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I'm not trans but I wanted to make a poem for those who are. I'll never experience what you guys have felt, all you've been through, good and bad. But I hope this makes you feel a little seen. (I made two because I wasn't that happy with the first) PO1 The girl down the street wears makeup. The man behind the bar serves. The kid at school gets to learn and teach. The senior at the home gets to play chess. But what if the girl doesn't wanna wear makeup? What if the man wants to drink and serve? What if the kid at school doesn't wanna teach or learn? What if the senior at the home wants to play checkers not chess? Will you still visit 'her' house? Will you still go to the bar? Will you still drive past the school? Will you still sing songs daily at the home? Doesn't matter. 'She'll' still stop wearing makeup. 'He'll' still drink and serve. The 'kid' still won't teach or learn. The 'senior' still will play checkers. PO2 You never found it fair. How cartoon characters could shapeshift, cut or grow their hair. You never found it fair. How lizards at the store could camouflage, blend in or stand out. You never found it fair. How the demon in your nightmare could change form, physical or even partially visible. You never found it fair, How you couldn't shapeshift. How you couldn't camoflauge. How you couldn't change form. But you wanted it to be fair. Maybe you did wanna cut or grow your hair. Maybe you wanted to stand out, Or maybe you'd rather be partially visible, Even if anime characters said cartoon characters can't have powers, if birds said lizards cant camouflage, if the angels from above said the demons couldn't change form, they did it anyway. they didn't let their happiness decay, didn't let shitty people get in their way. you can do it anyway. don't let your happiness decay, don't let shitty people get in your way. you are valid.
#poems and poetry#original poem#poetic#loz3rliterature#literature#poetry#poem#protect trans kids#protect trans youth#protect trans lives#transgender#trans validation#your valid#lgbtqia
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To any one who sees this remember you are valid you are loved or will be loved no matter what they say and if you are ever made to feel otherwise remember that they are very much killable
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Hello my name is Lavendarmist, I’d like to share some events that have happened in my life these past few years for awareness and for someone to finally take me serious
⚠️TW: SA/GROOMING/SH/SUICIDE/DOXXING/THREATS/GUNS etc.⚠️
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I’ve never really liked school, I have social anxiety, panic disorder, autism,adhd,etc and I was raised with 2 cultures so I never really fit in. I couldn’t keep any friends for more then a year they all ended up harming me in ways, I got use to it as I got older assuming it was normal since I’d dealt with this since kindergarten. But Things started getting terrible when middle school started.
For me, middle school starts in 7th grade and ends in 9th grade highschool starting at 10th grade.
When middle school started, I was very naive, I was a kind kid, I was also shy, meeting friends started going well along with my 2 best friend who I’d somehow kept since elementary until I met a girl who I’ll call L.
L flirted with me irl and on texts saying some really weird things to me, I fell for their tricks because I thought they loved me. They would cuddle me, kiss my head, say they loved me, etc. When I didn’t want to get sexual or anything they were upset. They stayed away from me and I had to watch them do this to several people at once. I thought it was okay since they said we were poly but, the relationships would all end how me and theirs did a year later.
When 8th grade started they screamed at me in front of everyone telling me how terrible of a person I was and how useless I was. I was only around 13 at the time so I genuinely believed it. Bullying was hard in 7th and 8th, not only was I groomed, I had a be try abusive sped teacher. I was put in a study skills class so I could be handled but this teacher was so emotionally and mentally abusive I genuinely felt like a bad kid. The kids in the class weren’t good either they constantly were rude and one of them who was in 9th grade at the time gave me a gun threat. He threatened to shoot me up the next day.
I never told anyone because I thought I deserved to be shot. He told me he would shoot me only and only me until he was sure I was dead.
I waited the next whole day for that and it never happened.
As march approached in 8th grade I had a panic attack in my sped class. All my teachers are aware by the school to let me out no matter what if I have one but my sped teacher refused to let me out because I wasn’t doing an assignment. I begged her saying I had to leave and cool down and she wouldn’t let me till I did my work. I told her I didn’t care about the work and she snapped at me screaming at me in front of the class telling me how much of a failure I was and how I’d never make it to college and how I’d drop out of highschool. She then screamed at me to get out of her class and not come back. I grabbed my stuff and left crying. I called my mom telling her what had happened and I left school early.
I didn’t finish the rest of 8th grade. I dropped out due to how messed up I was. The school had to apologize and fire the teacher because of how mad my parents were.
