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I love everything you make and all the positive comment you leave on people’s works!
Changing topics, I really admire how you can make more mature and serious problems with so much representation of all kinds of people in your famworks! Since I’m inclined to make more crack HCs and write for funsies, it makes my stuff look childish and silly… so much so it feels like OOC content with AUs that make absolutely zero sense. And I think both of these ways of writing are very, VERY valid!!!
Stay awesome (but safe)
Thank you! I definitely have said this before, but when it comes to sharing other people's art I always try to say something nice in the tags because I LOVE it when I get nice tags so I make sure to spread that kindness to others!
And again, thank you! I really just love learning about all kinds of things, injustices and lack of representation included in that learning environment. Which makes me want to either bring up those injustices or add more representation to my work! It's all really fun and important to me which is why I just keep adding more stuff! It also helps motivate me to learn other cultures too!
As for the silly stuff. That is totally fine! Silly is great to have! Like someone said about my darker AUs being a palette cleanser for fluff, the same thing could be said for fluff being a palette cleanser for angst! It's great to have both!
One of the best fanfics I read in the NSR community was the one about 1010 vs the Raccoons (I don't remember the author, sorry)! It was so silly and lighthearted, but so much fun and a great read! And that's the main takeaway.
Creating is supposed to be fun, to some extent (of course like I use it for coping and serious stuff, sometimes it's not always fun, but there is still some kind of enjoyment). So having AUs with OOC characters is great to have! Let me tell you! I've definitely taken characters and made them so OOC I literally just made them into OCs lol!
Even now, though I don't post them often, I do have silly ideas and fluff in my head! Right now I have a silly AU where the NSR adults above 40 turn into teens (with their teen mindsets) around the other NSR characters and it's all just fun and chaos! Random bullshit I can't do if I tried to stick to a timeline or put logic into the situation.
Literally just have fun and enjoy what you are doing! You want to make a character OOC? Go for it! You want to create the silliest AU with no logic to it? Go for it! Want to create a super serious and intense story with huge stakes? Awesome! Do it!
Just remember to have fun and that cringe culture is dead! :D
#eritalks#noart#asks#totally went off on a tangent#lol#but yeah!#fluff is great!#i'm trying to train my brain to create more fluff#so it will hopefully come more naturally#talking about h/eartbeats ship#and thinking about casual situations#has really helped#though i will say i still think of darker stuff by accident#like that little au with the adult cast turned teens#i have some pretty dark spots that pop up#like n/eon talking about his brother#or t/atiana or j/oust talking about their fathers#but hey#that's gonna happen with a bunch of roudy teens#haha#:3#thanks again for this ask#like i always say#i'm really glad you and other people like my ideas#it's honestly really validating#and keeps me going#though i would still be creating even if i was screaming to the void#:)
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…..I should be working rn but one of the songs in my playlist hit harder than usual so
#maccadam#transformers#deadlock#idw deadlock#drift#ratchet#idw ratchet#dratchet#ratchlock#also#this kind of fics that makes them run into each other during the war#while Ratchet is younger and Drift is still Deadlock#i love them#*stops shooting* oh hey Doc#*stops shooting* oh hey kid#both proceed to just casually ignoring each other’s fractions#Deadlock would never even think of killing Ratchet and Ratchet would never betray this trust#…….sometimes I like to think that tfp Ratchet doesn’t like being called ‘doc’ because that was how tfp Deadlock called him#one day I gather enough motivation to draw that one comic I was thinking about for half a year now#about tfp Deadlock arriving to earth to rejoin Megatron#and then humans and Autobots at some point discovering his fucked up romantic situation with Ratchet#….I just thought I probably would need to make Deadlock flying alt mode so he’s not completely useless in space and sky#eh idk#I just wanna draw everyone’s O_O faces when Decepticon’s high in command just casually calls Ratchet doc or Ratch or smth#oh wow I got carried away with these tags
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#make up your mind peter#spiderman#across the spiderverse#miles morales#peter b. parker#atsv#atsvedit#spidermanedit#marveledit#spiderman across the spider-verse#spiderman across the spiderverse#across the spider verse#mine#gif:spiderman#its interesting how peter saw him very. you know. grown up talking to miles casually#but once theres a conflict he thinks of him again as a kid who doesn't know any better or who doesnt want to listen in this situation hmm#i just love this movie and all these kinds of relationships. the nuances!!#(i wanted to add a gif of hobie who later helps miles with his powers to break out. with the palms thing and he calls him Little man#and Peter Pan - kid who didnt want to grow up#probably hobie understanding miles more than anyone else in that room. about the age and views of society on him etc etc)
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sssstop!!!!!! assuming ganondorf is a rapist random youtube videos I'm literally eating my own fingers and swallowing the bones whole like one of those weird birds aaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!
