#actual aspd

[sinnew]

BPD isnt the only cluster b personality disorder (newsflash)

[ashleytism]

posting this on my official drag account cause im angry

hey people with bpd!!! youre not better than anyone else in your cluster just because your sexualised and not demonised

i was recently diagnosed with bpd and all i have seen around when trying to educate myself is "oh narcisists are abusers, oh antisocials are murders"

friendly reminder that when bpd is represented in media we are often potrayed as stalkers !!!!

social media has turned bpd into "cool, quirky, and hot" disorder when our disorder is DEFINED by dysfunction.

another friendly reminder that people with bpd when discussed in an acedemic setting are also potrayed as abusers and manipulators.

we are no better than the narcisists and sociopaths. this post is not to bring people with bpd down but to uplift narcisists and sociopaths.

you are not a monster for being cluster B, stop being a fucking pick me and saying that your "not like the other cluster Bs" and fight for liberation instead

[delicate---bones]

i feel myself turning off every single time. it’s like clockwork. the energy, the emotions, the passion, the sensitivity - if any - just drains out of me and suddenly I just couldn’t care less if you paid me. what I’m trying to say is: good luck.

[xx-world-class-fuck-up-xx]

Oh, sweetie, I never meant to hurt you... My love got attached to someone else and he's all I can think about, all I can dream about... and I know part of me just wants to stab him and eat him whole for being so loveable since I just want to be yours

[majipien]

i am never the problem !! i literally can't be when i'm the prettiest girl in the world !! stay ugly & mad !!

[i-3at-s0ap]

Elon Musk isn't a sociopath Trump isn't a narcissist Jeff Bezos isn't a psycho they are terrible racist bigoted assholes but I'm begging y'all to fucking give a shit about people with personality disorders. PLEASE.

[autopsyfreak]

more products of my chronic boredom.

edit: since so many of you are completely misconstruing the purpose of this meme, the reason why HPD isn’t mentioned on this post is because this is specifically talking about the personality disorders that i have been diagnosed with and the demonisation i’ve experienced.

[hellhoundzzz]

mfs be like "I can handle your disorders" until your disorders disorder disorderly

[carnage-cathedral]

btw guys managing your symptoms also means apologizing for things you didn't mean to do. sometimes you do things because of your disorders that you genuinely didn't mean to do, but if it hurt someone you still have to take accountability and make up for the hurt you caused

[the-bonfires-ember]

fellow narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths,

we're going to hear those words being thrown around a lot over the next few years. more than we already do, which is not an insubstantial amount. i want you to remember that you are not monsters, or fascists, or scum.

as more and more people throw around diagnoses they do not care to understand and words that they do not see as harmful, i want you all to remember that you are not alone and that the entire world is not against you.

there are people out there who care and understand and are not afraid. you are not alone, and you are not unloved.

dont let them make you fearful of yourself, you deserve so much better than that.

stay safe

[ladygrey111]

The whole, "K*lling urself is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" bullshit is spouted by the ignorant lucky ones who have only had temporary problems. Some people's problems are permanent so maybe try offering actual help and support to them rather than regurgitating an overused phrase that means nothing to people with real struggles.

[chronicallyqueercoining2]

"We need more mental health acceptance and awareness!" Y'all still call ppl with cluster b disorders evil 💀

"We need more weird people!" Y'all COMBUST when someone is xenic 💀

"Healthy coping mechanisms are important!" When someone age regresses, you call them creepy 😭

"More people need to be proud of who they are!" When you see a furry, you cry 😭

(U should totes follow me if ur a supporter of these so I can b on the good side of tumblr XD /nf!)

[4ngelfvck]

I asked a friend who is a sociopath (diagnosed with ASPD, he refers to himself as a sociopath which is why I’m calling him that) what love feels like to him and how he knows when he loves someone.

I loved his answer. He said “Routine. If they are a part of my routine and feel familiar and comfortable and I would feel like something is missing if they weren’t there, then I think I love them.”

I have bpd with ASPD traits and I think his answer was so cute. I think that is what love is like for me too but I’ve never heard it so succinctly explained, perfect summarization.

[infernoflorys]

you like me?? for my personality?? the same thing they named my disorder after...????

[takemetodragonstone]

t shirt that says i survived hell and all i got was this stupid personality disorder

[youlookkindadead]

i've seen quite a bit of confusion about this, so let me attempt to clear things up :

empathy is the ability to feel somebody's emotions as though they are affecting you personally. for example, somebody tells you "my dog died last night!" -> you now feel as though you've lost a pet personally -> you feel grief and sadness just like the other person. not everyone has empathy. it's a trait some people develop and others don't. some have high empathy, some have low empathy, some (like me) have none.

sympathy is the ability to understand and care about somebody else's struggles, even if you don't feel them yourself. so, somebody tells you their dog died -> you realize how this affects them emotionally -> you care about this person, and are upset that they are suffering. not everyone has sympathy either! it's a scale, just like empathy.

compassion is doing something to relieve another person's suffering or make them feel better. somebody tells you their dog died -> you don't want them to remain upset -> you come up with ways to help them feel better, like offering comfort and distractions, or other forms of support. compassion is a learned trait, not something you can be born with like empathy or sympathy. anyone can learn to be compassionate, although some may struggle more with it than others; it's a skill, just like anything else.

however, none of these are required to be a good person. that's a choice you make on your own accord. i hope this clears things up!