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No actually I want to talk about this more, because I read a LOT of medieval monastic murder mysteries. I've read everything I can get my hands on, from Cadfael to Dame Frevisse to Name of the Rose to Shardlake.
The problem with these is that apart from Name of the Rose, most of these are written for one of two audiences:
Little old Christian ladies, who are shocked and scandalized by the slightest mention of homosexuality
Atheists who want to read about Christians Behaving Badly
So... in 90% of the ones I've read, if there's any gay, it's usually written as Someone Behaving Badly.
A lot of the time, it's meant to symbolize the corruption of the Church, how all these holy men have become blinded by their lusts- Name of the Rose and Shardlake both take this tack with some of their characters. Sometimes, it's just meant to be a threat to one of the protagonists- the one monk in Cadfael who goes chasing after a prettyboy (because his wife died and he's not taking it well) is a good example of the type. Very occasionally, you get a Tragic Prettyboy with a Dark Secret (he's gay) that makes him A Sinner and preoccupied with this.
On top of that, in current media in general and video games in particular, when there's a sympathetic gay male character... they're always conventionally attractive. And, like, video games, I get it, they're a love interest a lot of the time, but... if you've got a wonky looking gay guy, they're almost always evil, in a very specific way at that. They're corrupt and effeminate and mincing, and I love a good evil vizier but it just gets so old.
...So having a couple of gay monks who are just normal? Who are both kind of funny-looking, and whose gay relationship is treated with exactly as much seriousness and love as the straight monk and nun who get together?
That's a big deal. I don't think I've seen it before in the monk-mystery genre, and it's still depressingly rare outside of it.
Concussed gay penguins need love too.
One of the things I really appreciate about this game is that the gay monks are both funny-looking and very much in very real love
Neither of them are Hot Twinks. Brother Mathieu looks like a penguin with a concussion and Brother Rudger is like Abe Lincoln with a tonsure. But their love is genuine and they're both good.
#pentiment#well i guess this is a liveblog: pentiment#pentiment spoilers#on writing#gay representation
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okay, here me out… feyd-rautha 🥴
#i knew it in my heart when reading the book that he was hot#and i am pleased to say that austin butler did not disappoint#like yeah he’s batshit insane#and not exactly “conventionally attractive”#but ohhh man would i#dune part two#dune#dune part 2#feyd rautha#austin butler
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People picking some of the most stereotypically hot people as face claims for Percy when in reality he should look like uh
not like that
I know I'm a pretty Percy believer, but I just don't think it should be like a hot kind of pretty i think he should be divisive and a twig and should look Pretty in a way you could still argue some would not see the appeal
#percy weasley#i hate the demonizing of the phrase conventionally attractive like you know exactly what i mean#it means what is popular look wise in people currently and changes with the times and even cultures#a kpop star and a popular american actor can both be conventionally attractive and look completely different#it's not saying there is only one way to be desirable
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"Medusa x Perseus" Why don't you guys ship Bellerophon with Chimera? Or Heracles with the Hydra?
#greek mythology#medusa#perseus#ramblings#Yes I know that Medusa has a more humanoid appearance and human intellect compared to the other female monsters#But she is still a monster#She was supposed to have a monstruous appearance but then people made her dirty#Imagine if I would turn the Minotaur into a hot guy with horns and then ship him with Theseus AKA his own killer#I know it sounds ridiculous but this is exactly how some people out there sound too#Why can't we acknowledge that one doesn’t need to be conventionally attractive in order to deserve empathy or understanding?#Or that a woman can be evil and malevolent without a tragic background story that turn all women into victims and all men into assholes?#And why do we have to come up with the most stupid pairs to ever exist?#My tags are becoming more and more distant from the post's subject but my FYP is full of this type of BS so here I am#Thanks for my (salty) Ted Talk!
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Yes Hello to all my fellow Miss Lemon fans out there:
If you love her as much as I do, then 6.2 Hickory Dickory Dock is the episode for you
Now let us all just take a moment out of our busy day to bask in her glory:
That coat with those hats?? ICONIC she has such a flawless style
and this little scene where she's like 'this is just a quirk of Mr. Poirot's, don't worry about it' fellas help she's so cute
also HELP lads she took Poirot's comment about Inspector Japp's 'healthy appetite' way too literally!! LEMON SOLE! she's so funny aagh
Also she looks really damn good in burgundy wow
Also you know I hate the trope where guys tell ladies to take their glasses off and let their hair flow in the wind because they'd somehow be 'sexier' or whatever. That is just simply not true. Case in point: Look at how cute Miss Lemon is in her glasses!!
Just. Everyone just. Look at my favourite girl. Look at her!!! Her filing system is perfect! Her filing system could kick your ass!!!
