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the way that people who like tommy have decided to completely disregard other queer people's opinions in favor of a fictional character is crazy. you're entitled to your own opinion on tommy but to call other queer individuals straight, homophobic and puritanical for not liking a character, or even a very ill-timed joke, based not only on the story but their own experiences, is not only disrespectful but truly detrimental to the community. but no good going guys obviously you're right and everyone has to like tommy all the time because he's gay. thanks for that one.
#911#911 abc#this isn't even about buddie#even if eddie or buddie didn't exist i would have vehemently been opposed to tommy#but to disregard other queer people because they don't agree is insane#boiling it down to oh they don't like sex is so stupid i can't put it into words#I've never seen such hatred towards people before like jfc#and all for a stale character with no development#i WISH they would talk about sexuality all the time but yeah no give props to the guy that doesn't even want to shoot a sex scene#because it doesn't add to the story#for a show with multiple queer characters making the whole space unsafe for queer people to voice their opinions is diamond#not tagging this with the anti tag yet because i need people to understand the impact of what they're saying#and hopefully work on themselves
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12 hours of friendship between my best friend and i, as shown via today's texts
#this man got banned from twitter (for telling transphobes to kill themselves) so he exclusively texts me what he wants to tweet#because i was one of his only twitter followers anyway so 'its basically the same thing as tweeting' according to him#friends for 13 years. Heres to another 13!!? And then hopefully we'll tear each other limb from limb#read that Kurt Cobain text right as i was walking into work
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I lived.
Thank you everyone for all the well wishes.
You’re the best~!
#Unfortunately school starts this week so I can’t rest per say#but I am resting#Sorry but my first assignment is due on Monday and I have an in person class on Monday too#the essays can’t write themselves#despite the pain I am feeling better#I’m gonna work on my fanfics too#hopefully my creativity comes back
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how the fuck do i get these suggested community posts off my dash
#hopefully xkit is already working on it#god bless#tumblr communities#tumblr update#dashboard#like im on board with the communities themselves as a feature i think they could be great especially for fandom building#but i want to chose to see them#stop putting shit on my dash i didn't chose to put there
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I don't know how many more "trust the process" I got left in me
edit: the final piece is done u can check it out on my profile :>
#death note#light yagami#death note fanart#anime#manga#WIP#work in progress#elle draws#lowkey this is already finished I'm just posting the wip now bc I forgot it was in my drafts#it's a DN musical piece L has a matching one#I'll post them tomorrow I need to stare at them for a little while longer until all the errors reveal themselves to me#so I can fix them hopefully
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Hey, I remember you mentioning on your IG something about two types of popular artists and one being good at social media and the other being good at art or something like that (I can't really remember lol). But it got me thinking, any tips for how to be good at social media? Cuz I'm certainly not even after posting art for six years lol
Heya!
What I meant by that is that there are traits that allow you to grow on social media, and traits that determine what a highly skilled artist is, and those traits do not always necessarily overlap.
I've seen so many amazing artists that post artwork that blow my head off, and yet they don't have many likes. On the other hand, some artists at the same skill level who draw more popular things will get way more attention.
That is not to say that either is the correct way to create art, but there is definitely a formula to social media that is in play.
There are a lot of posts about how to grow a social media account, particularly on TikTok, YouTube and Instagram art spheres, and imo you really need to examine what you want from your art before jumping into social media mode
The stuff you create to pander to social media might not be art that you want to create at all - I'm lucky, because I am less artist more storyteller, and what I enjoy is telling jokes and silly stories to liven up people's moods :] this, of course, conveniently does well on social media. On a personal note, I have a history of being a recluse and not connecting well with people, and art is my way of trying to communicate my feelings, one way or another.
So of course, if you draw for any reason other than my own, my approach to art and it's relation to social media might be inappropriate for you.
All that being said, if u take a look at those "get big on social media" videos they always cite the same few points... And you can look into that, for sure, but this video sums up how I feel about all that.
