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this parallel was my roman empire
screencap credits to @suburbanlegends-tv
#I WASN'T READY FOR THIS#WE QUEERS CAN'T HAVE SHIT#stucky#lokius#loki#loki spoilers#mobius#bucky barnes#bucky#steve rogers#captain america#loki season 2#marvel#mcu#stevebucky#steve x bucky#loki x mobius#winter soldier
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I think the reason we go so feral for non canon homoeroticism is because writers can't fucking write romance
Like if they're writing a romance it's all on the sexual tension and longing looks, and if they're trying to show equal devotion but platonic, they have to make it the most fucked up intertwined fates shit you've ever seen
#bbc merlin#They put so much more effort into writing friendships#Genuinely this is why Merlin is so enduring#The relationships that weren't intended to be romantic are so much better written#jayvik#merlin x arthur#merthur#Merlin#Because it's not just that we're desperate for queer stuff#We go more feral for homoerotic shit than for actual queer romances#If they can't have hot sex scenes they have to get creative#homoerotic
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...you know with a fandom that has lasted 30 years I'm sure I'm not saying anything new here, but 'right after his best friend from when he was thirteen (who he newly reunited with and asked to sleep over at his apartment. For Reasons) seemingly flicked his nipple (!!???? mark I have questions) to set him up for a prank and then cupped the back of his neck with rough affection in a deeply homoerotic way' sure is an incredibly specific moment for the camera to deny us access to fraser's expression fhksjafhas
(especially with the pattern over the many many times we see a woman hitting on him where his face will be clearly visible, with his expression placidly (one could be forgiven for starting to suspect tactically) uncomprehending/confused or uncomfortable. though we see him speak of specifically victoria for the first time turned away from the camera -- from behind, and only getting the faint reflection of his face in the window, to much the same effect. I think I might be on to something here.)
#I am definitely going to be looking out for that all over the place now haha. what does it mean. what does it MEAN#due south#benton fraser#listen actual overt queer rep is of course a good thing for us to have now. many MANY things sucked about how it used to be#we should not go back there. it was a dark time. how quickly some of us forget now that we have a wealth of things to choose from#but it used to be you had to suffer through things like the SGA episode 'the shrine' which is an amazing episode but ends#with the most intelligence-insulting no-homo inserted heterosexuality bullshit you've ever seen. and you just had to take it#you just had to grin and bear it. children I tell you those were dark days and we must not return to them#BUT we used to get some absolutely insane shit when the love dared not yet speak its name on network tv that's hard to match#we must put this amount of Texture and Insane-Making Implications into our current day queer fiction#we have to level up our sublimation game I think that's partly what makes the locked tomb so powerful#this show is incredible at the queercoding not queerbaiting balance honestly. probably because it takes even its silly characters#so seriously and so rarely surrenders even an inch to meanspiritness#(can't believe we had an episode with a whole kink club in it and I didn't flinch even once. i wasn't even worried I'd have to flinch#at any point. such is the acceptance and generosity of the tone we're working with here the majority of the time)#and then of course the riding off into the sunset together ending does cement all of that definitely at the end#for which I am very grateful haha#'I'm still proud (of you)' is such an INCREDIBLY kind and extremely fraser thing to say to mark in that moment tho. what the fuck
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genuinely fuck the people blaming "inbred hillbillies" for this shit..... y'all can't condemn bigotry without being bigoted yourself can you?? first we deserved hurricane helene bc we're all racist rednecks who wanna suck trump's dick and now we're also to blame for his presidency.... as if queers and poc aren't a huge facet of the american south. as if atlanta isn't the gayest fucking place around here. how about we blame the fucking corporations and the outdated government and all the old white men still in power instead of turning on impoverished people and continuing the divide of this country. fuck off
#people are so goddamn stupid and shallow and soulless.#the fuckers down here who worship trump do so bc they've been fucking brainwashed by misinformation.#it's not a coincidence that this is the poorest region in america and the most conservative.#it's not coincidence that our public schools have $3 in funding a year#resulting in people who can't read or do math or have critical thinking skills#it's not coincidence that the people who spew hatred MAKE FUCKTONS OF MONEY off poor uneducated working class people#that includes immigrants!!!!!!!!#people want the best for their families and the crooked rich mfs warp their reality & make them believe heinous shit.#it's not new. but it's certainly gotten worse since.#no i'm not babying trump supporters.#i get we're scared (notice the WE bc yes there are queer & poc etc hillbillies too) but holy fuck STOP.#say something else. anything else. fucking stop turning the entire american south into “inbred less-than-human abominations” or whatever#you're DOING THE THING YOU CONDEMN!#us politics#election 2024#fuckkkkkkkkkkk this