#Okay. don't kill me. but I'm gonna say it.#She has red/auburn hair. Which we all know is a weakness of Hastings'.#so like. Why didn't the showrunners kinda push them together more?#like in the books Miss Lemon was supposed to be 'impossibly ugly' or whatever the quote was#but show!Felicity is cute and adorable and beautiful and lovely and flawless and okay sorry I'll stop. but anyway. My point is#they get this absolute gorgeous cutie to play Miss Lemon and made her sorta exactly Hastings' type and then they don't do anything with it?#No implications like we get with him and Poirot? No touching or preening or lingering glances or smiles?#Sure in the Adventure of the Italian Nobleman Hastings legit punches a guy in the face for her#but she's not there to see it!#and we sorta get a whumpy scene in Double Clue where she's tending to his wounds with iodine so they could have played that up#esp. if they were really trying to no homo everything.#but they didn't. like. he barely looks at her in that scene.#And maybe they were just trying to stay truer to the source material but like. They still could have *implied* a great deal#and they didn't. IDK it was just. an interesting choice is all#they certainly imply a lot of things about him and Poirot (for which I owe them my life LOL) so it probably would have been super easy to d#maybe they were afraid of pissing off the fans? idk#or maybe those Hastings/Poirot implications were a simple result of the exceptional acting chemistry b/w David Suchet and Hugh Fraser#which of course fits into the canon of Poirot having the absolute biggest soft spot for Captain Arthur Hastings that is humanly possible#ANYWAY I LOVE YOU MISS LEMON YOU ARE MY QUEEN#and like okay I guess I can see how Pauline Moran isn't '''''''conventionally attractive''''''' or anything#but given the right storyline I could see Hastings being down bad for her version of Felicity Lemon#but maybe that's just because *I'm* down bad for her LOL#Poirot series#Poirot#Felicity Lemon#Miss Lemon#back on my screencapping bullshit#also if you made it through all of these tags bless u what a trooper you are thanks for listening to my ramblings
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One thing about Dr. Daniel Cain is that he’s gonna be positively shit at his job
#That’s not how you do fucking cpr#How the fuck are you off midline at a point where he is presumed to be revered by his colleagues#What the fuck do you mean you got emotionally attached to your patient how do you even have the fucking time#All we see Dan’s patients do is fucking die#we don’t even get to see a close case no if you’re assigned Dan just write your fucking will now#The again a conventionally attractive friendly white guy getting way too much praise for a job he isn’t good at seems par for the course#I’m just saying say what you want about Herbert West but the man is a professional#Realistically with his perfectionism and god complex he probably will not afford himself the ability to not be a good doctor#Like neither is exactly a good choice since I’ll probably be graverobbed if things go south#But my chances of being in a grave to be robbed would increase greatly with Dan#reanimator#dan cain#herbert west#bride of reanimator#dan Cain Please get better at your job lives are at stake
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staring at all these david oakes gifs in the borgias and damn he's got such amazing bone structure as if sculpted by renaissance artists...someone dragged this man out of the 15th century to the modern day and you can't convince me otherwise!!
#like sure everyone in the borgias is gorgeous but then there's holliday david and lotte who clearly look incredibly renaissanic like....#i mean françois is also conventionally attractive but in a modern way...you know what i'm saying?#while david isn't exactly conventionally attractive but he has such unique features that you'd only find in the italian renaissance paintin#david oakes#the borgias#juan borgia#text post
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Auditor and phobos aroace spec. You agree with me.
#also yeah saying this as a phobitor enjoyer as i believe their relationship is not exactly conventionally romantic#its still incredibly intimate however and just as messy because well its phobitor#its complicated..... but also because hi i am also aroace spec and i believe they are aroace spec coded as hell#those 2 are def somewhere on the aroace spectrum i know this...#their asses would not experience romance (or any type of attraction) in a conventional way!!!#do i tag this as madcom ummmm#i'll toss it into the characters tags and ship tag#madness combat phobos#madness combat auditor#phobitor#sorta kind of.. sorry i can never be normal about the way i enjoy my ships (MY ARO ACE-ISM!!!)#voltrix rambles
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So since getting into sfth I've been watching a bit of other improv (having previously only like...seen Whose Line and watched a show from like a decade ago by the same production company that had a very brief run, called Fast and Loose) so I've seen a bit of Austentatious and got to know some of the performers in it a lot.
One of them is Graham Dickson, who I sort of feel like I've seen around somewhere before but I don't know where. Anyway. Just listening to a livestream and caught Tom saying "Sex and Improv: the Graham Dickson Story" and then going on to explain "he has sex with lots of students".* Sam and AJ loved it.
