#Sexualhealth

[fxingdead]

I wanna say that sexual harassment isn’t just physical but also verbal. There’s many forms and both are harmful, just because the person never physically touched the person doesn’t mean that it isn’t still harassment. Sexualizing someone, threatening them, or making overly sexual comments to someone after they say they aren’t comfortable with that is still sexual harassment! It’s a form of harassment I don’t see getting recognized enough and I want people to know that just because it isn’t necessarily physical it’s still valid!

[girltalkcollectives]

So He Can Sleep With 10 People and Be a Legend But If She Does It She's “For The Streets”?

The math isn't mathing when it comes to hookup culture. Somehow when a guy has a high body count, he's a player, a legend, living his best life. But when a woman has the same number? Suddenly she's got "no self respect," she's "easy," she's "not wife material."

Make it make sense.

I'm so tired of seeing women's worth being tied to their body count while men get high fives for the exact same behavior. Last time I checked, having safe, consensual sex doesn't change who you are as a person - regardless of your gender.

Let's be real for a second. Your body count doesn't define you. It doesn't determine your worth. It doesn't make you any less deserving of love or respect. As long as you're being safe and consensual, it's literally nobody's business but your own.

And can we talk about how ridiculous these double standards are? Men are really out here with body counts in the double digits acting like a woman who's slept with more than three people is somehow tainted. Sir, the same body count that makes you feel like a king doesn't make her less worthy of respect.

The funniest part? These same guys who judge women for having a "high" body count are usually the ones contributing to other women's numbers. The math is literally not mathing. How are you going to sleep around and then shame women for... sleeping with you?

Here's what actually matters:

Are you being safe?

Are you getting tested?

Are you being honest?

Are you respecting yourself and others?

That's it. That's the list.

Notice how "keeping your number low enough to please random men's egos" isn't on there? Because it shouldn't be. Your sexual history doesn't determine your value any more than the number of restaurants you've eaten at determines your worth as a food critic.

And let's address this "lock and key" nonsense some men love to spew. You know, that stupid analogy about how "a key that opens many locks is valuable, but a lock that's opened by many keys is worthless"? First of all, we're humans, not hardware. Second of all, this isn't the 1800s - we're allowed to enjoy sex too.

The truth is, these double standards exist because society is still struggling with the idea that women can own their sexuality just like men do. That we can make our own choices about our bodies. That we can enjoy sex without it defining our entire character.

To anyone judging women for their body count while celebrating men for the same thing:

Your misogyny is showing

Your insecurity is obvious

Your double standards are tired

Your opinion is irrelevant

Because at the end of the day, the only person who gets a say in your sex life is you (and whoever you're currently sleeping with, consensually). Everyone else's opinion about your body count is about as relevant as their opinion about your favorite color - totally irrelevant.

Just remember to:

Get tested regularly

Practice safe sex

Be honest with partners

Respect yourself and others

Own your choices

The rest? Is nobody's business but yours.

[kassoshire]

Fairy Tales in Romance #1: The 0* Stiffy

[laraused]

[thirdbasewellness]

Sexual Wellness for Parents: Reclaiming Intimacy and Pleasure

Balancing the roles of parenthood and partnership can be a unique, rewarding journey—and at times, a challenging one. Parenting takes time, energy, and focus, often leaving intimacy as a secondary priority. Yet, maintaining a healthy intimate connection is essential for the well-being of both partners, as it strengthens emotional ties, reduces stress, and helps build a resilient relationship. While daily responsibilities may crowd out private time, carving out moments for connection remains vital. Embracing sexual wellness for parents offers ways to bring warmth and closeness back into your relationship in realistic, approachable ways.... Read more

[femmefatalevibe]

Is having a higher body count a bad thing?

The use of the term "body count" to describe someone's number of sexual partners/experiences is the only bad thing I see here. The quality of your experiences and the fulfillment or joy they derive is what matters. The number is irrelevant.

[nakedpastor]

Do You Love Too Much?

Lisa and I met at a Pentecostal Bible College. We fell madly in love. I was 20 and she was 18. Within a couple of weeks we knew we’d get married.

