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Omegaverse AU. The annual Gotham Matchmaking Event was in full swing. Bruce Wayne, towering over the alphas and omegas around him, moved through the room with an unapproachable aura. The whispers followed him, just like they always did.
"Wayne’s so assertive. Doesn’t act like an omega at all," someone muttered.
"He should stop pretending to be above his station," another added with a laugh.
Bruce pretended not to hear them, his jaw tightening as he positioned himself near the door for an easy exit. If not for the fact that these matchmaking events were mandatory for all unmated omegas of age, he would have refused the invitation outright.
A new arrival caught his attention. The man’s tanned skin and wavy hair stood out, he didn’t seem to be from Gotham. His name tag read "Kal."
Bruce watched the foreigner as he mingled with the other guests. Kal’s alpha status was obvious, but unlike most alphas, he radiated warmth and charm. People naturally gravitated toward him, drawn to his approachable demeanor. The double standards grated on Bruce more than he cared to admit.
Until Kal’s gaze found his.
The alpha froze, wide-eyed as he stared at Bruce. Bruce glared at the shorter man. It usually kept alphas at bay.
No such luck. Kal approached him anyway.
"Have you heard of Kryptonian queens?" Kal asked.
Bruce blinked, caught off guard by the question. "What?"
"In Kryptonian legends, queens were the biggest, strongest omegas in the colony. They either earned the title by winning dominance battles or left to establish new colonies on distant outposts," Kal said, his voice filled with awe. "You’re like a legend brought to life."
Bruce’s guarded expression faltered. Despite the absurdity of the alpha’s words, there was something in his tone—genuine respect—that made him pause.
And Bruce found himself listening.
#au#of an au#abo dynamics#omegaverse#alpha clark#omega bruce#absolute batman#absolute superman#absolute universe#elseworlds#dc headcanon#dc fanfic#drabble#text post#dc#superbat#superman x batman#batman x superman#superman/batman#batman/superman#superman#batman#clark kent#bruce wayne
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I perceive all my ocs as good-looking, but then again I think most people are good-looking <3
Izjik probably isn't everyone's type - she's a butch woman with a strongman build and a wide sort of face. However, she is very much my type, I think she's gorgeous. Izjik is well aware of the sort of people (lesbians) she attracts.
Sepo is objectively attractive. He has a very symmetrical face and silky, wavy hair. The permanent "burn your house down" eyes don't do him any favors though... Which he's all the happier for. He didn't want to talk to you anyways.
Twenari is a cute kid but she also has resting arcane madness face, so notes of scary in there too. She's a teen with no social skills, so she's pretty insecure about how she looks.
Djek is hot in a twink way despite being straight. He doesn't take the best care of himself, so his buzzcut always looks kinda messy and he reeks of cheap cologne, but his skincare game is somehow immaculate. Djek is ok with everyone thinking he's gay, that just means he's dressing well.
Astra is damn hot. Maybe this is just me being gay, but she's got a wonderfully curvy body, her curls are bouncy and energetic, and she's got the most beautiful smile. Her vitiligo got her called ugly or diseased as a kid a fair bit, however, she thinks she's decent-looking no matter what.
Mashal is a cutie in robot or human form, idgaf. He's built with broad shoulders and a slim waist, and his fashion sense is very put-together. He does not think he's beautiful though, not even a little. Mashal would be shocked if he knew most people saw him as fairly attractive, metal body and all.
Ivander, with his illusion, looks like a cunty cartoon villain. Slicked back hair, goatee, the works. The blue skin and double pointed ears might throw some people, but I'd bet those piercings eyes would draw them right back in. Ivander paid a lot for a face as handsome as his illusion. Underneath it, he would call his true face hideous. The kinder word would simply be scarred.
Elsind, in their true form, is beautiful in a sea anemone kind of way. Their headfins wave in an invisible current, their mauve skin all but glowing with moisture. Though many would call them freakish, Elsind has long learned to love their changeling appearance. They would never want to be something other than what they are.
Avymere is a tough one, because while they've got great bone structure, they violate so many Skysheerian beauty standards. We here on Earth would think they look like if you smashed Legolas and Bayonetta into one person, but in Skysheer, there are a lot of mixed opinions on their tan, their short hair, and their wiry muscle. Avymere doesn't mind, as it serves the role they play: that of a kindhearted but ultimate dull noble too oblivious to follow a trend.