I love the insider improv gossip. The meta scene about Top Secret Comedy is really funny too. "There was asbestos in that basement." Little bitchy gossip boys. Fun when we get insight into how they operate as a group too and you can't quite tell how much of it is real and how much is made up. AJ going "we always argue!" really sticks in my head.
*Not that there's necessarily anything wrong with it if everyone is an adult but like he clearly has/had a bit of a reputation I wasn't aware of. Just thought that was funny.
(Also they have accused AJ of the same thing before and I'm never sure how much they're joking...)
#shoot from the hip#and to be fair...he is quite fit#like not exactly *entirely* conventionally attractive but i can see why he might be popular#you really have to be doing it a lot to be known for it though
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what is this fandom’s obsession with taking away dazai’s bandages. i don’t get it.
#i can’t exactly explain it but it Feels like ableism#like. it’s something people have deemed needs ‘fixed’ despite absolutely nothing in canon lending itself to that conclusion#just because it’s ?? not conventional? not conventionally attractive? not ‘realistic’ even tho this is an anime with magical superpowers??#idkkkk idk. it just always rubs me the wrong way#bc why do you think it needs to be fixed. there’s literally no canon basis for that.#none of the characters in-universe treat it as an issue. and dazai Chooses to wear them. so. gestures vaguely#it’s the fans making it into a problem which does Not sit right with me. bc. it’s not a problem. it’s just part of dazai.#hello grace here
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I am sad that we don't have the massive old people scales like Temulun or the Oronir storyteller for our WoLs. Let me give the men the scale porn stachs! And massive scales for all Au Ra!
Au Ra getting more and more scaled as they get older until Grandma is just chilling halfway up a warm brick wall :D
#ffxiv#this reminded me I have an au ra wol and she is based on an OC who I gave scales#I could somehow never visualise exactly how they'd work#I don't think Auri scales are the exact answer as she's more amphibious than lizardy#(mermaid newt lady :3)#but it's definitely been a big help just in letting my imagination take wild swings with it#rather than trying to imagine ~conventionally attractive~ little splatters of scales like freckles at the corners of her eyes or whatever#you know like sexy low budget sci fi scaled women often end up like :P#it's such a process allowing your brain to be weird when you're actually quite a normcore person and want to sit at the weird kid table#the weird kids have been good to me I should be allowed to be one and then I'm like here's my OC she's so weird#and then I see everyone else's OCs and I've drawn Jane From Next Door#hahahaha
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i think there's a lot to say about the popular opinion of evan hansen and ableism... how people turn away from a story about mental health because it shows a realistic, not sugarcoated mentally ill teenager because it makes them uncomfortable and his characterization doesn't make them want to romanticize him or excuse his actions or give him the "he did all of it but i don't care" treatment. people don't like stories about mental health when they're about the not-cool, obviously mentally ill.
#this is probably not an original thought but i'm new here and i haven't seen anyone say this exactly so idk#i know at some point in the fandom people did 'babyfy' him but i didn't see that. the vastly popular opinion today is this. so#not only are his actions morally questionable (calling *him* morally gray is too much i think)#but his most emblematic actor isn't conventionally attractive and his characterization isn't either#he's not a stereotypically grungy cool angsty teenager but preppy and actually awkward#he's not particularly funny and we don't see much of his real personality (in the musical)#(he is funny sometimes but it's not a main character trait of his i mean)#i like to compare him with nadine from the edge of seventeen: she's played by hailee steinfield#(who is undeniably beautiful)#and she's very awkward and does weird things and is an asshole#but she also has one friend with whom we see her being herself with and being 'cool' and she shows a lot of self awareness in a 'cool' way#i feel very seen by that character too but i feel like she's an example#of a more digestible depiction of social anxiety and insecurity that we mostly see in media#evan hansen isn't digestible. he is actually hard to watch. and that's what people dislike. people will speak up about mental health#until they see the obviously mentally ill. the ones you can tell.#evan hansen is that weird kid in your class no one wanted to actually talk to because they didn't want to make themselves uncomfortable#idk. thoughts#dear evan hansen
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finnick sketch. btw
#i am cooking something crazy rn but i need to draw him 1 million times to nail down exactly how i picture him first#wherefore art thou#thg reread#i have always pictured him with an extremely pointy nose#and it’s important to me that he’s not handsome he’s BEAUTIFUL. but not so conventionally attractive that he’s bland#like you know those pictures of twink henry cavill where he just looks ethereal. almost otherworldly#that’s what i mean by beautiful not handsome#i don’t picture him looking like young henry cavill btw i just imagine it’s just the same type of beauty
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i would draw japhet with cat ears but their hairstyle is the way it is specifically to accommodate for ears so if they didnt have ears there it would look weird but if they did have ears there they would have 2 sets of ears which is still weird
#hello world#japhet#just know japhet would be a miqo if they were in ffxiv#riah would be a roegadyn because as ive noted before she looks exactly like pre fantasia fickle#dirin... idk actually ffxiv character designers would never make a species as cool as the githyanki#they would need to be conventionally attractive first
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@beatingheart-bride
"H-He...he is."
