice eye candy. I find that cool.

And even if I'm not aesthetically attracted (which is almost impossible since my aesthetic attraction is very easily triggered), I'll almost always be backed up by platonic/alterous attraction. So to a point, I'm almost never not feeling some sort of attraction towards characters (the attraction only stops with characters I hate. Like Kristoph Gavin from Ace Attorney). They're all just. So pretty <3

This is in reference to fictional characters as my attraction isn't as easily obtained with real people

[demonanastasi]

As an alloaro virgin, I am enthralled by this.

Ppl clown on virgins so much like “nobody wants you lolll”

How many sacrificial cults do you have in your dms right now??

Exactly stfu

[aromanticofficial]

shocking news, The aroallo guy is here to talk abt being aroallo. everybody gasp

anyways. i wanted to explain why aroallos are so "sensitive" about our identity and place in the aspec community.

the aspec community has a sex negativity problem. this is obvious. the amount of "sex bad" takes that are boldly labelled "aspec experiences" instead of what they actually are (puritan culture) is enough to make anyone who actually experiences sexual attraction feel more than unwelcome in the aspec community.

aside from that, there's also the erasure. aromanticism is always treated as a subcategory of asexuality. there's this constant underline to every mainstream-ish discussion of aromanticism that basically comes down to the inherently aroallophobic idea that "not all aces are aro, but all aros are ace". it's not that anyone says this out loud; it's that everyone seems to imply it subtly, everyone seems to believe it without even thinking twice about it.

aside from that, there's the lack of representation. name an aromantic character. chances are, you've just named an aroace character. and even in the very very rare case of a character being canonically aromantic but not canonically asexual (e.g. carpenter from the silt verses), the fandom still treats them being asexual as canon. fandom treats aromanticism as something that must only exist within asexuality, not as its own separate identity.

our fellow aspecs spew aroallophobia at us in a misguided attempt at humor (i've gotten several asks from aroaces telling me i "should" be aroace), our posts are mistagged as asexual when we make it extremely clear they're just about being aromantic (and when we point out that we don't like that, we get called control freaks. true story), the aromantic tag is filled with posts just about asexuality, allos either call us emotional abusers and imply we objectify people by simply experiencing sexual attraction, or imply that we're just afraid of attachment and that they can "fix" us.

the absolutely jarring truth of being an aroallo on tumblr dot com is making a post about being aroallo and immediately getting ten anons telling me i'm "no better than a straight man", "an aroace in denial", "an emotionally abusive predator", or just a slut, while at the same time someone comments on my post "you're making up an issue that doesn't exist" "why are you so mad about this" "you wanna be a victim so bad"

whew. okii that's all. hope that clears stuff up for non-aroallos out there /gen

what they said

[auraxite]

As someone who’s both aromantic and cupiosexual I feel like I don’t fit in with either community and I have a tough time finding people I can relate too

I don’t feel valid enough to be in asexual spaces because I’m sex favourable and have a high libido which I gotten judged by other aces because I’m not a true asexual if I have intercourse

Even tho I relate with sex favourable AroAllos with wanting to have sex and not experiencing romantic attraction I can’t relate with being turned on by someone’s personality, looks, sense of humor or having the source of my sexual arousal driven by another person

Because of those reasons I feel like a stick out like a sore thumb in either community and I feel alone in terms of identity

Sorry for the rant I’ve been trying to find different queer aro/ace communities for years and I’m struggling to fit in because I’m just different

Edited cause it seems my wording caused a misunderstanding

[onesidedradiostatic]

You know, I initially thought the allos can keep the Vees, not a fan of aspec Vees since they're all awful people, but I'm writing some QPRadioRose for RadioStatic week and your aspec aphobic Vees headcanon is just too funny. I keep cracking up. I'm still wary of Val being alloaro because he's a rapist so the absolute worst stereotype so we'd need another alloaro on the show but I'll figure it out. I might go with the idea Velvette clocks Alastor as aroace, tells him, and then does nothing to unpack any of that with him because that is not her monkeys, not her circus, not her suitcase, she doesn't go here. Still aphobic in that she nods along to whatever Valentino and Vox say and she doesn't think about it much since she's sex-neutral and feels OK about it doing it to humor Vox once in a while, I think. I dunno. I'll work it out. Just thought I'd let you know I've been cracking up about it all day working on this fic.

LMAOOO sure I mean if it helps I also like seeing cherri bomb as aroallo (demiromantic bisexual), I understand the concern about stereotypes here but it is up to you how you write it

[manlymothman]

its actually so funny the more i look at it. they just look so mad. little buddy why are you so pissed

new pfp...