Faalgun is a dnd kobold basically. I don't think he's hot (if you do, more power to you) but I do think he's cool looking with his opalescent horns and blue scales. I also think he's adorable - he's got that cute snake puppy face. Most people in-universe also think he's adorable, which he despises. He's a grown man, he doesn't have time for that.
Nyda is a vision of a punk butch woman. She's got a face full of piercings, a green mohawk, and diy clothes. Her build is like a rock climber. I think she's hot as fuck, she thinks she's hot as fuck, most people think she's a little scary looking, but that's how she likes it.
Kaulakri is pretty in the exact opposite way of Nyda. She's got sleek hair, a practical sweater, and big dark eyes. Everything about her is soft and rounded except for her no-nonsense attitude. She honestly couldn't give a damn if she's pretty or not, she's got other stuff going on.
Pash is cute, if a little unsettling. It's mostly the red teeth and bits of fur that throw people. Other than that though, he looks like any other young bisexual man with a mullet. He likes being pretty, it let's him get away with more bullshit.
Anarac is mostly just rough looking. Dude looks tired before anything else. Even so, underneath that, he's got a kind smile, warm brown eyes, and broad shoulders. He was definitely a catch before the whole hive mind thing. If you cleaned him up a bit, he's a total dilf.
Do others perceive your OC as physically attractive? How does your OC feel about this?
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blitz yells at stolas one time while emotional and upset over something he's clearly communicated to stolas about before (they both know he thinks this is purely about sex) and instead of hearing him out stolas disrespectfully beams him out of the mansion while crying and this is meant to be blitz's horrible twisted mistake
stolas can spend way more than just the sinsmas ep being pissy and passive aggressive with blitz while sneering at him and his life (while blitz is offering him a free place to stay, also quite literally saved his life, mind you) and this is fine and nowhere near bad enough for say, stolas to be kicked out in the middle of his sentence and demonised for multiple episodes. hm
#helluva boss critical#comes online for my daily post while i wait for my dinnar....#anyway something something double standards#not even to mention how stolas treats him like a chew toy for 2 seasons prior#if it was 'owlish plaything' instead do you think stolas would've bawled over that too and it would've been seen as real mean#if i offered a friend a place to stay and they sneered at me for being poor while snipping at me nonstop#i would spit in their food and call them a cab lmfao
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Man the feminism sure does just leave some people's bodies when they see women dating men who they consider ugly or old or undesirable. 'Why would she date him' she thinks he's hot next question. 'He must be giving her something' yeah it's called love shut up. 'What is he doing to her to make her stay with him' yeah you're right it's probably something really awful like eating her pussy like it's his job. Be so for fucking real. Grown ass women do not need protection from randos on the Internet because their relationship/marriage/lifestyle doesn't make sense to you.
#most people are straight up just living their lives and I guarantee you it's not that deep#I hate those reality shows that make a spectacle if like. polyamory or interracial dating or wtv#Because like yeah some of it is predatory but most of it the VAST FUCKING MAJORITY is not#And chances are Denise who you work with whose husband is twenty years older than her is not a victim of grooming#I mean first of all Denise is 34#and secondly. is it your business? i don't think it's your business.#to delete#AND ANOTHER THING#It is literally ALWAYS women with men who we infantilize this way#Do you know how many lesbians I know who thirst THIRST LIKE THEY'RE IN A DESERT for older butches??#Have you ever been in the comment section of an older butch's Tiktok??#It is ALL 20 something femmes just purring and mewling. Mommy? sorry. mommy?#AND NOBODY TELLS THEM NOT TO DO THAT#Why is the script flipped when it's men#something something gender roles something something cissexism. probably.#That's what it usually comes down to with these double standards.#Anyway YouTube commentary vloggers shut up challenge 2k25
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this is a long shot and i'm sorry to ask, but if you don't mind, can mutuals (or contacts or regulars... just... this community) of mine who aren't jumping ship like... let me know? will any of us still be here? is it over? i'm trying to know if this really is it or what's... even happening. i hate to reassurance seek but i'm feeling pretty miserable and confused.
edit: felt like i was being really pitiful and fragile making this but everybody is being so nice to me and responding so patiently with all your thoughts and i'm in tears of gratitude thank you thank you thank you 💖
#i glanced and thought they brought out a feature so that we could turn off ai access#that seemed... okay? i thought? but now i'm really confused. i don't know. i'm so tired and scared. i just can't... keep doing this#i know this is stupid but this feels like it's my fault.#it happens every time i find something. if i'm happy somewhere. it just.... poof. goes away. i'm sorry. i'm sorry. i'm sorry#on the edit: i would only *ever* think this about myself. double standards that i hold for myself are high. i expect emotional control#& performance from myself only. i would never think badly of anyone else being stressed about this or anything. thank you for your kindness#this community has been so beautiful and kind at every turn. i'm so grateful to get to be here and meet you all#okay... being really sappy now. y'all get to see my anxiety first hand today!! whee!! anyway. i'll get it together. haha! thank you.