#thoughts#ganondorf#cw rape mention#he NEVER showed interest in women in that way#to assume it's canon is so!!! aaaaaa!!!!#the gerudos would fucking destroy him if he was!!!!!!!#the gerudos by and large respect him until he fucks around and pulls a little invasion moment on everybody!!!#and if they don't it's because of a political divergence regarding how he sees hyrule!!!!#it's NEVER implied he takes advantage of them in that way!!!#(unless you assume a number of underlying orientalist tropes due to the way they look which --we talked about this enough in here)#there was a time where he was but a wee boy growing up among them#and unless they taught him it was something that was ok for him to do --why would he EVER even think of doing that???#even nabooru's situation (which was mentioned) is mostly focused on making her a top soldier to maintain order within his ranks#the notion that he would take advantage of her is??? he's not even around when she's brainwashed?????#she's literally encased in a hugeass armor!!!#and it's his moms doing the back-end work of keeping the gerudos in line while he's handling stuff in Hyrule??#nothing motivates me to keep working on Thralls more than Casual Ganondorf Slander u_u#like he did enough bad stuff as it is!!! can't we focus on the stuff he definitively did do instead of being weird???
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haven’t i always said that selena gomez always plays the victim??? ALWAYS???
#her victim mentality is actually insane#forget genocides forget children and innocent people being bombed daily#she needs to find a way to make it about herself#it’s honestly fascinating to watch how tone deaf she is#it’s fascinating to watch her spew out ‘poor me’ rhetoric EVEN IN THIS SITUATION#all she truly cares about is her ex boyfriend and his wife#I’ve always said this but I think Hailey Bieber is 1000x the woman selena gomez is for enduring all the hate that she does#that Selena FUELS#Selena plays victim card and makes her fans go after strong confident queens like Bella hadid too#but forget all that#IMAGINE THERE IS A LITERAL GENOCIDE GOING ON AND YOU STILL FIND A WAY TO THROW A TANTRUM AND MAKE IT ABOUT YOURSELF#she’s literally the worst y’all I’ve been saying it for years#and if you’re a fan of hers#like not even a casual fan but if you’re a selena stan#then thats fucking weird I’m sorry bc all her little army does is defend her when she’s clearly in the wrong#I honestly have people like her
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i think the issue is. the romance pacing (at least for davrin) is flirt -> flirt -> flirt -> flirt -> flirt -> lock in with a peck on the lips -> picnic scene that's mostly identical to the platonic version -> -> -> (these arrows represent 15-30 hours of gameplay depending on whether you prioritised his quests) -> argument about how much he likes you but he can't commit because he thinks he's about to die -> potential death / 30 second sex scene -> -> final battle talk (i love you let's spend the rest of our lives together) -> end slide ambiguous line about enduring love
#veilguard spoilers#ofc casual dating -> i love you lets spend the rest of our lives together right before the final battle is classic dragon age#but it still feels weird for davrin. it feels like a reaction to avoiding his death flag but HE shouldn't know that#what he actually knows is he wasnt put in a dangerous situation that could have resulted in his death lol? so nothing has been proven#i mean there are definitely worse romance conclusions. i will never be over how dirty they did dorian in trespasser lol#but stilllll...they hyped up the romances for this game!!! da2 did better and that game was made in 10 minutes#also the kiss was so? i think actually it would've been interesting if davrin explicitly wasn't able to follow through on the#sexually charged flirting and showed something more hesitant and gentle when you actually start getting together because#he's got this whole complex about how he's going to hurt you by dying badly soon. but i dont think that was intentional#and if it was it was very badly conveyed
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I think gwynriels victim complex phenomenon needs to be studied like it's probably where the projecting into Azriel white-savior and fuckboy made-up personas came from. it's all clearer now...