I spent like 20 minutes drafting words after the above paragraph, but I really ended up regurgitating sentiments from the video... So really don't listen to me, listen to that video
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I just realised I didnt actually answer the question with my anecdotal experience, so here's a list of things I did
1. Posted like 3 doodles a day on social media
I did this for 6 months on a side account on Twitter recently and got the account to 11k followers... And I did this for 3 months on Instagram a few years ago and I think got 3.5k followers. Of course, do not spam maliciously and make sure your art is still of good quality, but for those artworks I posted quickly, I did not colour, and mostly did clean sketches. This also trains you in the matter of line confidence haha. Again, this worked for me because of my set of circumstances (love for the media, want to tell stories, simple art style)
2. Focus on my favourite aspects of media
This helps with respect to burnout - kinda hard to burnout when you love what you're making! For me, it's character interactions and comics. I want to see my blorbos kiss and if I'm not the one drawing it who will?!
3. Interact with people
People eat up work that they can interact with. A choose your own story situation, one of those like/rt to strip a character 😭 those do numbers for a reason.
Additionally, if you post stuff people love, people will respond to it with comments, maybe their own headcanons, adding on to the work... I've gone into long looong Twitter thread conversations with people who added onto my ideas that I threw up onto the screen and I think it's also a nice thing to do to respond to positive comments haha... I'm not very good at this (read: bad at communication)
I think that's the key points... Hope this helps!
#people who are good at social media are good at marketing basically#theyre their own hype man who has something cool to show#and would like to show everyone that cool thing!#its not purely about art its also about charisma and trying to get people to be convinced that youre cool as well#thats why there are social media influencers#people who vlog and get popular because of the way they present themselves#me i am very much my own hype man#not really because im particularly good at art (im not) but because i have so many thoughts in my head that i want to share#and i need people to also be poisoned by these thoughts so i enthusiastically promote it#side eyes the blood soup comic i dedicated like 20 pages to#on my end it comes from the love of media and my desire to build upon the established canon#but i understand that not everyone is so intensely passionate about their own work... but yknow#you need to love your own art in order for it to succeed#just like you need to love yourself before you can grow as a person#its easy for me to say because i do have social media attention though#i remember so desperately chasing social media validation when i was 16#so really i cant really say much regarding that haha#but do watch the video and hopefully it helps!#i wrote so many words...#heph answered
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me in the day thinking abt tsp: hehe funny british man get mad n pissy, buckets and average man
me at 2am: narry do you ever wonder if my worries of designing you in an original way are, in a sense, dramatic irony when considering the fact that its very much related to the topics of ultra deluxe, where both of us got stuck in the cycle of feeling anxious over changing ourselves for the sake of pleasing others and of fear of driving them away, only to realise that in giving external reviews of our art power and desperately trying to appeal to all of them do we end up losing the original joy of the art? do you think its fucked up how through this experience, ive ended up with a skip button ending of my own where ive been forcing myself to make the content i think others would love instead of the ones i love personally. would a redesign even feel fitting? should i forgo the whole originality aspect and just let you be yourself, like how i should let myself make the art i want to make, and let you speak and be heard rather than skipped over?
the narrator, tired: For fucks sake, go tO BED-
#ozzy vent#(??? kinda?)#these have been my thoughts recently abt my narrys design#truth be told i have so many ideas for tsp thst i never do bc it never seems to get a lot of notes#i have since been working to distance from depending on likes and reblogs but its hard sjfjsjf#i love my narry i love my virgil my old man#but by god this is the first design/oc/interpretation of a character thats grown alongside me#however with the new year i hope to work on healing this weird state i am with tsp#i love it dearly#the game the community (though at times things get rough) and the characters themselves#but next year i want to make the tsp content i wanted to make this year#ill be replaying the game more n trying to form my own thoughts on certain endings and aspects#and... ill be enjoying it hopefully#not worrying about trends or overarching rp n stories#but on the stuff that makes me happy#anyways sorry for the lack of posts recently ajdjjaf#ill be back soon i hope#in the meantime it is now 3am#ozzies tsp rambles#good night
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Is your pfp an oc of urs? Any story?
yah that's N.K.