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*Sign of affection minor spoilers*
Yuki’s family not communicating with her in (or even seeming to know much) sign language rubs me so wrongly. I don’t know a whole lot about the Deaf community, but I’m taking an ASL class right now and I’ve seen Deaf characters portrayed in media, but I don’t know any Deaf people that use ASL that are close to me, so maybe this isn’t an educated opinion. But I would think that if you were a parent and had a Deaf child since BIRTH and they were 19 years old, sometime in those 19 years, you would have learned sign language - even a little???? Like if Yuki was born hearing and became deaf later in life, I could maybe see how her parents/brother haven’t yet mastered sign language, but that’s not the case!! Yuki was born Deaf and her whole family is perfectly fine with her relying on lip reading and they don’t even seem like they’re actively practicing or learning for that matter😭That scene in the manga when Yuki helps clean for her older brother and she says he only knows ONE sign. And when Itsuomi meets her parents they are genuinely shocked that the two of them are holding sign language conversations despite him only learning recently and the two of them not dating very long. I love Itsuomi and I do think he is genuinely a really great guy, but I also think other characters make it really easy for him to look like such a green flag in comparison😭 Like. This man didn’t know a single sign before meeting Yuki and he’s known her for a few MONTHS and he’s made such an effort to learn for her. And don’t get me wrong, this isn’t an Itsuomi praise post (again I love him, but imo, if you have a significant other who’s fluent in and predominantly uses a language that’s not one you know, it’s the bare minimum to make an effort to learn it) more so this post is just me being baffled at the people in Yuki’s life😭 Like. THESE PEOPLE LOVE HER! Yuki does not in the slightest have an unloving or unkind family. So the fact that they canonically don’t use sign language with her and rely on her to lip read and write/text is just wild to me.
#idk what this says about…idk the word#it’s not double standards#or hypocrisy#that’s too harsh a word#but like…idk maybe love in terms of showing vs telling??#cause we look at Yuki’s family and they very clearly love her#but they make no to little effort to sign with her#and tbh I think learning something for the sake of someone is a very tell tale sign of love#then we look at oushi who up until recently struggles to put his feelings into words#and has honestly not always treated Yuki with blatant kindness#but learned sign language and (in his own way) helps her in certain scenarios#ok NOW it’s time for Itsuomi praise#I think THAT is why Itsuomi is a green flag - not just because he’s learning sign language#but because he communicates his intentions and feelings clearly in every way possible#he proves to Yuki that he loves her with BOTH words and actions#anyway - I love my girl Yuki and her family is so sweet but why don’t they sign😭#again my opinion is probably very uneducated so if I am somehow wrong pls lemme know😭#a sign of affection#yubisaki to renren
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How fucked up in the head can you be to say something like "Barry losing his mom isn't such a big deal" and "he should get over it". Are you fucking okay. Are you aware of the words you type on your keyboard. Do you need me to beat some sense into you because I fucking will.