#acotar#they are like if the boy that screamed wolf didn't stopped lying it's kind of that#i say it before and i reiterate: they are this worked up for a ship that literally was made BEFORE acosf was fully out and the BC wasn't#known yet... let that sink in#if book text directly is contradicting your words. the characters are. the casual readers are. the readers before you are and now published#articles (made by people professional in their field and probably with their own degrees too) are saying what you think MIGHT be very wrong#idk girl i would think a little of why is that instead of calling someone a misogynist for DARING to tell “no ellen that didn't happened”#everyone have biases even elriels that also had studied literature will have it but the diff is that no one is using that to proof how a SA#victim is mated and gonna have a quick heal of her trauma for your book bf.... AAAaanyways this the last post i gonna make about this#*btw i think that user mentioned being harassed which of course hope she stays away from those that insult her and don't let them get to he#but yeh the degree situation was unserious and silly. no need for anyone to get mad or hate anyone for that just laugh and let's move on
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since we all appear to be talking about izzy 'calling the police' on stede id like to offer my silly little two cents:
its not like the navy wasn't actively looking for him anyway??????
at most, izzys actions sped up badminton catching up with stede, but its made very clear that badminton wanted Stede dead well before this, and was willing to use whatever he could to find him- whos to say jackie wouldnt have cut a deal on her own? that any other pirate thats seen them being unsubtle in a port wouldn't take the opportunity to make a quick buck over a guy who is Nobody and holds no influence that could lead to any consequences for them?
in reality izzy is probably the only person who would receive negative repercussions to selling out stede, given his personal connection with ed- any other pirate would probably have gotten away unscathed, anonymous. they likely wouldnt have even been present like izzy was. izzy had personal stakes, anyone else would have taken the money and ran
the way i see it, with or without izzy the events of episode 10 probably would have happened in some degree, izzy just expedited the timeline
#like ok. i dont exactly support izzys actions but i honestly dont see it as that big of a deal??? to our characters i mean#idk i just. its a dick move!! but i struggle to see it as any more than that#its the actions of a desperate man who made a stupid decision to get his.... ed. out of what he saw as a bad situation#whether it is or not i cant say! but you cant deny ed drastically changed in the time he was on the revenge#in a way that could be concerning from the outside#(i saw a good post kinda comparing it to your friend ending up in a cult and. yeah. excellent description from an outside perspective)#idk theres a lot of. undertones in the way people say 'calling the police' and also they always say ed too and its like. no! izzy tried to#get ed out of there! he set the navy on everyone BUT ed. and its not like the navy really cared about the crew. only stede#i am not the person to talk about why 'calling the cops' is a bad take but the posts are out there. ive seen them.#izzy did what hundreds of pirates did to save their own hide- including hornigold himself (but honestly that was worse because he actively#turned hunter. not just a guy with a tip)#also side historic note that uhh. the navy was casually in Nassau. what exactly was the situation there??? was shit occurring. w#we know it did in history#idk#nyxtalks#ofmd#izzy hands#israel hands#spanish jackie 🤝 izzy: girlbosses for selling stede out to the British/Spanish for their own gain#idk i think thats the one thing he did 'wrong' but ita still very sympathetic to me#its not like izzy dibbed in a guy nobody cared about#'hey hey ill sell you information about this pirate please let me sell you information' ' i mean i guess we are supposed to be doing that'#badminton had an active vendetta against stede and kinda seemed like. he would stop at nothing to get him???#given. the whole 'id rather let blackbeard go and kill Stede than take a huge pirate into custody' thing
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I have a professional map:
There is a difference between liking kids and being good with kids, and I swear some of the people who cannot tolerate kids are the absolute best with them. And then some people try so hard and they still can’t get a kids attention. They’d rather go hang out with the uncles that cannot tolerate them.
#let me know if you agree#I think the Casey’s are pretty malleable#despite the love we don’t actually know too much about them#I can imagine Casey Jr in any of the catergories#and honestly it may depend on the situation#me casually pointing out that Casey Jr and Lou Jitsu have the same face shape#wabbystuffpost#rottmnt#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#cass apocalyptic series#I think Leo grows to like kids#peepaw leo#belongs squarely with Mikey and April#I tried to find the cheesiest smiles#the over lines is intentional#rambles in tags#rise lou jitsu#rise leo#rise donnie#leonardo#donatello#rise Mikey#rise raph#rise april#TMNT#Michelangelo#Raphael#Cassandra jones#Casey jone Jr#casey jr
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Janeway in 'Nothing Human' vs Tuvok in 'Resolutions' There's something here I know there is I can almost wrap my teeth around it.