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primer: a former god of fear who has since resigned, and now runs what is essentially an intergalactic tourist trap on his cursed planet, simply known as ''nk's domain''
i don't really do "stories" per se i just have my guys in their 'verse and they have their lore and sometimes that's actionable in a plot sort of way, but most of the time they are just doing their things. nk is one of my oldest oc's and as such probably the most, like, centralizing? nk's domain is sort of a meetup hub for most other characters that don't have their own defined Thing going on, as well as what several characters' Things are directly related to, but nk himself isn't all that much of an active player any more and most of the current story type stuff i'm working with has kinda moved beyond him.
aside from that it's just his history tying him to other stuff; there's a lotta old-guard guys who fuckin hate him back from when he was still doing the whole 'reign of terror' fear deity thing [nk used to stand for 'nightmare king' but he just goes by nk now], there's a bunch a new-guard guys he's pissed off for being the main force behind the universal outlawing of capitalism[honestly not that important and some worlds still do it anyway bc gods are bad at caring enough to actually enforce their rules unless it's like a Really egregious violation], and there's also the history of said "cursed planet" itself [he didnt do that he doesnt know why its like that he just saw it wand went ooooh free real estate. but theres a reason its like that and he's starting to pay the price for having taken it over [accidentally unleashed an imprisoned god-parasite plague][uh oh][its that yellow thing in the last image][this is actually what my "main" "story"/alleged webcomic is about] [go here go in the dark]]
#obligatory disclaimer again all of my working with oc stuff is going to remain dormant until i get out of pizza hell#which i dont know how long that will take. another year maybe. hopefully not that long but hey. im having fun here#i said i would start working on tumblr-formatted refposts for my guys and ummm wellll i did not do that#eventually. we'll get there eventually#everybody want nk's ass dead so bad. smile#though since retiring his priority on most people's hitlists has sunk considerably#which is a good thing too since he's also gotten considerably weaker since retiring. stupid mechanics behind being a god you understand#still very much a god though so he's really only got to worry about shit if another god comes for him#but most consider themselves above his level these days.#that and the uhhh anti-god weaponry but ive not built that stuff out super well yet
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Queer M/F relationships in Stranger Things. . .I said it before, but I can't remember if I added Sue and Charles. I don't know how, but they're queer. Far from the heteronormative, far from forced conformity. . .not queer enough for some, but they're the queerest of them all, whether together or apart they're alway queer. . .here, there, and everywhere with man, woman, or non binary, their hearts are strong and queer. (And transgender, of course, but that's a given when I said man and woman as well as non binary, but I had to write it out. I love writing it out. Transgender. Oh, I did it again. Transgender. . .it sort of rolls of the tongue, doesn't it? It's tough for you all out there, much love from a gender fluid bisexual [still confused, is genderfluid part of the trans community or does it have its own flag? Oof, got off topic] Love you! 🥰) For all who are in an M/F relationship and who feel like you're less than queer, I'm here to tell you that you are not. All to love and love to all.
You guys are welcome to add on with a reblog if I missed a couple. ❤️
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#stranger things#steve harrington#eddie munson#nancy wheeler#jonathan byers#joyce byers#jim hopper#mike wheeler#el hopper#lucas sinclair#max mayfield#dustin henderson#suzie bingham#sue sinclair#charles sinclair#stancy#jancy#hellcheer#lumax#mileven#jopper#queer m/f relationships#rueleigh's headcanon#rueleigh's feeling down about their sexuality#rueleigh's trying to cheer themselves up#it worked!#hopefully i'll cheer someone else up too#rueleigh's thoughts#rueleigh's random thoughts
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Just finished rereading ITNL chapter 2 again
Yknow, it's long felt like a weaker chapter to me, especially compared to chapter 1. It's a Necessary chapter, but it's basically an entire chapter of introspection. Add in the fact that I wrote it in a single day and was half falling asleep by the end of editing it, but pressing onwards anyways bc I wanted So Badly to get it out that night...
The Legato part was the weakest for that. I remember staring at it and breaking my brain just trying to make it sound better before just giving up and posting. But when I worked on my full-fic re-edits about.. a year ago now? A year and a bit. I think it was October ish of 2023. But I focused on that part again, trying to get it up to my standards to be satisfied with it.
