#ace and aro culture........
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The ace and aro club at school did a Hobbit movie night tonight, and I continue to enjoy just how many aspec people are huge Tolkien fans.
#ace and aro culture........#i am not a huge fan of the hobbit movies but the first one especially has some pretty solid parts#and is DEFINITELY fun to watch with a group of people up for fun tolkien trivia#who are also pointing at various characters in the film going 'hm... gender'
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"love is what makes us human" actually it's 'select all images with boat' but go off I guess
#asexual#aromantic#aspec#acespec#actually asexual#actually aromantic#aro culture is#aromanticism#aroace#Asexual week#ace week#asexual pride
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Being aroace as a teenager feels like being the only sober person at a rave.
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Aspec men deserve much more respect and recognition in the aspec community than they receive. They often face a different form of aphobia specific to them ("men are naturally sexual they can't be ace" "all men are unromantic that's not unique") this rhetoric is spouted by many, even members of our own community and I hope for a day where that is no longer the case. As an ace and demiro woman (demigirl but that's beside the point) I want to encourage folks to take the time to give the aspec men in their lives support and to the aspec men reading, you are who you say you are no matter what people say and you deserve the world. I'm sorry for the ways in which toxic masculinity has harmed you. You are a valued member of the aspec community and the queer community as a whole. No ace or aro person is broken and neither are you. I'm sorry if anyone has ever told you otherwise.
#asexual#asexuality#ace stuff#actually ace#ace culture#acespec#ace men#aromantic#aro#aro stuff#aro community#arospec#aro men#aspec#aspec stuff#aspec community#aspec culture#ace pride#aro pride#aspec pride#lgbtq+#lgbtpride#lgbtq rights#lgbtqia#I make a post about this annually on april fifteenth#why you ask?#a couple years back I'd come across some people saying the type of things I mentioned about aspec men#the hateful monstrousness of what they'd said pissed me off and I wrote a rant about it#I've since gone on to make a post once a year on the day I'd made the first#btw last year's really gained quite the traction I still get notifs about it! I'm glad this message has reached so many people this year
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I can’t stand forced romance in media. You’re telling me this man and woman who’ve barely spoken to each other, have not flirted at all and have barely been together for three scenes are in love??? Like am I just too aroace to see it?? I always feel so surprised
#i’m watching Andor and there’s two characters who have no chemistry but everyone keeps making jokes about how they’re so into each other#aro#aroace#ace#aromantic stuff#asexual stuff#aromantic#asexual#forced romance#aro pride#aro problems#ace problems#aro ace#queer#lgbtq#aro culture is
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Aro/ace culture is not noticing the blatantly obvious signs that you are aro/ace all your life and later realising half the shit you thought was your personality is said blatantly obvious signs.
#asexual#ace pride#ace aro#aromantic#aspec pride#aspec community#aegosexual#asexuel#aro culture is#ace culture#pride#queer#queer pride
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See the funny thing is im aroace but i also have the memory of a goldfish. So ill just. Forget that people actually do things for love and sex (mostly sex)?? Like youre telling me people give chocolate to one another and its not just seen as being nice? Every time someones like "oh yeah i did that because i had a crush on them" i have two straight minutes of "HUH???" before i remember thats an actual motivation for people, and that romantic gestures do, in fact, exist
#listen i forgot where my clarinet was for two hours straight#yknow. that thing i need to do my major#and had a breakdown over it before i found it in a locker i had no memory of renting#you expect me to remember every facet of allo culture??#aroace#asexual#aromantic#lgbtqia#ace#aro#arospec#acespec
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"This fandom is so queer friendly!" This fandom literally hates, bisexual, trans, nonbinary, and aspec people but ok.