#I can't watch Nothing Human bc the puppet really disconcerts me#but I cannot believe Janeway really came into B'Elanna's room after all that and the FIRST thing she says...her OPENER is#'Wow it smells awful in here~!'#DUDE....................TIME AND PLACE#HEHEHHE#C'MON MAN#B'Elanna: Is [putting it behind us] an order? / Janeway [normal!]: Yes.#'And what emotion is that?' C'MON MAN!!!!!!#Janeway & Tuvok#Kathryn Janeway#Tuvok#I can see why she and Tuvok are friends#'I understand you're upset but fall in line'#You can be upset but not if effects your work#<- Something which would be fine on a regular ship but is very difficult on Voyager#I think Janeway's certain coldness or ruthlessness which can be aimed at either friend or foe is an interesting#aspect of her personality#Ex: She and B'Elanna COULD have feasibly had a more touching scene together to close out the episode but they don't#I don't know if I'm explaining myself well right now I'm a bit ill and more than a bit tired#Something about uhh maybe....people under their command vehemently and emotionally disagreeing with them/their decisions??#you can disagree with me but not if you don't follow me anyway#Voyager a ship full of contradictions#they have to all work together and they are all closer emotionally than any other starship due to their situation#but they are also still 'at work' and are expected to follow orders. It's like a 'casual' hierarchy but it's still a hierarchy#and you can't fall too far out of line bc you're someone dear to me#but you're also a valued cog in the machine#and even though you ARE valued you ARE still a cog in the machine#but you're also my dear friend. and all of these things are true at once.#all of that of course but also Janeway & Tuvok are displaying a very particular kind of shared leadership style in these moments#Janeway is obviously on the whole MUUUCH more charismatic and understanding than Tuvok but still - when push comes to shove...
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As much as I enjoyed seeing Laura in Deadpool & Wolverine, one thing has been bothering me since opening night, and I can’t shake it:
Why did Marvel design her a shirt that says “Savage”?
It’s a fictional band t-shirt. I spent hours reverse image searching and browsing album covers and tour posters of bands with related names, album titles, and song titles, and while it’s clearly inspired by real rock bands and tours, it was nevertheless made up. They actively chose to make up a shirt with a derogatory racial term for a group Laura and the actress who plays her is not a part of for her to wear. Someone was paid by Marvel to design it. Why?
Now companies are selling copies of the shirt, so more people will be out in the world wearing a shirt with a term that, whether you want to call it a slur or just a “derogatory racial term,” has a dark, violent history and makes many Native Americans uncomfortable. It is a word that was used to justify cultural genocide within my parent’s lifetime, that has been used as a justification for racist discrimination and hatred within our lifetimes, not just Logan’s lifetime.
Logan had band logos, too. They used Awaken the Dreamers by All Shall Perish. The title track is about fighting for human rights and ending oppression, the design features the Statue of Liberty holding a gun, not a torch, surrounded by the silhouettes of swarming military planes. Now in Deadpool & Wolverine, we’re casually using the word savage, sticking it on a “feral” character with a reputation for violence. It could be powerful if Laura were Native. She escaped from a government run institution systematically abusing and dehumanizing children based on their heritage. Logan cast primarily people of color to play the X23 children. Gabriela Lopez died at the Liberty Motel and Logan died at what was described at “the last stop on the mutant underground to Canada”. They utilized the mutant metaphor very deliberately, and I feel that Deadpool & Wolverine’s choice of costuming for Laura did that a disservice.