[vampr1x-bl00dx]

I came to request as fast as I could

Could I get a matchup for Honkai star rail?

| # — I'm an average aroallo guy (I can still do romance 😞), I have pale skin , short fluffy and messy wavy black hair, wearing glasses. I dress in victorian goth fashion and have been told I look like a vampire. Though I'm scared of the dark which is quite ironic, i'm the textbook definition of the song "yes I am a nerd! Bookworm. I am studious" Although my brain decides to dissolve at simple conversations like I will not understand , I'll just be saying "huh??" until I finally get it. So I'm kinda like academically smart but socially an idiot. If you say something and I think about it for too long I'll go on a nonsensical rant, kinda like Deku from MHA but more chaotic on thinking, I have an addiction to drinking Pepsi and collecting and playing with Yu-Gi-Oh cards I also like My Melody from Sanrio but that's just a small obsession with cute stuff, like trinkets, figurines, plushies, & I like drawing in a cute art style, and drawing my partner too. I have a liking for werewolves, ik very surprising 🙀, I have two pets one is a Mexican Red Knee tarantula named Sir Websalot and other is a fuzzy brown cat named Morrigan, i have extremely broken humor I'll literally laugh at anything that is remotely silly sounding to me, [i.e : the word "balls".] I don't have a firm understanding of the concept of love so I'll just say stuff like "I love you like how I love the color red"

| # — gender preference - none , but if you pair me with girls just know that I am extremely shy around women like my social skills deplete I'll just stay quiet and awkwardly smile with a probably red face. Literal boyfailure

| # - love language : ig acts of service and receiving gifts.

Hi! Thank you so much for requesting!

Now the person I see you with is….

Blade!

For one I feel like he’ll be very appreciative of the acts of service you would do for him

He may not show it but he’ll definitely keep the pieces of art work you’ll do for him and he’ll most likely have them hung up or framed somewhere

Hell would definitely sit down and listen to you rant about your interest for hours at a time and wouldn’t really complain or find it boring

He would give you items of the stuff you like figure or even more goth clothing (superior fashion sense 10/10).

[emeritus-fuckers]

how do you do, fellow queers, look how fucking professional i'm being this time, sending an ask like commonfolk/j

for the match-up re-run bc i wanna see nyx struggle with repugnant <3

1. Your identity! i'm sorry for the research nyx

i can very proudly call myself a faggot. my pronouns are they/she/he/xey/per/ghoul, but i'm slowly moving away from the "standard" ones. multigender, but they're all xenogender (ghoulgender, ghoulettegender, gooregender, chaosgender). multisexual (pansexual, asexual, lesbian, aegosexual, orchidsexual, berrisexual). aroallo (aegoromantic, desinoromantic, grayromantic, demiromantic). autistic. theistic satanist.

2. Who do you like?

repugnant. death metal racoons my beloved.

3. What do you look like?

there's a picture. i just dress more like a metalhead now. still wearing too much jewelry. i'm still short (it is a tragedy).

4. What's your personality?

i hate whoever came up with these questions (ekhem, myself).

ISTP-T, according to a quiz i did just before writing this. i'm relatively apathetic, only ever getting truly emotional when i'm overwhelmed. touch-repulsed, but touch-starved when it comes to people close to me. i'm quiet and distant around strangers, but get talkative and open with friends. i struggle with serious self-esteem issues (diagnosed depression, cheers) and i get very anxious about my friends just not liking me anymore and usually need to be yelled at to get my shit together. and then cuddled because i got yelled at. my relationship with emotions is complicated, as i only feel a very faint outline of an emotion most of the time, but i've learned to adapt to it over time and i'm pretty good at adapting my behavior so it looks like i feel a complete emotion.

when it comes to affection, i'm like a cat. i love it, but only when i want it. otherwise i will run away. i also show it in inconvenient ways, i suppose, like randomly grabbing my friends with a weird noise or sometimes (if we're really close) biting them. i feel very uncomfortable around most children, so i despise them.

5. Tell us about your interests!

i'd say repugnant, ghost and in this moment would be my top three bands to listen to, but i also like vocaloid and dolly parton. i always have to have something playing in the background or it's too quiet for me and i lose my shit. i like to read, but i much prefer to overanalyze everything and come up with ridiculous theories and headcanons to write about (i think emeritus-fuckers is proof of that). I like writing, but only stuff i actually enjoy writing, not whatever bullshit they're coming up with for uni. I can't write porn, yet people seem to think that i can, which is honestly hilarious to me.

i like making bracelets and other arts and crafts things, though i suck at it and usually it looks like trash.

i like video games, mostly sims 4 (finally figured out how to furnish it hallelujah) right now, but i like classic assassin's creed games (which means everything that came out before Origins/Odyssey bc fuck i hate these), the saints row series and skyrim too. and uncharted, too. and i guess tekken, but i'm just there for the hotties tbh.

i don't really watch movies, but if i had to pick a favorite, it would either be scream, pearl or shrek.