Coming back to it after some number of months, my brain relatively fresh, I think I actually did a pretty decent job. Despite being an introspective chapter, it really drives home how Wrecked vash is about it all. I like to say that chapter 1 is like a thesis to the fic, where you get vash's goals laid out pretty clearly (him picturing the things he wants to fix + him picturing his dream of having all the people he loves around a table with him, including Knives. It serves as motivation for him jumping back in time in the first place and it remains his driving force throughout the fic). In contrast, chapter 2 is... almost a secondary thesis. We see his doubt, his fears, his panic. We see the things that he's going to be struggling with throughout the whole fic. His wish to handle it all on his own, as well as how overwhelming it all is to him. Chapter 2 is the necessary second side to chapter 1's thesis, showing the weakness in his own strength and drive.
The cracks in his own unstoppable force.
Idk it's just interesting to me. Having been away from it long enough, I think I really do appreciate chapter 2 after all.
#speculation nation#itnl shit#kinda wanna post Thoughts for each chapter as i work on rereading this fic#anecdotes about what i remember doing while writing and thoughts about the chapters themselves.#part of my goal with rereading this fic is to reconnect myself with who i was while i was writing it.#ive changed so much since then that it feels like a different person wrote this fic. which gets in the way of my immersion#and is part of why it's been so long since i last updated.#i tried to force it back in july. managed to get a chapter out but im not entirely satisfied with it.#im probably gonna try to do some editing on it when i get to that point. there are a few things i want to improve about it.#the key thing being that i just Cant force it or else the finished product wont be to the level of quality i want#and i cant Keep writing in the same way i would if i was fully immersed.#this isnt to say chapter 19 is bad. people seemed to really like it. but theres just... something missing from it for me. just a bit.#i think the thing that most influences my writing's quality is how much i put myself into the character's brain#so even if the prose itself isnt the most masterful. the writing is so in touch with the character's mind that it's really impactful.#i'd like to think at least 😅#but the other side of that is the fact that my writing just isnt as good if im not fully invested and immersed. it just isnt.#so that was the problem with 19. and im gonna try to fix those parts where that feels most apparent.#the chapter will overall be the same. just. this is my perfectionism speaking probably lol#anyways yes. full reread to really get back into it. replying to comments to remember that people love my fic.#engaging with readers and also with my own analysis. i think that this will help a lot with re-engaging myself.#and if i do this right then it wont be many months before another update again.#i'll be able to go back into it and Stay in it. for hopefully Plenty more chapters and updates#gonna write at least 100k of ITNL this next year Just You Watch. maybe even more if i can manage it.#💪💪💪💪💪 i believe in myselfffff
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I needed a serious break from animations so here's so quick doodles of the lastest chapter of @tsukithewolf's SWIM
#rl stuff really sucks and i'm doing my best to get through it#while also working on my own project#but i really wanted to draw swim after the cute baseball chapter#so to do that quickly i went with the walkthrough's artsyle to do it#and it's been way too long since i've drawn omori stuff#i really wish i was one of those artists that enjoyed drawing things for themselves but alas#i still got a bunch of ideas and stuff planned to draw for swim#so hopefully i can finish my project and get back to that#my art#omori#omori fanart#omori fanfic#omori sunny#omori hero#omori mari#omori kel#omori aubrey#omori basil#swim against the tide
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Just finished reading pez dispenser debris.
Firstly: crying, screaming, throwing up, ball’s to the wall insane. I am taking this fic between my teeth and shaking it furiously like a dog with its favorite toy. I am running circles in my enclosure just to bleed off some of the emotions this experience has given me.
Secondly: this fic is heart wrenching. All of the things I would’ve wished had been addressed in canon content of BNHA. How does Horikoshi throw away one of the biggest points that enraptures the audience into caring about Izuku? How does the narrative seemingly forget the entire reason he was so fervent in chasing his dream as a hero? I think this is one of the biggest gripes I have about the series, and it’s the one that’s only ever been remedied by amazing fic writers like you.
How do you face the part of yourself you’ve seemingly buried and forgotten? How do you come to terms with the fact that horrible things happened to you by no fault of your own? What’s the fallout of realizing that the people who should’ve cared and protected you might’ve also been hurting you all along?
Where do you even begin in this entire mess?