(Yes, I’m aware of Savage Wolverine. Its potential as an Easter egg for a racist comic book title doesn’t make it not racist)
#Deadpool and Wolverine#Deadpool 3#racist language#anti native racism#Marvel#Deadpool & Wolverine#The first part of Logan was filmed right across the street from the Santa Ana rez and bordered to the north by the Zia Pueblo#The cast stayed at the Tamaya Resort on the Pueblo while filming there.#The gas station scene was the Laguna 66 Pit Stop on the Laguna Pueblo.#Eden was less than 4 miles from the Poshuoinge Pueblo ruins.#Chama - where the final scene was filmed - is situated between the Jicarilla Apache Nation and Taos Pueblo.#I’m not Native. I’m local enough though that when I watch Logan I see Indian Country.#I think that made it all the more jarring to me to see ‘savage’ in D&W.#(Not being reclaimed or subverted but casually on a white actress)#idk... I know it doesn't bother everyone & like I said I'm not Native. but as a white woman who's heard that word weaponized#(& a diehard fan of Laura for the last 20 years so believe me I’m not looking for something to be mad about)#i don’t think the mutant metaphor is enough to make it okay for a white actress to wear that shirt#(first post in the morning pre-coffee no editing we die like fic authors with no betas)
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to the person in the tag who just said “I fear I'm giving you all a very skewed idea of what ravenous 1999 is like,” we may not know each other, but we are brothers in spirit
#for different reasons but our situation is similar#at least one person promised to watch ravenous BASED ON MY GHOST META#which like. friends.#i believe what i said with all my heart (because it brings me great joy and i believe it has textual support)#but PLEASE understand how deep in the ravenous iceberg that shit is#to truly understand what the hell i’m talking about re: Reich and Boyd’s dynamic you need to watch the film ten times#and then watch the deleted scenes at least as many times before watching the film again#and then obsessively think about it for years#and then read my mind#and then actually BE me#like. it DOES make sense but also it Does Not#at the very least - it’s not the impression you’re going to get from a casual viewing#i think that people should exclusively watch ravenous based on SUPER gay AUs and unhinged ghost meta now actually#would LOVE to see what that would do to the fandom ecosystem#ravenous 1999
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i know no one necessarily asked for this information, BUT yes, barton did do masks with marcy while she was still around and also... yes, he might've looked a little bit like this self-care garfield while doing it. and honestly, he still puts on masks sometimes. so here's a little advice for y'all... if your muse is trying to talk to barton about anything that might possibly trouble him / make him angry — they might wanna do it while barton's doing his thing here, because it is pretty much a FACT that he can not be in a bad mood while he's like this LOL
#OF MONSTERS AND MEN: musings.#ooc post.#no but barton deadass becomes a different person while practicing ✨️ self-care ✨️ so his kids have literally held off until barton did his-#mask and towel thing just to tell him something that would normally get him all up in arms BUT barton just can't do it while he's like this#like he truly reaches his inner zen and it's so weird but it's also strangely kind of pleasant to be around him while barton's like this-#because the furthest that he will go to becoming angry usually while he's like this is just giving someone a look LMAO#but then barton will casually go back to doing whatever he was doing and listening as if he is unbothered SO yeahhh#like i said my advice would be either to try to catch barton while he's like this if you need to tell him something troubling or while-#he's on the za za / j JSJSJ LOLLL nah i'm kidding about the marijuana BC barton hasn't touched it ever since he got ''too chill'' that one-#time but TBH perhaps he should... reconsider? idk LOL though i just think it's so funny that this random thing is one way you can tell-#barton something and not have him get mad at you if you have a situation going on 💀
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I'm at the painful "confession" scene during the kage summit arc. It really is so emotional, but also... hm.
When I was younger, like 13 or so, I was a big Sakura and Naruto shipper. They were the first pairing I read fanfic for even. And in a way, I do still enjoy the two of them together... but it's moments like these that really drive home the fact that it Doesn't really work in canon. Not the way that it's set up.
As Sakura puts it, "Sasuke, Sasuke, Sasuke! That's all you think about!"
She's told that Naruto has feelings for her and decides to use it to convince him to stop going after Sasuke. She does love him, but not in the way she's trying to confess. The love they share is one of comradery, not necessarily romantic. The love of two people who have gone through such pain together, and who have leaned on each other throughout it all. And the fact that she's turning around and saying she loves him "simply like everyone else", now... it's trivializing. And the fact that she's trying to convince him of this, the fact that she thinks she Can convince him of this, is pretty hurtful. They've come a long way from when they were kids, Naruto the goofball vying for her attention while she yelled at him for being stupid. Sakura respects Naruto so much more than before, and Naruto respects her too. So the fact that she's still doing this... She's desperate, really. She thinks the promise he made to her to bring Sasuke home is what's driving him to let himself be hurt over and over and over again in the pursuit and protection of Sasuke.
But she's wrong.
That may be part of it, but it's only part. Naruto wants Sasuke back for himself, too. He let himself be beat up to avoid selling him out. He chases after him with single minded determination. Sasuke is his entire drive to get stronger, to catch up, to bring him home. Sasuke, Sasuke, Sasuke indeed.