#today in - being an orphan is not a big deal ladies and gents and everyone else#Barry haters are on another level#August says something along those lines and August is a fucked up dude who murders kids and then claims he's the good guy#so sounding like August isn't exactly a good thing just sayin#also I have not seen anyone use the same argument for Bruce or Dick#so is it a big deal for them but not for Barry like explain the double standard you ass#sorry I saw an asinine comment on YT and had to vent#why do I even open the YT comment section anyway
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The things I want to say about mei mei’s character and the way the fandom reacts to and treats her vs the way they treat male characters who do shitty things… but I know y’all would crucify me
#I’m just saying. there is definitely a double standard#you don’t have to like her. I get it.#but the hate she receives compared to the way ppl react to characters like toji and sukuna and even fucking naoya#is so fucking unfair and ridiculous#it’s giving…. misogyny#we can forgive male characters for literally anything and still like them#but a female character does something undesirable and she’s irredeemable and anyone who still likes her#well it’s obvious it’s because they’re a bad person who condones everything she did#I just 😒😒😒#anyways#kaz rambles
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peace and love on planet earth but also Oscar you’re in the dog box
#I MUST NOT SPREAD HATE AND NEGATIVITY#HATE AND NEGATIVITY IS THE MIND KILLER#I just think the double standards around drivers making comments about other drivers is wild#like lando is slightly bitchy to Lewis and he’s immature and a child#oscar says something mean about Lance and he’s cunty#i dont actually care about Oscar being annoyed with Lance that’s his prerogative#I’m just kind of pissed about how this is going to be used as more fuel to shit on someone that is already constantly being shat on#by everyone under the sun it feels like#argghhhh#I just wish people were nicer to Lance is it too much to ask#like the biases are so real it’s wild#ANYWAY#PEACE AND LOVE#bug yaps
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ok im actually on the same page as everyone now because even though he's been protecting his brother yaman is kind of a gigantic pushover coward whereas ateş literally fights any chance he gets and this creates a massive difference between both of them when it comes to loving/protecting faraye. so
#also of course he's going to spiral once ateş and faraye get married and the double standards will kick in for him blah blah blah#i was rooting for him but there were too many moments in the episodes where he stayed quiet when he should have spoken#i understand that potentially killing someone is something you want to keep close to your chest but not standing up for yourself at all#means that he wouldn't stand up for faraye either#also the intro scene where he would rather get shot by her than explain what is happening is such a cop out move#he's kind of the definition of self martyrdom like really not doing anything about his circumstances but getting angry at#everything else around him#i really do hope they keep building his character and he doesn't become a hollowed out bitter villainous brother#it wouldn't do him justice as a LOVER#idk.......i want better for him#he shouldn't have folded so quickly and gone straight to big brother if he couldn't handle the murder situation imo#anyways the show is fire. it's insane the amount of intensity and drama is like a full 7 course meal#safir
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#i worked myself into such a heated fury from the last two posts that i reblogged that i had to take a breather and make a cup of tea smh#but ugh this whole thing just pisses me off so much. the double standard the fandom and the sport has. it's racist and unfair at its heart#in so many ways and sweargate is just another shitty reminder of it seeing how people react. like i saw jokes about how yuki would be dealt#with so much community service now that this rule has been instated. yet if he actually managed to get punished i somehow doubt that there#would be as much of an uproar as there is for poor little max. ugh ig the good thing is that it's max who got the first punishment instead#of yuki so that something might actually be done about removing the rule. anyways. you would think i would be used to seeing#the double standards from the sport. the fandom. but it always gets me every time.
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It's killing me that on this smol bean fandom hellsite, the most popular versions of flawed complex characters like Peter, Harry, Norman, and Otto who either have asshole moments (Peter and Harry) or are outright raging assholes (Norman and Otto) are arguably the most sanitized ones where they are likable and relatable and easy to write as cinnamon rolls who are cute and sad and did nothing wrong, either bc they are genuinely totally nice or have their agency removed so that they are not responsible for their actions - but then the most popular version of Curt, who is actually an unequivocally nice person who is sad and did nothing wrong, at least not by choice, is the fucking fashy eugenicist, I hate it here.
