#Validate me please

[feralvelveteenrabbitxxx]

am I no good? / I feel so alone

[evilvampwhore]

I need constant validation!

[lover-of-skellies]

How do I ask for validation that all the creative stuff I do isn't for nothing, without being annoying 🤔

[nancythebisexualslutwheeler]

Have I said I want a Barbie dreamhouse and I want my new hobby to be playing with Barbie’s

[im-jesus]

ALL TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

BLACK TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

LATINO TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

INDIGENOUS TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

EAST ASIAN TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

SOUTH ASIAN TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

WHITE TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

FAT TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

SKINNY TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

FEMME TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

MASC TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

PRE T TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

TRANS MEN WHO WENT OFF TESTOSTERONE ARE VALID.

TRANS MEN WHO DON'T WANT TESTOSTERONE ARE VALID.

TRANS MEN WHO DON'T BIND, WHETHER FOR HEALTH REASONS OR SIMPLY NOT WANTING TO OR LITERALLY ANY OTHER REASON, ARE VALID.

TRANS BOYS ARE VALID.

TRANSMASC LESBIANS AND ENBIES ARE VALID.

ARO/ACE/AROACE TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

TRANS MEN WHO HAVE NO SURGERIES YET ARE VALID.

TRANS MEN WHO DON'T WANT SURGERIES ARE VALID.

TRANS MEN WITH TOP SURGERY BUT NOT BOTTOM SURGERY ARE VALID.

TRANS MEN WITH BOTTOM SURGERY BUT NOT TOP SURGERY ARE VALID.

BROKE TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

RICH TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

TRANS MEN WHO FIGURED OUT AT A YOUNG AGE THAT THEY WERE TRANS AND WENT ON PUBERTY BLOCKERS ARE VALID.

TRANS MEN WHO DIDN'T REALIZE OR ADMIT THAT THEY WERE TRANS UNTIL THEY WERE TEENAGERS OR ADULTS ARE VALID.

DISABLED TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

THERIAN/FURRY TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

KINKY TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

GAY TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

BI/PAN/OMNI/ANYWHERE-ON-THE-MULTISEXUAL-SPECTRUM TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

STRAIGHT TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

TRANS DADS ARE VALID.

CLOSETED TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

ALL TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

No, there is no universal trans experience. Yes, there will always be trans dudes who have it easier than you, or were lucky enough to get their gender affirming care younger or cheaper or easier than you. They're still trans. The second we stop fighting with each other about which of us are valid is the second we can start fighting the real enemy; those motherfuckers teaching crabs how to read.

[iceeericeee]

Reblog if you think polyamorous people are valid

[hailsatanacab]

"Well, this is a bad idea," Tim says, hands on his hips as he surveys the mess they’ve made in the cave.

"Nah," Danny replies, twirling his screwdriver in the air in what is probably meant to be an impressive trick to inspire confidence, except he fumbles it and it clangs to the floor loudly, "we good. If a younger version of myself hasn't come forward in time to stop me, how bad can it be?"

"Shouldn't it be the other way round?"

"What?"

"Normally, it's an older version of yourself going backwards in time to stop you, right?"

"Not in my experience."

Danny's grin is impossibly feral and a shiver runs up Tim's spine.

"This is definitely a bad idea."

[cladestruction]

everyone is so so smart and valid, especially because I can SEE Charles as a wolf or a fox or a guard dog or a grumpy cat (even a ferret, my personal fav until now) !!!

still, might I add a little idea of mine? you see, considering Charles' character (+ all the head canons I have of him) I see him as the kind of animal that doesn't look/isn't (generally speaking) threatening or dangerous, but if it decided to be it'd be a menace

for example, I love love LOVE moose/elks because they are herbivores and nice and cute BUT they still look incredibly powerful, especially when reaching adulthood and being confronted. their aesthetic and overall aura (excuse my mental gymnastics here) fit Charles imo. serious, calm, always doing their own thing, not easily bothered.

I like to think of Charles of a person who thrives more from being in control and keeping his cool rather than being violent and confrontational. it's also great because as I said, it's unexpected. you don't expect this guy who's essentially the world's busiest office worker to be a killing machine. you don't expect him to fight you or hunt you, but if he does... you better run.

we know the band's animal forms from dethcarraldo BUT !!! what is Charles' animal form?

[traumasurvivors]

If you have trauma as a result of dealing with delusions and/or psychosis, your trauma is valid.

Trauma is largely about how you feel and how something impacts you. And even if you know something isn’t “real”, it doesn’t mean your feelings aren’t real. And it doesn’t change how real it feels to you.

[yeahimatransman]

Signs from being younger that probably are signs of being trans:

Making a sock penis and wearing it in my room. Never admitting it, but wanting a penis.

Fantasizing that I was turned into a boy and choosing to stay that way.

Taking quizzes that claim to "guess your gender" and wanting to have the results say I was a boy.

This one makes me laugh, but pretending to be a boy when I would play on Club Penguin.

Really liking how I looked in our jazz band uniform which includes a men's dress shirt, dress pants, a tie, and a vest.