There was no denying it, Dave and the rest of his coworkers were indeed insufferable: They were complete snobs who looked down on most anyone who couldn't afford the higher-end products on hand, mocked customers' appearances behind their backs, and got patted on the backs for it by Minnie, who shared many of their small-minded views. They were less-than-pleasant people to work with, largely because, when there were no customers around to either tease or hit on, their attention would turn to Randall.
"I-I would get another job somewhere else if I could," Randall replied with a small sigh-there were lots of high end boutiques in New Orleans, very upscale places that could pay him a hell of a lot more than Minnie could (or was willing to, anyways).
"I've tried applying to them, but uh...they don't think I'm the right fit. I'm not...classy enough."
He then gave a small laugh, pausing to run a pale, bony hand through his curly black hair, saying, "I-I'm sorry, I don't mean to...unload all of that on you..."
He didn't know why he felt so comfortable telling her all of this; he only met her last night, and yet he felt so at ease with her, being so candid with her...it was funny, he still couldn't shake the feeling that they had met before...
#((exactly! even if the guy is more conventionally attractive; his skeezy personality))#((and sleazy way of hitting on women? total turn off! even without the connection emily has to randall))#((if they were just meeting now and getting to know each other; dave's efforts would be all for naught))#((because him being a sleazeball would be a huge turn off!))#((and you're right; as taken as randall is by her beauty; the fact that she's so kind and compassionate))#((and so willing to stand up for what's right; that's really gonna turn his head!))#((and oh; june and wilhelm are gonna be SO stoked to meet emily! they've probably heard about randall's coworkers))#((and how rotten they are; so to know this girl just stood up to one of them on their boy's behalf?))#((they're gonna be looking forward to meeting her!))#((also: happy holidays to you too! ^v^))#outofhatboxes#beatingheart-bride#V:Dark Shadows
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the genetics felt so bad for what they did to my parents' first kid's looks that they overcompensated massively on the second kid's looks
#worded terribly but yeah my younger sister got all the good genes and i got none of them#like ik what even are 'good genes' what even is 'attractive' etc etc#but still the only 'conventionally attractive' thing i got was big eyes and even then they don't go with the rest of my face#thinking about how my sister's the one random people will come up to compliment in public#the one who's turned down multiple people over the years#the one who makes friends easier bc she looks more approachable#the one who can wear whatever she wants and have her hair in any style and it still looks good#and like even though i'm aroace and don't even want people to be attracted to me it still kind of#idk it adds up after 23 years where only one person has ever been openly interested in me#usually i was just the one who people would joke about fancying at school but it was fine bc i was the weird squirrel kid#like i wasn't there to be fancied i was there to entertain my friends in lessons#but yeah idk i'm just thinking about this. not even in a negative way?#kind of in a positive way bc like?? i'm starting to age#only the beginnings of it but it's kind of exciting#bc i feel like the older you get the less your appearance matters#and i've always looked old for my age so i guess i'll slowly grow into it#and i won't have anything to lose bc i've always been average looking so it's not like ''oh no i'm losing my beauty'' or anything#i've only got a few lines on my face but i can't wait to get more and i can't wait to start going grey#btw thinking about that hilda ogden quote (bc when am i not thinking about hilda ogden okay anyway)#i can't remember it exactly but when she said something about realising her face didn't suit her at 14#she was so right like saaaaame she's so me fr fr#but yeah when i was a kid i looked like a teenager and when i was a teenager i looked like an adult and#when i was an early adult i looked middle aged and now i'm 23 and i could pass for like. idk 28 or something. which isn't too bad anymore#idk what the point of this post is i just read an article that was suggested for me about basically being the ugly friend#(My Beautiful Friend by Grazie Sophia Christie) and i was reading it like ''omg she's so real and true she gets it''#bc it reminded me of my sister who is literally my best friend but there's always been this slight envy which i feel bad for#bc it's not even her fault but i guess neither of us can help it#so like this is nothing against her specifically it's just an example. and i've been thinking about it for the past few weeks#okay yeah i've lost whatever my point was but basically i literally cannot wait to be in my 30s and then go from there#okay whatever goodnight *proceeds to stay up for another 4 hours probably* <3<3
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