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Just thinking out loud, but I see a lot of older generations (not even boomers, as young as Milennials) criticizing Gen Z for bringing up the sake shit they did.
"Well it's never gonna change! You think I had motivation to work?? You suck it up!" Well...it won't change with that attitude. And further more, aren't you pissed the cycle didn't end with you?? Isn't that what you fought for? And here we are worse off?
It's like they HAVE to be the winner of "who had it worse". There is no gold medalist in the Trauma Olympics, just a team of broken individuals.
Of course Boomers worked hard, they had their own issues.
Gen X worked hard, and lost their retirements twice and some may never retire
Milennials have lost their 401k once already and many don't own houses while others spent years overseas in a war we couldn't win.
Gen Z has never had a 401k, most will likely not ever own a home, we're at the front lines of a lot of mininum wage jobs and blamed for not spending money we don't have.
Gen Alpha is gonna worse off than us if we don't stop pointing fingers.
No one should have to struggle this much. So when we come out saying "we have no motivation to do anything bc nothing is getting better and politics are actively working to destroy workers rights" That's not us saying older ppl didn't have it hard! But it sure is a cry for fucking help.
Why are younger folks so angry? Bc when we ask for help from our elders we get told to fuck ourselves and suck it up. Why would we respect that??? Of course we're going to get angry! How would you feel if you asked for help and your kid said "fuck you." You'd be pissed!
Let's all be pissed at the real villains here...corporations, government, and 1% bastards. Government works for the people, and if we don't like how it's working? We have the right to demand and push for change. No more trauma Olympics. Walk out of the arena, stop playing the game. We're all tired and burnt out and angry and we have every right to be. Let's take back control for what future we have left.
#and before anyone assumes anything...#i work 2 jobs and do multiple side hustles to survive and my hard work hasnt rewarded me#i take extra shifts and show up on time and put in countless hours of hard work and yet im still struggling#i dont buy anything for myself...i dont buy lattes or go out and spend money bc i cant#its a very lonely existence and it feels unending#so yeah im pissed that my parents fought for a better life for me and this is what i got bc this isnt what they wanted for me#and i dont want my family struggling either! its BS! and you all know it.#please be kind...srsly people are so awful already just make a point to try and understand#barista looks tired and isnt as chipper? Try thinking of how their day started “man i bet theyre super tired and its really busy”
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sometimes its really obvious how much people dont actually believe presentation=/=gender when they see their nonbinary friend go from extremely masculine to relaxing back into femininity once theyre comfortable with their gender and every time they call it detransitioning with zero indication thats what their friend is calling it. i dont know how to tell you this but sometimes you present a certain way for social reasons and not because thats how you actually feel. sometimes you experience dysphoria about your body that is actually related to how people view you and not how you feel about your body. i really dont think its that uncommon for trans people to swing really hard in one direction for the affirmation and then relax back into a different presentation once they are more comfortable in their gender
#txt#gekkering#idk how to word this but genuinely if you see your friend growing more comfortable in their body and presentation and assume theyre detransi#tioning without them telling you that you should be ashamed and i hope your friend finds someone who is more accepting of experiences they d#dont personally relate to#butch trans women exist femme trans men exist and very masculine AND very feminine nonbinary people exist#i hated my body most of all when i focused on how other people view me. and before anyone accuses me of anything not that you need to but i#do have other dysphoria but its not NEARLY as severe as when i was younger and was obsessed with how other people gendered me#and if that does still bother you thats okay im not saying people who arent bothered by being misgendered are unreasonable or should get ove#r it or anything#but THATS why sometimes your dysphoria from when you first came out can drastically contradict the way you present later in life#such as transmasc people no longer wanting to bind or transfem people no longer wanting to tuck
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Feeling slightly deranged over Sonic but unable to articulate why
#knox rambles#is it the fact that he’s silly goofy guy who’s scarily compentant at the drop of a hat?#is it that he’s selfish enough to dislike but selfless enough that you can’t hate him?#is it the fact that movie sonic has such a tragic backstory that it makes him the perfect person to understand everyone else and their hurt?#is it the fact that to my knowledge OG sonic doesn’t really have a family or backstory he could just be anything anyone and never tells#anyone anything about himself before he was with his friends?#is it the fact that everyone assumes Shadow is the edgy one but i think sonic is secretly the edgiest out of the two of them?#is it the fact that he seems to be a vessel for any type of power and his physical form will morph and change to be a better suited vessel#to carry that power???#WHO KNOWS I’VE GOT A LOT OF CHAOTIC THOUGHTS AND I’M FEELING DERANGED IN NO PARTICULAR DRIECTION ALL AT ONCE
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In middle school, I used to draw on myself with sharpie all the way from my fingertips to my shoulder, just small doodles that formed a big sleeve at the end, and for the most part I got away with it, but ONE time during art class I did it again and while my art teacher didn't care (in fact I think he thought it was cool) there was a friend of mine who was suddenly like "look at what you did to yourself. you're gonna get skin cancer with all that sharpie on you. come here so I can wash that off you" and she pulled me to the sink, held me in place, and started scrubbing my whole arm with hand soap in the back of class for like 25 minutes. I was lowkey flustered the whole time like "I wanna sit down already" but she didn't care. she just lightly scolded me a bit more in spanish and kept cleaning me until my arm was completely free of ink. I don't know what my point is. I guess I'm just wondering "did that look gay to the audience? did that event mold me into the person I am today?"