We found our soul mate. I don’t know if there is such a thing or if it’s necessary. My ideas of romantic relationships and marriage has opened up a lot. So I want to tell you this is my story. Our story.

But we fell hard for each other. It was magical. Is magical. And the love is very deep and very strong.

I believe romantic love is a part of the big “true love”. Not something separate. But I also believe romantic love is a fascinating and complex mix of this true love, but also psychology, projection, fantasy, desire, lust, eroticism, sexuality, intimacy, passion, friendship and polarity, and so much more.

I believe that when I found Lisa, I had found the perfect embodiment of my deepest desire, my anima… my female aspect… in real life. And the opposite is true for Lisa with me.

How often does this happen? Not very, I don’t think.

But how did the Purity Culture we found ourselves in react to it?

Yes, I received warnings that I shouldn’t love her more than I loved God. That God is a jealous God and will not be displaced by anyone! I needed to be careful not to allow my love for Lisa dissuade or distract me from my love for Jesus. I needed to make sure I spent at least as much time with the Lord as I did with Lisa. I need to beg God to help me tame my passion and carnality around Lisa. We needed to repent because we love each other too hard.

And so on.

I didn’t obey.

Because, somehow, our passionate love for each other felt a part of the whole of love. It didn’t feel separate or wrong, but part and parcel of the union of all things.

We felt that we were, and still are, participating in the bigger picture of universal love, or, as some call it, divine love.

Because with love there is no competition or domination.

All belongs.

[fxingdead]

I see many people claim to be hypersexual and constantly say it as if it’s a funny, quirky side of them. Being hypersexual is a nightmare and I can’t stress that enough, it’s not someone just being horny all the time it far more than that. People need to research these things rather than instantly going along with it. As someone who’s hypersexual it’s something I’ve always kept hidden it always made me feel like I was disgusting so I activately avoid the topic but I feel the need to make others aware of it aswell. what the true meaning of hypersexualilty is and how it effects a person.

[missmisandrytabletalk]

let me tell you in my desi society, the probability of men hiding the fact that they're suffering from ED (erectile dysfunction)/impotency is higher than their body count lmao. like to a point where they'd legit blame their spouses for their own condition. tell me a better comedic lore than this and I'll wait...

[detectivebambam]

Fr sex is inherently sexual, not romantic. Ask anyone who had a one night stand lollllll we aren’t whispering sweet nothings!

right. there are so many reasons someone might have sex that aren't romantic. to reproduce, just for fun, to experiment, etc.

[loversplayground]

Did you know that self pleasure is considered to be self care? Take more time for yourself this month. 💞

pc: @_rena.martine_

[medixic]

आई-पिल टैबलेट (I-Pill Tablet) एक प्रोजेस्टिन है जिसका उपयोग गर्भनिरोधक के रूप में किया जाता है।

[lifestyleaesthetics1]

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[femmefatalevibe]

hi🩷 i really like your blog!

since i was very young boys sexualize me, try to touch me and ask me going out. So i tried to be very boyish to hide my femininity. But know i'm young adult and i really wanted to connect with that part of me. I want to thank you for your posts and hard work!! you are helping me so much in this process🦋

Hi love!

While I'm sorry that you had to go through this all-too-common yet awful objectification experience in your developmental years, this ask makes me so glad!

Thank you so much for this lovely write-in and your support.

Sending love and major healing/empowerment vibes. Bisous xx

[everybodysinvited]

All you need to know about cervical screenings!

All you need to know about your cervical screening or 'smear test' appointment. If you're like me and have recently turned 25, you may have received a letter saying it's time for your first cervical screening! But what is it for? Who needs it and what actually happens during the exam?

💗 This exam is for anyone with a cervix, this includes trans, non-binary, intersex and other GNC folks! Please note that if you are GNC and your medical records have changed, please double check with your GP that your medical records state you are applicable for this exam as sometimes you can be missed and you wont get notified for your next screening, you will need to arrange it yourself.

💗 Hopefully this little guide will answer some questions and give you some tips for how you can best prepare to make this exam less daunting. If you have any further questions about your cervical screening, please speak to your GP or sexual health clinic! 😊

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