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when you have two time blind chronically late bitches organising phone calls there is not a chance both of you will ever be ready at the assigned time
#personal#personal post#patch rambles#the poor frog is usually late bc they forgot and overslept#i am usually late because i have forgotten about the passage of time#at least when we were in the same city we didn't have timezones to contend with#we did however have my shit sense of direction#throwback to the time i texted them the address for a queer cinema event#double checked it was right#promptly went to the wrong goddamn cinema#i can't remember what event we were meeting our pals at#but we were coming from another event#and we had like an hour window where we were going to the other flat#and we were like#oh god so sorry we're gonna be close to the end of the hour#and our friends just went#yeah we know we realised you guys were together and gave you a time window with the assumption you'd be there at the end#lol#sorry guys we have the same brain bees and it means we understand each other very well but also means we can compound our issues whoops#yet to find out why the frog is late today but i assume sleep#i was only not late because my calendar yelled at me#also extra props to the frog for always writing our calls in my timezone so i don't fuck up <333
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My DID-having ass is experiencing so much world-envy for the fictional country of Vaugarde I'm going to throw up
#Didn't realize how much I needed a society built around the concepts if change and reinvention but holy shit I do. I need it so bad.#The legally normal concept of being given multiple names to transition between or change to...#the societally accepted and easy ways to craft a new body...#the traditions built around reinvention and throwing away aspects of your old life that you wish to discard#that also acknowledge that reinvention involves the destruction of something else. & the grief from yourself or others that comes with that#literally have never resonated with anything to this level and I am YEARNING#like. my life would literally be so much easier in that society#the fact Vaugarde also highly values queerness of all kinds only helps#going insane over this world-building tbh konda wanna overthrow my government & rebuild my country in its image tbh#I am Decidedly Not Normal about this fake country#no spoilers if you respond to this btw. Not done with the game#In Stars And Time#hi dev I know you have a tumblr so if you see this: I love you#thank you for creating this world and letting me have a peek into it#they say we can't build a better world if we can't imagine what that world would look like and#now i can. I know what my ideal world looks like.#textpost
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i still can't believe crowley just. let himself be led by hand to do a silly fiction inspired dance with aziraphale. like that's actually a thing that happened in good omens and im insane about it
#every time i think abt this i throw up i love queer people so much oh my god i need to stop this sappy shit i swear#they actually danced!!! THEY ACTUALLY HELD HANDS AND DANCED AND AZIRAPHALE WAS SO HAPPY AND I CAN'T BELIEVE WE GET TO HAVE THIS#i keep tearing up abt how grateful i am for go s2 and its becoming embarrassing at this point#good omens#azicrow#good omens s2#aziracrow#aziraphale x crowley#ineffable spouses#go s2#go s2 spoilers#good omens s2 spoilers
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#arcana.uploads#emilio benedetto.#harry potter.#fictives.#HAPPY BIRTHDAY BBY BOYS !!!!#& b4 anyone loses their shit & gets grumpy: im& a queer n.ative j.ew. we& obvi dont support jkr. we& can't control who enters the system.#so be fucking nice; we& can't control who forms in our& s.ystem & we& deserve to exist the way we& are w/o having to apologize.#regardless of the ''problematic'' sources or i.ntrojects or not. we& will never censor our& existences for anyone.#not for discomforts or triggers against our& sources or names. i&dgaf. we& are people & we& deserve to exist no less than you do.#if you don't like that you can leave.
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Got some lovely questions in the question box today, which made me go through the interesting exercise of explaining what is LGBTIA+ and why it exists in a way that's both understandable for an 11yo non native speaker (since this is about the youngest age our students are in secondary) but also not over simplistic x) "What is transgender" was an interesting one too!
But the one that felt trickiest to answer was the trans girl asking how to find love as a trans person. I answered with school appropriateness in mind, but I kind of wish I could have answered in a more... blog like fashion?
So, to you, young trans girl in my school: I already love you. Your friends already love you. And right now you are in a place where other people pick the ones who surround you, including potential romantic partners, and that makes things feel lonely and scary, but you will grow up and you will get more control over your life, over the people you meet, over the places you go to. You will meet people who will love you as a friend, and people who want to date you, and who will think you're the loveliest girl they've ever encountered.
You'll find love the same way anybody else does: at work, by accident, or through a dating app (so many dating apps!). Love finds a way into your life, romantic or otherwise. I have a friend who couldn't leave her place much due to her social anxiety for years, and she and her girlfriend have been going strong for years too! Good things happen against the odds more often than you'd think.