A part of me, despite the fantastical elements of the medium itself, feels so incredibly seen by this. It’s incredibly difficult, making amends with the part of yourself that was so deeply hurt in the past. It’s a part of life, i think, to learn to walk beside that part of you, to lay it to rest and acknowledge that it will always be there. Izuku, of course, has done none of this, and in this lies the crutch of the matter that’s the center of this fic. I’m happy I stumbled across this fic, even though I haven’t consumed BNHA content in years.
That being said, do you allow any works inspired by your own? I need to put down some of the emotional toll this fic has done to me on paper. Apologies for the ramble, i am just really passionate about this fic. Hope to see more of your work in the future!
I’m so so happy you like it! I wanted pez dispenser debris to be this horrible reconciliation with the part of you that was still hurt and mad about it, and I’m so glad that resonated.
And absolutely, go for it! I’m thrilled it made enough of an impact to make you want to make something too. I do usually ask that you stick in a note or link or something giving credit to the original fic, and if you’re comfortable with it, send me a link to anything you publish and I’d love to boost it here!
#pez dispenser debris#I’m sooo happy you like it#and if you do make and post any fics inspired by it please show me them I’d love to see them and reblog a link#so other people that follow me can see them too#I do generally ask that you stick a little nod into the original fic#in part because I do tend to reuse concepts or backstories or details across my fics especially if I write anything else in the fandom#(I do this egregiously with my daredevil fanfics)#and it saves me trouble from people thinking I lifted my own plots from other fics inspired by one of my earlier works#I’ve been doing fanfic on and off for a decade and it’s happened once or twice where someone’s messaged about lifting my own stuff#and I was always like ‘what.’#it saves me trouble in the long run#there’s less confusion#but I am always thrilled when people like my stuff enough to want to create themselves#please go nuts and have fun and hopefully one day I get to read it too
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૮꒰ྀི ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶ ꒱ྀིა just hoppin on through to give you all a lil good mornin smooch! mwah!
#hiiii!! ໒꒰ྀི◜ ཅ ◝ ꒱ྀི১◞♡ im not 100% back yet but i just popped on rq to say helloooo!!#doin a lil bit better but i think i’ll feel even more relaxed next wk when things HOPEFULLY work themselves out :// so fingers crossed!!#but imya so so SO MUCH!!! have the best thurs ever!! ◝(⁰▿⁰)◜#ᕱ⑅ᕱ.* journals!
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OK so. I'm doing some research and it does seem like I might indeed have bugged out Karlach's romance by not recruiting her in time to fix her heart the first time in Act I. (Reddit poster indicates that only getting the option to hug and not kiss her when she gets the second upgrade means that you're SOL.)
This sucks.
As I see it, I have a couple options here:
Replay Hector's entire game and get the romance scenes in Act I.
Finish the game with no romance.
Hack the game with console commands.
#1 would be a bummer because I have enjoyed writing Hector's slow-burn interest developing and I feel like it makes a lot more sense for him to be properly falling for her now. And I don't want to undo all the writing I've already done.
#2 is also a bummer for obvious reasons.
#3, however, is intriguing. The aforementioned Reddit poster went on to say this:
This seems promising! I'm going to give this a try. It would entail rewriting that one particular scene (or just skipping it and pretending the kiss at that point didn't happen) but otherwise doesn't really have to change anything, I think, and would fit solidly with Hector's existing story.