#text#fandom#fandom culture#“queer friendly” you mean gays an lesbians? because i sure as hell don't see the same friendlyness towards anyone else#bisexual character exists “noooo they were comphet” or “they're dating the opposite sex right now so it doesn't count!!!”#Trans character exists and their story still has to focus on them being gay or else it's not queer or interesting enough#not to mention the sexualization they will face solely based off their trans identity#and the debates on if they're “really” gay or not because of being trans#Nonbinary character or character with complex and nuanced gender exists#and it's all about what their ACTUAL gender is and “I'm just going to use [gendered pronouns] for X because i see X as a boy/girl”#Character uses a specific set of pronouns and everyone decides to toss those to the side in favor of other (gendered) pronouns#under the guise of “nonbinary people can use gendered pronouns too! they are still nonbinaryyyyyyy i prommy”#Aspec character exists and it's “nooo you can't prove their aspec” “I can still ship them because aros can still date”#“Aces can still have sex so I can sexualize this ace character”#“okay but i headcanon them as a different sexuality so it's fine!”#and if you headcanon ANY of these identities? “Nooo you can't PROVE that they are bi/trans/nonbinary/aspec!!!!!”#queer#lgbt+#lgbtq+#lgbtqia+#bisexual#aro#ace#aromantic#asexual#aroace#aplatonic#aspec#acespec#arospec
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Please help me with my very important research
I'm being a little silly here, but what I'm interested in is how common it is for asexuals to project their sexual feeling onto monsters, not whether or not you identify with the term "Monster fucker." So, "Teratophiles" please respond accordingly.
And for the purpose of this poll, "Monster" is basically any fictional or mythological non-human entity, including vampires, robots, and writing masses of tentacles with no discernable origin.
#monster fucker#monster fuqqer#monster lover#tetrophilia#aro ace#asexual#asexuality#asexual culture#aromantic
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Sex-repulsed asexuals and romance-repulsed aromantics deserve £100000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 for everything
#sex repulsed#romance repulsed#asexual#aromantic#aro#ace#sex repulsed asexual#sex repulsed ace#romance repulsed aro#romance repulsed aromantic#sorry i'm hormonal and just feeling a little sad about the alienation from fandom culture especially fanfiction and ao3
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Memes based on my own awkward Arospec life, who doesn't love that?
And I promise more of my fantastic wit will be coming to your screens very soon!
#aromantic#aro positivity#aromantism#arospec#aro culture is#aro memes#platonic#friends#advice#actually aro#aroace positivity#aroace#humor#genius#acesexual#ace pride#asexual#acespec
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The Jedi are an aro/ace culture that live happy and fulfilling lives and people hate them for it
People steeped in amatanormativity can't stand the idea that people don't want/need romance and can not only be content without it, but in fact very happy without romance
And thus they hate the Jedi, because an entire culture (even a fictional one) that is aro/ace-normative is an affront to them
#amatanormativity#wooloo-writes#wooloo writes#star wars#sw#pro jedi#in defense of the jedi#jedi culture#ace#asexual#asexuality#aromantic#aromantism#the jedi are ace#aphobia#aro/ace#aroace#the jedi are aro
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I hate when this happens I hate when this happens
Also posted on twitter!
#art#my art#aro#ace#aromantic#asexual#aroace#aspec#aromantic asexual#fandom#fandom wank#fandom ships#fandom problems#fandom culture
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Apparently the Venn diagram between tumblr users and aro/ace people is a fucking circle
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hey who wants to hold hands and play with my hair and be so gentle with me i might shatter into a million pieces
#might delete tomorrow#i am so touch starved#yearning#aro#aroace#aromantic#aromance#aspec#aspec community#aspec stuff#aromanticism#ace#a spectrum#aspec culture#queer yearning#lovequeer#lovequeer aro#aro pride#grey aroace#aro spectrum#arospec#grey aromantic#cupioromantic#touch starved#alterous#alterous attraction#alterous yearning#alterous relationship#queer platonic yearning#queerplatonic
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Non-ace aro culture is being tired of the response "Hey, I'm aroace too!"/"Hey, fellow aroace!"
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#aro culture is#aro#aromantic#actually aro#actually aromantic#ask#mod axel#mod rust#oh mood#non ace aro culture#alloaro culture#aroallo culture#<- for organization
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