But know this, if nothing else: I don't know you, but I love you. Maybe I'm just your teacher, maybe not even that, but as far as I'm concerned we're already family in a way, and I hope knowing that makes things a little less lonely for you.
PS: Also, did you know there's also a trans boy in the school? I have no idea of you have anything in common with him outside of that, but if you're comfortable being out it doesn't hurt to find out^^
#Shit from work#Matt has a life#Like yeah we have to be more careful when we date#but that doesn't mean love can't happen in spite of that#queer stuff#trans specific
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i just want to help people
why does the economy universe make it so hard
#i want to help my friends so much#90% of their issues are coming from financial shit#or time restrictions and we can't do anything until other things happen#i want to make a community center for queer people#but it's going to cost so much fucking money#im so tired#i am glad though because when i inevitably crash i have a great community and great friends and i trust them with my life#why must it be so fucking hard to make things better for people#this is a vent post#it'll be fine we'll figure it out#i am just really fucking tired
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#so i'm talking to somebody knew and i forgot how it felt to actually be excited about somebody#lately i've been leaving first dates being like#'yeah they were alright. maybe i could make this work maybe we just need to go on another date' but i was just kinda trying to force it#but we got coffee and donuts and then explored my new neighborhood and we ended up walking around for like 5 or 6 hours before i had to go#go to work after but i left being so excited to talk to them again and just excited about them#thinking how yeah i would really like to date them but i also wouldn't mind just being friends bc they're just a cool person and i really#liked talking to them#this was saturday and we've been texting nonstop and we have plans friday#and then we were texting tonight and they asked if they could call me and we ended up facetiming for like#two whole hours just doing our respective laundry and chores and just talking#and they also invited me to this queer event happening in a few weeks and bought me a ticket to go with them and their friends#the event isn't even for like 3 more weeks#idk i just think they're really cute and we get along so well and have a good bit in common#and they're just really easy to talk to#idk it just feels nice to be excited about someone like this ☺️☺️#blake says shit#i can't believe i misspelled new as knew in the very first sentence???? wtf
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#hi :D#welcome back to tmi time w alder#on today's menu: i maybe have a potential boyfriend?#tldr met him through bumble and he's rly respectful#hes cis but has a lot of queer friends and he said in theory he's bisexual but never experiment so ig that's how i come in dhdjfbfkf#n e ways we were talking for about a month then we met up and we're coming up on date four and i think we're getting somewhere#we got hot and heavy in the backseat of his car (literally the windows had condensation on them) and it was fucking g r e a t#he refused to give me a hickey tho :/ devastating truly but! he's never given one before so i can't hold it against him#n e ways im still sore and we didn't even fuck it was just clothed grinding but damn if that wasn't the best shit of my life#n listen im not experienced by any means#especially not with /cis guys/ but like damn... that shit was wild sdhdkfhtk#and he has made it very clear that We're Gonna Fuck™ at some point shdkfhkff but he also knows i am New To This™#so we'll see what happens but yeah I'm excited and i actually really like him; sex stuff aside#tho he's like....... a soft Dom and w o w is that fuckin n i c e dude#he is vanilla tho that's to be expected ngl bc i mean for being a virgin im into some Stuff™ but again we shall see#I'm really excited tho but i am also managing expectations but he sounds like he's thinking about the future 👉🏼👈�� which is nice#bc i got into this for a bf and if he's the guy then im happy bc he's really nice and really sweet and he does the 'yeah?' thing—#and it's so fuckin hot#ok n e ways ive rambled enough about him lol nervous to actually fuck him but hey we'll see#n e ways thats tmi time w alder#see u in the next one lol#alder's tmi tag
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BI BUCK CONFIRMED FINALLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
#im totally not freaking out#im so normal about this#definitely not shaking from excitement#evan buckley#911#tommy kinard#WE HAVE BI BUCK EVERYONE HOLY SHIT#OH MY FUCKING GOD#FINALLY#DUDE#I CAN'T BELIEVE MY FAVOURITE CHARACTER EVER IS BI#HES QUEER HOLY SHIT#HOLY SHIT
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just watched, surprisingly, one of the happiest queer movies I've watched to date
#incest mention#if you're ok with 'sometimes... incest is fine' i cannot recommend strella enough#it's a romance with a trans woman where the guy knows she's trans from moment 1 and is fine with it#(just not that she's. uh)#stella's played by an actual (incredibly hot) trans woman#there's a real sense of trans(feminine but we can't have it all rip) and queer community#it's a shockingly warm and grounded movie it genuinely just left me feeling emotionally great#there's a rough third-act breakup where the guy acts like a dick but HE gets his shit together and comes back to try and make up for it#films films films#oldboy spoilers#strella spoilers