As it is, Naruto knows she's lying to herself. And no matter what she says, he will keep going after Sasuke. Because that's just the person that Naruto is.
#speculation nation#fanny watches naruto#i think. naruto and sakura could potentially work out... but probably in a poly kind of situation.#because naruto will never forget about sasuke. and tbh neither will sakura. at least in canon.#of course i think sakura would do well to end up with someone more level headed. like ino.#someone without all the Complications that those two have...#but at the same time. i still do really love the idea of two people supporting one another through thick and thin.#i like naruto and sakura as a pairing of mutual respect. which is why it doesnt truly work as it is in canon.#especially when it comes to things like the 'joke' punches. but that's Everywhere in this anime.#female characters' anger being turned into jokes. theyre 'scary' but its not Actually scary.#naruto taking punch after punch from her for being foolish. yet it's all just a joke.#tbh id want to do away with that trope entirely. sakura has a temper but she's a good person. a kind soul.#i dont like that kishimoto has her being casually abusive with one of her best friends.#yet another part of the misogynistic writing that i hate.#sure enough. as it is in canon it just doesnt work. but ykno what. 13 year old me is still here. and wants to think of a way that it Could.#all things to think about. i wonder if there is any poly fic with the 3 of them. theres Gotta be.#though that brings the question of whether it'd even fit my ideal concept of the 3 of them.#it's certainly not the popular kind of thing lol. most people pick one of the three pairings between them.#but ya kno what. ive always been a multishipper. and poly ships really enable that truth of mine.#maybe i'll look for some poly fic sometime. just to see if theres anyone doing it like id wanna see.#if it's just two guys fighting over one girl or something tho im Outta there.#and ALSO theres something to be said for sasuke and sakura's relationship when they were kids.#there was trust there. confiding. he respected her. & in the end. he thanked her for her care.#cant be Just the two of them tho. for me. bc that erases naruto's significance to them both.#it is perhaps another thing i'll want to write someday. just maybe.
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2024 reads / storygraph
The Sunforge
sequel to The Dawnhounds
fantasy/scifi with bio- cyber- & god-punk elements
follows a crew of revolutionary pirates who become stranded in a city in ruins, overrun by a hostile militia, who must find a way to the people who can help them disable the technology that’s stopping them from escaping
and find themselves pulled deeper into the conflicts and history between the strange gods who give them their powers, and the complex history of their world
mainly centres Kiada, told between flashbacks of her past in the city, and the present
arc from the author! out August 6
#the sunforge#the dawnhounds#sascha stronach#aroaessidhe 2024 reads#Woah. My thoughts on The Dawnhounds (having read both versions) were: so many cool and interesting elements a bit confusing tho#The Sunforge is like. even more cool things. even more confusing. but I am not against that!#It's definitely a bit “you thought this was [x kind of book]? actually it’s [y kind of book]!#It is a little all over the place in the beginning; flipping back and forth and between various characters#but at half way it comes together and is more fast-paced and direct. and also pretty wild.#do feel like I wanted a few more just like; moments with the characters themselves?#(it's a lot of plot/backstory/lore/new characters - probably just a middle book kind of thing)#Many reveals about the world and gods that make me feel like I need to reread them both and also have book 3 now.#things I enjoyed: starting with some casual HRT smuggling and casual trans characters.#dangerous adventures but gotta keep our cat safe! the mechanical spider situation....#a handful of pages that I am so curious about what they’ll be like in the audiobook#I don't think it'll be for everyone but I liked it a lot overall!
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aro culture is seeing some people joke about how in a show some girl looked like she would start making out with her brother because she was being extremely affectionate towards him after he (wait for this) almost died. and just. not finding it funny.
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#an-absolute-nightmare#aro culture is#aro#aromantic#actually aro#actually aromantic#ask#mod axel#gen talk i literally think it's pretty gross and insensitive to joke about that in any context#much less in a situation where it's normal to be very upset/seek comfort#a coworker recently was like 'did you see [other coworker] a minute ago? she was here with her brother. they were like... idk really touchy#and it felt weird ngl lol' (in a lightly joking tone?)#and like... bro. she works so many hours that she had a breakdown and walked out last month#and i'm pretty sure they haven't seen each other in ages#shockingly some families have a healthy relationship with casual contact#and she definitely strikes me as someone from a family like that#don't be gross and speculate shit
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