As 9th grade came everything seemed okay I had a good group of friends now and amazing classes and okay teachers, the school promised to make this year better. My parents were naive to think this. Despite me having an official IEP my whole life and needing extra help my school didn’t care so I had to do it all alone.
I met a girl in September or October, she was beautiful, she and I fell in love imidiantly. She told me she was in 8th, I told her I was in 9th (she ended up lying she was in 7th grade :/) we started to date a week later, everything was going okay until she got really clingy and weird. She showed me her fresh self harm scars and she blamed it on DID (Turns out she also faked DID she confessed to someone and they told me) I tried telling adults about it but they wouldn’t listen. Self harm wounds trigger me and she knew this, she also wore a hospital band she got weeks ago at the mental hospital and would show it off to me on her wrist. She also would describe the ways she did it and how much she loved it. She also would threaten to die if I ever left her. She was one in a half years younger then me, It wasn’t considered abuse or manipulation right? I dealt with it, teachers and adults wouldn’t help her they brushed it off when I told them so I gave up. I wasn’t sure what to do.
As months passed, a rumor spreaded that I was grooming ash and being pedophilic because I was a 9th grader and she was a 7th grader (she lied about her age to Me) all my friends heard and the whole school heard. Not only my school, other schools across several fucking states heard. I lost everyone. I got death threats and had to hide in the halls in order to eat without being harassed. Being accused of grooming while being a groomed victim ached. I didn’t speak to anyone for months at school. My personal email was doxxed and people signed me up for porn websites and then my number was leaked people would hurt me and then my socials were leaked. That’s when hundreds of death threats came in every single day.
(My girlfriend spreaded the rumor I didn’t find out this till a month ago as of 2024 July)
All the threats and hate and being alone got to me I self harmed and I was suicidal. I was so suicidal I begged to be taken to the hospital but no one listened. I finished 9th grade with no one. I had nobody left but my close friend. I hadn’t seen them in a while since they were older than me and in a different school.
I thought summer would be a time to move on. I even met a guy through my irl friend, we were going to meet irl all 3 of us.
The day was normal until we went to the friends house. He started to touch me inappropriately on the first day we met irl. He would touch me in places and moan in my ear and put his head between my thighs. I was so petrified I couldn’t move I couldn’t speak. I felt trapped. My friend didn’t seem to notice. This would happen for a few months. He would make out with tounge and touch my body without even asking and i tried saying no with my body but it wasn’t enough so I froze every time I didn’t speak or run. Why didn’t I do anything? Sometimes I wonder if it was really SA (sexual assault)
We broke up at the beginning of my 10th grade year, he was going to 11th.
We just didn’t fit right anymore
(Aka I wasn’t his porn addiction fantasies and he was tired of my body I assume)
In 10th grade I didn’t even bother making new friends I was tired. I hid in the halls and ate alone. My friend and I had different schedules so we didn’t get to see eachother.
At some point in September I was sent to the ER. I wanted to end my life.
I was admitted to an outpatient facility for a while before going to school again after several months. I was better but the trauma still was inside of me. The years of this pure hell, it was awful. I changed my identity online and irl so no one could find me. The school year ended and I just stayed inside a lot for the summer and I signed up for online school. 11th grade wasn’t going to be miserable for me.
As of now I’m in 11th grade, highschool.
I do online school
I play with my pets
I’m dealing with the trauma
I’m going to see if I can get diagnosed with ptsd soon. I’ll have to remind you when it happens
This is not everything I’ve endured it’s everything I’m comfortable sharing. I may share more later, this account is mainly for my thoughts and stuff… I don’t really know if anyone will see this but it’s okay.
Thank you for reading if you did, it means a lot to get my story heard. 🩵
#awarness#mental health#sa awareness#tw grooming#grooming awareness#suicideprevention#sh awareness#your valid#you matter#speaking out#disabled#autism#adhd#anxiety#social anxiety#anxiety awareness#panic disorder#disorders#lgbtqia#lesbian#lgbtq#trigger warning#TW#vent post#cw vent#venting#I had to let it out
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HAPPY PRIDE EVERYONE!!!!!!
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To all the people in the LGBTQIA+ who feel worthless because of their sexuality/gender identity , I’ve been there, I see you, and I want you to know that you are valid and loved no matter what your sexuality or gender identity is and anyone telling you otherwise doesn’t deserve to be in your life.
