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Even if you were a difficult child, you didn't deserve to be hurt.
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what doesn't kill you makes you weird at intimacy
#spilled thoughts#spilled words#spilled ink#spilled writing#lesbian#spilled feelings#wlw longing#sapphic love#spilled poetry#wlw post#words on tumblr#bpd meme#text post#light academia#lit#literature#femme lesbian#sa survivor#sad writing#poetic#word post#relationship quotes#writers on tumblr#poets on tumblr#queer#autistic lesbian#actually autistic#neurospicy#audhd#autistic trauma
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I’m about to save you thousands of dollars in therapy by teaching you what I learned paying thousands of dollars for therapy:
It may sound woo woo but it’s an important skill capitalism and hyper individualism have robbed us of as human beings.
Learn to process your emotions. It will improve your mental health and quality of life. Emotions serve a biological purpose, they aren’t just things that happen for no reason.
1. Pause and notice you’re having a big feeling or reaching for a distraction to maybe avoid a feeling. Notice what triggered the feeling or need for a distraction without judgement. Just note that it’s there. Don’t label it as good or bad.
2. Find it in your body. Where do you feel it? Your chest? Your head? Your stomach? Does it feel like a weight everywhere? Does it feel like you’re vibrating? Does it feel like you’re numb all over?
3. Name the feeling. Look up an emotion chart if you need to. Find the feeling that resonates the most with what you’re feeling. Is it disappointment? Heartbreak? Anxiety? Anger? Humiliation?
4. Validate the feeling. Sometimes feelings misfire or are disproportionately big, but they’re still valid. You don’t have to justify what you’re feeling, it’s just valid. Tell yourself “yeah it makes sense that you feel that right now.” Or something as simple as “I hear you.” For example: If I get really big feelings of humiliation when I lose at a game of chess, the feeling may not be necessary, but it is valid and makes sense if I grew up with parents who berated me every time I did something wrong. So I could say “Yeah I understand why we are feeling that way given how we were treated growing up. That’s valid.”
5. Do something with your body that’s not a mental distraction from the feeling. Something where you can still think. Go on a walk. Do something with your hands like art or crochet or baking. Journal. Clean a room. Figure out what works best for you.
6. Repeat, it takes practice but is a skill you can learn :)
#deconstruction#ex christian#ex evangelical#agnosticatheist#deconstructing christianity#agnostic#ex religious#exevangelical#religious trauma#trauma#cptsd#therapy#life skills#leftist#self healing#healing is a process#Emdr#emdr therapy#ifs therapy#emotional regulation#emotional health#heading#trauma therapy#religious trauma syndrome#anti capitalist#humanism#coping mechanism#coping skills#cult survivor#deconvert
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#googled this last night watching the finale because my friend asked me#cried laughing#survivor#furry#furries#mine
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i don't know who needs to hear this, but guilt, self-hatred and shame are not sustainable sources of growth and healing. you can't hate yourself into feeling better, or being better. you can't repeatedly punish yourself for your flawed humanity and expect wholesome results.
#mental health#recovery#self care#self love#positivity#reminders#healing#be kind to yourself#actually mentally ill#cptsd#actually cptsd#recovery suggestion#trauma survivor#trauma recovery#mine.
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Apocalypse buddies
#im back at it again bois#gimme survivors roomies anytime#grian being a tactical adventage as a scout bird#fanart#mcyt#zombiecleo#ethoslab#grian#secret life#secret life roomies#trafficblr#roomies my beloved#apocalypse#traffic smp#life series#art#REDpocalypse roomies au#the roomies
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reflection
#anyways so i think samus has major survivors guilt and is a super perfectionist. The type of girl who reimagines scenarios in her mind#And thinks about how she could have done better. like ‘if i had woken up sooner maybe i could have saved everyone in prime 3’#so i think she says she doesnt know anything about herself because shes so hypercritical of her actions she doesnt see herself as a person#while also her hyper critical-ness shows how she says she wants to ignore herself but she literally cant because she has so many criticisms#oh i wanted to include the ppl from the prime 2 manga in that one shot but was like ‘i dont think ppl will recognize them’.#also lol the existence of dark samus would fuck her up SOOOO bad like it only exists bc she exists & its responsible for the gang’s deaths#okay im done rambling tldr MENTAL ILLNESS.#metroid#samus aran#loneart#metroid dread#metroid prime#super metroid#metroid series#i dont wanna tag all the games. There just those games is enough#hall of fame
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anya deserved so much better
#mouthwashing#mouthwashing game#mouthwashing art#mouthwashing anya#ibon draws#cw eye strain#eye strain#just in case#massive trigger warning for people interested in the game 😭i myself had to just listen to a video summarizing it#because i don't do well with heavy games like that especially as a survivor and someone with cptsd myself#take care of yourselves
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tfw you're too busy trying to hide your jedi-code-breaking romance to notice your fellow jedi is also breaking the code
(commission info // tip jar!)
#rebel survivor#kanan jarrus#cal kestis#hera syndulla#merrin#kanera#merrical#nightsister merrin#star wars#jfo#star wars rebels#my doods#cal^2#im just in an extreme 'i love cal n kanan' mood rn idk why
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its pride month, survivor slugcat. you know what that means.
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i cant stop thinking about the fact that the us and uk killed one million people in indonesia as part of the cold war effort and barely anybody knows about it much less cares. trying to tell somebody about it especially in the west will just garner laughter and celebration -- genocide is okay if they are (true or suspected) communists, no matter what. one million people
#op#this is not a number that exists solely in an infographic#those were whole and complete people with rich inner lives and families who probably thought very very similarly to you#who died in some of the most horrific ways possible#and its a total blot in the collective memory of the united states#the youngest of the victims were only as old as my father -- the majority of the survivors are alive today and still asking for an apology
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he sit
#cal kestis#bd-1#star wars#jedi survivor#happy anniversary jedi survivor i love you#beedee doodles#i am working on a BUNCH of jedi series pieces for may 4 it's been a lot of fun ;u;
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aight last May 4th post. Happy Star Wars day to my bois :3
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if jeremy and michael knew each other, don't you think the bites would feel rather similar?
#michael afton#michael ''survivors guilt'' afton more like#crying child#evan afton#cassidy afton#no im not debating which it is. anyway#jeremy fitzgerald#five nights at freddy's#fnaf#the bite of 87#the bite of 83#medical /#if something is inaccurate I DONT CARE!!! its about the vibes#lmk if anything else needs to be trigger tagged
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Something really not talked about with trauma disorders is the paranoia.
Being scared and jumping to conclusions when people stand a little too close to you, not believing people’s compliments and thinking they have hidden motives, not believing when people tell you they like/love you, thinking that strangers you see on the street want to hurt you, etc.
#trauma survivor#paranoia#actually ptsd#actually cptsd#complex ptsd#post traumatic stress disorder#osdd 1a#osdd 1b#actually did#did system#actually osdd#osddid#cdd system#complex dissociative disorder#did community#osdd community#actually dissociative
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