#xan's spidey meta#not tagging this for obvious reasons lol#okay 616!curt did wrong in a big way in joining the us military#but the narrative doesn't frame it that way bc us superhero comics#anyway something about this double standard feels ableist to me tbh
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someone replied to that that post you rb'ed about "if you can forgive steve for his past actions, you can forgive jonathan" with "this is why i forgive steve, jonathan, and billy" and then OP starting going off on them about how billy is irredeemable compared to them so it's fucked up to like him and they are glad he died 💀 bro
reaching my limit with stranger things fans truly
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#like i don’t have the energy anymore#always a byler at the scene of the crime#crazy innit#asks#fandom wank#doing all that while solely referring to lucas as ‘the black kid’ rather than .. you know .. his actual name#like it’s something i see antis do constantly#idk seems kinda insidious#esp when you’re using everyone else’s names#it’s giving using lucas as a gotcha#rather than actually caring about caleb or his character or actual racism#also#the double standards are crazy considering billy was the one who lived with his abusive bigoted father his whole life#vs steve who literally had no reason to act like he did except for being a shitty teenager#who got mad his girlfriend didn’t want him because she was sad her friend died#anyway#cw suicide ment#i guess
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hadn’t really regressed in a While and i didn’t realize how much i missed/dareisay needed it until i had the free time and ability to do so over the last few days and i have to say. i’m feeling a bit better
#imagine that! the coping mechanism… helps!!! wow#Seven’s Small Thoughts#not tagging this as anything else bc this blog is really just a not-so-secret public diary#and im not really trying to gain any sort of following or participate in the community very much#i just wanna talk to the void abt regression every once in a blue moon y’know#i also feel like i don’t really belong in the community much/am not a Good Example of sfw agere since i’m very n/ s/ f/ w everywhere else#which is a double standard that i don’t hold others to but i feel like others will hold it against me??? and i’m just shy anyways#and not looking to interact. just wanna keep all this stuff tucked away in a side-blog#i also feel like a lot of the community likes to blog while actively regressed and i don’t wanna step in there as someone who isn’t#nothing wrong with it! at all! i just don’t have the capacity to since i go nonverbal when i regress. no thoughts head blissfully empty#anyways this wasn’t supposed to be a vent post let’s change the topic!#anywhooo what else did i come on here to say. oh yeah#i lowkey forgot how much regressing has helped me in the past until i was able to really indulge myself in it again recently#it’s so nice to just be small and hand someone else the reins and forget abt everything other than doing something you enjoy#maybe one day i’ll be at a point in my life where i can fully regress more freely and more often but for now i’ll take what i can get#i’m also excited because i’ve been thinking abt ordering a paci from this one specific seller#and yesterday saw that they’re dropping a new batch of fall/halloween themed ones today!!!#so now i’ve gotta make myself stay awake until 6pm so i can jump on it when they’re available#which is a small struggle considering my nocturnal sleep schedule but i will do it nonetheless#that crescent moon patterned one Will Be Mine#trying to decide between buttercup yellow and schoolbus yellow for the clip#i think i’m more drawn to the vibrancy of the schoolbus yellow honestly#eeeeeee i’m excited i’ve been wanting to treat myself to ordering from this shop for a g e s and im finally gonna do it
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Me when I see any discourse that has to do with the "battle of the sexes":
#txt#like... why#i want this to fucking die#this has been going on for 50 years now let it die please#also the double standards are crazy in this discourse#but anyways#shut the fuck up please#everytime i see something related to gender i die a bit on the inside#because i know what's gonna entail#can people be normal about this shit for once#and stop making shit up
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you know when you get a friend that was even more "tomboyish" than you were in your teens and then as the both of you grow up and enter college, you see them explore expressing themselves more femininely and absolutely fall in love with it and with the concept of womanhood - while you on the other hand become all the more estranged with "being a woman" because good God you really don't fucking get it and that seeing your once-tomboyish friend find joy and an emotional connection to womanhood makes you really realize that you have no such connection whatsoever, hence making you feel left behind in actually "becoming a woman"? Anyways what I'm trying to say here is I'm definitely not fucking cis-
#when i told my cis girl classmates that i feel nothing but indifference towards the concept of womanhood or girlhood#they felt really fuckin sorry for me#and i'm like my bros my dudes i dont really give that much of a fuck for something i don't really understand in the first place#like of course i know feminist theory and all that and as someone born a woman i know and experience and study gender struggles deeply#be it with double standards or dealing with gross perverted dudes#that being said - i dont know what being a woman is outside of our shared struggle in patriarchal structures#like when u take away all the shit we definitely need to fight for - what else is there left for me to enjoy on a personal level#and the answer to that is nothing because i never really gave a fuck about gender be it now or as a child#perhaps its due to my upbringing as well na like i was more responsibility minded but still#to see once really tomboyish classmates grow to love being a woman makes me feel lonely because how can i love a concept i cant comprehend#so anyways when i told this dilemma to a nonbinary-questioning friend of mine he jumped with joy because BESTIE SOLIDARITY#and my bro here was never female to begin with and yet he fully understood my disconnect to concepts of gender#and the coming of age rites that come with them like 'nagiging dalaga na talaga' 'ay nagbibinatilyo na to'#so um yea#thats my ramvle for today and my update on my gender crisis#i dont mind being called a woman tho like im used to it and it doesnt unnerve me - but id rather not be like trapped in having to be that#so um woo#personal shit
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