#lgbtqia#aromaticism#asexual#bisexaul#gay#Lesbian#aromantic#Trans#transgender#queer#intersex#intersectional pride#lgbtq#lgbtq community#Your valid
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I found this in my basement
What
#what#kidcore#clowncore#im confusion#rainbow#pride#i guess#clown#crochet#or#knitting#i cant tell#it looks like a bird toy lol#pride moodboard#pride month#your valid#pride 2023
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i see nothing but the truth here so, sharks are better then some politicians
fun facts about sharks
#sharks#lgbtq#pride#funni shak say gay rights#You should also say gay rights#Your valid#is this a shitpost?
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#healing#trauma#grief#recovery#constructive anger#feelings#your feelings are valid#your pain is valid#your trauma is valid#self care#reparenting#mental health#glimmers#creativity
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I’m doing a thing where I post a hc of a character everyday for pride month!!
Day 1: lesbian
I hc Natsuki as a lesbian!!
As a lesbian I can sniff the lesbian energy
❤️🧡🤍🩷💜
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Heavy bears the hip that wears the strap or something like that
… happy lesbian visibility week yall <3
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reblog to give ur mutuals a soft lil kissy on the head
#i can't reblog this from everyone so this is just me giving all my mutuals a soft lil kissy on the head#if u see this#*muah*#soft lil kissy on the head#and if u don't want one u can have a head pat#or i can lovingly send soft lovey vibes your way#all options are valid#idk i just#need to spread some love today#i'm tired and sad and stressed#so i'm giving u all some love#bc i need to fill myself with more of it#love u all hope u have/are having a good day#mutuals#not stargate
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I remember discussing Tintin casting choices with a friend from Germany and remarked how it was odd he often has an English accent in adaptations rather than a Belgian one, and my friend just replied "that's because Tintin gives incredibly strong English boy energy (derogatory)"
Here in the UK there's a lot of weird classism tied into accents. Today accent diversity and representation in broadcasting is actively pursued but in Tintin's time there certainly was a preferred accent to have.
imagine this exchange happens between pages 28-29 in The Crab with the Golden Claws
#tintin#adventures of tintin#comic#captain haddock#archibald haddock#snowy#milou#fanart#the crab with the golden claws#i remember tintin crafting a trumpet to communicate with an elephant#and he remarks he must get the accent correct#very odd scenario but it shows he would be a stickler for that sort of thing#i also have to say accents do not indicate how smart someone is#a lot of pundits use an english accent to sound more credible#but i have to say there are a lot of fucking idiots here#me included#thank you 2011 film for validating my scottish haddock headcanon#any french speakers who have read to this point i wonder what your hcs are for his french speaking accent
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Being a “Fun Fact !” kind of autistic is all fun and games until you get halfway through sharing an interesting tidbit and realize that it probably wasn’t appropriate to share in polite company and now you have to deal with the consequences :(
#autism#neurodivergent#adhd#fun facts#GOD I’m such an idiot#anyways now a 10 year old is out there looking up swear words online and it’s all my fault :(#I got so excited by the fact that I knew a fun fact#that I didn’t stop to think that maybe not everyone knows that fun fact for a reason :(#it’s like explaining how to successfully bury a body at a book club#or explaining the dangers of Scientology to your sister’s boyfriend the first time you meet him#or debating gay sex positions with your best friend in front of your mom#no matter how much I wish to be a beacon of knowledge in this world#sometimes there are things others just don’t want to know#and consciously that’s valid but the autism ? I does not care
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Would you like to date a naughty girl like me ?
#mtf trans#trans#trans and proud#trans angel#trans are beautiful#trans are women#trans artist#trans beauty#trans dating#trans dick#trans queen#trans women are amazing#trans women are real women#trans world#trans women of color#trans woman#trans women are beautiful#trans women are hot#trans women are valid#trans women i love you#trans women positivity#trans romance#trans relationships#trans rights#trans people#transgender#transsexual#trans unity#trans your gender#trans youth
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I’m waiting for you to come and make me yours...
#mtf trans#trans#trans and proud#trans angel#trans are beautiful#trans are women#trans artist#trans beauty#trans dating#trans dick#trans queen#trans women are amazing#trans women are real women#trans world#trans women of color#trans woman#trans women are beautiful#trans women are hot#trans women are valid#trans women i love you#trans women positivity#trans romance#trans relationships#trans rights#trans people#transgender#transsexual#trans your gender#trans youth#trans unity
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Run away///
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#nomae#kingdom of the planet of the apes#planet of the apes#pota#kotpota#noa#mae#art tag#noamae fandom i would like to feed yall. your all valid af
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