Signs in adulthood and right now that probably are signs of me being trans:

Buying a packer and really enjoying wearing it in public.

Loving the bulge my packer gives me and wanting to look at it all day long/wear it everyday.

Wanting a real penis.

I want a beard so bad.

Buying a binder and being frustrated that it didn't make me completely flat because I have a large chest. Kind of liking how it looked anyway when I was able to get over that and see that it did make my chest smaller.

Still fantasizing of being turned into a man and choosing to stay that way.

Going by he/him pronouns on here.

Changing my pronouns on Facebook to see it say "changed HIS profile picture" and seeing that I was listed as "brother" and "son" on my siblings and parents pages. (Changed it back out of fear of getting caught).

Changing my gender on Facebook to Male even though it's hidden.

Picturing myself in the future presenting as male with short hair, a beard, and having gotten top surgery.

I want to be a man.

AND YET I am still struggling with believing I am actually trans or that I should move forward with transitioning. There is so much that goes into this. Internalized transphobia. Inability to let go of my religion even if I don't necessarily believe because it's what I have known my whole life and all my friends are there. Religious trauma and being told that my being a woman is eternal and divine. Fear of disappointing my family and friends or confusing them/ruining our relationships. Messing with the status quo at almost 28 years old. Not being taken seriously. I probably should see a gender therapist.

I just really needed to get that all out. If anyone has any advice or ideas or maybe even just validation, I would really appreciate it.

[a-rayneart]

Kernel Popcorn

[spineless-lobster]

I love reading my own writing like wow this story has everything I want in it it’s almost like it was written for me or something damn that’s so crazy

[heymacy]

IAN GALLAGHER + his journey with bipolar disorder

╰┈➤ “At times, being bipolar can be an all-consuming challenge, requiring a lot of stamina and even more courage, so if you’re living with this illness and functioning at all, it’s something to be proud of, not ashamed of." - Carrie Fisher

[amelie-sama-blog]

>see a manga called "shota x oni" with a super cute cover, artstyle and premise

>click on the first chapter

>read a few dozen chapters, and the story starts to pick up

>see this disclaimer at the beginning of the next chapter

>do a double take

>click back to the main page

>the manga is indeed called "shota x oni"

>click back to the chapter

>click back to the main page

>the manga is indeed tagged "shounen ai" aka romance between males

>click back to the chapter

>read many more chapters

>see this panel

>...

>laugh

>this story is shotacon

[somecleverreference]

Hi my name is Count Doctor Hannibal Lecter VIII M.D. im a cannibal (that’s how I got my name) and I have shiny brown hair with gold streaks and silver tips that reaches my mid-neck and maroon eyes that reflect red pinpoints like limpid blood and a lot of people tell me I look like Sandro Botticelli (AN: if u don’t know who he is get da hell out of here!). I’m not related to Lady Murasaki but I wish I was because she’s a major fucking hottie. I’m a cannibal but my teeth are straight and white. I have pale golden skin. I’m also a doctor, and I own a psychiatric practice in Baltimore where I help my patients (I’m forty-seven). I’m an aristocrat (in case you couldn’t tell) and I wear mostly brown. I love Garrison Bespoke and I buy all my clothes from there. For example today I was wearing a brown plaid suit with a matching silk pocket square and a blue paisley tie, blue socks and brown oxfords. I was wearing pink lipstick, beige foundation, gold highlighter and concealer on my eyebrows. I was walking outside the BSHCI. It was snowing and raining so there was no sun, which I was very happy about. A lot of fbi agents stared at me. I put up my middle finger at them.

[brainrot-goes-brrrrrr]

SBG THEORY???

So you remember these pictures, right?

I'm waiting for Red to use these as a foreshadow to how every character dies in the story. People have already said that they are pointing to their weaknesses, Ashlyn's being her ears, Aiden's his mental health (focusing on that forces smile), the twins being each other's weakness, Logan being blind as hell, and Ben's being his voice/throat.

But I have a feeling that Red could just take it more literally by them pointing to why they die. It kind of already happened with Tyler and Aiden 💀.

Here's my takes

Aiden died by a head injury and is pointing to his head. More specifically, the sides of his face, and I'm pretty sure that he had a big ass gash there.

Tyler died by being impaled through his abdomen. He is literally pointing at trees in his picture. Man is saying, "Hey, you see those over there. Yeah? Those are the fucks that did it"

Ben is going to die/get severely injured by a throat or jaw injury. It'll either get slashed to hell and back, or, the more gruesome option that I thought of, getting his jaw taken off (most likely not happening)

Logan is getting his ass blinded somehow. I mean, come on. You have a sharp shooter with already poor eyesight and even poorer self-esteem. He is going to lose his sight and have a crisis of not being able to do anything.

Because I love siblings who mirror each other, Taylor is also getting impaled, but this time through her chest. Even better if she was protecting Tyler, so she didn't have to see him die again.

Ashlyn has me for a loss because I don't think she's going to die. Instead, I think she's going to lose her mind or go some sort of crazy. She's already started.

It is an absolute wonder of what I can come up with when eating pizza rolls and watching a five hour video about Home Safety Hotline.