6. Trivia time!

i know way too much about butterflies and moths.

i have a framed attacus atlas.

my favorite food is instant cupped carbonara.

i have a dog (everyone has seen her at this point tbh).

i have a figurine of the batman who laughs and his three robins.

i love juice. especially apple-cherry juice.

i'm a terrible cook, i can make like three dishes and that's it.

i hate working under pressure and/or with deadlines.

i have a rather controversial sense of humor.

i love wearing too much jewelry.

i adore matching things, from jewelry to tattoos.

and here's a few pics of my cuddle monster.

This post is part of the 1000 followers match up event. Entries for the event are now closed.

Your match is…Mary Goore... and DD Sars... and kinda the rest of the band...

Hear me out on this haha, I have spent way too much time thinking about this and well you'll see XD - Nyx

So you met Mary first. They thought you looked cool so they went over to you.

You got chatting and you just kinda clicked with each other. Especially since you both have a controversial sense of humour. Mary enjoys throwing a few playful insults at you and getting all of that back and some.

You met up a few more times, enough so that you became comortable around Mary and them you. Although there was a discussion about your boundaries when you had to explain that you are like a cat, you only want affection when you are in the mood. Which of course Mary respected.

Mary after really getting to know you declared you one of their favourite ever people by lightly biting your shoulder. (This was okay as you way of telling them the same was to display your affection with a bite.)

Mary then proudly introduced you to the rest of the band. You quickly became close with all of them as to be with Mary is to be with the band. When Mary mentioned you had a dog E. wanted to see lots of pictures. He just kinda quietly sat there as you scrolled through them.

You made them all bracelets, G. got very excited by this. You said they look like trash and DD just kinda rounded on you. He firmly told you about how they weren't trash and how could you be so stupid to think so low of yourself. You just kinda nodded and then spend the rest of the day being cuddled by G.

DD does however get you. He never says it to you but its shown through his actions. He will just quitly sit and listen if you want to talk about it. He might say that you are a fucking weirdo but his expression tells the real story. He understands you and he knows what its like to have a complicated realtionship with emotions. There is a really nice companionship you two have because of this.

Mary noticed how you look at DD like you want him to sit on your face. So one night they say to you while pointing at DD "all you have to do is ask, you know, DD would be more than happy to" and then they gave you a little wink. Mary left it with you, it's totally up to you if you want to follow through on that or not...

~

Written by Nyx

[junietuesday]

another snippet of the carry us through winter sequel. its my fic and i get to make the characters aroallo <3

[Link] didn’t finish the sentence, his hand tightening around his fork. Better for who, Revali thought, with a rush of bitterness. It felt like Revali was always losing Link to knighthood. Of course Revali understood the need to be different for the public eye—but it was one thing for Revali to sand down his imperfections for formal appearances. It was another thing entirely, the way Link smothered his whole personhood, all his humor and affection and charm lost to that cold silence.

They finished their meal in silence, too. Revali thought a hundred things, said none of them. He glanced over at Link every so often, somehow overcome with longing; Link was right next to him, and yet suddenly he felt so far away. Was this how it would be? They’d return to Rito Village, Link would vanish again into his duties, and life would go on like the hot springs had never even happened?

It wasn’t that Revali wanted a romance. He’d never seen the appeal of tying oneself down to a formal relationship, never had the patience for all the empty pomp and pageantry of courtship and marriage and what have you. And he didn’t want to be yet another duty for Link, when Link had far too many of those already. Revali just…

Wanted the reassurance, he supposed. That Link would come back.

[sisyphus-prime]

Sleepy tired is funny because my standards for social interactions plummet. When I'm fully awake I won't really do it but get some sleepy mixed in me and I might go into detail on that character "would". The impulse is very real.

In some degree its humor. Because I will have people just say they cannot imagine me being interested in sex whilst telling me all about their sex lives.

In some degree there is a chance a chance a chance im aroallo. A chance.

[dom-arktos]

Hey Alexa, search for:

Friends with benefits, but they do not catch feelings mid-story and instead comfortably stay friends with benefits to the end of it: The Movie.