Wish me luck! Diving into the console world. [puts on hacker glasses]
#bjk plays baldur's gate 3#hector carlisle#it's super amusing to me that every other companion has been fucking throwing themselves at hector#and the one i actually want to romance is completely locked out#hopefully this works
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weekend melancholy is starting to kick in >~<
#im gonna go and do my food shop etc to keep myself busy and hopefully my 2nd meds will kick in and we'll be able to handle it together#i think i kind of do this so regularly bc my brain is just processing everything bc i dont rly have time during the week#all cool tho im doing good overall def on the up n i feel way more capable of coping emotionally which is nice. i <3 meds#also.. possibly settling on the idea that i might be agender. very tentatively. lots of experiences n thoughts coming together rn#ive been reacting in unexpected ways to a lot of gendered shit atm which has made me reconsider the way i think abt myself#but very difficult to articulate it to myself let alone anyone else. so ive been sitting with it for now until it precipitates#gender stuff has never rly affected me much or ive never been in a place to explore it which is why i havent thought abt it super hard#but im not the sort of person who needs a lot of internal exploration to figure out my identity like im v self aware tbh#and while im wildly indecisive abt most things in my life for some reason i never have been abt stuff like this. i learned abt lesbianism#like idk 9 years ago-ish and straight away was like yeah that makes sense for me. never looked back since#n similarly ive experienced forms of gender dysphoria before n just immediately dealt with it symptomatically n moved on#its never been smth to agonise abt for me like i know what makes me comfortable in my skin so theres no question abt doing it#and ik im privileged to be able to do that. and also it helps that gender for me is mostly divorced from external perceptions#+ that im v autistic so social pressures dont stick to me very well. i mean yeah i was bullied for it as a kid but i was stubborn asf#so yeah from the moment i realised i was genuinely uncomfortable/upset abt it earlier this week i was like okay. lets try this instead#its given me pretty instant relief from any distress i was feeling so far which is nice. rare respite from one of my torture labyrinths#just testing out internally whether it frames things more clearly n makes me feel more myself/at peace before i choose to stick w the idea#but not gonna do a whole coming out fanfare either way. dont think i wanna change how ppl interact w me + im still a dyke#so i dont consider it relevant to anyone else unless they share a similar understanding of gender to me. or if we're v close#ill prolly broach it w other trans friends eventually bc insert philosophers talking image. but to everyone else its business as usual#happy to play my cis-sona at work. + w new queer ppl i meet ive been introducing myself recently w mirrored pronouns instead of any/all#and i think i prefer that. virtually indistinguishable but theres smth nice abt inviting ppl to recognise me the way they do themselves#like translating + localising a non-gendered language into a gendered one... simplifying decisions abt how to perceive me#and ofc ppl are still gonna perceive me however but idc much unless we're actually friends. the rest is all a performance anyway#doubtful anyone on here ever has reason to refer to me but if u do for some reason... im freeloading off ur pronouns now btw <3#but yeahhh. much 2 think abt. i need to read more alien/ai sci fi.. non-human sentience has been such a comforting concept lately#but yea tldr i woke up one morning this week like damn im prolly agender but i have a full time job to go to rn so idc abt that#.diaries#okkkk my dex is kicking in im no longer on the verge of tears lets go get these groceries wooohoooo
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the absolute vicious shit people think they have to say whenever the topic of 'picky eaters' comes up ESPECIALLY when it's about children is just sickening
#post : my child doesn't like carrots so I#rando : WELL I WOULD JUST *describes a thousand different ways to abuse a child* AND IM THE NORMAL ONE HERE#adult : i can't eat fish because#rando : LMAO GROW UP WHAT ARE YOU 5 FUCKING IDIOT LOL JUST STARVE FISH HAS GOOD VITAMINS JUST KYS#have y'all tried not being dicks about other people's diets ffs#especially when it's like. a video showing how a parent is successfully introducing new foods to their picky kid#like Oh they only like cheese crackers so i'm gradually nudging them towards grilled cheese sandwiches with these steps#and then hopefully use the grilled cheese as a base to introduce other types of sandwiches etc#and it's just. it works. it's respectful of the kid's boundaries. it's healthy.#and Still a thousand people just jump to say INSTEAD OF DOING THIS THING THAT WORKS TRY BEATING HIS ASS (WHICH WONT WORK)#so many people are fucking eager to tell you they Love violence against kids who have no way to defend themselves#that they're fucking sludgebrains who haven't come up with actual parenting techniques#so all they know is ''hit child'' or ''yell'' like a fucking level 1 pokémon#that they view the small young people they have agreed to take care of as dolls that must obey or get thrown against the wall in a tantrum#if your entire plans for parenting are ''i'm just gonna use violence until my human toything complies'' don't become a fucking parent#Anyway this was about picky eating and how people don't know how to mind their business about it#why are you so pressed about what someone else Doesn't put in their mouth. why are you so weird#humans come with a variety of tastes in anything from fashion to colors to home decor to favorite animal#and you can't fucking fathom that they'll also Not all want or like to eat the same things ? fucking cringe
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