#text#I didn't have a crush on her or anything before anyone assumes#but. she was/is very pretty to me even though we don't talk anymore#and after that I was like ''I kinda want to sit close to her after this bonding experience'' but then I realized how I looked#and gave her space
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is there an actual part in trk that i just don't remember that says ronan made adam sleep in declan's room or did everyone just decide that, because i feel like i'm the only one who never read it that way? i always took it as ronan probably being too wired to sleep, but adam -- being both very practical and always tired -- did need to sleep, but i feel like he wouldn't want to be presumptuous so took declan's room instead of ronan's.
like i absolutely understand that ronan is catholic and everything but i cannot for the life of me imagine ronan telling adam that he is not allowed to sleep in his bed lmao.
#maybe this is me taking the 'he was never sleeping again' line too literally but i always just assumed#that adam wanted to sleep and ronan couldn't/didn't want to#because there's the bit the next day after adam goes outside and finds ronan where they were both 'clearly taking nothing for granted'#or whatever the line was which kinda goes hand in hand in my adam not wanting to assume anything theory#as well as ronan maybe no longer knowing where they stand now that they've spent the night apart?#idk i just always thought that was an interesting fandom thing because i just didn't read it as adam being Not Allowed in ronan's bed#(alternatively adam just knew he wouldn't get any sleep if he shared with ronan?#or maybe i just suffer from always thinking about adam's perspective before anyone else's disease lmao)#pynch#trc
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finding out ur coworker is way older than you thought and having to very quickly reorient how you talk to them
#art#traditional art#watercolour#fanart#synthv#synthesizer v#genbu#kasane teto#rikka is also here :) i think she likes to cause problems sometimes. because all the adults in her life are dweebs#and very easy to cause problems with <3#anyone else have this happen before. im older than a lot of my university peers and i always have been#because i took 5 years in highschool and my undergrad has been like 6 years and counting#(hashtag learning disability <3 ) and like thats chill to me i dont mind#but now i usually assume everyones way younger than me and i get shocked when theyre not. a buddy in some of my classes#when i first met her i absolutely and completely assumed she was like barely 19 and talked to her as such#like i dont talk down to people or anything but i do soften the way i talk a bit and give a bit extra patience with younger peers#cause yknow. i remember what it was like being 19. being 26 is WAY easier lol so i wanna give em a bit of leeway yknow#anyway a few months after meeting her i found out she was actually a year older than me and a grad student when she ended up as a TA in#another class i took. i felt so bad. we bonded tho and she didnt mind she thought it was kinda funny when i was like WAIT UR A GRAD STUDENT#i thought she was like a first or second year undergrad..............#also yeah im a 31yo teto fan. i dont mind the popular fanon that she has a separate age that makes her actually 15 and#i dont mind that more interpretations have her like that BUT for my internal canon she is a grown ass woman because i think its fun <3#she pays taxes. she goes to work parties. she can rent a car. i love it#let teto rent a car. let her rent a car.#yknow im exicted to be 31. i still got a few more years of being a 20 something which is fun. but being a 30 something sounds like it rules
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you begin to realize jsut how powerful of a creative medium photography can be
#Before having ventured in taking pictures of them myself i doubted the worth of what my own attempts would be like#Perhaps i figured it would just be like anyone else who takes pictures of them because i incorrectly assumed that-#-it wouldnt be the same as drawing. that there would be no stylistic factors. obviously this is wrong.#The whole process is as much of a canvas as any kind of art can be and this is just true. I can make anything in any way.#smiling for a moment at this#gizzbox#photobox
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#lotta new people around these days heyyyy guys welcome!!#but just a note on tumblr use and stuff.... tags on posts are assumed to be the reblogger's thoughts thats what we use that for#I knwo tumblr makes it easy to just copy someone's tags in when reblogging from them and#if you like someone's thoughts and want to reblog them on your blog cool! but please put prev tags-> before or something else like that#to let people know that they aren't reading something you wrote and to let people know who did say the words they are reading#Because otherwise you are presenting that as being YOUR WORDS! which is a weird thing to do with someone's personal ramblings!#but it's becoming really common around here :/#I know people just don't realize... but I am mentioning it! so now you do know!#ugh I keep not saying anything because I dont want anyone to feel called out but like. its been bothering me for a long time#its WEIRD to get in my notifs like oh nice someone had smth to say lets see what it is... oh wait what#that's MY tags#and its getting more and more widespread#like I love when people think my thoughts are worthy of repeating! its an honor! but please. just be clear that they are prev tags😭#on the other hand if you do know and just don't feel like crediting- actually fuck off. stop.