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winning the way i was listening to a song like alas that these very lowest bits in this tenor performance are probably juuust below my range. than i hummed sang along like oh nvm i mean totally already in my range, i got it. tessituraed right tf up
#what a coincidence it's often like now wouldn't it be fun to simply be able to sing This lively characterful song#& it's performed by some guy with a higher ended tenor range as well like oh haha perfect#really the difference in being like rats; say; things to ruin recording ewm son of a gun goes a bit too low at its lowest usually?#(idk if there's an Extra bit lower than expected note or two i Can manage but usually forget how. i don't much know abt singing save whatev#i've got from uninstructed / no secret technique experience; though like w/acting wouldn't it be fun to know a bit more abt it)#(or anything in the Performer's Repertoire. the one area i Do have instructed technique'd experience? some ballet like well. zzz though#like yeah it'd be fun to knock out a pirouette in the kitchen but like only just. a bit primed for other dance but like eh. at most the fun#i have w/dance is that Live Stage Performance / Theatre Adjacency & at times minor overlap. just like with: so you're a queer teen & your#parent is big Go To Church Every Week so yeah tenor harmonizing in the choir loft? don't mind if i do. Do mind it's like oh tenors dial it#back; the two dozen sopranos can't keep up w/the three point five of you. well tell them to get good up there huh)#anyway but the thing is then oh will roland live son of a gun performance? yeah i do Not then struggle w/that slightly higher range'd one#as in don't even have to maybe remember how to unlock a half or full step lower bit of range anyways so that's fun. yahoooo#when you see meeeaaaheee....#truly my villain origin story is telling my Singing / Acting / Bway Enthusiast College Roommate i'm a tenor#and them going ohh you can't be a tenor tenor is boys :) like i'm gonna go sicko mode. are we talking about vocal range or not.#idgaf abt what's Well; Traditionally; yeah no shit the gender binary & its Assigned Correct Traits are ''traditional'' i'll kill you#anyway not that coincidental i mean that when like The Funny Little Guy is the dearest category it also happens to oft be Higher Tenors#well that works out alright enough for me. & my kitchen karaoke singalongs; or my ''oh wait i Can sing this just fine'' hum-alongs#which is to say Yaaayyyyyy Yahooooo Wheeeee
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one thing about us is. #colonialism
#thinking about our history with gangs & rap. obvs the rap part is obvs. but the gangs. ik it's obvious like. systemic oppression & poverty.#but did we just Do It did it Just Happen. did it start as a syndicate thing. or revolutionary causes gone astray. ik it's probs obvs#did our gangs rise alongside black gangs. ik the roots of both these r complicated but like. as a huge Cultural thing. in the 1920s.#1 thing that made a mark on me is how our gay men talked and how it's - apparently - connected to the history of how black gay people#talked. how they derived it from black women in the 1910-30s(?) idk i forgot it's been a long time i forgot where i picked that information#up from. but wow. and we mirrored that somehow. but when and how did that happen exactly#we were still under american rule until 1946#i think it was a fil-am internet personality who appropriated black speech nd culture. & comparing the speech patterns of black queer men#to our fil gay men it's like. yeah there are SOME similarities but i think it's still not easy to confuse the two styles of speeches#besides the obvious language difference#but idk maybe it's a subject of stereotypes. fils r definitely one for queer stereotyping but to infuse that w/the fact that we r not very#knowledgeable about how exactly queerness actually is. we're still stuck on that bakla and tomboy thing even now & the western knowledge is#very much not an accessible digestible information for lots of people except the youth#idkkkkk it's confusing this is all over the place but i'm so curious#and i definitely understand the stance of some who r like. hey not everything is about america#but i can't tell if it's just the big filipino ego flaring or if it's actually true. but i mean we were colonized for a long ass time#& when they talk about america they may only b talking about. white colonizers. which is not what that's about.#crazy how we haven't even reached 150 yrs in celebrating the day the first colonizer peaced out#and the oldest gay known icon i've found is from the '80s. no prominence given to the queer people from 1800s or early 1900s and#how they were like#but our pre-colonial era...punchign the wall. BRING IT BACK teach these things in school PLWEASE#but idk my research is shallow i'll dig deeper someday when i'm not busy (<- interrupted their own studying session to ramble knowing they#have a shit ton of things to study for finals tomorrow morning)#if anybody found this pls link me to some studies/articles or give me any info i'm crying over this rn and how stupd i am <3#rambles
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