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oh also. wind breaker characters who don't know what sex is: sakura, sugishita, chika, sako
#lyz talks#wind breaker#ok rationale for everyone :) basically sakura just doesn't know about anything so he wouldn't know about sex either#sugishita slept through the big deal sex talk. he doesn't give a fuck. but umetsuba r planning to tell him one day they swear#chika can barely comprehend friendship his ass does NOT know what sex is. congrats endo u can teach him. hands on lessons#sako SHOULD know but he ditched hiragi before hiragi could tell him#cuz hiragi was gonna tell kaji and sako but then sako got mad at him for going to furin. also hiragi's the only reason kaji knows about sex#“why didn't anyone else tell sako” well they all jsut assumed that sako knew already.#actually on that note. inugami might not know what sex is either hm.
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rennie whats your shoe size
Why? Do you plan to purchase new ones for me? Relay your question to the doctor, I have no time for such trivial concerns.
#notes from my cell#I haven't had anyone attempt to gift me shoes before. unless you're not trying to give me anything. are you trying to steal them?!#“rennie”? why do you assume we're so intimate with each other? we're not friends!!#this question and the one about my molars must be from the same individual. they're both very odd.#renfield#rm renfield#r.m. renfield#dracula#dracula 1897#dracula novel#dracula book#bram stoker#dracula 1931#universal monsters#dracula daily#re dracula#re: dracula#rp blog#roleplay blog#rp#roleplay#ask blog
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actually piggybacking off that last reblog i think we need to admit that the best way to describe the edgeworth and kay dynamic is “gay teenager and that one english teacher”
#steph’s post tag#ace attorney investigations#ace attorney#miles edgeworth#kay faraday#like yeah sure she makes a comment about him being like a dad. That’s because 1. she lost her dad very young#2. gay teenagers say that sort of thing to their English teachers all the time#3. yamazaki has a tendency to write teenagers as acting younger than they are#also before anyone comments on it. No if he was a high school teacher he wouldn’t teach english#he’d teach another language. most people would assume german but he speaks so many#so it really could be anything
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While im going at it im not even gonna lie I DESPISE THE GRIDDLEHARK SHIP WITH MY WHOLE SOUL AND IANTHARK EVEN MORE BECAUSE WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK.
I cant fully describe it but harrow and gideons relationship was something way more than just romantic. Attracted to eachother and in denial perhaps, but i disagree with romantic being the primary nature of their relationship. The second they stopped hating eachother and got along more than the BARR minimum Gideon threw herself on a fucking spike to save Harrow. How could they have had enough time to love eachother.
Secondly, Ianthe is just absolutely slimy. I dont like that she was 22 and harrow was not even 18 and she decided that she wanted harrow as her wife. I do not like it at all. Ianthe took advantage of harrows vulnerability and to her attraction to harrow was predatory.
#Okay im done now#Stating that something is your opinion before saying it is to me pretty much entirely stupid because anything that isnt a concrete fact is#An opinion which should be assumed the second anyone says anything not backed by data or past events etc#pride month#the locked tomb#Sapphic tradgedy#tlt#tlt spoilers#ianthe tridentarius#gideon nav#harrowhark nonagesimus#harrow nonagesimus#harrow the ninth#griddlehark#I only dislike the ship when its presented in a way that i feel demeans the complexity of their relationship#Whats a papusa#The locked tomb will have me salty til the day i die
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i just spent the last 40 minutes rescuing a large wasp from the web of a small spider that was way too threatened by it to even attempt the bite and just left it alone.. one side of it was pretty badly tangled but it ended up just sitting in my hand as i slowly pulled pieces away. i couldn't get all of it off but i did get enough that its wings were free and it had use of all its legs. then i took it outside and placed it on a plant where it went to work grooming itself T_T i hope it'll be okay
#fray.txt#bugs#insects#wasps#spiders#<- for all them Filters#also if anyone comments anything like WASPS BAD AND EVIL i will block ur ass just a warning#ive never had a wasp be so passive with me before i assume it was just hyperfocused on saving its own life that it didnt see me as a threat
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gang i have to share this P. G. Wodehouse quote with you all because ever since I found it I can't stop thinking about it. it's from a letter he wrote when he was 78 years old to his friend Guy Bolton (many thanks to P. G. Wodehouse: A Life in Letters)
I have been on the sick list myself, but am better now. Inflamed bladder or chill on the bladder or something, the symptoms being agony when I passed water, as the expression is. It brought back the brave old days when I used to get clap.
he really said "yeah the pain from my bladder issue reminds of the days when I used to have so much sex I repeatedly got venereal disease"
#red randomness#p. g. wodehouse#he was so known for not having sex with his beloved wife#that i truly didn't expect this at all#i feel like i see a lot of people saying with a great deal of confidence that he was sex-repulsed ace#especially due to the wife thing#but while he certainly may have been ace on some level#i feel like at the very least this casts some doubt on the sex-repulsed part lmao#i suppose it's possible he was lying but wouldn't this be such a specific and unnecessary lie in this context?#especially for a private letter to a friend he'd known and worked with for decades#because he really didn't even need to bring it up#of course i am open to evidence to the contrary#i just dislike seeing overconfident opinions broadly prevail#even when aspects of a real person's life suggest the possibility of otherwise#the study of history is meant to breed discussion!#and something that goes against the grain of past assumption is certainly worth discussing imo#also very grateful to the unpublished monograph by George Simmers about Honeysuckle Cottage#because that's how i found out about this letter in the first place!#great monograph mr. simmers please publish it someday#opened my third eye about the potential latent homosexuality in that story (among other things)#and at risk of having someone get mad at me or say i'm trying to like. diminish or slander the ace community by saying this#please don't assume that. that's why i've been afraid to share this before.#i'm not confidently stating wodehouse is anything. he's a real man who lived and i didn't know him#but by the same token neither does anyone else#i'm just as tired of people in history who have a fair amount of suggestion of being aroace being broadly assumed gay#despite evidence to the contrary#or people confidently assigning queerness to historical figures when evidence of them being queer in any way is ambiguous at best#everything in history is a maybe. we just collect facts and analyze them.#and my current analysis based on this line is that i'm not sure i think he was very sex-repulsed after all#(but like. i'm not going around insulting or fighting people about it in dms or something. and neither should you)
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ew i hate looking back on any social media and seeing my old cringe posts (especially on tiktok) like help!!!! that isn’t me anymore don’t look please!!!! 😅 i can barely handle my current cringe posts don’t make me revisit the past please!!!! i am working so hard to constantly keep growing and learning and changing my mindset and becoming a better me every day and i am no longer that version of myself and i do not know her like that anymore. but dang like her reminants are still out there lingering and i do not like it one bit… 😔
#lena.txt#be gone thoughts#mini vent#this is true of real life as well like don’t perceive me in such a way please that girl is long gone#this is the only downside to constantly growing and learning#you get to feel like shit everytime you reflect on the past#like i love knowing better and doing better i just wish i’d always known better#how do you get rid of the shame#how do you stop feeling guilty about the version of you that didn’t know better#at least i have a long life ahead of me to keep learning and growing and becoming the best version of me i can be#i have to remember that#i really do appreciate having my thoughts and ideas challenged bc a lot of times it helps me see from a new perspective#and even learn something new or come to better understanding of where someone else is coming from#bc regardless of whether or not having my beliefs or ideas challenged changes my mind or not i still appreciate it#bc it gives me an opportunity to see something i didn’t see before and reflect on my own thoughts and beliefs#i’ve grown to almost like being corrected when i make a mistake or do something wrong bc everything is an opportunity to better myself#but the shame that comes along with it is something i have yet to unlearn#why am i talking about this now i’ve strayed too far away from the point#this was supposed to be about my old dumb blog posts lol#like i said i love the opportunities to learn and grow and do better#but sometimes it makes me feel like i’m just a blank slate that people project their ideas onto#i know it’s not true and i am passionate in my core values and beliefs but i always assume everyone is smarter than me#i assume everyone else knows better than me and i am always the last to know anything or the last to figure it out#and sometimes i take everything anyone says to me as an absolute truth when they don’t actually know any better than me#and then it becomes ingrained in my head and it’s so hard to get it out and fully reject the idea#all these disorders are driving me crazy man#i hate having bpd and i hate having ocd relating to morality#i wake up every morning and suddenly hate everything i said or did the previous day#like do i even think what i think???#who am i??? where am i going???
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I have some more Rook concepts but they're both Crows:
Human woman, uses seduction, but is getting older and ponders if that's all her life was ever worth, and if she's a hollow shell if her looks are fading. Romance Emmerich?
Elf man, also uses seduction, but grows fond of Bellara and his clever words are taken too literally / misunderstood / etc, so he has to be genuine for once in his life.
Chat, what are we feeling?
#DA4 Tag#Before anyone says anything#I am aware the game assumes Rook is young but I don't care#If I do romance Emmerich that Rook is gonna be 50 at the youngest
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